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The It's Just Lunch Difference: Personalized Matchmaking. High Touch Service. Guaranteed Dates. Our dating experts provide an enjoyable alternative to online dating websites.
It's Just Lunch has a rating of 4.2 stars from 396 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with It's Just Lunch most frequently mention next date, match maker and executive matchmaker. It's Just Lunch ranks 7th among Dating sites.
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I subscribed to membership with It's Just Lunch with very high hopes and expectations. I was excited about the format and opportunity to meet new people and go on dates. Immediately following the first date, the experience was nothing but horrendous. It's Just Lunch charged a very high membership fee and included a no refund policy in their agreement. They also included in their agreement that "All Dates will be within the criteria provided by Client at the time of joining with respect to age, religion and parental status." One of my criteria, as related to parental status, was that I did not want to date someone who wanted kids. On my very first date I was matched with someone who wanted kids. For a service as costly as It's Just Lunch ($2,800 for 6 dates), a single date has a very high value and I believe strongly that they wasted a lot of my time and money on this. Rather than immediately walking away from the program, I tried reaching out to their customer service to discuss and address this discrepancy. What ensued afterwards was a 30 day struggle to try to get a hold of anyone who address my complaint. I sent multiple emails and made multiple phone calls, all of which were unanswered. Following this terrible customer service, I determined that I had no faith in this business and its ability to deliver agreed upon services. I spent the next 30 going through the chain of command in request for a refund. I was denied at every point, even though I had clear and documented proof of their failure to deliver on agreed upon services and their terrible example of customer service and response. After being rejected by even their top executive, I resorted to my credit card company to reverse the charges. Not having a legal standing to do so, they sided with IJL, but that decision does not take away from IJL's unethical business practices. I am pursing action through the BBB, Department of Consumer Affairs and The Federal Trade Commission in an attempt to receive a refund that is clearly due. I would never recommend anyone to engage in business with It's Just Lunch. Their customer service and business practices are among the worst I have ever experienced. Hopefully, my pursuant actions to receive a refund will be successful.
I have had an excellent experience with IJL. I find this to be a very simple but effective way to set up a "meet-up" or "date" with a someone. The communication between myself and my contact at IJL is wonderful and extremely convenient as they handle all the details. I very much appreciate the opportunity to work with IJL.
Thank you for taking the time to share your experience, we are elated to hear you are enjoying the process and we look forward to your next fun first date.
First off, I rarely give 5 star reviews for anything so don't let that swade your opinion one way or another. I've only gone on one date so far with the service. The matchmaker did everything in her power to match up what can be matched up to. They setup a safe environment and provide a context for dating with people who have very busy lives. I've read some of the reviews here and there and quite frankly I think it just means expectations have to be either mellowed out or changed. They aren't miracle workers and don't have access to "cupid's arrow". They can only match up to personality, looks, and interests. I think they've done a good job on that so far in the context of one date.
We appreciate your positive remarks and positive outlook on the dating process. Looking forward to your next date!
Genie took the time to truly understand what I am looking for in a life partner and matched me up with someone who was a very good fit. We decided not to move forward for other reasons but I definitely am so grateful I went through this process and had Genie as my matchmaker. Any fears or concerns I had about this process are now gone and I'm actually super excited about my next date! YAY!
We are elated to hear you are enjoying the process of working with a personalized matchmaker. We are hard at work on your next date and look forward to tell you about him soon.
Happy Dating!
I like there services friendly and respectful, experience people they know what they doing I like how they listen to u and work with you!
We truly appreciate the feedback and are happy to hear you are enjoying the process!
Anita, has been helpful with the entire process from helping me with picking out the right photos to improving my profile.
In addition, she listened to my needs and worked with me to find the right person and to help with the location of the first meeting to make sure that the location was truly a good mutual meeting place. So far, the picks have been spot on.
Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with your matchmaker and the process. We are hard at work on your next fun first date!
I love working with Tanya. We are on the same page. She gets me and has my back at each dating opportunity.
She is a great listener and knows what I want. Plus, she works hard to make sure she finds the best gentleman for me. I have not been in
It's Just Lunch long, but have already had two other matchmakers. There's a saying about the third time is the charm - well Tanya has been the charm for me. I look forward to continuing to work with her.
I've only had the first two dates of 12 with IJL, and this process has been so useful to me already! I've learned a lot about what I'm looking for, about what's important to me. I've learned about how I want to interact with dates. These learnings require practice and exploration, on dates with the right kinds of people. That's where IJL comes in.
We are happy to hear you are enjoying your experience and appreciate the time you took to provide your review. Your feedback helps the team fine tune the process and apply this feedback to your next fun first date!
The venue was too loud. The lady was going into the date from a point of view of caution instead of comfort. I had no say into the date other than offering a two week window that I was available.
Dave, thanks for the feedback. We will share this with the matchmaking team.
I've been with IJL for app 3 months, so far it's been great. My matchmaker { Eyrina} has been great setting me up with wonderful dates. More than I could handle which was not a bad thing.
I haven't been disappointed in any of the dates I've been on.
Great service
We are so happy to hear this, thank you for sharing your experience!
Sales people convinced me about the quality and professionalism of their service. It wasn't the case or even close, the dates they sent me on were with women with nothing in common with me.
IJL is a complete waste of money and more importantly time.
Mitch- we appreciate your feedback and are sorry to hear you have not enjoyed your experience. Your dating experience was with our Denver IJL location, which is an independently owned and operated office. We have shared your concerns with them directly for follow up. Thank you!
My experience with Its Just Lunch was satisfactory. They did a decent job of keeping me informed of dates.
Thank you so much for your feedback!
Tanya is my Matchmaker and she made a perfect match for me. She clearly had a good understanding of my profile because the man she set me up with was perfectly compatible. We had a wonderful time talking and laughing. I never had such chemistry with someone on any internet dating site.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful experience with Tanya as your matchmaker at It's Just Lunch. It's truly heartening to hear that Tanya's understanding of your profile resulted in such a positive and enjoyable connection. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope your positive journey continues as you explore this connection further.
ILJ and Tanya have provided quality candidates. The service has been easy to use with little to no effort on my part setting up the dates. I would recommend Tanya and the service.
It's great to hear that you've had a smooth and convenient experience using the service. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I hope your positive experience with ILJ and Tanya continues as you explore potential connections.
My IJL experience has been great. Although there can be some hiccups from time-to-time, I have no real complaints. My Match Maker (Carissa) is awesome. She finds great matches for me, and in my opinion keeps my dating schedule full. Yes, there are times when the dating schedule slows to a halt, but that is to be expected. And in a way, it should slow to a halt, because as I have explained to IJL, I am interested in meeting great dates; not dime-a-dozen dates. So, if I want great dates, then of course it is going to take IJL more time to find my great dates. Carissa takes quality time (out of her busy schedule also) to talk to me to really understand my taste in women, my short-comings in dating, and helps me to not only have great first dates, but to successfully land the second and third dates. Carissa has my best interest at heart, and wants me to meet great, beautiful, professional, single ladies who deserve to meet a great, handsome guy like myself. If you are serious, patient, and looking or ready for a no nonsense dating Assistant, look no further than IJL. Their Match Makers are great at what they do; matching guys like me to ladies who align with my values. If you are someone who is accustom to or looking for speed dating, IJL is probably not going to be for you. IJL takes the time to research (gets to know the client) well, so great matches have a strong likelihood of occurring. If your pace of dating and dating expectations are more on the Tinder side of things, then there is a strong possibility IJL is not going to meet your expectations. IJL is a professional dating service--taking quality time to match professionals with professionals.
Thank you for sharing your detailed and positive experience with It's Just Lunch. It's clear that you've had a well-considered and thoughtful journey with the service, and your feedback provides valuable insights for potential Clients. Thank you for sharing your story, insights, and recommendations. We hope your positive experience with IJL continues to lead to meaningful connections and successful dates.
I have only had one date with It's Just Lunch so far, but it was very nice and my matchmaker planned it out well. I would not say it was very personalized to my preferences, besides the fact that it was close to where I and he lived, however. Still, it was a nice restaurant and my date was very polite and kind.
Thank you for sharing your feedback about your experience with It's Just Lunch. It's great to hear that your first date was a positive and enjoyable one. Your feedback could contribute to further improvements and enhancements in their matching approach. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
Overall I have been very pleased with IJL. I have been with them for several years. I am not into dating apps and this is a great way to meet professional people. They do the work for you! I have had several matchmaker's over the past, I know Eyrina is the best one I have had. She listens and understands. Some in the past and I believe are no longer there, was just checking boxes. IJL keep up the good work
Thank you
Thank you for being a loyal customer and for sharing your positive experience with us. I hope your journey with IJL continues to bring you fulfilling connections and experiences.
I paid full price plus they suggested that I get a consultant with add the fee of course and I will get consultations at least three times. As soon as I paid. One-time consultant only. The sad part is they give the last match was an 80-year-old can who barely walk. It's not only I lost thousands of dollars to pay the fee I basically got insulted too. I will recommend to men and women to keep their money and go to regular dating sites with low fees and have more chances to meet regular guys/women. In Just Lunch just another matches site that is no different from other online dating except for the expensive fees they claimed with professional dating couches but instead, they have a bunch of people with no skills to just match you with anyone. It's a joke! Keep your money and don't waste your time!
Endang- we appreciate your feedback and are sorry to hear you have not enjoyed your experience. Your dating experience was with our San Francisco IJL location, which is an independently owned and operated office. We have shared your concerns with them directly for follow up. Thank you!
I have been with IJL now for a year and have gone on roughly 5 dates. I have met some decent people, no one has stuck yet. The matches have been far and few in between and a little slower than I imagined; but I'm being patient they will find the BEST choices possible for me. This method of dating has forced me to look and think outside my usual box and although I haven't been physically attracted to them, the matches have been for the most part in line with what are the most important characteristics and attributes and for me.
Since being assigned to Tanya as my matchmaker, communication has greatly improved. I feel she listens to my concerns. My hope is Tanya is truly vested in finding suitable and true matches for me. I look forward to meeting more matches.
It's great to hear that this method of dating has been pushing you to explore beyond your usual preferences and expectations. Sometimes, stepping out of our comfort zones can lead to unexpected and delightful connections. It's also promising to know that even though you haven't found someone who has sparked physical attraction, the matches have aligned well with the essential characteristics and attributes you value most. We wish you all the best on this journey, and may it lead you to the kind of connection you're seeking. Happy dating!
My experience with IJL has been good. Anita is my matchmaker and she is very detailed and makes sure she has a good match for me. I trust her and know that she has my best interest at heart. Her directions are clear about where to go and what to do regarding the date. She follows up after the date and she genuinely cares. I enjoy working with her!
Thank you for sharing your positive experience with us! We're thrilled to hear that your journey with IJL has been a good one, and Anita, your matchmaker, has made it a special and enjoyable process.
Anita takes pride in her work, and her attention to detail and dedication to finding the right matches for her clients shines through in your words. Trust is essential in the matchmaking process, and we're glad to know that you have complete confidence in her abilities and feel that she has your best interests at heart.
Thank you for entrusting us with your matchmaking journey. We look forward to continuing to assist you and providing you with more enjoyable experiences and wonderful matches in the future!
Answer: It's Just Lunch is a scam... don't do it! It's just them charging your credit card! They work hard on getting your credit card number - once you pay customer service is OVER! There's no team of people looking for you & you can't access anyone -with out them initiating a contact. In 14 months only one 'lunch'. However, because the experience was so horrible, not even It's Just Lunch counts it as 'lunch'. I've been asking for my money to be refunded. Whatever you do, be proactive for yourself & just say "no.".
Answer: Unfortunately, now I cannot share a success story, because there was absolutely nothing that was successful about this company


We appreciate your feedback, however, disagree with your statements. IJL provided the services to you as outlined in the membership agreement. You had a fantastic date, 3 hours long, with the individual you accepted and exchanged numbers. We are sorry to hear things did not work out and that you did not find your special someone dating with IJL and wish you all the best on your dating journey.