MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

I am so impressed with Melanie and her entire team. I have reached out to them multiple times in the last year. First, when i was still in my abusive relationship, and again when I was out of it, but still so down in the dumps after the devastation. I feel a bit more hopeful after listening to one of Melanie's latest webinars, and so I joined the NARP community. I already feel like I'm part of a group who understands me and what I've been through. I don't feel so alone! I am willing to do all the hard work it's going to take to heal from this horrible mess I got myself into, but for the first time, I truly believe I am not going to have to do it alone. Thank you so much Melanie and staff, for answering me every time I emailed, and offering me positivity and encouragement to go on. I'll never forget you all and this program. I know you all are helping so many people, and we're all so grateful! Thank you.

I am 44 years old my life up until now has been a struggle holding my family together with only intangible things to work with. Melanie has become a friend and not just the name. It is because of her understanding how energy works at a Quantum level and her desire to heal that she was able to help me to start my healing Journey which I never thought possible. Although this is the very beginning of a long journey I know I have lifelong friends to spend it with. Because Melanie not only offers her skills she offers all of her friendships to be yours also. I should go and get my driver's license replaced as this is my new birth date the day Melanie helped me to find myself. Please take time for yourself as I've taken time for myself... Love to all
~Jeanna

I have been reading Melanie's posts and watching her video blogs for many years now. But I hesitated to sign up to the program believing that I had all the tools I needed to complete my own recovery. Yet, I found myself, again and again getting hooked into my ex's patterns. There were times I could totally rise above his games, and I often felt confident I could protect my children, but any time I felt under-resourced, struggled financially, or things were going badly, I felt myself pulled back into his toxic field. This was especially degrading to me, in that I work in a field supporting women dealing with trauma.

My ex-partner is not the first narcissist in my life. My father was a narcissist and my mother had addiction issues. I fully agree with Melanie that childhood pain is leading me to replicate this pattern in my adult life. As such, I have carefully avoided romantic relationships for many years now as I seek emotional health. It was supposed to be a temporary solution to avoid attaching to another narcissist while I healed. Unfortunately, I have never felt solid enough to take that risk. This is not how I want to live my life, I want to heal.

This week, when struggling to make a decision about how to deal with a particularly damaging lie told by my ex, I decided to sign up for one of Melanie's workshops.

The research she shared, reflects my own research and understanding of trauma. Particularly the limitations of talk therapy for patterns of behaviour that began in childhood.

After a useful meditation using her Quanta Freedom Healing method, Melanie went over her 10 modules in her healing program. These modules were laid out clearly and reflected back to me the different stages I had gotten stuck on in my own healing journey. I deliberated for a day and then reached out to start her process.

I am very optimistic and ready to take this important step to leaving narcissistic abuse behind.

I came across Melanie's work after first waking to the realization I was married to a covert sociopath. To say this marriage almost killed me is an understatement. I have been affected physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially. Had I not learned about cluster b people, I believe I would have died. Like many survivors desperate to make sense of what happened to them, I consumed all the info on the subject. Validation is particularly life saving from such an experience especially in light of how NPD's work to twist the narrative. While there are many great resources available on the subject, I found Melanie's approach to healing to be the most promising and inspiring. I say this especially because my body tried to warn me from day one that my ex was dangerous through a myriad of health issues. However, I did not speak the language of the body... but I do now! I have learned that the body is the Divine intelligence and it is crucial to listen. I will NEVER ignore my gut again. When Melanie spoke of somatic healing to get to the primal wounds, my soul recognized this has an ancient truth. She is a brilliant woman with incredible wisdom. Her work allows us to turn this horrific, excruciating and confusing ordeal into the most profound healing opportunity. I don't say this lightly, but she opened me to the possibility that this experience was a gift and that possibly, nothing else could have awakened me to delve in as deep as one can for their ultimate liberation like narc abuse. Melanie is living proof of this and she inspires me so much.

After watching the Live Webinar The 3 Keys to Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse.

I have learnt more about myself in the last 3 hours that I spent asking myself what's wrong with me, why and how could he do this to me in the last 14yrs in a verbal metal and physical NARC relationship that I recently ended.

Trust me sitting still and concentrating for 3 hrs would normally be impossible for me due to anxiety and panic attacks but this was enlightening and relevant to me that I had to keep focused.

During the webinar exercises I cried from the bottom of my heart so deep I honestly felt that I was releasing things that I have buried for many years. I am looking forward to learning more through Melanie's Programme and learning how to life my fullest life after narcissistic abuse!

Melanie's programs give fresh insight and hope to the hopeless. Just when I wanted to throw my arms in the air and say " I give up, nobody understands what my life is like". I googled "narcissism" and up popped Melanie Tonia Evans name. I was amazed at how her program works and that she knows how a narcissist operates and what torment and pain that they inflict on others. I would greatly encourage anybody to do the NARP program. You will not be sorry. Melanie's program is like a gift sent to help us in our desperate time of need. Thank you Melanie.

Melanie came into my life at just the right time. I had split from my alcoholic partner of 23 years. I thought he displayed narssistic behaviours and whilst trawling through the internet trying to make sense of what had been happening to me, I chanced upon one of Melanie's articles. Suddenly everything made sense. I had been in a relationship with a narssist. It all started to make sense.
I started reading and listening to more and more of her wisdom. I knew that my childhood was disfunctional, but I had no idea that it was my inner childhood wounds were responsible for attracting and keeping the narssist in my life. I watch, listen or read one of Melanie's articles every day and because of this my recovery is moving forward every day. I am truly grateful.

I came across Melanie on google, i was looking for narcissitic abuse information so i could better understand what i was dealing with and also better understand myself, i signed up to her 16 day email subscriptions which had a 3 hour webinar: 3 ways to thrive after narcissitic abuse, i had experience self partnering for the first time ever in my life as part of that webinar and instantly it created a shift, made me understand my inner child wounds and what was essentially making my inner chid suffer. THANK YOU MELANIE for beng there when i needed it the most xx

I watched a seminar with various speakers and one was Melanie Tonia Evans. Something about her thoughts I researched her some more. I was quite impressed with what she had been speaking of and signed up for a facebook live with her. During this event I was brought to tears because I know that with her teachings I can start the healing process of what I have been through this past year. Another reason I am drawn to her teaching is because she isn't just some therapist out to make money, unfortunately she has had to deal with some of the things I have and what better way to learn is from someone who has been through it as well. I am thankful for the first seminar that led me to Melanie.

Hello, I'm a 33yo combat vet with ptsd and have been through even more horrible times following returning home. I was married to a man later removed from service due to his BPD diagnosis and behaviors. That made things spiral. He keeps my kids illegally against court order. My father, never diagnosed, had displayed behaviors and actions that so effect me even though we moved past that and healed together before he died. I found Melanie on youtube and my life has been forever changed. I've since discovered her website, NARP, and seminars. She's really put herself and her experience completely out there on the web with a true passion and desire for helping others through our darkness. I was recently very much dissociated and reached out for anyone in the comment section. To my surprise she found me there and took the time to see if I'm ok, offer support, and introduce me to NARP. I haven't felt much of a spark or drive for much since enduring my ex husband's severe BPD abuse that led me down a very dark path of self injury, self medicating to numb and "just make it stop", and crawling so far into myself for safety that 8 years later I still don't know myself, what I like, or how to do&keep up with healthy daily activities as simple as grocery shopping. I didn't realize how deep all my combined trauma is, and is still effecting me even though I began healing years ago. I got a plateau and it went back downhill. But thankfully to Melanie, her team, and her multiple services and routes to reach and help us I'm now pulling myself back out of my safe home and staying to piece myself back together. I don't know what would have happened if she didn't reach out to me, and that's not her responsibility but her drive it seems, but I am eternally grateful to gett and everyone involved who allows this all to happen for so many of us!

I am very thankful to Melanie for all the information that she puts out there on Narcissistic Abuse. It was the best education I could ever have received. I learned so much about what was happening to me and why I was so addicted to my partner. I left him countless times. I could not understand myself and why I kept going back. I was a happy self confident woman when I met him, and was reduced to not knowing who I was anymore. I lost myself and didn't know why. I wanted so desperately to understand what went wrong and why he had changed from the man I was so in love with to a miserable, mean and controlling man who wanted his way in all things. When he didn't get it I was emotionally punished and verbally abused. Your videos finally made me realize what was wrong with him. They have given me hope that I can recover myself again. I am looking forward to the NARP program and healing myself from this addiction.
Thank you Melanie

I am 43 years old. And was talking daily to family and friends unconsciously about my limited time here on earth. Because death would be the silent saver for this abuse - I relish the idea and even share it with my narcissistic husband of 5 years. He would get upset at me because he didn't want to miss his source of narcissistic supply. After a nurvous breakdown I went to doctor and then was searching the internet for soothing music to help me sleep. By Divine providence I came up on a video from Melanie and then follow through and listen to her 3 hour webinar the next day! This woman is a gift from god! She endeavours to leave the leaves on the tree and go to the root of the problem. I now think my life will be revolutionised with my connection with her. Now I want to live to see the outcome of this. Thanks to Melanie