MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

After going through the information about narcissistic abuse with Melanie I am finally able to put words to my feelings of unimaginable pain and trauma. My whole world fell apart and that of my children when my husband became a completely different person. I questioned my sanity. I went into therapy and over a decade after being separated he still controls my emotions. Within days of communicating with Melanie I am beginning to have reason for hope. Finally, it is all making sense. I have been applying the 90 present attention to myself and 10 percent to Him. It was literally just the opposite. Recently, when I had an encounter with him, I looked to see which of my childhood wounds he was latching on to and although it was excruciatingly painful, paradoxically it was also very soothing. Thank you Melanie now I am hopeful that I will not have to endure this pain for the rest of my life.
Lynne

After suffering narcissistic abuse my entire life, and most recently violent narcissistic abuse, I had lost hope and faith that anything could be done to help me recover and I felt sure that I would be stuck forever in misery and pain. Then I found Melanie Tonia Evans online and my hope was rekindled for the first time in years. Her Thriver TV episodes have been en pointe in regards to basically every aspect of what I've gone through... the effects, the feelings, the decisions I've made. The understandings I had worked out partly for myself were also validated... finally someone knew what it was like to go through this hell but she had actually made it out the other side. I cannot speak highly of Melanie enough, her generosity is incredible, her insights spot on and her program a beacon of light for me where none existed for years... literally there was no hope before now. I am looking forward to being another NARP Thriver and can't wait to get started.

After a 6 years of romantic relationship with a covert narsisist, my life has become extremely hard. I lost my job, I struggled with financial and emotional problems. I was feeling so desperate and exhausted. I did not know what is my real self and my self confidance were so low. At these difficult times of my life, Melanie's Youtube videos and blog helped me a lot. As I listen to her, I aware of my childhood wounds and false subconcious beliefs. I started to connect with my real emotions without fear or shame for the first time. I feel lucky to encounter Melanie's work on my healing journey.

I came across Melanie's work on You tube after listening to quite a number of people talking about NARC abuse and recovery. I was hit by her incredible insights into their behaviour and so the program was the next step for me. I have been 'in love' with 2 NARCS and have a family member making my life a misery! This course has given me tools to move forward and stop supplying! I need to heal and these insights give me the knowledge to do so, knowledge is power and I am so glad I found this. It's an answer to an inner call for knowledge. Thank you x

As the years have gone by, Ive evolved my eating (pescatarian), exercising (gym 4-5 x week) and approach towards medicine (holistic) to help me cope with life. What remained stagnant has been my pain and anger since I was a child. I thought if I could manage it, I would be fine. Now at 49 years of age, I find myself in the midst of a toxic life. Either I eradicate the toxins inside me or let it will kill me. Before stumbling on Tonia Evans website I actually thought of the latter as my only option. With a renewed outlook, I am eager to start the process necessary to shift me towards the full life I was meant to live.

I wasnt even sure what was going on when I stumbled across Melanies YouTube videos, I had no idea I was even with I narcissist, but after watching video after video and reading many articles I soon realized I had in fact been in two bad narcissistic relationships. Since finding Melanies program I have found emotional healing in ways I have never experienced before, not only with the narcissistic abuse but also the emotional trauma involved with being diagnosed with complex regional pain syndrome. I am very excited and look forward to further exploring this wonderful program.

I have watched Melanie for quite sometime now, follow her newsletter consistently, and it has been invaluable. Her experience, pain, breakdown, and strength to survive and then thrive after being abused so badly has given me an understanding of my own situation that I could have NEVER received from anyone else. She is so incredibly knowledgeable and you can see clearly that she has done intensive in-depth work to uncover the narcissist personality, and also the type of healing absolutely needed to cure you from the trauma. Turning inside ourselves to find out why we attracted these people into our lives is the most empowering information that comes from Melanie. If you can get one on one quantum healing from her program, I suggest you do it! Freedom is possible because of her strength and courage to heal herself and share it with the world. I love you Melanie!

Dear Mel
I am a 55 yr old lady and apparently I have been living with narcissistic abuse since I was 3. Always thought the punishments and berated talks were my fault. I was never perfect enough. Until this past summer of 2017 after being again gaslight by not only my abuser but by the judge I was at the weakest moments of my life again. He tried to kil me twice. And got away with it twice and those two times I be had him charged were nothing compared to the mental abuse you go through with these soulless people. I came across your site by accident on Facebook and I couldn't believe you actually got it 100 percent of the trauma these people inflict. You touched on every plain of my pain. 3 therapists later and her you are so kind and at peace with such knowledge of this pain and how to relate to it on. A cellular level I can actually breathe! The term you use so within so without was lost on me until Christmas Eve. I was watching your videos and I actually got it! Greatest Christmas gift of all time. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and soul. I was an indendee at your 3 key workshop Tuesday night. I cried for the first time in forever with the healthy tears. 15 years ago a therapist told me I married my mother twice. I thought he was a bit off. It he's right. I did. I get it! And without you I would not understand why I have been looping all my life with narcissistic people. Thank you for sharing your healing with others that we too can turn our lives around. Blesss and love you
Karlie

Melanie has helped me focus on myself again and I don't mean that she has made me a selfish person, but she has reminded me of the importance of self-love. In my relationship of 3 years, I focused most of my energy to finding a way to have us as a couple to work together in a business. He resisted. Then I sought to have him help me with something that I wanted to do, he resisted. I really couldn't understand all the resistance and due to all the nice things that he did for me, I couldn't imagine calling him a Narcissist, it didn't seem fair; however Melanie has really fleshed out the concept. I was punished many times by him leaving me, he didn't like my enthusiasm or the way in which I presented things, so he would leave (of course I can improve on how I present things, but there was no need to leave). Melanie and this course has helped to open my eyes that he is not a secure person but needs the constant reassurance from the outside world and can really only focus on his goals. I am doing my best with her help to try and find a way to forgive myself, heal and undersand this type of personality and not take things so personally. I am thankful to have support as often times those closest to us, just can't really listen anymore.

First off if you have something bad to say about Melanie your a fake person paid to stop the healing or you were never a victam of narcissistic abuse. I was and am on the verge of dying in front of my lil children due to alcohol abuse to cover the pain.If you call a person who for free took the time to show me that I was truly a victam and at same time her videos clearly helped my family that turned there backs on me understand what was happening to me and why I went from a boss to a loss do to extreme torcher. If you think a person who is saving one life is bad shame on you.Im getting sober at this moment and shaking from withdraw not scared to die because she made me believe and my family is here supporting me about to get kratom for easing symptoms. I might not make sense but know that she convinced me to go without alcohol for my children so thats three lives saved and There IS a version of me that IS not a alcoholic and there IS a version of me that IS sober and IS a good single father point period without a daubt. Quantam healing home boy. God bless you Malanie my list is coming true.