MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

Melanie's knowledge and experience has helped me to realise that I do have the power to overcome narcissistic abuse. I thought I was doomed to a lifetime of fear, misery and low self esteem, but not anymore. I've realised that I need to go deep inside (a journey of self discovery) to understand why I had poor boundary function and wasn't able to stand up for myself and say 'no'. This is not at all victim blaming, but more about empowering us from victim status into survivors, and then ultimately thrivers. Without Melanie's help I would not have been able to see the truth (albeit a painful truth) about what needed to change in order for me to step up and have the courage to be the real me, not the frightened disempowered me. Can't recommend Melanie's work highly enough. Thank you Melanie!

I have been separated from my husband of 32 years for the last 9 months. He has Narcissistic personality disorder and I am an Empath. I always believed he could change, but I continued to suffer horrific verbal abuse, and finally found the courage to leave. I found Melanies website online and have read the free books and get a newsletter every day. Finally, someone who can help the abused person to recover. I read everything every morning and watch her videos on YouTube. I am already beginning to feel better, because Melanie truly understands what I went through and am still trying to recover from. Highly recommended if you are living with or are have lived with a Narcissist.

I joined this abuse recovery program with the greatest expectations. I am an idealist at heart and still believe there are altruistic people and programs in the world. NARP, unfortunately, is not one of them. Melanie----much like all cult leaders----holds out this incredible healing message which, whether intended or not, seems to prey upon people who have already been abused. I was following her and her program which has a forum component with the greatest confidence. As a Gold member, which means you pay over two hundred dollars for her online material that you can research and find for yourself for free, you get to discuss your experience in posts (to a VERY limited and guarded degree) as a way of giving and receiving support. But do NOT think for yourself, whatever you do! I was a member of this cult for less than a month. When I realized how much "monitoring" is done and the very real fact that you CANNOT speak freely, are censored if you dispute what the "gods" say in any way, my red flag went up and I left! In a post, I tried to warn other members by writing of my experience. When I returned to the site to make a copy of my post, it was gone----in less than 15 minutes! This was the second incident in which I attempted to speak out in a non-inflammatory but upfront way and had my post banned! Needless to say, I've been banned from the forum. Good riddance to the Melanie Tonia Evans "cult"!

It's possible that people have been helped by this woman who has no credentials or even formal education to speak of yet declares herself an expert just because she's a former narcissistic abuse victim who's been touched by "Divine Intervention". But tread lightly here. There have been many cult-like leaders like her who have proven themselves to be very dangerous. I know for a fact that people are "encouraged" to write favorable reviews about her program. So if you sign on with her program, keep your eyes and ears open. But if you think for yourself---lookout. You'll be banned!

Hi fellow hurting people who are desperately wanting change and true healing back to real life again! This is possibly I can personally testify. First subscribe to Melanie Tonia Evens, then you will receive the best recovery tools you can imagine one particular one that will make the life changing effects is Quanta Freedom Healing! It incredible behind belief. Sign up for her free webinar, the 3 keys to thriving after narcissistic Abuse, you wont believe the change in you it will accomplish. I am speaking to you as a lady who is going through this and have done many other forums to recover, this one is The One that is what works! God Bless you in your journey to thriving not just surviving!

I found Melanie Tonia Evans thrivergroup and been listening to her knowledge about narcissists and I tell you, this has helped me not only following my path to be narcissisticfree but also to work with my inner wounds from my childhood. I have always knewn these wounds have a deep impact on my but what I now understand is how really deeply wounded I really am and how much these traumas have affected me my whole life.

I really recommend Melanie and NARP!

I just want to say Ive been in two narrissict relationship. Never dreamed my life would be that way. I have listen to NARP utube and Melanie has already given me hope when I felt there was none. Ive been beat, shot and never dreamed of meeting the next abusive man. He beat me also. I begin believing that it was all me. My fault but I have for the first time a little bit of relief. So I do want to express how important this program is and I truly believe in her and all Ive read. I hope that whoever is out there in a relationship like this its ok to leave when I thought I couldnt! Take time and listen its working for me! Im excited to see the end results! Take care and trust. Sincerely, Thought my life was over...

I prayed for help with my now single life, after 31 yrs of having a Narcissist in my Life. I had not ever heard about them. Until I was searching the why, than I found Melanie, nothing is coincidental, she has been an answer to my prayer, she is superb at this, her message to everyone that has had to deal with this personality disorder, is unbelievable, The ex finally had a mental breakdown, & fear set in because he had been found out, Melanie is here to help us release the pain the hurt, & also to regain our power, she is here to help us restore, our mind. I pray that between God & her can help me heal, & take back my Power.

I had never heard any of these terms prior to my taking the step to NO Contact, which in my terminology simply stated "I'm not talking to you." after leaving my home and what remained of my material possessions. I began searching the internet for help in knowing what has happened to my life. I found a YouTube video by Melanie and suddenly, hope sprang up in me as everything she said validated what I knew to be true. I'm ready to move forward to healing quickly and am excited for the opportunity to learn from Melanie.

By the grace of God, I was told about Melanie from a friend who was a survivor. I saw that she was feeling better after years... of abuse and bad choices that had landed her in a very destructive relationship that I feared would never end well. After she finally got away, and found her way to the other side of the globe in Australia, her healing journey began. I was inspired. The very first time I ever heard Melanies voice, I felt an instant sense of comfort. I honestly cannot explain why. But it was legit, I was immediately engaged and felt safe. Ordinarily I watch you tube videos, listen to podcasts, and also watch Ted Talks. And where all that Ive stumbled upon has been informative, most has felt like going to school and sitting in yet another lecture. I may have walked away more knowledgeable, but in the majority of every speaker or professional I enjoyed intellectually, they really didnt speak to me. My experience with Melanies work, has been a horse of a different color. I sat in the LAX airport, 3 hours before a flight, and attended an online webinar. I took a journal and a pen, put my headphones on. Started to write notes as she spoke, and forgot I was at the airport after a bit. Melanie understands this entire process. And she is living proof of what determination, perserverence, knowledge and understanding can do to change everything. After finding Melanie, and her honest and heartfelt and healing approach, I can not get enough. I used to think healing was just not possible. Now Im convinced just surviving is only the beginning. Thriving is not out of reach. Melanie is genuine, loving and kind. Im so grateful to have found her program!

After Finally escaping from my narcissistic abusive husband, I thought I would feel relief and freedom. Instead I couldn't even function. I was afraid to leave my home, couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, easily startled at any noise, was shaky and physically ill. Nobody that I talked to could understand what I was going through. I had been left with no support from friends or family except my adult son who had helped me to escape. In desperation, I did a Google search on Narcissistic Abuse and came upon the Thriver video by Melanie Tonia Evans. I began to watch her videos that she sent through email and was thrilled to find someone that not only understood what I was going through completely, but also had answers to help me heal and survive. I was so excited to learn about her NARP program which is so helpful in the recovery process. Thank you Melanie Tonia Evans for all of the wonderful work you are doing!

I lived with an abusive narcissist husband and father of my two children for 15 years. I honestly did not believe that anyone understood what I was going through. I was again searching the internet for anything that might help me cope and came across the Thriver TV videos on the net. Finding Melanie Tonia Evans and her recovery story has had such a profound effect on me. For the first time in five years since my divorce, I felt that I was not (yet again) just testing the water in my desperate search for help. I have just started looking into the NARP program and took part in the free 3 Keys Webinar which I highly recommend. It soothed my initial pain and provided me with hope. I KNOW that I have finally found a way out, that I can heal and I so much want to heal, through using the NARP program. I am tired explaining over and over how broken I am. Expressing such emotions to a stranger in therapy trying to explain to or convince someone that the mess I was in, was due to the abuse I had encountered. They just dont get it. With the NARP program you dont waste time justifying your needs, it has all been said, you just start your healing. I felt broken and hurt. This is where it starts to get better. Thank you Melanie, for believing in yourself and your program.

I was in a relationship for 5 years and following a house fire and loss of employment I was told my partner could no longer be in a relationship and focus on their needs. Fast forward a quick month later and he's already with someone else. As I sat in darkness and despair, I kept asking "why me? Why now? Why?" After doing some research I happened across Melanie's blog and it was like a lightbulb clicked on. Scenario after scenario she described, I had a real world example that I had been living and breathing. I didn't ever once fully look inward during that relationship to notice that it wasn't normal. I don't know where the man I fell in love with went, but thanks to Melanie, I'm able to understand that I attracted him to my life for a reason, and that reason is not because I'm a failure or worthless human being like I had been conditioned to believe, but that the reason had nothing to do with me. That alone helped put me in a better mental space to process the emotions that I was feeling. I knew I was feeling abandonment issues from my childhood, but I didn't know how to address these feelings. Thanks to Melanie I feel I have a solid base to work with on something that before a month ago, I never would have believed I was experiencing first hand. I highly recommend her blog, videos, website and everything she has to offer. You can never have enough tools in your tool belt Thanks Melanie for all your effort.

There are very few people who are genuinely working towards raising conciousness without adding business value to it. Melaine is one of that kind who experienced that pain of being abused so well and overcoming through that by her own will and efforts that now she is in a position to share that learning with other in same boat and are feeling miserable and helpless with one of the clear intentions " No single life should leave to stay with God because of abuse " and "Every soul deserves to live authentically ". Me being from financial poor background received Melaine NARP discount and really was blessed by her kindness and her team understanding and sympathy towards us.

When my last relationship ended, I was completely destroyed emotionally and my physical health was deteriorating from stress. I had given my all and ended up with nothing... not even closure as my ex had only offered me the silent treatment as he kicked me to the curb. I was so confused about why things ended... what I had done wrong... why he didn't love me anymore. As I started to Google his strange behavior, a lightbulb went on as I read about narcissistic abuse. All the pieces finally fit after 4 years of utter confusion and angst. Gas lighting, stonewalling, silent treatment, etc. I had no idea my relationship was an emotionally abusive one until that moment. Further google searches brought me to Melanie's blog. Reading her material and listening to her videos was such a huge wake up call as for the first time in 4 years, I felt like someone finally understood my inner turmoil over my roller coaster relationship. It was almost like she had lived through the torment with me. Two and a half years later, I now run a couple support groups on Facebook for survivors of narcissistic abuse and Melanie's blogs are one of the most frequently posted resources I use in my groups to educate and encourage others. Everything she says is usually spot on. While she's become a well recognized name in narcissistic abuse circles, she remains humble and kind... always willing to respond to her commenters questions. I can't recommend her work enough!

I posted some reviews and got a response from Melanie and didn't read it. If I wasn't good enough to respond to years ago when the program wasn't working fast enough for me, then I don't need to hear from her now. I bought her program and used it for a long time. It helped where nothing to date had. But it was very slow. I asked mel for help and to join the support group and she blocked me from it, she removed me from her mailing list and questions to her email where answered by her son who just didn't awnser the questions. Prior to this, I tried every thing I could. Other abuse victims said I made a lot of progress and that I was advanced their stages of recovery. I was happy, but if I was around abuse, it would regress. The healings healed my emotions, but it was very slow. When mel was not helpful, I felt so brusied. I've never been able to ask for help and get it from anyone. Mel would say that is my issue. What was my issue was that I felt so bruised I didn't call the Australian better business bureau. I learned what she was doing. Part of it is theta healing. Theta healing is a mediation where you ascend to heaven and give your pain to god. Mel is in a theta state when she does the MP3s. They are a meditation where you give your pain to God. So, it is a form of prayer. Mel creates an ethic violation because she claims she is the one who does the healing. You'd have better luck learning theta healing (there are books you can get) and healing yourself.