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The It's Just Lunch Difference: Personalized Matchmaking. High Touch Service. Guaranteed Dates. Our dating experts provide an enjoyable alternative to online dating websites.
It's Just Lunch has a rating of 4.2 stars from 396 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with It's Just Lunch most frequently mention next date, match maker and executive matchmaker. It's Just Lunch ranks 7th among Dating sites.
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I have been using IJL for about 3 months. It is a pleasure to work with Amber. I have been presented with three matches and been on one date. Another date is being scheduled. Benihana was a terrific spot for a date and the restaurant was expecting us.
I had a great date and received excellent coaching from my matchmaker Trisha
We love to hear this, thank you!
Working with IJL has been a pleasure, they have been very professional at getting to know who I am and who to match me with.
Thank you for the great feedback and for your business!
My first date was amazing! My date and I connected so well...we were so comfortable with each other! We want to see each other again which just adds to my content with my matchmaker's skill at finding us for each.
So exciting! We are so happy to hear this. Keep us posted on how things progress!
Genie is down to earth and really easy to talk to. She really gets me and understands what I want. I feel like she's another girl I can depend on to talk about boys with and become a better person for my next relationship. I can't wait to see where this goes!
We love to hear that you are enjoying the process and your matchmaker! Thank you for being an IJL client!
Thank you Genie for listening to my criterion. I really appreciate the prompt attention to my calls and questions. I also appreciate that IJL verifies the matches. There is so much fraud online. But not with IJL. Good matches. Great job Genie!
Thanks Ann! Appreciate the feedback on the process and your matchmaker! Thank you for your continued partnership in Dating.
I was so hopeful that I could find someone through a service that vetted men, but that was the only thing that was helpful. My dates were all at halfway points which were as far as I was willing to go to date someone. Most lived 1 1/2 to 2 hours away. I am a city girl and only one man even liked going into the city and even then he was gone every 2 weeks. I cannot believe there was not one man in the city I could meet. Most dates were only once a month. I wish I just would have saved my money since I really did not have that much. Still paying till January and no dates at all since one in September. Sadly I was hopeful at my age and nothing worked out at all. Sorry that I had to write this as I really liked my counselors. Not their fault if there us no one for me. Back to the bars!
Elisabeth was excellent on the front end of It's Just Lunch. Genie is my matchmaker and was ill for a couple of days so the handoff was done by another lady. Genie has picked up quickly, is very friendly and doing a good job for me.
We are so happy to hear you are enjoying the process with the IJL Team, we are all here to support you on your dating journey and ensure you have fun first dates!
I'm new to IJL and have gone on one date so far. I was very disappointed with the person I was matched with. I am not sure what criteria is being used for matching, since they don't ask too many questions and don't ask some key ones that I think are important for a successful match. I wonder if there are a good sample of potential matches to select from since my next match is at the top of my age range. While I'm happy to not have to be on dating sites and weeding through fake profiles and sleazy come ons, I'm not sure this service is worth the expense. The people at IJL that I've talked to have been great, but so far I'm wondering if I just wasted a ton of money and am wishing they had a better refund policy.
Please do not waste your money on IJL in St Louis. They will guarantee you they have enough male clientele but they don't. They have the right to fix you up with nonmembers and former members but they aren't really looking to date or start a relationship. There is no real matchmaking going on. None. They don't have offices anywhere except Fl and it's a call center with a lot of part time staff. They will sell you a very expensive membership and tell you they work specifically to try to matchmake for you but it's a complete fabrication. They want to be sure you're looking to date and start a relationship but your fix ups aren't always looking to date or start a relationship. It's a complete fabrication. They stress follow up and communication but you get none from them. I've gotten ONE email asking for feedback after a fix up. The customer service and personalized match making doesn't exist. It's a complete fraud. They prey on people's emotions to get expensive memberships. You'd do just as well online - which is the sad truth. DONT BE CONNED. PLEASE. I DIDNT BELIEVE THE REVIEWS FOR ST LOUIS
Carla has been great to work with. She is totally professional, polite, respectful, communicative, and extremely hard working. I actually feel like she cares about who I find as a spouse, where I am not just a number to her. She and I are working hard at the process (and it is a process) to find the right girl!
We truly appreciate the time you took to share your experience. We are loooking forward to your next fun first date!
Anita did an outstanding job matching me for a great lunch. I look forward to working with her in the future.
We leave to hear this, can't wait for more feedback on future dates!
I love my Matchmaker Marina! She "gets" me. She really listened to me when I described myself to her, and obviously put a lot of thought and effort into her choice of a potential match for me. I appreciate her genuine personality, and I'm certain that she takes my goal to find a match very seriously.
This is what personalized matchmaking is all about. Thank you for sharing your experience and we look forward to our continued partnership in dating.
I really enjoy everything It's Just Lunch is doing to help me find a good match for me. Anita is easy to talk to and does everything to find me a great match.
We are happy to hear you are enjoying the process so far! Looking forward to your next date!
I have been pleasantly satisfied with the quality clientele. Tanya matched me perfectly with what I was looking for in a partner. The locations of our dates were better than I could've thought of by myself.
We are elated to hear you are enjoying the experience and have been happy with the location of your dates thus far! We look forward to more great feedback. Happy Dating!
I've been a member for about two months and my matchmaker presented me several matches that met my preferences.
Within two weeks I already received 5 matches and 3 dates.
It was a good date and we had similar interests and values. Anita did a good job setting us up and I appreciated her help.
We are so happy to hear you had an enjoyable date and are enjoying the IJL process. Thank you for taking the time to share your experience and we look forward to your future dates.
It was a good experience. I had fun and appreciated the help from Anita to make it happen and I am looking forward to dates in the future similar to this date. She did a good job matching me up with someone with similar interests and values.
Anita found a wonderful match for my first date. We shared stories, talked a lot spent almost two hours for lunch and laughed a lot. The laughter was great. Since we live at quite a distance from each other we decided to not pursue a second date, but we did exchange phone number. Anita is now looking for match #2.
Love to hear this positive feedback and thank you for taking the time to share your experience. We appreciate your patronage and look forward to your next date.
I recently joined IJL last month and the experience so far has been easy & seem less. Jaiye has throughly walked me thru the process and discussed expectations. He took the time to get to know me and my preferences. We are off to a great start and I appreciate his positivity & enthusiasm.
Welcome to the IJL Family and we are elated to hear you have enjoyed your experience thus far. We look forward to our continued partnership in dating!
Just had my first date with a match sent to me by Jaiye. I had a pleasant experience and had a lot in common with my match. I am excited about what the future may hold and look forward to other positive experiences with my match and any future matches Jaiye might send my way. I definitely feel like things are off to a good start!
We are overjoyed to hear this feedback, and thank you for taking the time to share! We are hard at work on your next date.
Answer: It's Just Lunch is a scam... don't do it! It's just them charging your credit card! They work hard on getting your credit card number - once you pay customer service is OVER! There's no team of people looking for you & you can't access anyone -with out them initiating a contact. In 14 months only one 'lunch'. However, because the experience was so horrible, not even It's Just Lunch counts it as 'lunch'. I've been asking for my money to be refunded. Whatever you do, be proactive for yourself & just say "no.".
Answer: Unfortunately, now I cannot share a success story, because there was absolutely nothing that was successful about this company


We are so happy to hear your first date was a hit! We look forward to your next date!