MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

Among the djungle of self-help and coaching programs on the internet this is truly outstanding, developed by an outstanding person. I had breakthroughs from the first moment which helped me to get life back into my hands in a noticable way right away, for example stepping out of my victim mode, numbness and depression to be able to take on an additional job to prevent the worst being in a financial crisis due to my overall situation with only one session.

Melanie`s work is more then dedicated, her way to see and explain things multidimensional, including a spiritual level, still keeping the feet right down to the ground. The insights she gives are eloquent, holistic, highly intelligent. The tools she offers are made to become more and more independent, starting a healing process that is way faster and deeper then a common psychotherapy and give the ability to heal long term and finally for good. The program is intense, but hits exactly the points, in an astonishing fitting way to the individual processes that i go through.

I am very glad and deeply thankful to have found her, it helped me not only to survive a major crisis and depression with ptsd symptoms but to heal in a much deeper way; the results speak for themselfs. I usually am not too much into this "market" but this is truly an exception, absolutely worth it, right in and ahead of our time.

I have only been working with Melanie's Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) for about 2 weeks now and I already feel so much better. My days are less stressful and my nights are more restful. As well if ever I have a question Melanie's fantastic support team always get an answer and usually within 12 hours. I am making such incredible strides in my recovery I honestly believe that I will be fully recovered much earlier than I had anticipated. I would recommend this program to anyone that has suffered abuse at the hands of a Narcissist. Thank you, Gerry

After 13 years and 4 relationships with different types of narcissistic people (both overt and covert types) I was again left suddenly while we were planning a future and trying to have a baby. I was devastated because, this time I believed that this was another kind of relationship, different than all the other aggressive ones. In fact, the only difference was he was a covert/shy narcissist, therefore, even though I thought I was very careful with the signs, I could not see this happening. After suffering like someone I love died, I came across Melanie's website and there it was. Someone who tells me about all the pain I have gone through, all the time I lost. This was not a time lost only for relationships but also, because I rarely had no energy and mindset to take care of myself, my career and other aspects of my life, I've always felt I could have done better if I had better personal relationships.
Melanie enlightened me about my inner wounds and how I should take care of myself and heal myself instead of feeling like a victim and keep being obsessed about how my abuser thought or felt.
This was the time to think about myself, something I could never do before. All the readings I have done from Melanie's work made me have a hope again about taking my life's pieces together, getting up, taking care of myself and my own career and happiness. I have been taking classic therapy for two years however those never worked this way because on conscious level I already thought I was lovable but I could not believe it deep inside and no classic therapy could ever solve it. I will start the NARP program very soon and I strongly believe that it will completely change my life where I could never use my resources completely and spent months even years with panic attacks, deep fears and nightmares. They will all be gone soon and I will keep reviewing during the program too.
Melanie and her staff, thank you so much for being the ones who can understand my problems for real for the first time.

I spent 22 miserable years being abused in the worst of ways by my spouse. Initially, I believed I was a victim of wife rape, as I pursued my own answers, it became clear through Melanie website. I was mesmerized for days, I had finally found someone who could describe how, why, & what I had been and was about to experience. He was forced to leave in august. I fell apart. Then I began receiving emails that would be so precise to my dimensions, it were as if Melanie was personally reaching out, and I was able to find validation and true understanding of my situation. I remember opening, day 3, and her first words were exactly what I was feeling and implementing. Anger, resentment, need for ownership of behaviors... she laid it straight, who he is and will never be... why my brain is not able to function, without his direction... for the first time in 22 yrs, someone knew what was going on and was acknowledging my hurt and pain and need to heal and thrive... I felt myself crawling out of a pit of narcissistic $#*!... I noticed I started taking care of myself... I wanted to be friendly to folks... maternal desires began to develop rather than maternal responsibilities just being done... I learned to keep boundaries and no contact was the most wonderful feeling... hard and difficult, I will admit, 6kids, I have to learn how to do this...! And I am... he pushes and tries, and I have been able to protect my will...
This woman has used her experiences to give woman like me the tools to rise above such sadistic abuse. I was at a stage where someone was going to prison, the other, six feet under... I had to utilize an evaluation my son 8, had for of all things, anxiety and depression, to involve child services for the abuse to end, it was not going too. I felt guilty, shame, resentment, anger, hostility, unsettled, and more... Melanie and her staff, Claire, I can never thank you enough for helping me get through this... Claire, your personal response to my questions meant so much to me... I have found love again, he is the most passionate and gentle spoken man. He has been a God send, patient with words of security and respect... Im sacred, of course, that my past relationship will show in this one, but he isnt like the last one and so I'm able to control triggers, as Melanie taught to watch and be ready for... i have issues, but I'm getting there and it feels great.!
I will continue to write reviews and spread the word for Melanie and her staff and their care for those of us who have been on this roller coaster. There is an exit and it may hurt to at first, but getting off the roller coaster is the hardest part... staying off gets easier and easier... I promise...
Robin Jaynes
Aztec NM USA
Thriving and living

After years of repeating the same kind of relationships, though they each came in different packaging I have seen the light. Years of crazy crazy behaviour that I could never make sense of IS OVER! I was at such a low. No self worth left in tact I somehow managed to leave the abuse. Then the real pain started. I tried over and over again to extend every opportunity he begged for to allow him to try again. It was so true what Melanie has taught me. Each time he would HOOVER and I would give in and then BAM it was even worse than before. Each time I let him try again it hurt me more. I implemented NO CONTACT and sadly his behaviour got worse. I haven't carved a single time. Nor will I. After spending ever spare minute using Melanie's resources, she showed me the light. Firstly she described my real life verbatim and I instantly felt understood. Once I fully comprehended what A narcissist was I was able to turn the page and begin to focus on my inner healing. This is where I began to put myself first. The journey I am now on with all the tools Melanie has given me is a daily joy. I dive in as many times a day as I can, anytime I can. Everyday I become stronger and more hopeful. The excitement lies in the fact that the journey has just begun. Melanie I think you with everything that I am for making your life's mission a healing, hopeful, blessed road for so many of us.

I have bought the NARP programme and will start module one tonight.

I started googling and came across Melanie Tonia Evans. I saw other experts on google at the same time and went back to her as she is so profound and seemed the most effective and all about the solution rather than the problem (focusing on the acts of the narcissist). I needed to be educated firstly in order to see what i had to do to detach and change. Melanie has tirelessly from her own experience, provided youtube videos, webinars, blogs and every bit of information you would need. I have suggested it to a couple of friends. She's all about the solution. She helps you understand the truth of it all perfectly. Going round the problem has never ultimately helped, it's just created more of the same. When she describes the narcissist and the nature of the abuse, every sentence was like she was describing my situation and ex husband. Melanie is spot on, articulate and gets to the core of everything. It's also helpful that she's a mother too as if she can do it being a mother, then why can't i. I never trust the internet but trust her implicitly via all her online contribution, her own and clients' experience and her knowledge. I would recommend her to anyone. I haven't embarked on the proper healing work yet but from just a week of reading/researching her work on-line, i've already got awareness which has helped see everything clearly and detach somewhat. Awareness isn't the solution but it's an entry in to the solution. Her process is all about action rather than just knowledge. I'm looking forward to doing her modules; it's my only hope at the moment but I trust it after everything I've seen on her website.

I am so grateful to have found Melanie and her work for it has allowed me to change my life for the better in so many ways. She has an alternative style of therapy that I highly recommend if you're like me and have found that years of traditional cognitive therapy just hasn't cut it. She works with quantum healing techniques which get to the root of the cause and fosters positive life changes within the mind, body, and spirit. I have gone through many lifetimes of trauma and Melanie's work has allowed me to actually release it from my body and I couldn't ask for anything more.

I wanted to heal from this narcissistic relationship and starting going to a therapist twice a week. I read everything about this illness and talked to friends about my emotional pain. Instead of getting better I was getting sicker! I started to be afraid of leaving the safety of my home and had panic attacks every time a white work truck drove by me on the road fearful that it was him. He had so much power of me. I obsessed over him and the conversations in my head all day and prayed for them to stop. No sleep, friends abandoning me and agoraphobic I was hopeless. Then in an article Melanie told her story and it was my story and I became hopeful! I was doing everything wrong by talking about it in therapy over and over again! I recognized that I was brought up by a narcissistic mother and this was a pattern of mine seeking out men that were not capable of loving me. I am now healing my inner wounds by surrendering the old self blame and healing the hurt child within. I am grateful for the tools that Melanie gave me and I am no longer a victim.
Lisa R United States

I'm at the beginning of my journey. I feel a huge sense of shock and all right now. For the first time in my life I feel like I resonate with something that seems to make sense I can't wait to get started I'm so excited thank you Melanie for everything that you've taught so many of us and enlightened us. I've just been surviving my whole life I'm so excited about thriving. I've lived in cognitive dissidence forever. Completely feeling unavailable to myself until now thank you so much I could go on and on. Lots of love to you lady.

I am new to NARP. Just discovered her website a couple of weeks ago and I am trying to end my almost 6 year relationship with an extreme narcissist... the love I will always have in my heart. I say that now, but I am New and have only skimmed the surface. When I stumbled on her website the question I. Googled was "is there hope for and can this be treated with success" I am a very empathetic person, 3 failed marriages and countless failed relationships. I am. 55 and my narc is 43. I couldn't stop reading every article & watched numerous videos for about 10 hours. I was so excited that I finally understood why I keep going back to him and a lot of my questions were answered That day thanks to Melanie! I have oftentimes wondered if I was losing MY mind (She mentions this too)... the next day I was a little depressed/sad. So much info to digest all at once. But it also hit me... did I even know him? Did he ever love me? Was everything the last 6 years just a bunch of lies? I got a little paranoid. I did NOT read anything for 2 days. The 3rd day I was in denial actually. Then... he shows up unannounced, and the weird accusations & cut downs start and I ask him to please leave. This goes on for 3 days. But- after he left I immediately got on her website and was determine to STOP THE MADNESS ONCE AND FOR ALL! Thank you Melanie. You gave me hope and strength of knowledge.

I grew up with a narcissistic mom and no dad. Recently divorced from my narcissistic husband. I've struggled with sorrow, sadness and anger but after some research and reading so much information about narcissism I got stuck. As I was reading someone mentioned Melanie's work and I searched on it, watched the YouTube videos, subscribed to her channel and read most articles. I also attended the 3 hour webinar which is free and I was AMAZED at how spiritually healthy and powerful this felt for me. My anger started dissipating and I felt more relaxed and yes more knowledgeable as well. Which is important for me. I'm ready to stop being mad and sad. Ready to learn a better way to live. Free of depression. I'm absolutely sure Melanie's healing program is the answer to my prayers! I'm ready to thrive not survive! I've been surviving for too long!:-)

Melanie has a plethora of free tools and resources which can set you on the path to healing immediately if you are willing to commit to using them. I know because I have benefited tremendously within the span of a few days.

Where there was confusion, there is beginning to be clarity.

Where there was nonstop anxiety, in the past few days despite profound pain, there has also been profound healing and peace.

I cannot put into words at present what I have experienced.

It is time now to set sacred space and commit to healing the inner child so the woman can become whole.

In the darkest hour, someone can hear you, see you, feel you, touch your being and impart healing bringing hope to your soul.

We are one cosmic family. For all the apparent evil, there is an equal and opposing force of love at work if we are but willing to begin by shining light on our own darkness to set our captive free.

Thank you, Melanie, for being a part of a larger cosmic family and the perfection of imperfection unfolding.

Thank you for an opportunity to have hope and resources for healing after years of seeking.

I am extremely grateful to you and to many others who have been there for me on this journey. Thank you for your quantum understanding.

From the moment I first heard of narcissistic abuse, I've been watching Melanie's videos, along with a number of others, on YouTube to better understand what I have been going through. What stood out for me was her focus on healing, and not just in identifying the abusive situations. I believe that healing is the key to true release.

I'm happy to report that even in the early stages of my road back to wholeness, I can credit Melanie's teachings as having created a profound shift in my focus and in my thinking. I've stepped away from the obsessive researching and am now truly committed to healing the aspects of my being that attracted relationships with toxic individuals. It's an amazing start. I'm excited to keep moving forward.

As a perpetual student of life I am not often surprised when life sends me a curve ball. How I have tackled each situation in the the past is by whaling and shaking, moaning, therapists, Councillors, potions but not pills. But still yet I seem to meet similar circumstances over and over again. I probably had one of the worst things to happen to me in a long time this summer. Fortunately, I happened to come across a YouTube video of Melanie's, I was glued to it as I couldn't believe what she was saying was so on the ball and pertaining to my situation. From an invitation to participate in a free online webinar with a 2.5 week preamble things got better and better for me. The support offered by the staff and Melanie herself has been second to none. Personal replies to emails and in a short space of time. It's a very specific area of healing focusing on self empowerment. This is not something to take on lightly it is for people like me who are at the end of their tether and it is a life saver. It is wonderful to have an online experience like I have had here, interacting with people with such heart and compassion.

I cannot even remember how Melanie popped up for me. Maybe during my desperate attempt to read about my ex husband and his appalling, incapacitating behaviours towards me and my sons. I know now that it was the universe answering my plea for help. Before I continue with this review I have to say that it is now a dream for me, to travel to Australia one day, from the uk, to meet Melanie, put my arms around this amazing lady and say thank you. I am still on my journey of healing but the support I've received so far has been second to none. The huge amount of information and support Melanie gives, on a daily basis, has been truly awe inspiring for me, she has given me the knowledge and insight into all I needed to know to move away from the Narcissit. I have a psychology background And felt ashamed that I let in the Narcissit, and didn't see it coming, or did I! The point is, no matter how educated I am regarding psychology, and I have a first degree by the way, I found Melanie's daily emails and e books the most amazing helpful tools to help me on my journey of recovery. One of the most poignant point regarding Melanie's NARP programme is that it is NOT mainstream psychology. I have experienced anxiety all my life, i did a degree for 'self help', have paid privately for counselling and psychoanalysis, had support from the NHS as well, but after the Narcissit being in my life, and engaging with Melanie's support, realise that mainstream therapy just does not work! It is a sticking plaster only! I can't stress that enough. Melanie taps in to the subconscious mind. This woman has truly given me hope, I already feel stronger. I do honestly believe it when she says that once you have used the NARP programme you will feel even better than you did before you met the Narcissit. I see this happening! I feel so passionate about this woman who is reaching out to the world that I feel compelled to hold seminars to tell as many people as possible about Melanie! This is coming from a person that experienced social anxiety! Who knows, maybe that is something we can all do. To the few people I have mentioned Melanie to, I just know that once they engage with her support their lives will start to be transformed. Thank you Melanie, so much, what an amazing altruistic woman you are.

I happened to stumble apon Melanie's YouTube channel when I was searching google about ADHD. My current boyfriend was believed to have ADHD and I was desperately trying to find an answer to why he was so explosively abusive. I started to watch her YouTube videos and I could not stop. It's like it finally clicked in my soul. The universe had finally sent me the message I had
Been asking for for so long! Melanie's work has helped me to clear many of my past relationship confusions as I have been involved with 3 Narcs, one almost killing me. I am so grateful and blessed to know there is a program that works which was created with the best of intentions! Melanie is a kindred spirit.