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The company has garnered a largely positive reputation, with many customers praising the quality of service, the professionalism of staff, and the genuine interactions with women. Many reviews highlight successful matchmaking experiences, emphasizing the agency's effectiveness in facilitating real connections. However, some concerns were raised regarding inflated communication costs and occasional skepticism about the authenticity of interactions. Overall, while there are minor criticisms, the prevailing sentiment reflects customer satisfaction and a belief in the agency's dedication to providing a supportive and enriching matchmaking experience.
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Hello, I was reading some reviews and I want to share my opinion... finding love is hard, but not impossible, I have a profile in the Medellin agency and they call me every time I receive a letter because its a possible love for me and I need to see the messages, everytime that a gentleman wants to go out with me, they call me asking if I am interested or not, they invite me to the socials also, which is very nice meeting a group of 15-20 clients at the time and sharing experiences with the other 120 ladies and have a good time all together, so, if you are into this you must be patient, because it works!, but when you are in a hurry, maybe you are the one that is wrong.
I like it because I'm living the exprience and is a good oportunity.
Every positive review is coming from an AFA paid blogger. This whole site is a absolute scam and fake. I wrote many women on their site and all of them never addressed the questions in the email. They were just replying with standard pre-written generic emails and would never answer you questions. This site is garbage. Do not believe any of the positive reviews that come from the paid AFA staff or foreign paid blogger.
What you will find is that many or all of the girls that list their profession as "Administrators" are professional profile girls. They are on multiple websites and are being paid to sit around all day and write men in an attempt to get them to write back. Then they start the process of trying to get them to write them on a regular bases. The companies pay the girls to get as many men as they can to write them back and get hooked on their letters coming everyday. But the big money is when the woman get the man to go on a tour with them. They are paid to get the men to bring them to restaurants, hotels, and any other place they can talk the man into bring them. Also the professional girls will never show up at a party when they assure the men coming they want to see them. Beware about the woman's looks also. The woman, ugly ones, are allowed to fix their pictures and post them. Don't be surprised that if you do get a woman to show up at a tour party, the beautiful woman you expected ends up looking completely different than there pictures. I mean completely different. That should be illegal. But what is a man to do because he has already spent big money to come see a woman who looks nothing like what he was expecting to see. AFA won't care because they already have your money and you are stuck with nothing but a bad situation. They prey on men who are serious and want a relationship. But what do they care, they got your money and will tell you to just go find another woman.
These guys are making big bucks also by marking everything
Up to America's prices and paying about a third of what they collect for the suckers.
Go to another agency, it can't be any worse than this one.
Hi Guys, I recently went to the Ukraine with the tour company called A Foreign Affair. They are the worlds largest international introduction company. They have been doing tours to Ukraine 5 to 7 times a year for 24 years and ohh do they got it down. In my book this is the greatest vacation in the history of man kind. You go to what are called socials. This is where 200 to 350 gorgeous woman, every hair in place, beautiful dresses, show up hoping to meet their future husband. The guys are out numbered 30 to 1. These woman don't exist in America. Hundreds of 30 to 40 year old skinny- the bodies of 23 year old American woman that are more than nice. They are bringing their A game. They want the wonderful love affair they have always dreamed of. Ohhh what a awesome adventure. Get on the web site. There lots of 10 min movies you can view. A Foreign Affair will change your life. Then you get phone numbers from woman that you have chemistry with and you take them on dates. My favorite place to take them is what are called beach clubs. There are 7 that I know of in Odessa. Some have up to 4 pools. They are filled with salt water so the girls really float. The water is neck deep and you walk around the pool, a gorgeous woman in your arms and kiss all day. I Kid you not guys. I told the one lady- that was the sexiest day of my life. There are 6.7 million more woman than men in the Ukraine. The men have immigrated to other countries to find work. The woman are left behind and are so interested in finding a man to love and take care of them. Check it out. Its the greatest vacation in the history of mankind. I will be going back on the July 2016 tour. Would love to see you there.
Do not waste one dollar on their email mail scheme. The letters are all written by the agency and you will never be able to arrange a meeting or get contact details. Yes, if you go on one of their tours you will meet women. If you take a plane trip to one of their tour cities you can meet women too, by opening your mouth. Don't waste money on these crooks and thieves.
is it real?
I mean, I am on vk social network and when I contact a woman from my inbox they either ignbore me, block me or claim they don't know me
It's a great site don't no if air fare is included in the price there trip's
This site has some of the most beautiful women in the world! Some are unbelievably gorgeous. However, my experience with the site was unfruitful, and here is why. When I would receive letters from the girls that I would write, the responses, in my opinion, felt like canned responses. Sometimes they would write me about things that I never told them about or asked them about. In my mind, this is a red flag.
That all said... the site hosts these tours to Ukraine, Colombia, etc, which I have never taken, and they have pictures posted where real men are sitting with real beautiful women, this may suggest about this site is that their strong point may be these tours and not so much the online piece. I really don't know.
Another interesting aspect of this site is that it appear to take its IMBRA obligations seriously since it has many policies in force to comply.
So on one hand, my experience was unfruitful, but others may have had a good experience. My confusion about this site has unfortunately lead me to stop using it. Bye beautiful women!
My name is Bonnie, and I am from the Philippines. First of all I wish to thank loveme.com for helping me fine my husband. I saw some things written about them here that I do not agree about. If it was not for them I would not be married today, they were very good. I tried many sites, many "free" sites before I found A Foreign Affair and I met many scammers, men who would send me dirty pictures of themselves, men who would write letters only wanting sex, they just were not serious about marriage they were just scamming, some were just really bad. A Foreign Affair was much different, the office worked with me and helped me to find right man, they screened letters for me and assisted me with help when I needed it and a lot of advices. I met my husband at their Social, free sites do not do that, they do not help you at all and I did not feel safe, I felt very safe with A Foreign Affair and their managers. If it was not for them I am sure I would have never met husband, and I am sure I would not be married, living in the United States with one beautiful child and we are waiting our second child soon.
If you are woman watching this go to the site and register, the office will contact you and help you like they helped me to marry. Be careful of sites that do not charge anything, nothing is really free, I wasted a lot of time on free sites to learn that if I wanted to meet someone serious I had to find serious site.
Good luck.
Bonnie
Um, I'm not a man, or a person that has used this company... watched the documentarys... why pay 10.00 PER EMAIL MESSAGE FOR TRANSLATION when you can Google translations for FREE! Bound to be a rip off! Many of the men seem intelligent and computer savvy... surely they could Google a free translation program... or pay 10 bucks for a translation program...
I had an experience that is disappointing. An agecy representing A Foreign Affair took my letters and completely did whatever they could to keep me from meeting a woman I had traveled to the Ukraine to meet. They delayed the letters I sent to then also told her I was communicating with another woman to try and keep us apart so we wouldn't find out what they did. That was the second time that happened. They said they would fix it after the first one but never did. They admitted to what happened but didn't do anything about it. They just continued to take my money and didn't do anything to stop it from happening again. The longer they keep you from meeting, the more they make. I can understand it happening once, but twice. Then they wanted to charge me 75.00 when they finally let out letters get to each other. Scam and also the woman who ran the agency lied and came to my hotel to find me. She wanted to explain but acted like an idiot and caused a scene when I told her to leave me alone. Now I understand that is all about the money. Not finding the right person. Beware. They will do it to you also. I was a good client so don't think they won't screw you.
It isn't often that I take the time to write a review about a company. I felt compelled to write about A Foreign Affair because they not only delivered everything they promised, but went far beyond my expectations. If any company undersells what they do, it is this one. I went to Cartagena Colombia with them on their Club program which is an individual tour program for 10 days. I only paid about $800.00 for the service but I was treated like I spent thousands. Before I went Liz and the others at the main office in Phoenix were great and help me get everything I needed for the trip, when I got there Monica and her staff treated me like a king. I had 4 to 5 dates a day, way more then I ever thought of dating here and all the dates were quality women, absolutely amazing. Of course I did not connect with everyone but there were a few I was very interested in and now, 4 months later, I have been skyping with one special woman that I met, everyday, we have not missed a day yet!
I took their advice and did not write letters before I went (they tell you not to write letters and to just go and meet in person and I agree, it worked for me!) This is a great site, and a great company and no matter what happens I will always be grateful to A Foreign Affair, and especially Monica, for giving me an experience of a lifetime!
Hi Guys. This is Brian from North Dakota. I went on the sept. Odessa, Ukraine tour. I had such a great time that I now am now addicted to the Ukraine. I have never been addicted to anything before. I could tell you about how wonderful the hotel Londonskya in Odessa is. How much fun we had going to the dance bars. How AFA is top shelf all the way. I want to tell you about how beautiful the woman of Ukraine are. One of the best parts of the tour is talking to the guys over breakfast. One morning I said to a table of 5 guys. Guys I think if you took 50 American woman 25 to 40 years old and 50 Ukrainian woman the same age. You might have 1 calendar girl model on the American side but you would have 7 to 8 on the Ukrainian side. The guys went nuts. After a 10 minute discussion. We agreed you would have 14 to 15 on the Ukrainian side. No lie they are 15 times as beautiful in so many ways as American women.
For me the best treasure I discovered on the tour was the woman in the 33 to 40 age range. I think at each social there were at least 15 to 20 of then. Kid you not. They are truly one of the most beautiful woman in the history of man kind, If you see what a wonderful treasure this is you gotta go. I'm going on the July 2015 tour. I don't see a better time to go. 5 million more women then men in this wonderful country. 40 percent of the woman will never be married. In America we teach our daughters. Get a good education. Go to collage and get a good job so she can stand on her own. She doesn't need a man. In the Ukraine they teach there daughters be a lady. Always be beautiful. Find a good husband and be a good wife and mother. That's what i'm looking for. A hard working good wife that wants to be taken care of. If you are thinking about going send me a email. I can only say that my own personal experience has been incredible.
I recently went on a AFA group tour to the Ukrainian cities of Odessa, Nikolaev, and Kherson. I wanted to write a review that may serve as a possible resource for other guys who are considering going on a group tour. I know that when I was making my decision on whether or not to go, I tried to read every possible resource that I could. Even after I had made my decision to go on the group tour, I still entered this trip with a bit of skepticism. Because usually if something sounds too good to be true then it probably is. Had I let my doubts, skepticism, and to be honest, cynicism talk me out of going on this adventure then I would have missed out on one of the greatest experiences of my life. Not only were my expectations met but they were actually exceeded.
While in Ukraine our group went to 3 different socials. The socials are full of amazing and beautiful women. The ratios at all 3 socials were about 10 girls to every 1 guy. Where in America can you get that ratio? Not only that but you also get a total role reversal while in Ukraine because you are the real commodity for these girls that are looking for a good man with good family values. I am a pretty confident and out-going guy. I had heard the stories about the ratios of girls to guys and I had heard about guys who were taken a bit aback by that ratio. I thought that going in I would be totally fine but I even found myself taken a bit aback with so many sets of eyes on you all at once. To me the best analogy would be when you are in a cage and being lowered into the shark tank. You know that you are safe in that cage but you still have that uh-oh moment. Let me assure you though, there is absolutely nothing to be scared of. These were some of the most kind and easy to talk to women despite their obvious beauty. Once you do loosen up and start to talk to these women then you will realize what I am talking about.
If you have trouble getting your nerve up then just find a staff member or translator which are both very accessible. Overall my experience with AFA was great. Like I said the tour exceeded my expectations and I could not have asked or wished for a better experience. I am so glad that I did not let my doubts, skepticism, or cynicism get in my way. The staff while I was on tour was absolutely amazing and went out of their way to help. They truly went above and beyond. So my last piece of advice to all you guys out there trying to make a decision about whether to go on a tour or not... listen to Nike and Just Do It! You will not regret it and will truly have an absolutely amazing experience.
Bill N.
ALL those dating sites exist for one reason... to get your hard earned money and nothing more. The beautiful women in those sites are probably already married, models and couldn't careless about you. You want proof? Take five sites, create fake profiles and see all the gorgeous women who will immediately write you even when you are much older and less than average in regards to looks. Does that make any sense? Of course not! Furthermore, make a list of 10 or more of the most sexy ladies and go back to those sites after year and you will find them all in there. Any man would have snatched any of those women and fast but somehow, they are still online and worse yet, stay up in the middle of the night and of course during the day... amazing!
When they ask you to provide a list of women you want to meet, make sure you give them one with the sexiest ladies and I can guarantee you none will show up.
There's at least 5 free Russian sites and I have tried them all. Funny thing, NO women immediately writes you. In fact, you will be lucky if you get a few per month and they will not be models... that's for sure. Isn't that proof enough?
Wise up fellows or just throw your money in the trash.
AFA delivered for me! I actually went overseas 6 times, dated perhaps 100 or more beautiful women, yes, a few golddiggers but overall, mostly wonderful women. The staff in each office I visited was knowelegeable and helpful, and they certainly helped me through every step of the process. I met, and married, my wife there, we have been married 2 years now and I could; t be happier. The whole process was fun, exciting, wonderful. I learned a lot about me, about the USA, by traveling abroad. I note that most of the complaints are from guys who only tried to use the internet and did not actually go to a city with an AFA office. Would you buy a car based on a review of a guy who had never driven the car, just saw a video on the net about it? Yes, it is true that AFA is a money-making business, and yes, they charge for what they do, but I could never have had the fun, the excitement, the joy without their help. I never felt unsafe or worried, I was met at the airport each time, guided every step of the way... I have nothing but good things to say about AFA. And guys, she is 20 years younger than me and she is completely happy, too! Best of luck to you other guys. Doug Edwards
When I went to Cartagena it was my first time traveling out of the country, and because of this I was moderately nervous. When I got through customs at the airport Monica (the office manager of the AFA Cartagena office) was waiting for me with my name on a sign. She helped me get my bags and we were swiftly in a cab and on our way to Boca Grande.
During my time in this wonderful city, I got to know the culture of Colombia through the beautiful and engaging night life, to the insurmountable 12th century Spanish architecture, but more so with the inhabitants of this awesome coastal town. The AFA staff was professional, friendly, and helpful. Monica made me feel at home and attended to me personally if I needed anything.
More delightful than any of the aforementioned benefits of this tour though were undoubtedly the women. Colombian women are so warm, outgoing, and charismatic that I truly felt like I was in a completely different world. Not only was the AFA staff friendly and helpful, but every lady I had the opportunity to meet were exactly the same way and then some.
Colombian women don't beat around the bush, they are very straight forward with how they feel and it's very easy to discern if a lady is attracted to, and interested in you. The sheer number of beautiful women is immense, and AFA did a fantastic job of facilitating dates and managing their social events. Not only did I not have to worry about anything while I was on this trip, but I had so many opportunities to get to know ladies that I'm truly surprised that most people don't go check into this for themselves. If you are contemplating this for yourself let me just say that whenever you choose to experience what AFA is offering you'll still likely feel that you should have done this years ago. I wish I had, and am abundantly grateful for having found A Foreign Affair. They truly offer an experience that is life defining.
Maybe it's not for everyone, but you won't know unless you give it a try. I would recommend that you do that.
This is one of the "honest" Ukranian dating agencies out there... At least they do have in written form in their site that all the initial contact e-mails from chicks are automated, and that the e-mails are initiated not by the chick but by the agency... (Another agency told me the same but only after I asked them)... Now, it becomes obvious when you get 50+ emails per week from "chicks" that are "looking" for a mate...
These agencies could be fine BUT my problem is the "translation" services and the fact that all contact occurs through the agencies... Of course, they have to make money, but at some point they should leave the couple on their own to see if there is a match... In other words, charge an initial fee, then let the couple know they are on their own but baby sit them, make sure the male goes trhough them to coordinate a trip to Ukraine or something like that...
In any case, Lovem.com seem to be one of the "honest" agencies out there. They offer trips to Latin America, Asia, Ukraine and Philippines... be careful, some of the chicks may be escorts, especially in Philippines where prostitution is rampant...
From the moment that I decided to go to the August, 2014 Social in Cebu, until the time that I returned, I had one of the best experiences that I have ever had. First, AFA in Phoenix was highly professional in making all arrangements, and in telling me all about the process (how it works, what to expect, how to make the most of my time in Cebu). I identified about 20 Ladies who I wanted to meet, and began writing to each of them. After a short while, I realized that I did not have chemistry with a few, and a few probably felt the same about me. But I eventually identified 9 who I wanted to invite to the Socials (7 came on Friday, and 2 came on Saturday).
I met four of them before the Socials for dates, which is a great experience and I highly recommend. The Staff in AFA Cebu is simply the best. From the moment that I was met at the Cebu Mactan Airport by Luz (she took me to the Waterfront Hotel and stayed until I was fully checked in), through the help with the AFA Cebu Office (each Lady working there was super helpful, kind, sweet, and supportive), through the Tours that they took us on through the many functions, There were two orientation meetings, and numerous interactions to make sure that the men were fully aware of all details, and supported. And then there were the Socials. Simply unbelievable. For us 16 men, there were 115 women each evening. Beautiful, sweet, happy women. All perfectly dressed and made up. And all there for only one reason: to meet the man who will love them, marry them, and make a life with them. No one can really imagine how nice the experience is unless he goes. So to anyone reading my sincere and honest message, here it is: "buy a ticket, make a reservation, begin chatting with a few Ladies who you would like to meet, keep your mind open to all possibilities, and GO. Go. Go. Go." As a doctor here in America, I am hoping to someday (soon) bring a sweet, kind, loving, gentle, tender, beautiful, special Lady back to America to live all of my life with.
I had a first rate experience.
I just started with this site a week or so ago boys, and the women seem off the hook!
Sounds too good, but I learned a few things from Merry-Cherry and, reading all the reviews on www.loveme.com.
So here is my opinion:
(Note: This is not a really fully informed opinion because I have not gone on the tour, but I have a pretty good feeling about it, read on.
One reviewer said: "just go and don't waist money writing, and just write a few when you get there or a few days before". This guy could be a "plant", but he is making sense. He said he did it that way, and got engaged the first day.
I think this a pretty fair. But let me finish this review, then you decide;
Now, you are going to spend 3,000, at minimum, so why waist it in letters? Plus, another reviewer said they buy pictures from other sites and have professional letter writers, and, the girl might not show up when you get there and, she may look totally different, or worse, be another person entirely.
So, here is my big theory to solve a problem with a company that plays both sides of the fence
(a company that does have good tours with real knock-out women, but plays hanky panky with the profiles and paid letter and email writing):
What I would do is not write. DO NOT WRITE.
List all the women you want, and put them in your member "hotlist", only. Thats all.
Then, find the next tour that is going to that country.
Find a cheap apartment or hotel room from there loveme's website and get there about a week before your tour starts.
You have to of course, find the cheapest flight to get there first.
Clear it with love me.com administrators, say: I am going to be in__________ anyway on business, so, what kind of discount can I get?
I mean, hey, we all know THEY are not 100% honest (read above), so I feel they should and could easily cut the cost in half, because after all, all they are doing after that is shuffling you around on a bus with the rest of the guys meeting these women.
So, if you got some frequent flier miles or something, nows the time.
If you like the first tour, then you could be magnanimous for the second tour.
Trust with these type of people is not one of my greater qualities.
Ok boys, good luck!
Answer: It's absolutely clear that she is scamming you. The whole site is all about scam. Chances of meeting a genuine lady are so much higher on http://J4Dates.com I've been on several dates via this platform and every time the woman was genuine and beautiful. Now I'm dating one of them. Avoid Loveme! They hire girls and boys who work for them for commissions.
Answer: No, airfare is not included any longer in the price of the tours, however the Ukraine tours have been reduced by approximately $1,500.00 from last year when the airfare from New York was included. This makes it easier and cheaper for most men. The staff will still pick you up at the airport and take you to the hotel to start the tour.
Answer: I would not bother waiting for a response.the site is a big scam aimed at taking your money.
Answer: Dont e pect a response. AFA is nothing but a huge scam run by criminals
Answer: No they are not. We always released personal contact information prior to the passage of IMBRA that prohibits it without completing certain steps. However, if you take a tour all the women do complete the steps so they are free to exchange contact info with you and many will once they meet you. Some of the issues many of the women have had on line is once they release personal contact info they may get stalked o receive unwanted obscene photos etc. etc. So many will wait until they are sure about the person prior to taking the steps that will allow them to release personal contact info. My best advice is not to write as much and go over and meet the women in person during a tour.
Answer: Thanks John from AFA. Joe, I hear what you're saying but I do hear good, bad and mixed reviews about AFA. One friend of mine has gone to Dominican Republic and Colombia five or six times and met quite a few women from AFA. Then when he is actually there, he meets more, esp in the DR. Another friend of mine after going on a tour to Ukraine which he did not like, went to Costa Rica for a month or two and by using the AFA office there, he met at least two women from the site. That trip was mixed because somewhere along the way, his wallet was lost or stolen, but that can't be blamed on AFA. And I wrote to a really pretty woman in China but complained to AFA when she started talking about "making love". (I am not a total idiot!) AFA fully refunded money from five or six letters, but that woman is still on the site. Not sure what is going on there. Anyway, I am trying to be objective and I will give this at least one try by actually going to meet one or two women. Always interested in opinions though.
Answer: Absolutely. When they sign up they must submit documents proving who they are. We have conducted many tours to China with groups of men who have met and married women from there. If you will Email us at [email protected] with the specific issues you are experiencing we will be happy to look into it and see what we can do to assist. Thank You
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