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J4L has a rating of 2.8 stars from 134 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with J4L most frequently mention and total scam. J4L ranks 44th among Russian Dating sites.
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I don't think it's as bad as it is described below. There are some positive features as well, moderate prices, plenty of girls, and it's just convenient and technically easy to use. I haven't encountered any scam yet
I enjoy posting reviews on those scammers. J4L.com is just another site that exists with one thing in mind... robbing you and doing it legally. Like many other sites, they openly admit in their "term of use" that they do not verify the women on the site and that they allow a "Service" company to supply pictures and information about the women AND they are allowed to write you as well. The women on this site are just tools for sites to make money... nothing more. Just yesterday, I tested them using the same pictures I used on another site which is serviced by the same supplier. The only difference is that I used a different first name. I have been on another site for about 6 weeks and left the computer on 24 hours a day while logged in on that site. Literally thousands of letters from models which of course proves at that point that it is only a scamming site. I was logged on J4L and another site at the same time looking for the same women and sure enough, they were on both sites. The same women were writing me and both letters were the exact same ones. In fact, those are pre-written letters with the "insert name" in them. Yes, they make mistakes from time to time and forget to put your name in the "insert name" area.
Let me make it easy for you guys. ANY SITE where once registered, you received tons of letters from women more than half your age are scamming sites! If you have a face that only a mother can love and have models constantly trying to get you to write back, it's a scamming site. Simple, isn't?
Those in here stating that the site is ok, good or great, are either working for them or so easily fooled.
Listen, there are a few free Russian dating sites and one that you pay for the service available to all. If you join them, you will quickly notice that NO ONE will write you and if one will, she will not be a beauty.
If you send money to this site after reading this, you deserve to be scammed.
I've heard that this site had lots of hot ladies who didn't mind sharing fantasies or doing a strip dance or going even further. To be honest, that was what I came there for and I indeed had a lot of fun. But unexpectedly fun turned into relationship and I got more serious with one girl. I couldn't resist falling in love with her, as a result we live together now :) So I guess you can find both on this site: fun and sex or love and marriage, depending on what you want, or what is inevitable to find for you!
I had been talking for a year with a woman whom I considered my girlfriend on the other site until I found her profile on J4L, and she didn't know who I was. What was my surprise when I saw her on video on J4L! I have never seen her on camera on Anastasiadate. It turned out that I had been chatting with a fake there, the real person turned out to be on j4l, now I trust j4l, because they make sure their ladies are available for video chat - this helps to prevent scam.
Acually I was surprised with this site. I have been a member of many dating sites. I can say that this one stands out in some ways: there are less fakes, the majority of women are available for video chat, they don't ignore you after you get their contacts and many of them speak good English on phone. Fact #1: So far I am still single. Fact #2: I don`t feel lonely anymore because I have couple of cute girlfirends who are always happy to spend time with me and make me feel happy.
The girls are not real, the fee are very expensive, it's just a scam site! Don't trust them at all, it just waste your money and time! If you want to meet a girl and date, find in your real life and real people around you will be much better.
Dear Ithis,
We’re sorry to hear about your disappointing experience. Please be assured that our platform operates transparently and in full compliance with international regulations. We assure you that all the ladies on our platform are real and thoroughly verified, and we take any allegation of fake activity very seriously.
If you have any doubts or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact our support team at [email protected]. We are always here to investigate, clarify, and help you with any situation. Your trust means a lot to us, and we will do our best to make your experience positive.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
I dislike it. It's a waste of time and money, stay away from it, if you don't want to get scammed, women there are liars.
Dear Tim,
We’re sorry to hear about your disappointing experience. Please be assured that the ladies on our platform are real and thoroughly verified. That said, we know that misunderstandings or disappointments can sometimes occur, and we deeply regret that your time on our site left you with such an impression. Your trust is very important to us.
If you ever doubt a profile or have questions about communication, please reach out to our Support team with the lady’s ID — we will investigate this case directly. We are always here to listen, explore, and do our best to help in any situation. We truly hope you will give us another chance to show you the positive and genuine side of our community.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
Guys, guys, guys... How can anyone of us be so stupid to spend a sent on this site? Or any of these paying dating sites
95% of the girls are scammimg us. I think they are getting payed by these sites or by their agents to keep us chatting and writing letters. I maybe wrong but again I am 95% sure.
Be Aware for the following girls J4L I.D. ******* Liliya 27 years old from Dnepropetrovsk. She is all over the internet. Written hundreds of letters to her never could get any newly taken pic from her... neither any contact details.Her pictures are as old as 4 years. Seen one picture from her being on the internet since a few years back.
Another girl to watch out is. Daria 30 years old from Kiev a "Accountant" on J4L I. D *******. Devorced with a boy.On another site she, s a "Plastic surgeon", no children and living in Dnepropetrovsk...
Guys, save yourself a lot money and time... get a girl from your own town or country... Seems to me 95% of all Ukrainian girls are professional liars and scammers..
Dear Gerhardus,
We’re sorry to hear about your disappointing experience. Please be assured that Jump4Love is a legitimate international dating platform, and we take such concerns very seriously.
All ladies on our site go through ID and video verification to confirm their identity before their profiles are activated. However, we understand that misunderstandings can sometimes happen during communication. If you believe a specific member has provided inconsistent information, please contact our support team at [email protected] with the lady’s ID — we will investigate this case directly and take appropriate action.
We’d also like to clarify that ladies do not receive payments for communication; they can only respond to messages sent by men via the platform. Their main goal is to meet someone genuine and build real relationships.
Your feedback is important to us, and we appreciate the opportunity to clarify these points and improve our service.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
Your site is $#*!ed - I pay and don't get email addresses and the information you provide cost too much $#*!ing money!
Dear John,
We truly regret that your experience on the site did not meet your expectations. Jump4Love is a free communication platform with no monthly subscriptions or paid upgrade features required. Payment is only needed for certain optional services, which are reasonably priced to support secure and meaningful communication. We are committed to providing high-quality services with minimal glitches or errors.
For the privacy and safety of our members, all communication is conducted within the platform. Direct contact information can only be exchanged after official verification and with mutual consent. We continuously work to ensure transparency and authenticity on our platform, and we regret that your expectations were not met.
If you have any concerns, please get in touch with our Support Team — we’ll be happy to investigate and assist you.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
What a good source! I cannot believe that I have come across it only a month ago. I used only the social networks before. You know, nobody writes a completely true information out there. This dating service, however, is secured. I like the honesty of everyone. Women are not only sincere, but are eager to share the thoughts with men. In addition, I like the notifications of the birthdays. You always know when to congratulate the favorites even having such problems with memory as I do.
This is not a rant, but a positive review about this site. You know, girls just wanna have fun and so do I. Despite of the fact I have a child, I love me some time for a good chat with a smart person
To start with, I should mention that Ive been using online dating services for a year or so. During this time I changed 5 or 6 websites, mostly because of poor service, safety issues, and lack of profiles to choose from. Some girls just cant shut up about how hard it is to live in their country. So finally, I decided to stop wasting my time on online dating. But a couple of months later, one guy on Facebook advised me to try J4l, and this is just what I needed all this time. Theres a great choice of girls, and most of them speak English good enough to keep a conversation going.
I can definitely recommend this site. Although I didnt find my love here, I found my best friend. Some will say there cant be friendship between a man and a woman. I say it can be if two people feel that platonic chemistry between each other. Anna is like my sister. We share the same values, we both are interested in Russian literature, so we can talk non-stop about it. She helps me improve my Russian and even invited me to come to her city. I accepted her offer and it was an amazing trip to Moscow. My friends believe this friendship can turn into something romantic. I dont know but I want to see where it will go.
Answer: I met many real girls on https://j4l.com/402007 And I had personal meetings as well. So chances are high that your ladies are sincere. I think in general J4L is not bad. The best way to know is to have a video chat with your women and watch them closely.
Answer: To poor Nicolas J, good luck - have a back up plan. Many of these girls will say they will meet, but then are told if they do they will lose their jobs at the site, which pays excellent money. The site is full of Fraud. Read my review and check out my screenshot of their ad on VK to hire girls to work as translators/operators. Beware of sites that have video chat and girls waiting around all night just to talk to you. Think about it. Seriously, just stop and think about it. If she was a real in wanting a life with an adventurous man, would she spend all night doing nothing but talking to random strangers? Would that even make for an interesting personality? No, your best bet is another site, but if you are going to stay on J4L then look for the girls that are rarely online, or login and logoff after getting their messages. Those girls have a real life, do not rely on J4L for an income, and are far more serious that the girls that are online each night.
Answer: No one will prove it because it never happened. All positive reviews, and positive answers to the Q&A, are from fake profiles, created by the site owners/workers. This is how they make money, so they abuse SiteJabber (and similar sites) to appear more legit. Only very gullible people believe them. Even if it happened ONCE in a blue moon, that still wouldn't prove anything. The fact remains that hundreds of dumb men join this site, spend their money, and will never get anything in return.
Answer: Hello Herberth, currently we provide support service by email - [email protected]
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Dear Mike,
We’re sorry to hear that you had such a negative impression of our site. Please be assured that Jump4Love is a legitimate international dating platform, and we take all concerns about authenticity very seriously. All ladies on our site go through ID and video verification before their profiles are activated, and pre-written or automated messages are strictly against our rules. Our moderation team continuously monitors activity to maintain transparency and trust.
We understand how important it is to feel confident when communicating online, and we regret that your experience left you with doubts. If you have specific details or examples, please contact our Support Team — we’ll gladly investigate your case and do our best to assist.
Best regards,
The J4L Team