MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

Am so grateful to Melanies articles, videos, emails and the Quanta Freedom Healing program. I felt like my life was over when I decided to leave an abusive narcissist. The aftermath of narcissistic abuse I endured left me questioning my sanity. I was unable to sleep, think clearly or even pay my bills. I kept hearing his put downs and kept playing out the abusive scenarios and feeling a tremendous amount of anger, guilt and shame.

Despite the lies, the cheating the emotional, physical and sexual abuse I broke up and got back together with my narcissist nine times. I was groomed by him and I was hooked! Finally I hit bottom and experienced total panic and despair.

When I started reading about Melanies approach to healing from narcissistic abuse I felt a ray of hope. Her approach to healing resonated with me. Yes I want to heal and thrive! Melanie clearly defined for me what a narcissist is. Melanies gift to me was helping me to shift the focus from the narcissist to healing myself. I look forward to the emails and support she sends.

This program is changing my life and I feel excitement and hints of joy for the first time in years.

I love that Melanie doesn't focus on the problem, but on a REAL solution, relief, strive and to find your inner voice. She truly gives the "If I can do it, then YOU can too" attitude which makes me strive and get up in the morning. Lots of information is always ready, no matter if your Narc is your Mother, Sibling, Father, Spouse, friend, or even if you are a parent. Having her at my side has truly helped me to pick up my broken pieces. She is the best thing that could have happened to me at this time in my life.

I came across Melanie's work soon after discovering the label of Narcissistic Abuse. It was some relief to me knowing I could now name what I have experienced most of my life. The relief I felt researching Melanie's program and realising it is tailored specifically for those having experienced this type of abuse, and the horrors it entails, was huge. I knew Melanie had lived it, you have to have lived it to understand the impact and personal toll it takes. In my case on two generations of children in my family including myself. No matter how hard I tried for years to win over the Narcissist in my family, I know it just can't be done, unless by some miracle they choose to look inside of themselves. Four years ago I was able to distance myself which has been empowering and healing to a degree, I have also tried other therapies. Nothing compares to what I have already touched on with Melanie's program. I can't think of any better way to continue to heal and also to honour myself and the both of my siblings, whose lives were cut short, than to continue on this journey of healing, self-partnering and love for myself and my future and my family. Sincerely grateful to you Melanie and team.

I completed day 16!

What an amasing yourney. Melanie, you are such an inspiration to me!

I can already relate to all the information that I read and am ready to learn and experience more.

Thank you for being there in our time of need and confusion. Yes, I really thought that I am crazy because my husband told me so but in actual fact I realised that it was all about manipulation.

You made me realise that there is hope for better things to come. To be able to face anything and that I will be ok.

Thanks for helping us to become what we need to be and not allow anything to stand in our way!

Kindest love and hugs!
Xoxo

I found Melanie on YouTube and watched several videos before signing up for the free Webinar. I had been binge watching videos on Narcissism and really drowning in Depression and Anxiety over the abuse suffered from my Golden Child Husband and his Gradiose Overt Narcissistic Father. Melanie was the only one I listened to who said that I could stop depending on my husband even though I was suffering financial abuse. It really resonated with me because it was based in Universal Truth and as a person who's studied Spirituality for some years I knew it was true, however far removed I was from the teachings. I broke free and decided to focus on my healing. I've only just begun the program but i'm so syched about the possibilities.

I was a little unsure what to expect in the beginning but I do know that I felt some relief with the first free workshop that I attended online to my own amazement. I didn't quite understand all the terminology at first but I did know I felt so much better. I thought to myself, I wasn't really prepared for the workshop, got in late, and didn't print out my materials but WOW I feel so much better! I am still learning the terminology and healing techniques and how they work but I am doing the modules and they are working. I am no laymen to therapy, psychology, psychology of narc and co-dependent and borderline criteria and the causes and the horror stories. I like that Melanie Tonia addresses the emotions, subconscious in ourselves, and by working on those we are able to move on. I think it was a god-send at the perfect time for me. If I give myself positive affirmations but if I don't address the core belief in me that contradicts that they will not have any effect on me. I keep listening, doing the modules and keep feeling better and better and I thought that was never going to happen. After years of therapy, I have had more success with Melanie online less than 2.5 weeks, than all those 15 plus years combined.

I came across Melanie after the loss of my mom and being left with a father and siblings that are Narcissists with other underlying mental issues. The abuse after my mom's passing was unbearable; I not only lost the most important person in my life, but at a time when I needed compassion and time to heal, my family went on a rampage to destroy and hurt me. As soon as I listened to Melanie's first viideo that I found, I knew I had finally found someone that truly understands the impact that Narcissists have on their victims (although I realize now that I am not a victim in this). I was also married to a Narcissist and had been to many therapist/psychologists etc. to try and get help to heal from my ex-husbands abuse and my father's and siblings abuse throughout my life; but no one was able to help me heal. I am so thankful for Melanie and all the help that she offers to overcome this horrible abuse and live a full deserving life.

I was told about Melanie by the counselor at Helpmeet which is a domestic violence resource where I live. So I just casually looked up her web site and after a week of non stop reading I am feeling empowered and affirmed in ways I have not been ever! My marriage has been verbally and emotionally abusive for 14 years. I have only just recently been able to identify this after reading Melanie's material and getting counseling on my own. Her insight into narcissism is mind blowing and I have spent the last week saying out loud, Oh my god! This is what has happened to me! I no longer feel that I am the crazy one and that I didn't just imagine the behavior I withstood for so long from my husband. This information has been beyond valuable, it is life giving and I am now ready to do the self work. For I know that is where the real healing will be. Thank you so much Melanie. Thank you for allowing what you experienced to be a light to all of us! Love, Sophia

Inspirational, amazingly informative, compassionate and understanding explanations from Melanie that actually have us feeling surrounded and embraced... so comforted with her immense and nurturing guidance, love and support. Walking us through the True Narcissism itself and abuse thereof to understand it. The damaging and debilitating effects upon us... Showing/Teaching us how now not to become our own abusers after No contact by owning the abuse and in that way causing our own selves deep and despairing anguish and mental/physical illnesses. Instead of healing from the resulting traumas and CPTSD from the the long years of ongoing and horrific Narc Abuse. Melanie will take us Out Of The Darkness And Into The Light... Because she show us the way to bring our own selves there with her endless guidance! We could not do it Alone! We COULD NOT do it without Melanie! Special Thank You and highest regards to Narp members and TEAM TOO! I have more gratitude than I can say that you accepted me into the NARP Program despite my financial difficulties and inabilities. You reached your loving and all too well experienced, capable selves out to me anyway! With your, hearts, your hands, your incredible minds and YOUR SOULS! Now, THAT'S Bounty FOR YOU! THANK YOU! Sincerely, ANGELA

After over half a decade of narcissistic abuse in a marriage with an emotionally and financially abusive man, I found Melanie's work online and paid close attention to her work. I could hardly believe my ears - it felt like she was describing my situation and countless experiences. Finally, I could make some sense of what I was being subjected to and more importantly, it was healing and reassuring to know that I wasn't alone. Somebody else had experienced similar and more importantly, knows how to heal it and help me get through the other side of narcissistic abuse. I somehow summoned the courage, packed what I could into a two suitcases and flew home to my native country with no money, no resources but my sanity intact. I really felt suicidal and hopeless because of how much this relationship and man had stripped me of. Thanks to Melanie and the amazing support and help she has given to me, I can make sense of why it happened to me and what I need to do to heal those inner wounds that made me a magnet for narcs and begin to live the life I deserve. I am so grateful for the great work that she does. Melanie, you totally rock <3 Thank you.

I was in a narcisstic relationship and had scanty information on narcism. My life was on a standstill as I spent most of my time blaming him for what I had become. Bitterness and hatred had literary paralysed me.
Thanks to Melanie I have learnt to take control of my life, to uncover the wounds for them to heal. I am walking this journey with confidence and working on discovering myself more each day.
How I would love Melanie's outreach to get to as many souls as it possibly can for it's more than a blessing!