MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

I found Melanie Tonia Evans by "coincidence" on youtube and submitted to her Newsletter. This happened at exactly the right time. I felt like so much fell into place! So many things that no one understands because they haven't been through the Hell, that I have. I was at that time at a point, where I had realized for some time, that I had to find my way back to myself - my own life! And that I had to do this in another way. Because I have been through what I have, I am sceptical of what I read/meet. I think we all have to be, to be true to ourselves and do our own reflections. But this Melanie just put it all in words for me! The extreemly important turningpoint and what separates Melanies theories from all other i have met are the focus on our inner self - instead of focusing on the abuser and feeling trapped as a victim and that there is a way out of deep trauma. The essential is therefore to find our way back to ourselves. Find our hitten original wounds, which are really the cause of the unbareble pain (realizing and accepting the nascissist is just the item reflecting this in us). Then we can heal and never attract theese experiences in our lifes again. Melanie Tonia Evans' way of explaning and practically giving the tools how to work this, is SO useful to me! I am on my way and my life has turned around after finding her niche for the help of others. This is rare! I can only give my truly best reviews of my exsperience so far!

All the best wishes - Mette, Denmark

I have done Melanie's program for about 8 months now. I started with the free emails and videos and dedicated my time to reading her material and doing the meditations. It took about 3-4 months to feel in control of myself again and not tortured by the N.
I have been interested in spirituality, self help and development as long as I can remember and all avenues point to personal responsibility for healing and empowerment which is what she promotes.
I can honestly say that her program has saved my life and sanity. I feel better now than I ever have in my entire life and I know I am just getting started.
I will be forever grateful for her and her program.
If you have/are suffering from NARC abuse and are willing to empower yourself by taking 100% responsibility for your life, wounds, healing and actions, then this program will change your life. She really enables you to heal the parts of yourself that are lacking boundaries.

Update** It's almost been two years since I started Melanie's program. Looking back I can't believe how far I've come and how happy and CLEAR I am now on my worth as a human being and the true love and content I have within myself. I still do the meditations when I feel "off" or uneasy about something and they still do a wonderful job at helping balance my emotions. Life will always have its ups and downs and I'm just glad I have a tool like this to help me stay centered.

Thank you Melanie!

Have you got aches and pains? Backache? Stressed out by bullying, NPD or other personality disordered people? Suffer from codependency? Badly wired empathy? Do you need hours of therapy at a reasonable rate with someone who is always there? Then this therapy is for you! I have done about 40-60 hours of this therapy, which uses module work. There are so many resources to help you along too. All as part of the programme. There is a caring and I mean caring Forum with people from all over the world who encourage and help out at any stage. It has worked as a therapy for me, even dealing with very abusive situations and family problems. Just an astoundingly powerful course of therapy - its the only one I will ever need too - never thought I could or would find such a programme and yet here it is.

Melanie has been truly a blessing for me. She invited me in and spoke to me as if I were her best friend. I heard her and saw her on youtube which by the way is all free to view and she was so helpful to me in discovering what a Narc was. I have had narcs in my life this whole time and wondered what the heck was going on. This is going to help me overcome the damage that they created and I guess I co created. Which makes sense I was getting drawn in because I always want to help. Now I want to help myself and Melanie has given me the direction I so desperately needed. Thank you to her team and herself for being so kind and generous with the information we all need. Much love.

My name is Jeanne. For the first time in 40 years, I've leaned why I keep going back to a man who acts so mean to me. I've done years of therapy, but have learned in such a short time by listening to Melanie that I am wasting my time. I won't get well, healed or happy with all the talk and support groups I keep going to. I'm still depressed after 40 yrs. I have many unresolved childhood issues, and stuff stuck in my brain. I'm excited about getting the gold program, and going thru the modules. I'm excited about getting unstuck, free, liberated, happy! Its been so long that I have felt encouraged, and that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Its been just a short time that I've read Melanie's stuff, I feel so much better all ready; and I finally understand why I keep missing, and running back to a man who keeps hurting me. I Have confidence that I will be and feel very free, liberated and very, happy, very soon!

I have been unfortunate to be born into a family of narcissistic abusers. After being in a NARC relationship for over 14 years with my ex, whom I allowed to completely break me down, emotionally spiritually mentally and physically. Through the love of my children the only things I had left, he threatened them that he would put them in care so that we could both be a couple without them, I knew it was time to cut the ties and make a complete break no matter what the consequences. Co-dependency of a my NARC ex, has left a big hole in my life. During an art therapy session for people suffering with mental and emotional problems, a group member gave me the link for Melanie's site, this was an eye-opener for me. I watched several videos, and realised I was not alone and needed support to prevent relapse.

I am so grateful that Melanie has taken time out to support others, with her healing resources.

Thank you so much Melanie.

Claudette Bristol UK

I have been discarded by my ex NARC three times in the last year and no matter how hard to pain of the discards I still find thinking about my NARC all the time Melanie's work has come at a crucial point in my life as I am about to lose my home and cannot seem to find the strength to get through this. My first step is to look at why I have allowed my ex to treat me so poorly and heal the unhealed childhood traumas that create my fear of abandonment.
Thank you Claire (on behalf of Melanie) for giving me this opportunity to create a better future for myself and my son

I began watching Melanie's videos online while I was in the most painful part of my relationship with a narcissist, possibly even sociopath (now ex). Her key points and language really spoke to me and her explanation of both the narcissist and our Inner Identities really hit home for me. Now in my 40's, and shattered beyond belief by the most damaging relationship of my life, thus far, I really began to look at myself and the obvious patterns in my life. I've been such a lover with a huge heart, an empath, an intense feeler who gives so much warmth and kindness to others. In reflecting, I couldn't wrap my head around why I have suffered a long history (stemming from childhood) of abuse, emotionally painful relationships of all kinds, and being treated so terribly. I've been to YEARS of therapy, read countless self-help books, done SO much "work" on myself, tried implementing The Law of Attraction principles, etc. Nothing has worked to heal my deep inner wounds that I've fought so long, hard and wholeheartedly to heal. After reading Melanie's articles and watching her videos, I have gained so much clarity as to WHY! I've been working in a conscious state to try and think my way through healing. What really caught my attention and made me a believer in Melanie's methods is her explanation of theta healing and her Quanta Healing. I'm so excited to begin the NARP program and get my life back, rather than merely exist and cling to one person after another for relief from my own internal suffering, and start really living for the first time since childhood! I'm already so thankful for Melanie, her work and her team!

Melanie Tonia Evans work is profoundly spiritual and honourable, she is full of life and I would say she is an inspiration for humanity, I've certainly found it so for myself. To connect with myself through the healing meditations, and through the webinar group I attended, and before that with Mel on the youtube videos, has been empowering and supportive of my healing. I have felt that power has been handed over to me - ie, power I may have wanted to hand away has not been accepted, instead it has been directed to myself for the empowerment of my inner self and healing of my deep inner wounds, for the care of my inner child. It is hard work to engage with this programme because the nature of the work is facing myself and connecting to the pain and fear I'd rather not face; that's not going to go away, and it is helpful that there are people in the community in Narp have been there and are now acting as guides, like Mel. It's such amazing work, I don't hesitate to recommend it.

I remember exactly how I felt the morning before I stumbled on Melanie's blog. Although I had been feeling armed with knowledge about the Narc and his ways - I still didn't feel healed. Just more vulnerable than ever because I couldn't move out. That morning I had a new determination. (Desperate!) To turn away from learning about him and start learning about ME (the "victim")... I needed PRACTICAL GUIDANCE. I grabbed onto that 3-part video healing session Melanie had on You tube like it was a lifeline - cried the whole way through - and experienced INSTANT INSTANT results. I know not everyone might, but I did. I turned a corner that day and I never looked back. I have always had absolute belief in the psychic world being unlimited by time and space so there was no doubt in me. The explanation in the beginning about the peptides - well that has revealed and dissolved many questions for me. The most obvious one being, "Why me?"... So I am very happy to be starting her course soon. Extremely grateful and looking forward.

In this lifetime I have spent 60 years in the shadows only popping into the sunlight for a moment. Even after we escaped and we were free, I had not realised I was still in prison in my emotional and soul body, the pain still ran our life and so I encountered more Narcissistic people keeping me in the shadows. But not any more I am fortunate to have come across Melanie and her amazing programme, her words spoke of the pain and suffering that I knew and the inner thoughts we have about ourselves. It was like the clouds parting and a ray of light penetrating the shadows enticing me to come out and feel the sunshine not for a moment but from now on.Her videos and emails are the stepping stones to your new and peaceful future because inner peace is what we seek, laughter from your heart and true honest love. Accept the guidance offered by Melanie it is as important as the gift of life itself, with loving kindness and compassion.

Wonderful emersion into positivity. A real journey into understanding yourself and those inner patterns of abuse, and how to open yourself to the opportunities of a full life. You tube videos are very knowledgeable and sometimes funny to take the edge off but professional. The email I received helped in me not feeling so alone and isolated when I went no contact with my whole family.

Melanie comes into your life at just the right time don't pass up the opportunity to move forward after abuse.

Melanie's site has been a lifesaver for me. There are countless resources on her site to help you in times of need and in times of strength for your recovery. As someone who has been suffering for years, Melanie's words and resources have been the very things to keep me encouraged, informed, and empowered during tumultuous times. I am excited to conquer the very root of what drove me to the site, and I believe that I will do so with the help of Melanie Tonia Evans. If you are experiencing abuse or are in a confusing and dysfunctional relationship with someone or yourself, please visit her site and start anywhere. There is hope and there is help.

Unhealthy relationship? Check. Toxic spiral due ro crazy communication? Check. I felt trapped in confusion and a slave to fear. I doubted myself and my own perceptions. On top of that I got lost in a medical system that further disempowered me because of medications that clouded the real issue, and counselors who just didn't have the wisdom or tools to help restore me to sanity. Then I saw a light in the dark. A beacon that emitted a truth that brought home a powerful message: we must begin to focus on ourselves, our own healing and not make the narcissist the priority anymore. We must look within, do the transformative work necessary to shift ourselves intona better reality. Not just "surviving" but a "thriving" reality. That's the message that Melanie Tonia Evans was speaking, and it rang true in my core. It's called the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP).

If I can say one more thing it's this: Melanie has been there, moved from surviving to thriving and THAT'S a fact, and she generously, skillfully and most genuinely wants to help you get there too. Don't stay lost, don't waste your precious days looking for peace-be a FINDER of PEACE-and it starts with a trustworthy guide and a path that provides the knowledge, tools and support that will get you there. Sign up for the NARP Program, it is VERY POWERFUL and will rejuvenate and restore you, so you too can THRIVE beyond your wildest expectations.

-Dax, NARP Member

I have only just got started with this. I completed the first webinar and the run up work shops, and it has helped me immensely. As has having access to a private group for others who are starting the course and going through similar experiences. Melanie and her staff are on hand to nuture and understand. They are amazing. The premise of her work involves healing from the inside to outside of course it makes perfect logical sense. I have already felt a shift in who I am and what my boundaries are and the changes are for the positive. The workshop exercises are easy to do. I cannot recommend this course enough. If you want to change your life this is for you!

Melanie Tonia Evans' Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program has come at such a crucial time in my life. I am a mother of two young children, one of which has severe disabilities. Having a child with such high needs means being a "good enough" parent just isn't an option. Yet so often, despite my best efforts, my narcissistic mother's hooks keep unravelling me and effecting my own parenting. It didn't seem to matter how much I educated myself about narcissists I haven't been able to avoid all those maternal hooks, and after 47 years there are many!. When I first started watching Melanie's videos I must admit I had eagerly waited to hear how I could defeat my mother's guilt games and gain to some clever tactical manoeuvres to show my mother up - hopefully in front of a whole family audience. However, now I have started Melanie's Recovery Program I have come realise unless I focus on me, not my mother's issues, to give myself what I didn't get as a child I will never truly be free of this toxic relationship. Melanie's Thriver Model is helping me to build myself up so that I can be whole & full on my own without the need to seek approval or comfort from some else. This means I can still love my mother and wish her wellness and happiness (if that is possible for her) but her mind games will become redundant as there is no place for any maternal hooks to lodge themselves. Already in this early stage of my recovery with Melanie's program things are shifting internally and I can see situations with a lot more clarity. I am a calmer and more self-aware mother. The partnering I do for myself means that I am starting to have so much more maternal capacity to support my children's emotional needs than before. I am so excited to continue on this journey with Melanie's very experienced and expert guidance. She is warm and embracing and she gets it, boy does she get it! It is so hard not to nod "Yes!" time after time as she speaks and grin with an acknowledging chuckle at her shared experiences. And I am so glad that she is making this a journey all about me - after 47 my years on this planet I think it is finally about time, too.

Melanie's resources have helped me so much! I have read SO many of her blogs which have given me more understanding and provided SO much relief. I am so grateful to have found her blogs because they have helped me keep no contact from my abusive narcissistic ex partner. I saw that she had a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program and I knew I had to had it. I was saddened to find out it cost money because I am completely broke since my ex put me in debt with bills to pay. I emailed her and asked if I could receive the program free of charge and she did! I am so grateful for stumbling upon her website. I cannot begin to tell you how much she has helped me understand and cope with the breakup with my abusive ex partner. Her words have comforted me and have strengthened me to keep no contact with my ex partner. I LOVE HER! If you find yourself needing help understanding and coping with the pain you feel over being abused, look no further than to Melanie Toni Evans! You will not be let down!

Melanie Tonia Evans knowledge and understanding on how to heal from Narcissistic abuse has helped me more in my recovery process then anything I have done in the past. Turning the focus on me and taking it off of the Narcissist helped me make the necessary shifts I felt was needed in order to thrive in life. I struggled with staying stuck in the pain of what had happened to me. Melanie's approach in healing is just what I needed to change the things that where not working for me. I finally see light at the end of the tunnel and am experiencing the peace that I have wanted for such a long time.