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MelanieToniaEvans has a rating of 4.8 stars from 697 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with MelanieToniaEvans most frequently mention narcissistic abuse, narp program and youtube videos. MelanieToniaEvans ranks 2nd among Self Help sites.
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I still find it mind boggling that this beautiful soul could have ever lived a life such as mine. But she had too or she couldn't know how to describe the anguish, the heartbreak, the betrayal, the insanity as she does. Until now I've felt so alone and isolated, as well as hopeless. Just in the initial stages that I am at within this program I finally have insight as to why! WHY?!? WHY?!? And to have HOPE.! I've been with this man 37 yrs. Recently, out of sheer survival I've finally understood what BE TRUE YO YOURSELF means I've been trying to set boundaries, trying to stop the madness and I'm so, proud of myself and to know that now I have Melanie to guide me and love me thru this I feel absolutely unstoppable!
I was at the end of my proverbial rope.
I had read everything I could get my hands, and eyes, on about Narcissistic Personality Disorder in an attempt to understand and heal from the psychological abuse I had endured during marriage, divorce and events continuing on well after the divorce was finalized.
I had all the knowledge, I knew all the tricks... gray rock, no or detached contact, communicate by email only regarding the minor children... and yet, I still was in a place of "too ill to live, unable to die".
That was when I found Melanie Tonia Evans and the NARP program.
Finally, I was able to take the next step in healing, the next step to thriving in the life I was meant to live.
I am grateful beyond words for this program and for the generous way Melanie uses her knowledge and experience in helping others reclaim their lives.
Understanding NPD and the affects on those targeted is key to a survivors healing process. Melanie does this in spades.
Thank you, Melanie, for sharing your gifts with the world.
Melanie Tonia Evan´s NARP program first came to my attention flipping through Youtube channels in search of information on codependency/narcissists.
I found her explanations very thorough and easy to understand and relate to. I also felt embraced because she was very personal and grounded, she understood!
She strikes me as a deeply caring woman who through her own journey feels compelled to reach out and help. Melanie is, very importantly to me, a Thriver, which is what I was looking for. Someone who knows a way out and into a better state of being, a better life free of unhealthy emotional attachments!
I first received Melanie´s New Life newsletter by mail everyday for 2 weeks, which was such a soothing support for me, I attended the free Facebook workshop, which I really liked, being able to connect in real-time, and really knowing that I was not alone meeting others and Melanie´s sweet staff!
I have begun the NARP mp3s/Journaling and I feel very safe and taken care of healing my most vulnerable inner self. I am able to relax and feel hope. And what is most wonderful is, that the deep deep inner healing... is done by oneself... that is such a sovereign and empowering feeling! Yaiii!
Much love K
After 4 years with a narcissist there was nothing left of me. Physically and mentally there was nothing left of me I recognized. I didn't even feel like my thoughts were my own. I only wanted the pain to end, which made me highly suicidal as I could not see a way out. Narcissism was a term I came across accidentally which eventually led me to Melanie. I watched her you tubes and I couldn't believe what I was hearing. There was other woman who understood! And finally I did not feel so alone. Finally I could see a light. Trying to explain to someone on the outside what was happening in my home, in my relationship was useless... words could never properly explain the depth of my pain and confusion. I was not functioning any longer. I felt like being in love was a terminal disease for me, without a cure. But luckily I was discarded. Thrown away by the man I nearly died to love. And healing slowly began when I started to read Melanies emails. Listened to her you tubes and heard the other eirily similar stories. For the first time in years I am getting glimpses of my true self. And I know that I will be better than before. I never thought after years of wishing my life would end... that I would feel this sense of joy. Though I still have a ways to go, I know thru Melanies teachings I will find my way. And having hope is the greatest thing I could ever feel. As I know what absolute hopelessness feels like. And it's brutal.
This is my miracle. Finally I and many others can heal from what no one understands but the ones who have felt it.
Thank you Melanie.
After a five year relationship, I was devalued and discarded. I could not understand what had happened. Deep in the throes of unfathomable pain and confusion, I came upon the term, "narcissism." At this point, my life exploded but I came across Melanie's work. There was a light, I was not crazy, I was not alone and there was all this information. I spent time reading the various articles on Melanie's blog and listening to the audio programs.
I understood what had happened to me and what I had to do. I am so grateful for Melanie's resources, but beyond that, Melanie offers hope.The experience of narcissistic abuse was devastating for me. I didn't believe that recovery was possible. Melanie makes it clear that not only can we survive the horror that is narcissistic abuse, but THRIVE. I love this!
I was at a point where I had lost and I knew that I could not win the narcissist's game. However, Melanie showed me that was not the issue, the issue was my unhealed wounds and that working on these wounds is the only way to truly recover. This was not information that I was getting anywhere else. The journey to recovery is not easy, but Melanie's story and resources have been of great help to me. It's all about thriving now!
I am a 37 year old woman with 3 kids. I spent years with an abusive man. I kept breaking up with him after every violent episode but my self-esteem was being eroded without my awareness - with words like - "try living without me!" I would get scared and cave in - and I would find myself back in what I can only describe as the place blackness and darkness - trapped and in pain. I was reading about narcissists on the internet and I knew I should leave the relationship because I could never change him no matter how I tried but it was a really difficult thing for me to take the fear out of my heart and move on. Every one and every thing kept telling me to move on and I was looking for how to move on - and I kept finding - more information on narcissists and the abuse but my emotions were trapped in a cage. I got tired of reading about the abuse and how bad it all was. I just wanted to get over the powerless feeling I was starting to feel. So I googled how to move on and heal and stumbled on - Melanie's site. It truly was my miracle. She is the support that held my hand and step by step guided me on what I needed to work on - ME! - This is the secret I never had. Everything wrong about that relationship was that it was always about him - leaving him and moving on was because of him - but I wasn't feeling better. The first time I stumbled on Melanie's site - the pain I was in vanished - she encouraged me to look within. I am sober because that relationship was certainly an addiction. I am still healing - but the feeling of being stuck, lost, helpless and hopeless has vanished. I feel more stable and sure of myself. I didn't trust myself and thought I was crazy or abnormal for having allowed myself to be with such a person. Thanks to Melanie's motto to thrive not just survive I am healing and hopeful. I am committed to becoming whole. I am crazy excited to be on this journey to myself. I am free from the despair. I am happy for the first time - in a very long time.
I nearly drove myself mad researching narcissism trying to understand what was happening to me when my ex discarded me, Melanie's own experiences meant that she knew 1st hand how being treated this way could effect you and helped me see another way of looking at things so that I could stop focusing on him and start healing me,
I was dreading Christmas but thanks to Melanie's 'NewLife' 14 days of supportive informative emails I survived, and because of the difference I feel already, in the new year I am looking forward to learning how to thrive, I am going to become a NARP member!
I found myself empty and a mere shell of my former self after a turbulent, confusing, life-changing relationship with a narcissist. He barreled into my life a knight in shining armor, putting me, his "princess", up on a pedestal to save and protect! But, quickly, the tables turned and before I knew what was happening, HE was on the pedestal and I had been demoted to being his servant. I was (thankfully) able to have the strength to separate our lives (for the most part still a work in progress) but had NO IDEA what had happened. I didnt understand narcissism, gas-lighting, and the other tools he used to gain control. I was depressed, alone, confused and didnt know where to turn.
During an internet search, I came across the website of Melanie Tonia Evans and it changed my life! I signed up to receive her emails and each day brought new enlightenment and understanding. I began to understand that I had core issues to heal, and that it couldnt be done through the conscious mind. She is extremely articulate and effective in explaining the process.
One of the things that impressed me most besides the sound teachings of the process is Melanie herself. Its obvious she has a deep devotion and caring spirit for others who have been through difficult relationships and need to heal. Whether in her emails, blogs, video blogs, webinar, Facebook communications she is never judgmental, is always compassionate, gentle while being firm, and is understanding. She and her support team go the extra mile to answer questions, offer support, and give excellent assistance.
The NARP program is life-changing. As the saying goes, Run, dont walk sign up today!
I was a stroke of luck that I found Malanie and NARP - I am now on my way, to true healing, happiness and trust in my inner beeing.
Thank you!
I am benefit greatly from the reading material I am learning from you which material as well I can barely speak but later I will when I'm able to
Like most of you who are reading these reviews in hope to stop the pain,. Make sense of the situation you are or went through. Trying to understand the why, how... am I ever going to live and feel happy Again.? The betrayal, anger, sleepless night. Maybe like myself you have lost more than you thought could be possible, might it be materially, emotionally, and you wonder where and how you could find yourself in this state... the "how can I love and miss someone who... (fill in the blank)... the devastation a narcissist leaves behind is unlike any other... I search the net for information, explanation, read book, articles, videos. Nonetheless it was all a mind work. Until I understood when I touched rock bottom that I needed a deeper "operation". I found Melanie's video, blogs. And program. This is the only way you will regain your life. Go to the root of the cause. She is the only one who offers transformation.
All the understanding and knowledge I acquired in my search still left me with my addiction to my narc... even tho I implimented no contact. My thoughts and cells would still cry out. And I wanted to Live not survive. THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR... i had to stop placing band aid. I wanted to regain myself, live pain Free, and be joyfully alive... You can too. Melanie turned her experience into a blessing for all of us who suffered from narcissist abuse. Thank you
Melanie Tonia Evans has completely changed my life for the better. Her website and the NARP program gave me answers to questions that I've been searching for, for years. It makes sense, it clicks with me and I know down to my inner most being that this is the truth. For the first time ever, I have hope that I CAN move forward and be freed from narcissistic abuse and the addiction to him. I have true peace about my situation and what I need to do to move forward. The NARP program doesn't just focus on the narcissist but helps you reach down and find the root of the problem in your own self, and then teaches you how to heal myself. In turn, it helps to reduce and eliminate your pain and attachment to the narcissist. This is huge for anyone that has felt like their life would be over if they tried to separate from a narcissist. Most importantly, Melanie bases everything on a being a "Thriver" instead of a survivor. Her outlook and perspective is one of victory and creating the new life that you deserve.
I feel like my eyes have been opened in a whole new way and I am finally seeing things for what they are. And I'm not alone because I have the support from Melanie and the community. Melanie is there for each of us, and takes the time to personally respond to comments and questions. I am so grateful to have found this, and I'm ready to THRIVE!
Melanie Tonia Evans program for healing from narcissitic abuse is the One and Only program that reaches deep into our very being to get rid of once and for all the traumas and wounds inbedded in our very body/cells. The subconscious holds all the information and memories, and it is thru our subconscious that All is possible, that we can be All that we can be, and that we can Thrive not just survive! It is a scientific fact that our DNA holds all that was, is and will be... listen and or read Bruce Lipton who goes hand in hand with Melanie's program and her sucess in self healing and helping others heal. Nemaste!
I will be forever grateful to the friend who told me about Melanie Tonia Evans. Melanie doesn't sugarcoat the realities of trauma caused by narcisstic damage, which is what initially drew me in. She acknowledges the pain and damage, all while promising - and delivering - truly empowering healing modalities. Melanie demonstrates the power of what she teaches with stories from her own recovery, delivered with warmth, compassion, love and even appropriately, a delightfully warm sense of humor. I had - literally - life-changing breakthroughs that started happening just from using the resources that are free from her website. I cannot recommend Melanie's profound work enough to anyone who is at their wits end, dealing with the nightmare that is narcissistic abuse.
Two years ago, I was in a horrible abusive narcissistic relationship. My life was falling apart all around me. Valuable relationships were stressed and almost lost, my work suffered, and my health declined.
I can now clearly see that leaving that relationship was the best choice for me. The feeling of getting my power and my freedom back is awesome. I am getting stronger and healthier and am seeing myself in a better light than I ever have before. My goal, with the help of this program, is to become so strong that I am able to walk away from abuse at the first sign of itbefore it becomes an addictive patternjust walk away, no matter how much it hurts. I am so inspired by Melanie's story and what she is doing for others. I am so grateful that her program is available to all of us through the internet. I used to think I was alone, my friends tired and void of resources for helping, and no one who could understand. I now know that there are many of you who relate to what Ive been through. I am glad you have found Melanie and hope you benefit as I have from her guidance and start living a better life soon.
Melanie's work is groundbreaking and her program is profoundly transformational. I have been following, reading, studying, ingesting Melanie Tonia Evan's work now for about two years. Her plethora of never ending articles and videos are extremely insightful and full of tools and wisdom. The philosophy of healing at the quantum level is the crux of recovery. Melanie is spot on with the fact that we absolutely must heal those subconscious, childhood core wounds and beliefs that we continue to carry around that have been encoded, which then created the blueprint of how we operate in the world. And, if we do not heal these wounds then they will continue to keep us in bondage and keep us repeating dysfunctional patterns. Melanie's Thriver Program helps us to do the work that the conscious mind cannot do on its own. It helps us to identify, claim, own, process, and finally release subconscious wounds and core beliefs. For those of us who have been brought to our knees, psychologically infected, and soul raped by narcissistic abuse, Melanie's narcissistic abuse recovery program helps to guide you from hopeless to hopeful, from disconnected from self to connected with self, from powerless to empowered, and from broken to healed and whole... as you work the program you will witness yourself evolve from victim to survivor to thriver. Quanta Freedom Healing Thriver Program is able to help people get to the core, root issues in a way that many traditional therapies cannot. I thank Melanie for being such a major contribution to this world, for helping to shine a light on narcissistic abuse, an insidious form of abuse in which many do not understand and cannot even begin to grasp unless you have lived through it. Thank you Melanie for your passion, your generous spirit, and the profound difference you are making in the lives of many.
If you are looking to actually heal from the mind numbing soul damaging wreckage of Narcissistic Abuse then I would tell you without hesitation to look no further than Melanie Tonia Evans and her amazing program. She has been there and been out the other side and this is the fruit of her inspiration as she hit upon the answer to stop her CPTSD and Agoraphobia and start living her life.
She is truly on a mission of healing and I am reaping the benefits after only a short time with the tools she helps you discover within yourself.
This is not a gimmick, she is not some new age fruit looking to profit off already abused individuals and if you take these keys it will unlock powerful healing for you.
I urge you to explore her free resources on the web to find out for yourself what her self empowering model is all about and then you will know... Quantum Freedom Healing is just that... Freedom from abuse and a profound healing of the soul.
I am a skeptic of the highest order-not in the science of quantum mechanics and metaphysics-but in those who set themselves up as "experts"... but she made a believer of me. Melanie is on a mission of healing. The tools she gives you are your own. She was truly inspired to heal herself and others and you owe it to yourself to give it a whirl. You will thank yourself everyday... I know I have. Stop the whirlwind of constant doubts and PTSD by using her healing tools... it's working for me and I know it can work for you. She is the real deal.
After 3 relationships worse than the other with Narcissists and feeling totally lost and without a single hope of ever finding a way back to ME, I found Melanie and the NARC program. I can honestly tell you it feels like she saved my life and my sanity! Finally I'm not only "understanding" what my problems are, in my head and with my min - but I FEEL it inside my body for the very first time! It took me less than half a day watching Melanie's videos to be totally FREE from my obsession of my Narc and to make No Contact! I can not express in words how grateful I am and I can warmly recommend Melanie and her life changing program!
I didn't know what was wrong for many years in my relationship with my husband, but I knew something was wrong. I went to my local YWCA and started counseling and learned for the first time about NPD. Once I started researching this topic everything started making sense. I realized I was not alone for the first time. I always felt like something was wrong with me... that i was crazy. I was directed to Melaniee Tonia Evans website from a forum I was on and finally found someone who understood exactly what I was going through. She explains things in a precise considerate manner. Afer listening to her youtube videos along with my continuing counseling sessions I feel the fog is starting to clear. I feel with continuing with my self-help and the no-contact with my husband I will again one day be whole and healthy.
One thing for sure I do not want to repeat this process with another relationship. I understand how important it is to heal myself first. I am committed to continuing my work on myself and am so thankful for being introduced to Melanie Tonia Evans. I will be forever greatful for the opportunity God has given me to work on my own issues away from the chaotic life with which I was living and for Melanie Tonia Evans for all her work on this subject and for sharing her stories with us. I am determined to rise above this and with her help I know I can!
I have been looking for help that sticks for a very long time. I have
Tried countless remedies and can say I am starting to see a way out
For me. I was ready to do whatever it takes after losing jobs, friendships,
Declining health and the list keeps going. In partnership with Melanie, her
Amazing Staff and the NARP Program I feel like me again. It takes work but
Nothing compared to the work staying in a toxic relationship was doing. You won't
Regret this program, you will say finally! This is truly an amazing program and
Melanie is a great gift I will forever be grateful!
Answer: Hi Ed, all painful relationships with self, others and life can be traced back to the origins of trauma trapped in our bodies that can be tracked through to and released with the NARP Program. The only criteria necessary is that the person in question fully realises that they have inner trauma that can be attended to and is willing to do the work within NARP to achieve that. I hope that answers your question. Mel x
Answer: Hello Mary, the modules are a recorded healing session with Melanie that you listen to. They are designed to help you connect with your body, experience your emotions productively so that you can release them and through this, help to connect with your wound and vulnerabilities so that you can heal them and will not be so susceptible to manipulative personalities. It's very easy and it doesn't require that you believe in past lives. You don't have to have a particular set of beleifs to use NARP. It's very flexible.
Answer: Hi Cecilia, it is 3 hours. Also, know that you can download the recording and watch it in chunks if necessary. I hope this helps. Mel x
Answer: Hi Natalie, I am not quite sure what your question is? Can you please email [email protected] and one of my lovely staff can answer your questions for you. Cheers Melanie x
Answer: You may be able to identify core beliefs and where you feel these in your body.
Answer: I don't know if this answer will help you. But here goes. The Soul is a person. The Spirit is the communication to God through his son Jesus christ, so when we send our thoughts, feelings in Prayer it goes to the highest power God. We are born in his image, ( in other words a part of him) so we have the power in us to change by a thought (Quantum physics) and believeing it will be so, taking opportunity's that present themselves to you, thenyou will soon come to see how good thoughts can change one's life. What Mel is doing is tapping into that power. (Quantum Physics)
Melanie is an expert in the field of narcissistic abuse recovery & self-empowerment. Learn more about narcissistic abuse & how to break free from abuse.

