MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

My transformation, or awakening, started a few years back, after I had tried to end my abusive relationship, but had yet again failed. I knew I needed to find out why I kept accepting this abusive person back into my life. After nearly three years of searching, learning, and awakening, I was finally able to leave him after 18 years together. In my search for the truth, I'd come across the term Narcissist, knew he was one, and knew things would never, ever change.
Once I left him my journey to recovery started in earnest. I was able to find an amazing naturopath to help with all my health issues I was suffering from because of the abuse. He then recommended a great psychologist, who was the next link in the chain of my recovery and transformation, finally someone to listen to me, and understanding my pain.
I then found an online course that helped me dive even deeper into healing my narcissistic abuse. I leaned about breaking free of the addiction, healing the trauma bonds, cutting the psychic ties that made me still want to go back, and finally understanding the need to go no contact.
Then I came across Melanie, and her work, and I thought YES! This is what I have been looking for, that final link to my healing, my recovery, my complete transformation into the person I've always wanted to be - ME! I find Melanie's insights absolutely spot on, you can really feel that Melanie has been through the worst of it too, totally understands the pain, but has found a way through it, and most importantly, has found a way beyond all the pain.
I'm so excited to undertake this part of my transformation with Melanie and I feel like I'm in good hands to succeed by doing the work required, and being open to the possibility of a good and happy life.

I discovered first hand that the wounds of Narcissist abuse don't magically heal. Even though my ex Narc was sent to jail and I was physically safe, I found myself mentally trapped in the emotional pain and unable to move forward in my life. Thank you Melanie, your work offers profound insight, wisdom and value for money. I urge anyone experiencing or recovering from Narcissistic Abuse to set yourselves free and do the NARP program.

I have come across Melanie Tonia Evans two years ago after splitting up with my ex narc when I was searched up the term narcissistic abuse in google. I watched a couple of her videos on youtube and I was hooked. I wanted to know everything about narcissism so that I can wrap my mind around all the abuse I went through. Not only did she help me understand the term she has a quality about her that makes you feel heard and validated. I find that she is very good at explaining concepts and is clear and concise. I am so glad I have came across her work and I wish that anyone going through the pains of narcissistic abuse finds solice in her work as I did.

For six months now after a break up of 7 years, I have struggled to just exist. My will to live has faltered and even though I have faith and am holding on to my Lord with all of my might I am praying He would just take me home to be with Him. I'm so thankful in my search to understand why this situation "break up" has depleted my will to live, hope for the future, joy, and any motivation or enthusiasm for anything I was able to find Melanies support "From survive to Thrive". She has given me hope as she truly understands and has been the only one who can explain to me why I'm stuck in this horrible place in my mind. The supportive videos have been such a blessing to me and given me building blocks to be able to attempt to pull myself out of bed or off the couch to accomplish even the smallest of projects, ie doing laundry, change my clothes, brush my teethg. For Melanie to use a very bad circumstance in her life to assist others to recover from trauma such as she's done I know that she will be truly blessed and is making a positive difference in so many lives! I was a case mgr. At a domestic violence prgrm. And thought I understood what was necessary to break free from abuse but now know the deep pain of the internal wounds that manipulation, betrayal, lies and deceit cause. So much evil! Thank goodness for people like Melanie who rise above the ashes and have the compassion to reach out to others.

Having accessed Melanie's free online resources amongst many others, reading many books, forums, therapy, videos, talks and articles, I learned everything I need to know about the issue I have been dealing with.
I have been surrounded by narcissists all my life, from my cruel heartless step father, my entitled sister, the boyfriend who beat me up when I left home to live with him to escape my home at a young age, to the many men and relationships who have entered my life and taken my energy and power. Now my own son, who was heavily influenced by my choices. It was the last, most hurtful discard of all from husband no. 2, who I was incredibly conned by that was the straw that broke the camels back.
I came to realise, that I needed to work on myself, to heal the CPTSD I am suffering. After 18 months of literally trying everything, and only really getting relief from keeping busy, I sought out NARP.
Melanie is my saviour, she understands, she's teaching me techniques that heal my soul, I appreciate that as a naturopathic nutritionist myself, the only way to truly heal is to get to the root of the problem. The problem is me, and I say that in the most loving way to myself, that I need to work on the areas of my being that allowed such predators to affect me.
I am an incredibly strong person, with very effective coping techniques, learned from a young age, but, I am strong enough to know when to reach out for help. Melanie is a truly wonderful woman for helping so many people who have found themselves I the same desperate situation as I have.
As each day passes, I feel more empowered, and I now have light at the end of a very long tunnel that I will not only be happy, but I will be able to find my true self and be the woman I was meant to be.
I wish everyone love and light on their own healing journey, and most importantly, never ever give up, because there is always a way.

Like many of the negative reviews, I have also noticed Melanie has a very obnoxious, cruel side. I signed up for her services long before she blew up and had a few direct interactions with her (nowadays you can't even get her one-on-one unless you pay out your $#*!) so I know this of her directly. Cruel, petty comments. She's the most important person in the room, better not challenge her. If she's so "strong" from healing, she should put up with a little questioning. What she wants for herself, she doesn't even want for her clients. For example, if she's happy she's not afraid of speaking up anymore, shouldn't she want that for her clients? Except they ALL get gagged if she perceives them puttiing her down. It's too bad - Her ego seems to have gotten in her way. I even got an older negative review removed from here by them, God knows how. They're manipulative and don't like people speaking their truth about them if they aren't squeaky clean, which they aren't. I think she's gotten too big for her britches too. At the end of the day, I look at a person and how they treat me and others. And when I look at that, I don't see Melanie Tonia Evans as healed. I see that her unresolved trauma makes her think everyone who critisizes her (even constructively) is a narc and her unresolved trauma makes her mean. So I don't think she's worked it all out. At all. AAANd now her little mignions will be after me *sigh*

I came across Melanie as I researched ways in which to break free from my narcissistic ex, whom has been tormenting me to say the least, two years after our divorce. I enrolled for her free webinar and all through it I could not help but think how close she hit for me. It was like she was describing my life and this made me want to use her tools to fully recover. I am indeed excited to get my power back, to be able to live my life to the max. Thank you Melanie, you are a blessing

I never ever ever thought I could leave my narcissist ex-husband. Within 2 weeks of starting Melanie's program, I packed my 3 kid up and moved out, never once looking back.

In those last couple weeks, when he would start his vampire work, I was completely at ease and content in myself. The boundaries were set. I felt the strongest I've ever felt my entire life.

It's been exactly 2 years since that time and I've used Melanie's work to grow stronger and stronger. Whenever I feel my trauma kicking in hard, I go back to Melanie and again find my power.

I am beyond grateful <3

I sat eating dinner with my narc mom came in and I still listened. Melanie's support and understanding knowledge creates a wider dimension of a scientific to me faith based approach than a fundamental dimension lie. We quicken to believe medication with out resolve is the only answer to these problems. But it only sabotages your thinking and you stay boxed in the forth dimension of scientific exploration that leaves exiled from your true self. So this goes beyond your capped thinking with a spirit of your true Wisdom. The wonderful thing about it Melanie leaves the door open to where you are in your faith. Which can lead the person closer to the connection of the Creator and creative thought seeking. I was so intimidated of the Creator I made Him a tree. But I see Him better now.
So I hope this for all. That your creative thinking takes you on the path to lead you your creator and creative thoughts. So thankful for the time to share this thought with you!

I was raised by narcissistic parents and as a result my friend circle and intimate relationships have also been with these types. I thought I was a narcissist magnet.

Then I found Melanie! Beautiful, kind Melanie
I started reading her blog, watching her videos then moving on to her NARP course.

The support Melanie and her team (family) give you is priceless. It's a no nonsense, practical approach. They won't let you wallow in sadness and despair. Instead they pull you out of the black hole and into the light with knowledge and tools that will empower you forever.

Thank You God for Melanie Tonia Evans.
In all honesty I do not know where I would be today without Melanie Tonia Evans and the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program.
I have been trapped in the same patterns ALL of my life, and am now seeing that it stemmed from childhood traumas, and poor programming.
I do not blame my parents, or schooling for anything, for I would not be where I am today without these events happening for me in my life.
I have always been a spiritual seeker, and the fact that this simple meditative program can be so powerful is something I have always looked for.
By using this program I am healing not only my psyche, but my body.
Thank You God, and Melanie Tonia Evans for ALL that you have, are and will do for me.
Jefferson Davis Burton
The Dance Hawk of the Flame

I've had a very similar story as Melonie, been in a marriage for 31 years with what I just discovered was with a Narcissist. It was a real moment of revelation but most of all relief. I'd investied all these years with someone whom I truly loved but the hardest thing was realising with him it wasn't real love. The mind games, lies, betrayal was sending me crazy and I was the one labelled with a Mental Health diagnosis BPD. So when you come to that point of pure relief that your nit actually losing your mind it's all part of their games. The two most wonderful achievements where my two adult children whom amazingly have turned out astonishally perfect. I've now been separated three months which I know is the best decision I could of ever made but I won't deny that after 31 years with one person there is still things and memories you miss. It is a grieving process and taking this daily journey with Melonie helps with every step you take. But it's a "must" journey it has to happen before it destroys what time you have left, so all I can suggest if any of this resignates with you take that step, take back your control because it's not you and you deserve a life that your worthy of. Sandy W

I have not started the NARP program, but I have read the NARP book, which presents a powerful healing paradigm. I am an avid Abraham Hicks student, and am finding relief for my trauma (narc. Parent, narc. Lovers) using the Abraham concepts for raising vibration. But I needed more specified help, for preverbal childhood trauma, subconscious programming, and especially very troubling psychic phenomena. Abraham is very general, and Melanie provides specifics for my particular situation. I also want to say that it was a blog by Melanie titled, "Breaking the Psychic Binds of the Narcissist" and a youtube video by Melanie titled "How to Break the Psychic Connection with a Narcissist" that brought me to her work. (I even had my psychotherapist listen to that youtube video during a session with her, as it is so clarifying.) I was looking for someone with the "energetic" understanding, because I am an empath, psychic, and medium, and I am having major issues in the energetic realm, related to my narc. Abuse, that I need help with. I'm so glad Melanie includes this level in her work. I'm looking forward to joining the online community and NARP program (I signed up today).

For years I was searching the internet of what was going on, I thought I was getting insane, until I stumbled on her youtube video's. I received e-mails and then I started to understand. I'm now following the quantum healing and I'm feeling so much better. I really think without her I would be in a mental hospital or the relationship, that triggered so much unhealed parts, would have killed me. I think she's an angel, thank you!

I have been suffering from depression and anxiety for a number of years, due to the up bringing I had from my mother. No amount of antidepressants have helped me, some made me even worse. I was at one of my lowest points when I accidently came across Melanie's work. To say I was amazed by her is a understatement! I watched one of her you tube videos on narcissistic mothers, and the penny dropped! I must admit, I burst out crying! I finally knew what was wrong with me, and why nothing else I'd tryed had worked. Melanie is so amazing. I now have the narp programme, and i cant wait to get started on it this weekend. I know deep down that this is the answer I've been looking for my whole adult life. Thank you so much Melanie for getting this information out there! Your a star!

Melanie you are a life saver to the world your work is full of joy and happiness... I didn't have the courage to leave my narc when if I have already know about the narc traits over 6 months of searching. But the day I found you in yutube my heart says this is the right person to walk with and now I am free and I have found the courage to leave my narc after 3 years of abusive you are the best I sigh into her free 3keys of thriving and her 16 days free trial now on the narp I can say I am on this journey but the truth is I am not going back as I was doing the back and fouth I am moving forward with confidence bec of the work of melanie she is a blessing to us an angel fall from heaven to save us from this pple thank you so much melanie god bless you in many ways