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J4L has a rating of 2.8 stars from 134 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with J4L most frequently mention and total scam. J4L ranks 44th among Russian Dating sites.
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I joined quite a few dating sites. I just wanted to put multiple hooks out into the water to increase my chances of meeting a woman for a long-term relationship. My ultimate goal is marriage. So far this site has been given the best results. I would rank it number One. I know it is the international run company. When you sign up you see members with active accounts without having to pull out your purse. If you like someone you can contact her and you only pay if she writes back to you. You can meet someone who lives across the globe. Also you can meet Ukrainian ladies locally - his is what I prefer. So to cut it short you can have unlimited communication with beautiful women for quite an affordable price. It is not a rip-off. It's the real thing.
Maybe it is not the best site, but it obviously has the best price—quality ratio and it's good enough to be worth a try. I tried it, I liked it, I spent 5 months on it and I met quite many ladies. I exchanged contact details with 4 women who lived in Poland. Then I went to Poland. I visited 2 cities and met all 4 of these girls. Now I have a very difficult decision to make since all of them were nice, good-looking, sexy and amazingly charming.
What I really like about this site is it's very discreet. You can remain fully anonymous. No scammers found there yet. No blackmailing (this is something I had to deal with on some other casual dating sites). What I don't like is that functionality is not very simple and it takes some time to figure out how it works and to find necessary filters.
It's more than a simple chat service. They really did a great job at gathering beautiful Ukrainian girls – all genuine girls, no catfishers and no gold-diggers among them. They do a background check of every woman profile to exclude scammers. I'm focusing on the women who are in Western Europe now. Also, I used "languages" filter to pick up ladies who can speak English.
Even though they have some features that I don't like, I will admit that this site really stands out. The reason for this is simple - less small talk, more action. The women get ready for the next step pretty quickly. No problem with swapping numbers. No problem with talking on phone (despite of the accent sometimes). No problem meeting up. The site itself is financially safe. You can trust it.
This is the site for those who are ready to cut straight to the chase. What I like about it is that most of the users are clear about their intentions and there are many down-to-anything girls, so I easily found what I wanted. You should still watch out for scammers, but there are not too many of them. The site gets rid of them pretty quickly. Another good thing is total absence of bots and none of those one-line nonsense messages I was constantly getting on the other dating sites.
Guys be warned its a total scam...
The positive reviews here are written by agents of J4L.
These woman are getting payed to rip us off in chat and letters.
I, m going to provide you with a woman who, s a total scammer:
Khrystyna 21 Lviv User ID *******.
She, s on every dating site possible.
On 1-love-for-you and sister sites her User ID *******...
On some sites she, s a nurse on other a economist... she is a professional scammer.
Talked to her for a few months loads of promisses... never lived up to any.
Be carefull don, t even open her chat invite or letter.
Operates 2 mobile numbers.
Read the risks section on the site that specifically states some "suppliers" pay the women for money men spend on the site to communicate. I was on the site for 2 years and the women are NOT real. In fact the same section states that your correspondence may be replied by someone other than the intended recipient.
Dear Keith,
Thank you for sharing your feedback. We're sorry to hear about your experience and take your concerns seriously. We continuously work to ensure transparency and authenticity on our platform, and we regret that your expectations were not met. However, let us reassure you that all the ladies on our platform are real and thoroughly verified. We also want to ensure that all ladies communicate personally on the site and do not receive payments for communication on our platform.
If you have any doubts or concerns about a profile, please don't hesitate to contact our Support team. We will carefully study the situation and do our best to help. We are always ready to understand and clarify the situation and help you. Your trust is important to us, and we will do our best to make you comfortable.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
At first I thought this website was genuine, it turned out to be full of engineering and fraud. They deliberately hired those women to spend our money. I warn you not to use the j4l site because it is full of fakes. I am a victim of that scam.
Dear Edo,
We are truly sorry to hear about your disappointing experience and understand your concerns. However, let us reassure you that all the ladies on our platform are real and thoroughly verified.
We truly regret that your experience on the site did not meet your expectations and that you did not manage to build trusting relations with the ladies. However, we are not able to do it for you. If you have any doubts or concerns about a profile, please don't hesitate to contact our Support team with the lady’s ID — we will investigate this case directly and take appropriate action. We will carefully study the situation and do our best to help. We are always ready to understand and clarify the situation and help you. Your trust is important to us, and we will do our best to make you comfortable.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
It's an established site. It has grown a lot since its release. I used it 3 years ago and I was not impressed. Then I tried it again 3 months ago and I met quite many good matches. One woman is in my country now. So we met for dinner and fell in love. I hope our feelings and relationship grow. They definitely have many genuine women on this site now
Now these pretty women really want to meet! I was surprised! I thought it was difficult to meet them for real, I thought I had to travel to their country, but now they are all over the world. Even though I feel sorry for them, but on the other hand things go quicker now with Ukrainian women. There are many of them in my country. I've had 3 dates already. I want to meet two more girls before I make my final choice. They are very beautiful!
J4L is a complete fraud. The letters you receive are fake. I deleted all my photos and nearly all my profile information. I also changed other profile information like my age to 78 and weight to nearly 300 pounds at a fake 5'6" height and continued receive letters. What real lady writes letters to a profile like that with no photos? This fake money hungry site does with bots.
Lastly, I did a video chat with a woman who didn't look like her photos. She just sat looking into the screen while periodically fake smiling. She only looked down at the keyboard maybe twice during that 40 minute video chat. That means she posed for the camera as some guy or lady typed back and forth with me. That was the only video chat I ever did on the site. I was convinced then that the site was a money hungry fake site.
I have given you examples of why to stay away from that site J4L. You have been warned not to waste your time or money. They only got a small amount of money out of me before I quickly figured the fake site out.
Dear Miguel,
We are truly sorry to hear about your disappointing experience and understand your concerns. However, let us reassure you that all the ladies on our platform are real and thoroughly verified. We also want to assure you that all ladies communicate personally on the site.
We truly regret that your experience on the site did not meet your expectations and that you did not manage to build trusting relations with the ladies. Sometimes misunderstandings or disappointments happen, and we are very sorry that your stay on our site left you with such an impression.
If you ever doubt a profile or have questions about communication, please get in touch with our support team. We are always ready to listen to you, understand the situation, and do our best to help.
We sincerely hope you will give us another chance to show you our community's positive and sincere side.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
More than 95/98% of ladies are fake in profile or scammer translators. None of successful stories here ever. Even you meet some ladies in real after pumping hundreds of thousands dollars, all of them are money diggers! Either they want you pay much higher than market interpreter or want something related with money. Never pay their interpretations service! Stay away this site!
Dear Terry,
We are truly sorry to hear about your disappointing experience and understand your concerns. Please rest assured that all the ladies on our platform are real and carefully verified. Sure, there are translators involved in some cases (especially when language is a barrier), and some agencies do use them to help facilitate conversations — but that doesn’t mean the message is written by someone else. We assure you that all ladies communicate personally on the site. The ladies on our platform are real and sincerely seek honest communication.
We truly regret that your experience on the site did not meet your expectations and that you did not manage to build trusting relations with the ladies. However, we are not able to do it for you. Sometimes misunderstandings or disappointments happen, and we are very sorry that your stay on our site left you with such an impression.
If you ever doubt a profile or have questions about communication, please don't hesitate to get in touch with our support team. We are always ready to listen to you, understand the situation, and do our best to help.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
I would say this site can be used with some caution. In general it can be trusted. It is way better and way more honest than many other dating sites. And yes, it's a dating site indeed, it's not a rip off. Female accounts are real. Women match their photos. But make sure you have a look at their live video. Don't hesitate to ask them to turn their cameras on. If a woman refuses to do it – just skip her and go to the next one. Fortunately, there is a great choice of them!
If you're ever going to Ukraine, check out this site. For me this was the quickest way to meet girls when I was in their country. Other sites did not work this way: girls wanted to chat, get to know each other and all that stuff, they didn't want to go on a date. That was when I tried out J4L for the first time and I got great and quick results. I met several girls and dated one of them for a while but we broke up 2 months ago so I'm back to the dating world.
It's a promising site. I love Ukrainian women! I have always wanted to have young blonde Ukrainian girlfriend. My dream is coming true! I met so many beautiful women - it was difficult to make a choice. But finally I made it and the woman I chose made me the happiest man. We've been keeping in every day contact by Whatsapp and we have just had out first date. I have 12 more days in her country and it looks like I'm gonna have the time of my life here!
Most dating sites are geared to rip gullible people off. But this one used to give me the experiences of a lifetime when I traveled to Ukraine! All the ladies I set up dates with showed up and spent quality time with me. It was not just "one and done" (which had been the absolute maximum I ever got on the other sites – Anastasiadate, Charmdate, etc). We went to restaurants, SPA, art galleries. Ladies showed me around. Neither of them asked me to buy anything expensive. There is just one thing I regret: I wasn't ready for long-term relationship back then. Now I'm longing for it, I want to make family, but because of this damn pandemic I have to stay home and wait for the time they allow us to travel again.
Good idea, great concept and brilliant execution! I'm pretty familiar with many dating sites and I know for a fact this is one of the best ones as far as genuineness and actuality of profiles are concerned. Not all of the women are absolutely serious. There is no guarantee that you can just go online, pick up any girl and make her your g/f or wife, you still have to be a gentleman and you still have to court her and win her heart. But they are so beautiful, stunning and sexy that all these efforts will be rewarded. All Ukrainian women are family-oriented, it's in their culture and their upbringing.
They are not exploiting the pandemic, so they don't bump up prices or use bots and fake profiles. The women are genuine. I met a few of them in real and one of them gave me the experience of a lifetime. The other 2 women were nice and sweet as well, but there was no chemistry. I hope to continue relationship with the first woman.
Hi guys,
Contact your credit card company and ask for refund. Inform them that J4L is a fraud site. I got my money back, hope you too.
Cheers
Hello Armin,
We’re sorry to hear about your disappointing experience. Please be assured that Jump4Love is a legitimate international dating platform, and we take such concerns very seriously.
If any service was provided to you poorly or not in full, we are always here to investigate, clarify, and help you with any situation. Your trust means a lot to us, and we will do our best to make your experience positive.
Best regards,
The J4L Team
Hi guys,
I want to make it short. The site is just scam and owned by traitors. Even when you video chat with woman it's a fake, they don't write on their own, watch their arms, you will figure it out quickly. Second, they will will deny contact exchange for various reasons, phone broken etc.
Third, the site is recording your chats, I can proof that. They sent me a protocol of my chat. Pretty stupid because it's illegal.
And now the good news, this time they picked the wrong guy. Why? I have a military background and was also involved with EU authorities. This case is now brought to their attention and investigations take place. The other thing is, I take it personal now and decided to initiate own action against this traitors. That means we will trace them and for sure find them. Wherever they are located.
Answer: I met many real girls on https://j4l.com/402007 And I had personal meetings as well. So chances are high that your ladies are sincere. I think in general J4L is not bad. The best way to know is to have a video chat with your women and watch them closely.
Answer: To poor Nicolas J, good luck - have a back up plan. Many of these girls will say they will meet, but then are told if they do they will lose their jobs at the site, which pays excellent money. The site is full of Fraud. Read my review and check out my screenshot of their ad on VK to hire girls to work as translators/operators. Beware of sites that have video chat and girls waiting around all night just to talk to you. Think about it. Seriously, just stop and think about it. If she was a real in wanting a life with an adventurous man, would she spend all night doing nothing but talking to random strangers? Would that even make for an interesting personality? No, your best bet is another site, but if you are going to stay on J4L then look for the girls that are rarely online, or login and logoff after getting their messages. Those girls have a real life, do not rely on J4L for an income, and are far more serious that the girls that are online each night.
Answer: No one will prove it because it never happened. All positive reviews, and positive answers to the Q&A, are from fake profiles, created by the site owners/workers. This is how they make money, so they abuse SiteJabber (and similar sites) to appear more legit. Only very gullible people believe them. Even if it happened ONCE in a blue moon, that still wouldn't prove anything. The fact remains that hundreds of dumb men join this site, spend their money, and will never get anything in return.
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Dear Gerhard,
We’re sorry to hear about your disappointing experience. We are a communication platform that provides communication services on our website, and we take such concerns very seriously. We assure you that all the ladies on our platform are real and thoroughly verified. We also want to assure you that ladies do not receive payments from communication on our platform.
If you believe a specific member has provided inconsistent information, please contact our support team at [email protected] with the lady’s ID — we will investigate this case directly and take appropriate action.
We are always ready to understand and clarify the situation and help you. Your trust is important to us, and we will do our best to make you comfortable.
Best regards,
The J4L Team