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OurTime Reviews Summary

OurTime has a rating of 1.2 stars from 450 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 53rd among Senior Dating sites.

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Kentucky
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I joined last night and today I cancelled my one month membership and got my money back... They tried to tell me that the reason I can't connect to their site at times is because of my service provider-Spectrum. I told them they were scamming the public because I had tried other sites and I have no problem connecting anytime of the day from my desktop computer at home. He told me I could go to a local coffee shop and connect to their WiFi-what a joke! The agent I talked with said I will prove to you that its not our sites fault by doing a test with my cell phone. I declined the test and told him he was nuts for wanting to "Prove" it wasn't their fault. Sounds like a scam to me to get customer money.

Date of experience: March 23, 2023
Texas
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Absolutely the worst.
March 23, 2023

Have tried a couple sites and ourtime is absolutely the worst. Can't block people, had preferences but sent me people completely opposite to my preferences.

Date of experience: March 23, 2023
New Jersey
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Terrible site
March 20, 2023

The mobile site is terrible and the online site is not much better. Once you enroll with your credit card all other options have a price tag. Today my profile somehow got mixed up with another profile of a lady with the same name, age, city however, she is caucasian and I am african american so I was getting all her messages. Once I logged out and tried to log back in my account "could not be found". I had to reset my password and then my profile pictures were all gone. In order to delete my account I have to forfeit the next 2 months of membership that I paid for. This is the worst site and company for over 50 dating.

Date of experience: March 20, 2023
Colorado
1 review
3 helpful votes
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It's not that bad!
March 21, 2023

I'm a 78 year old male, adequate looking. I've been on about a month and have had 4 coffee dates. You can separate out the scammers and fakes pretty easily if their picture looks like a Hollywood model and also if they are from out of state. For the men, shave off those darn beards and mustaches and present yourself in words (honest words) that would be appealing to a woman.

Date of experience: March 20, 2023
Oklahoma
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Found my soulmate
March 20, 2023

The app itself was a little hard to use. However, I met my soulmate and we just passed our 1 year anniversary. We are now engaged and look forward to spending the rest of our lives together. Without the Ourtime dating site our paths would never had crossed.

Date of experience: March 19, 2023
GB
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Yes, the usual suspects of a scamming site: Fake profiles, ghost profiles, "views" (so what?) from people absolutely miles away from your designated distance parameters. Every woman seemed to have a Masters Degree in somthing but hey looked like they may well be a university cleaner, not a post-graduate! They all seem to like the bloody theatre, do me a favour! I recognised some faces from another site ( actually worse than this one can you believe!) from about five years' ago; do you really think they'd still be members? No, neither do I. Avoid and accept that 'you've been had' and delete it from you computer and wish it good riddance!

Date of experience: March 17, 2023
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I saw an advert for our time and it said FREE DATING SITE FOR OVER 50s.
You ho through the whole drudge of baring your soul and you get to the photos abd you think
" OOO SHES NICE " Will sendher a message andxssy high but before you can you get notification saying someone wants to chat
Great you think maybe this 10 of bring alone may just change.
You clicking and " THAT WILL BE £19.99 a month thanks very much.
So it's bCk to watching TV alone and walking the Dog.
I've asked for my Account to be deleted.
It's like Prostitution having to pay to chat to women who are obviously lonely too but fo they have to pay or are they the Honey to the Bees so to speak.
No thanks I ain't paying for Friendship.
These sites pray on people's loneliness.
I woukdnt give it any rating but it won't allow it to be blank.

Date of experience: March 17, 2023
Missouri
1 review
5 helpful votes
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The site is a rip off
March 17, 2023

They charged my CC without my consent. I cancelled the automatic renewal weeks In advance yet they charged me for another month. Total rip off. Besides that the site is nothing more than a dead zone full of old dead profiles.

Date of experience: March 17, 2023
Washington
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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No service
March 15, 2023

I paid for 3months of service and for a week I have tried to log into the site to view my matches, but nothing happens.
To proceed, a screen appears asking you to verify your identity. When the blue button is clicked, nothing happens, so it is impossible to log on.
I have sent 2 emails telling them of the problem and asking for a refund, but have received no reply. Avoid this site at all costs!

Date of experience: March 14, 2023
Arizona
2 reviews
5 helpful votes
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No customer service
March 15, 2023

After several months i needed a verification code to log on. Never asked for it. Don't answer their phone. Wanted it removed and they did nothing, just lip service. Terrible site.

Date of experience: March 14, 2023
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Fraudulent Ourtime
March 14, 2023

I have been on Ourtime for a couple of years,,,.they have few customers and profiles are sometimes ex girl friends …I call them to note they are back online and they deny it…the last few days I have been liked by a couple of ex friends…it's our time doing it …it's a maddening con

Date of experience: March 14, 2023
GB
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Rubbish
March 7, 2023

Why fill in your requirements when Ourtime take no notice and send people from miles and away too far for a relationship. When you reject someone why then send the persons details again and again sometimes the same person is in the list 4 times just to make up numbers I suppose. There is no one to contact at Ourtime it is a run yourself website they promise everything and deliver nothing but are quick to take your money and push more bits that cost more of course. All they are interested in is money not the people who use the site and it is pot luck if you find anyone.

Date of experience: March 7, 2023
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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OurTime dating: Out of 5 stars: "0000" DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY! They fill your feed with people who have already quit the site. Delete this crap and, oh look, the site puts them back into your feed again! Many, many scammers be careful here, keep your wits about you and your wallet safe! They fill your feed you with people what live no where near your location when searching their client base, completely ignoring your preferences. Always chiseling for more money with fees for "Highlighting," your profile or fees for actually allowing someone to see your posts and this after I payed for a full subscription. I would have had the same benefits if I'd utilized a free account.
Copyright infringement: My images were used on Match without my permission! I registered only on OurTime and stipulated that my photos are NOT to be used else where. This was also disregarded and I received spam from Match, chiseling for more money to see who "liked" me. BUNCH OF SCAMMERS! DON'T SUBSCRIBE!

Date of experience: March 4, 2023
Wisconsin
1 review
5 helpful votes
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No customer service on the weekends
March 4, 2023

Sent my 6 digest code 4 times then was locked out. First day. They were very happy to take my money. And bang all gone. This site is a JOKE. If you're willing to hook up with people 9 states away. Have at it and hope you don't get locked out. Funny

Date of experience: March 3, 2023
Georgia
2 reviews
4 helpful votes
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No!
February 26, 2023

Horrible site. Don't do it. Disrespectful! Ugly and nasty. Also the site won't let you cancel! Ie this posy that I'm being forced to send

Date of experience: February 25, 2023
Norway
3 reviews
16 helpful votes
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They are on the decline
February 15, 2023

Couldn't find anything of value on Ourtime even after paying for boosts. It's truly shocking how many fake profiles they have. They must be on the decline so they recycle old long inactive accounts. I got bored pretty quickly. There is no use in searching for genuine profiles, you can't find anything like this on OurTime, so the best idea is to stay well clear of it.

Date of experience: February 15, 2023
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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RUN IN THE OTHER DIRECTION
February 14, 2023

I had some matches that see me ed genuine and real and then there were the others whom I will now refer to as s trolls.
I had 5 conversations in a week that I actually thought were going somewhere. The actual first one was actually genuine.
Now for the others. Ok one guy started talking about himself and it was a pretty nice conversation, then it turned into how he wanted to OWN me, ok done. Block that profile. Then there were two that claimed to be foreigners and new to the area, well here's a clue, if you're going to say you live in a rental apartments make sure it's in a place with more than one complex jack $#*!. And the other, well he claimed to live about 300 miles away and wanted our first date to be in some little itty bitty town between the two of us. Well a little research shows this is such an out of the way place the post office and police station share a trailer. No, that's not sketchy at all. Then my absolute favorite after 5 minutes of chatting was telling me where we were going on our honeymoon.
I may hate being alone but I'll be damned if the last thing I check my purse for on the way out the door is a taser, a knife and a gun.
Run ladies just run. Meet a guy the old fashioned way. I've decided that once a week, I'll go to a coffee shop or take my $#*! out to dinner and sit at the bar with my unsweetened tea. The worst part about this is I PAID for this bull$#*!. RUN, DO NOT STOP, RUN

Date of experience: February 14, 2023
Georgia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Not even on here for a week and want my money back!
February 12, 2023

I have been on a few dating sites throughout the years. This is the WORST! I have never seen so many awful men in all my life!

Date of experience: February 11, 2023
Washington
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Big let down. Dont bother!
February 11, 2023

Im an active member of this site who is actively looking for someone to seriously date. Signed up on 2/1/2023. Today is 2/10/2023. I Was given an introductory price of 19.33 - half off the regular price - for a one month membership, which is the only reason I signed up.

Dont waste your time with this site, however. Since im actually out there looking for a match, my strategy is to write messages to any woman whom I find attractive who ALSO fits the bill in her profile description. That said, I have LITERALLY messaged maybe 150 women over the last three weeks, If not more, just seeing who responds and hoping for the best. Some messages are a quick introduction of myself. Some are quite long depending on what they have to say in their profile. Here's some take aways:

1. Ive heard back from only 4 of the 150 women Ive written.
2. Ive gotten only one like the entire three weeks ive been a member. Perhaps im just ugly...?
3. The site claims to give an indicator flag that is visible when someone has read a message. I dont see an icon from anyone, whether they responded or not. Theres no way to tell if anyone is even getting these messages.
4. There's also no way to tell how long someone has been a member or when was the last time they were logged in.
5. SO... All that being said, im beginning to honestly wonder if the vast majority of "profiles" are fake or just plain so old that they're no longer active. There's no way to know if the person you're writing to is even still alive! Either way, the results have been 100 percent disappointing. Enter at your own risk.

Date of experience: February 10, 2023
Arizona
1 review
1 helpful vote
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The worse
February 2, 2023

The site is inconsistent. Sometimes I could assess it, other times it is down for days at a time. I have written, emailed and called multiple times with no resolution. This time they gave me 7 free days but since I can't get in, I don't know what good that is There are way better dating sites

Date of experience: February 2, 2023