MelanieToniaEvansReviews 697

I did Melanie's free programme and, despite it being rather 'woo' - and I'm definitely not a 'woo' person - I did find it quite helpful. The very basic concept seems to be a recognition that, after you have been damaged by a relationship with a narcissist, the best thing you can do is to work on and 'energise' yourself. Her reasoning seems to be that the past, however painful, can't be changed and neither can the narcissist themselves (they're notoriously resistant to improvement, even in the hands of trained professionals) so you should try to take your attention or 'energy' away from these things (which she acknowledges as very hard) and instead focus your attention on helping and healing yourself. She uses the idea of being more than a 'Survivor' of abuse and aiming to become a 'Thriver' which I quite liked and have taken on board.
But - and it's a big and personal one - I didn't warm to Melanie herself and found her style rather preachy. Her videos, though free on Youtube, contain some good ideas but are very 'wordy'. I also have hearing problems and found her voice both grating and hard to hear - but that's very just me.
My honest advice would be - try her free programme and see how you feel about it. I won't be buying the further CD's and books but that's because I don't think they'll help me personally. Although I can see a 'golden nugget' in her ideas, the packaging that that nugget comes in won't work for me. It might for you. Really, if there's anything that might reduce the pain, trauma and obsessional rehashing of events that mark the aftermath of a brush with a narcissist and would strengthen us against them worming their way into our lives again, it is worth at least considering - or sieving for its best parts.

I truly believe that I was meant to discover Melanie and her work. The universe brought me to this program to save me. I cannot begin to describe how much better I felt after listening to the free webinar. I knew immediately that this program is the one and only key to my recovery. I have just begun working with the first module and I already feel a sense of great calm and relief, a knowing that I am going to make it through this difficult time in my life and come out more amazing than I have ever been. Thank you Melanie, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all that you do and for sharing it with those of us who so desperately need it.

My freind John Dunne was looking for a program to help him manage his emotions from very severe abuse. His narcissist practiced all abuse except for sexual. John is doing better now within just a few weeks. I could not recommend this program more!
I will be writing a memoir about John Secrets Of A Domestic Abuse Victim including all his diary entries which will hopefully be published in September or November 2017. Visit my website www.booksbygabrielwoods.com. I think this is such a fantastic program.

I trawled the internet trying to find a program for my friend to manage recover from domestic abuse. As we say in my country he was 'in bits'. His level of pain was not obvious to those who love him but inside he was and still is falling apart. His abuser was trying to control his medical treatment and physically assaulted him twice. His narcissist went through the whole spectrum of abuse except sexual abuse. I am mentioning this topic to describe the horror my friend went through. He did not want to risk talking to a therapist as they are not regulated in Ireland. So we found this and I could not recommend it more. The program helps to manage the emotional wounds a victim will have, the abuse that leaves no evidence but is deadly. I could not recommend this program more.

I can guarantee anyone and everyone whom has had personal struggles all their life and either know or don't know why. If you give this program. Or listen to Melanies videos regarding Quantum healing. You will be at a loss for words. She has helped me heal things deep within myself and I continue to stay plugged into Melanie and all her resources. I know there are so many programs out there but I promise every one who tries and is willing to give some time to yourself. You will find change and begin happiness with yourself

I first encountered Melanie's YouTube videos & instantly felt a connection to her common-sensical approach to thriving after being narcissisticly abused. I was familiar with working with energy but her self partnering techniques & upleveling excercises allowed me to confront past traumas I had buried deep inside me all the time not realizing I had been acting them out within relationships all my life. I thank God she came to me@ exactly the time I needed her most. Because of her techniques I have been able to grow exponentially in just 1 month! My family & friends even noticed the difference in me & have been asking what my secret is. I'll tell you like I tell them "you just have to do the work!" Thank you Melanie! I am now about to go further & continue with her the NARP Program, if this is what has happened to me in one month I can't wait to see what will happen in 6 months.

Melanie ToniaEvans is a true healer! She is a world expert in the truly horrifying reality of narcissistic personality disorder abuse and has dedicated her life to helping people like myself to understand this disorder and how to recover and thrive like never before after experiencing devastating trauma and ptsd as a result of being abused by a pathological narcissist. Her programs have already helped me change from depression and ptsd to the hope and possibility of a life happier than I have ever experienced, which is hard for me to believe or even imagine six months ago. I was truly devastated, and now am working on beginning her Thriver and NARP member programs after having absorbed a wealth of videos, articles, and her webinar all offered free to people all over the World because she is so dedicated and experienced in this field of abuse recovery. Meeting Melanie has truly turned my life around from a place I could not cope at all to where I am today feeling the possibility of total joy and happiness. Thank you, Melanie, I would highly recommend her NARP program to anyone suffering from narcissistic abuse.

I left a narcissist in 2007 in that I lost 3 beautiful children, I met someone new shortly afterwards, began to have a life and did lots of inner healing... so I thought. I left my second partner in 2014 because I knew I had not lived a life that was me yet. In 2016 I decided to get back into dating, I felt confident and happy within myself and looked forward to this next chapter. Enter Narcissist number 2. This time around I was very aware of the energy in my body and I observed the patterns and recognised how i was behaving. It triggered so much around rejection, not being good enough and abandonment. I was confused, I had done so much work and yet this had such a strong hold on me it was driving me crazy. I went back into all my old behaviours, smoking, drinking, eating lots of sugar, all these addictions re-entering my daily life and I was feeling out of control and hating myself for it. I am so grateful that I could do this programme, within days I was aware of the energy being released, it has opened Pandora's box but I am grateful. I have been feeling it all, the intense pain from childhood, the brokenness, hopelessness, anger, fear and feeling not good enough, as I began to release I no longer felt the need to reach for the outside pacifiers... it was so interesting to watch what was going on on the inside and then how I was behaving on the outside, the agitation has left my body and I am feeling calmer... I had buried this so deep within And U realise now layers and layers were there and it was still running me. I understand the power of our energy and this course resonated with me on so many levels and I am grateful for myself and others that we are now beginning to heal completely THANK YOU

I saw a YouTube video about two months ago when I was devastated trying to figure out what was happening to me.

It was narcissistic abuse, and I guess I wasn't quite ready to end my suffering, and I went back.

Fast forward to two days ago: in no contact and still suffering and full of sorrow. Tuesday evening I listened to Melanie's Webinar and after the 90 minutes I was moved to tears like I had been two months ago when I watched her YouTube video.

I have been to counselling, read books, meditations, read things online - nothing absolutely nothing has brought me relief.

After the Webinar up until today, something has shifted. I'm not going to question it but it is something deep, deep, deep, down inside.

Nothing that I could do or ever say, would begin to express the gratitude I feel right now.

Thank you.

Trish H., Vancouver, BC Canada

I was referred to Melanie's work through the ex wife of my ex. I am so grateful I was able to find Melanie, because I was indeed suffering greatly post-abuse and it seemed like unless someone had been through it, they just couldn't relate nor could they empathize with what I was going through. I highly recommend her as a resource, as she focuses NOT on the abuse and the abuser so much as our own wounds that need healing. I cannot wait to begin thriving and moving forward from this very painful experience with the help of Melanie's NARP program and tools. Thank you infinitely for sharing your knowledge, love and light with the world.

This site is a blessing and a Godsend to anyone who wondered "What happened to that wonderful person I was dating and who are YOU?" As I delve deeper into these fantastic articles and revealing radio interviews I realize it's not just me! Melanie puts together a very comprehensive program for addressing the issues that keep you tied to the abuser and helps you to break free from that cycle and heal yourself. FINALLY- real relief! As I listen to the other members in the community I realize I have been battling this alone but I am not alone in this battle. There are so many members and resources who want to heal you and heal along with you. It truly is a positive and uplifting community of thrivers. My hope is renewed and my joy being recovered. It's not easy but it IS WORTH IT! Thank you Melanie and all of you thrivers out there! -Lori

A really small number of people know what is the nightmarish reality of narcissistic abuse. Those innocents who find themselves in the midst of it usually cannot ask for help their relatives and friends. Time and again the inhumanely abused find what is really happening in their lives by accident... They do not know what to do, whom to apply to, or where to get help. They start trying to solve the riddle by ordinary human means and common sense -- and they can not. They make all the possible mistakes, only to discover themselves even more entangled into the vicious circle of abuse. I have been there -- done that. I have made, perhaps, 80% of traditional mistakes. I have studied tons of articles, watched and made notes of hours of videos. And for me personally Melanie's videos, articles and approach very much stood out of the whole crowd of helpers. I sincerely appreciate her work and help, and I hope that everyone else in dire need will turn to her, because she offers unique perspective and very effective tools for not only solving the problem(s) once an for all, but for going much further -- to the life one really deserves and wishes for oneself!

I was so happy to come across Melanie's web site at a time when I was completely lost feeling isolated, misunderstood and unsupported even by my own therapist. I knew I needed to heal but I didn't know how or where to go. After researching for months about narcissism, I found the only resource that targets and actually treats the psychological damage inflicted upon others by narcissists was Melanie's work - in a comprehensive way. Her knowledge and insight is on point and it's clear that she truly cares about helping others. I was particularly impressed by her discussions on epigenetics and how the recalling and talking about the abuse actually has the body reliving it all again making recovery difficult. Her work is based on science and endorsed by mental health professionals. Without addressing the harm from the inside, it will fester and continue to destroy our lives long after we have managed to be rid of the toxic narcissists in our lives, which is my fear. This is primarily why I believe in her NARP program.

Hello,
I just wanted to give you a little testimony as to how NARP has helped me. I've been in a narcissistic relationship for 17 years. It has been the most painful thing I've ever had to live through. Some days I have no idea how I have. I've tried everything known to man, exhausting every option. Traditional talk therapy did not work, along with acupuncture, NAET, hypnotherapy, binaural beats, EFT and numerous self help books. See I don't mind doing the work, it's just that these types of modalities did not work for me. They taught me how to cope to a certain degree, but never healed me. I had all but given up until I came across and ad. I usually ignore these type of things but something made me take a minute and read it. I'm certainly glad that I did. I couldn't believe just how simple this program really is. We've been taught that healing has to be a very hard and arduous thing to do and that it may take years. Not true my friends. I felt immediate relief upon starting. I thought it was just a fluke. It absolutely isn't. It has helped me tremendously. It will absolutely help you if you decide to give it a try yourself. I hope that you'll take the chance to change your life. May you be healed and find the peace you deserve.

When I first learned about NARP & Melanie ToniaEvans Quantum Healing, I felt amazed how accurately she explained so many thoughts & emotions that one goes through trying to survive the trauma of having a narcissist in your life.
Her advice made sense: we need to heal ourselves and learn about our core reasons (baggage) for why we have allowed our boundaries to be crossed-to be treated badly & not step up for how we deserve to be treated. We deserve love and so many great things to come into our lives. The question for me has always been "HOW?". Melanie ToniaEvans offers answers to that question and hope for the door opening to a much more peaceful and optimistic future without all the pain. And not just healing from the abuse of a narcissist, but this program can be used to dig deep and find our inner traumas that need tending to. We can release those repetitive thoughts and emotions that hold us back from achieving joy, peace and love, and become more fulfilled human beings.
Thank you, Melanie, for sharing such a wonderful opportunity with so many who need a way out of their personal hell--not just surviving each day to wake up and repeat the heartache while putting on a happy face for others to see (even though you are firing a little bit inside), but thriving and drawing better opportunities for success in all areas of our lives.

I was so pleased to be sent a link to one of Melanie's videos. They are very inspirational. I have started getting her daily emails and am feeling hopeful for a complete recovery. I feel her method makes so much sense, healing the original trauma that caused me to draw in a narcissist, that I am going to start the home course she offers. Thank you for offering all this information and help and I look forward to a free and liberated life.