MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

I have been stuck in a narcissistic relationship for ten years. Totally embroiled in every way, emotionally, financially... My total existence seemed to depend upon it.
When I read melanie Tonia Evans material I knew this was the answer, as nothing else had worked, and believe me I think I've tried almost everything.

I read all the no contact material and here I am, ten years on, when I previously felt it was impossible, away and doing no contact.

Thus is almost a miracle as I had lost all my sense of self, my self esteem was non existent.

I cannot thank her enough. I'm certain it has saved my life.

How long will you put off the developing the mindset that changes everything?

This review is for you, if you too are fed up with toxic behavior from narcissists in your life and you are considering Melanie's program. Melanie's Thriver program takes a heads-up approach to dealing with narcissistic behavior, so you are no longer easy pickings for behavior that doesn't feel right. What struck me most about her training, was that the Thriver model was just a really healthy approach to relationships. Narcissists are not comfortable with healthy behavior, so you will become less desirable to them while you strengthen your approach to life, generally. So better things will come your way.

Not to be a Kook, but I've got to share this..., I just hung up the phone from a long time friend (of 45 years), who confided in me that his home is inhabited by a ghost, but he's ok with it. He said that he has "told the ghost that we are not leaving." I liken Thriver to my friend who has this spooky secret thing, yet he has the courage to live his life on his terms. If you are in danger, move. He's not in danger. And he's not scared. I want to live and not be scared of the calculating, opportunistic and manipulative brother in my life, whom I cannot understand. With Melanie's videos, I have found courage to stand in his face, and not cave in to his coldness. I hope the same for you.

Melanie's support staff are wonderful. It's comforting to know that there are good people in the world, with so much that troubles us all. I feel relief being a customer of Mel's thoughtful, effective program and kind team members, and I trust you will too.

Good luck.

Brian

I'm probably going to buy Melanie's NARP programme having read a large amount of her onine material and watched many of her youtube videos.

I just want to make a couple of brief comments. I was quite shocked at the velocity of the review by Anna A (who says she writes reviews of education material from memory)

I thought her comment claiming that some of the positive reviews were made up was potentially slanderous. Her copy seems to relish focusing on "facts," at least as she perceives them and then she comes out with what seems to be a very snidy, unpleasant assumptions like that. Mmm... not someone who's maintaining her credibility, with me at least.

I also noted that her comment re not needing to spend $150 on a programme that shows you how to focus, meditate, locate pain etc just didn't add up. That amount equates to around £80 ish and that's roughly what you'd pay for one, maybe two sessions with a therapist practitioner who will then probably need to see you 6 times plus at least after that. $150 is not a huge cost at all for someone's skills and knowledge, especially as part of a programme which potentially can solve a huge life issue for people. If it was $1500 she might start to have a point, but even then that could still be a reasonable charge for an effective, life-changing course of treatment.

View the sceptics with scepticism sometimes... some of them enjoy just being down right awkward because things are being done differently, regardless of whether they work. Melanie's programmes are clearly having significant and life changing results for people and stand out as unique in their essence. Quite frankly I believe she has a programme which deserves to have an even greater worldwide audience, such as that created by TV coverage on shows like Oprah.

My background is PR and I believe Melanie has that scope. However those appearances normally follow the publication of a print book, rather than the online material that Melanie produces. I believe she focuses on online to help as many people as she can quickly.

Long may it continue and no, I do not have any connection to Melanie or her team. There are many more comments I could make about the few negative review/s but I don't want to waste my energy - I just had a few key points that struck me on an initial read.

I wish Melanie all the very best and am just grateful for her. I can't wait to start her programme - my instincts tell me it will be life changing.

Kate

What is so powerful about this work is that it is based on not only Melanies experiences and healings but the input and validation by so many others who have been through heartbreaking circumstances. I found this work after trawling the net to try to understand, with my mind, what was happening and how to get relief and understanding. Thank god i found Narp because not only could i listen to all this wealth of experience which gave me so many YES momenst that i couldnt get anyone else to understand, eg why we stay etc, but also i got to work with the body and get out of the mind and trying to find a solution to what was outside of me. Thanks goodness this is out there for us to access and it is true, if you use your experience to deeper your understanding of yourself and understand that what you have to offer is worth it, then you will thrive... You can't tread on glass and eggshells trying to get someone to get your perspective, you just have to to stop the madness and do your inner work. Boundaries really are the key and by melanie focusing on inner work boundaries together, it is a recipe for success.

Hi,
I was in a very difficult situation and searched the web fro possible help. I checked quite many experts and finally I found Melanie. Her approach, tools, and the help I have received from her colleagues were excellen, very professional and very human. Besides the perfect articles and videos, I have received tremendous help from a colleague of help via several email exchange.
With the help of this excellenet program I feel that I am completely recocovered and my life is faboulous.
Thank you Melanie and Clarie!
Des

I love Melanie's work. I found that is was highly accessible and easy to follow. When I first found her on you tube I was experiencing the worst event in my life and my head was in chaos. I would actually watch her videos at night to be able to calm down and sleep. I love the opportunity is has given me to own my life in its entirety, not just what I can or want to remember and accept. I think the work is better done alone with as little help from outside as possible. The nature of the work is inward and it accelerates when you take the instructions given and internalize them, working from your own feelings and experience. A beautiful way to reconnect with yourself after perhaps losing sight of your path and purpose. Thank you Mel.

Yes, NARP literally saved my life! Not only I was able to pull through after horiffic emotional, mental and verbal abuse but reviewed my whole life. Now I am thriving, no more co-dependant and finally living the life i want to live. Melanie's NARP is the only program out there. It has nothing to do with lots of money grabbers and pullers that unfortunately trying to get the cash out of you. NARP is proper serious program supported by huge amount of free articles, webinars and videos. I can't thank enough Melanie for all the hard work she is doing!

Im another genuine user of the NARP program. First thing to mention is that the program does work. One of the first modules in the program, to clear pain that is causing you distress at this time works incredibly well.

Melanie mentions that you will use this module over and over again as you work through your pain, and it is true, I have used it over ten times so far, working on different traumas from my past.

The program does require TIME. The first module takes two hours, and sometimes this is too long, but I did find that you can create your own shorter audio version pretty simply and then you can cut the session to one hour, I have done this and it still works exactly the same way.

You have to keep working with the modules, it is not something you can throw a few hours at, feel a bit better and then leave.

I have done this, and you have to go back and do more work, because the further you push into the modules, the deeper the pain you release; a lot of people don't understand this. It is like peeling back the layers of an onion.

Overall I would recommend this to anyone who has trauma from childhood or narcissistic abuse, which also in the end goes back to childhood.

Highly recommended!

I have been working through Melanie's Quantum Healing sessions since December 2015. I have been reading her blogs and e-books, watching her YouTube videos sometimes daily. They have helped me immensely - I can say they have saved my life. The confusion is gradually clearing and I understand why I have always attracted such painful relationships and stuck them out and tried to make them work. More and more I am able to love myself and comfort the child that was abandoned and rejected. Thank you Melanie! God bless you! Felle

The knowledge that Melanie has regarding Narcissists & Narcissistic Abuse is phenomenal. My understanding of this issue has deepened after reading Melanie's ebooks and blogs (both audio n video). But as Melanie says knowledge alone doesn't help in recovery from the abuse. What is needed is a shift in the subconscious belief system. This is what the NARP program provides. It has helped me in overcoming some of my addictions and codependency issue.

It makes me sad to read some of these negative, unkind things I've read about Melanie! She is a kind, compassionate, warm hearted, concerned person who is using all her time & energy into helping people who have been abused by a Narcissist. She knows ALL TOO WELL how devastating this can be to a person's life & well being! These few negative people may need to read God's word in Proverbs 15:2.
The Tongue of the Wise commends knowledge, but the mouth of Fools pour out folly... Just saying...

When my husband of 11 years suddenly and unexpectedly left, I had no idea what a narcissist was. Fate led me to Melanie and her life-changing work. Honestly, between her videos, blogs, books and modules, every question has been answered. That said, it's a LOT of work! And only YOU can do it. Mel is a fabulous guide, but you have to show up, invest time, and dig deep. The payoff for this effort is HUGE! It's your LIFE! When I was left, I wanted to die. I envisioned different ways I could die. I was lost, in a black hole. But I showed up, did the work every day... and 9 months later I can see how far I've come. I'm not ready to date yet (but Mel says it's good to take time off), but the funny thing is, for the first time in my life, I don't feel that I NEED a man! I have ME! And I'm having a wonderful time finding out exactly who I am. I'm confident that in time, I will find a relationship unlike anything I've ever experienced in my life. I won't be looking to fix a broken man. My new guy will be whole and complete; a perfect match for me. Thanks Mel!

My Name is Michael, I was left in emotional and financial ruin just a year ago after coming out of a nightmarish relationship with my Narcessist Ex, Melanie blessed me and sponsored me with a NARP program that changed my life around. Melanie is a living Angel and her recovery and care program hit the mark. I'm now living proof that one can heal and grow if you truly want to. My person and life has improved in several ways and continues to do so daily. I am blessed to have Melanie and the NARP forum and community to turn to, they are always there when you need them.

You can tell by all of her material, videos and postings, that Melanie Tonia Evans truly wants to help as many people as possible not only recognize the behavior patterns that spell out and confirm they are dealing with narcissists, but also help them cope with, heal and thrive from the abusive experience. After going through counseling with therapists, reading many books, and working with domestic violence advocates, Melanie's work drew me in, and put me on the road to the next level of healing in a short time. This work definitely picks up where other areas leave off and fully explains what I could never make sense of in other ways. She answered questions that were running around in my mind and allowed me to see scenarios I've gone through from a completely different perspective. This perspective is allowing me to move forward and stop suffering. For the first time in a long time, I feel like I am making progress and feeling human again. It was interesting to see the comments that mentioning Melanie said her life's calling is to help others, then complaining that she was charging money for this and instead get a different job and do this for free. Doctors, lawyers, teachers, mechanics, therapists, etc. have jobs that help people. Do these reviewers complain that they, too, charge for their services? In fact, Melanie is more than generous with her time and resources, and her passion shows. You can review hours and hours of videos and blogs and her website -- without having to pay for her services. You can also participate in the 3 hour webinar--- without charge. The fee for the program is minimal in relationship to probably the thousands and thousands of dollars that people pay to licensed therapists and provides much more helpful and healing information--- in my opinion. Though Melanie's work, I finally feel that I am on my way to recovering from being in a really bad place due to domestic violence and narcissistic abuse. The more people I talk to, the more I find who are dealing with narcissistic abuse. I am recommending Melanie's material to everyone of them. Hat's off to Melanie. Random people are already telling me I look "lighter" than I have in a long time. So, not only do I believe in this work, others are seeing the good it is doing for me.

I left my narcissistic husband over 16 months ago. I did everything logically that I could do to get over him and the demise of our marriage. Yet, in spite of trying to move on and stay busy by enrolling in college and taking care of Alzheimers and Hospice patients, I found myself still stuck in limbo unable to create a new happy life for myself without him.

A friend recommended Melanie Tonia Evan's website to me - and it was exactly what I needed to finally start creating my own healthy life.

After two sessions with Module 1, I no longer had debilitating depression and anxiety in the morning. I'm finally getting my own life back - and I'm so excited because I know that by healing myself I will no longer attract Narcissists that wish to destroy other's lives. By becoming stronger and healthier emotionally and spiritually, my ex-husband no longer has any power over me whatsoever. It is a blessing to see him pout in a corner simply because he no longer can bully me and pull my strings.

Melanie - you will always have a place in my Prayers so that you can continue the invaluable gift you are giving people in reclaiming their lives.

My kids and I thank you from the bottom of our hearts - they finally have their Mom back (and better than ever). God Bless You...