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DateMyAge is a global age-positive platform for deep and meaningful online connections. It addresses the challenge of building connections in midlife, offering a respectful, safe community for those seeking long-term online relationships or global connections, sharing life experiences, and exploring new cultures together. DateMyAge stands out by valuing genuine, verified interactions, ensuring a trustworthy environment free from ageism, and promoting real, fulfilling online companionships.
DateMyAge Reviews Summary
DateMyAge has a rating of 2.9 stars from 406 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with DateMyAge most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and customer service. DateMyAge ranks 22nd among Social Network sites.
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No matter what you look like, how much money you have, what you say and how hard you try you can't meet any woman through DMA because they don't want to meet, they are only after your cash which they get through chatting and paid messages exchange. So don't fall for DateMyAge fakes – the site is nothing but a mere rip off.
Do not spend one penny joining this site. Most, if not all the profiles of women are fake. I believe they must have associates that write you back with very generic responses. No accurate answers when responding to my questions to the girl's that I was messaging with. Doing people wrong. That's what this dating site is all about.
Dear David,
We’re truly sorry your experience felt inauthentic. While all profiles go through moderation and many are verified, we understand your concern when replies seem generic or disconnected. Please know we do not employ associates to impersonate members—such activity violates our terms. Any suspicious profile can be reported either via the "Report a Violation" button or email ([email protected]), and our team investigates promptly. Your trust matters to us.
This a money driven scam. Chats emails and "trusred" members are real but always push for more premium presents. After weeks you should know somebody well enough to text on your cell. Good luck with that. If you want to spend $1000 a month on chats go for it
Hi Mark,
Thank you for sharing your experience. We understand your frustration and want to clarify that datemyage. Com aims to provide a genuine, secure, and fun dating experience for all our members. The platform offers both free and premium services, with features like "trusted" members and private chats to ensure a safe and quality environment for connecting with others.
While we do offer premium memberships that unlock additional features, such as more direct communication options, it's important to remember that users are free to choose the level of service they feel comfortable with. We strive to ensure that no one feels pressured into purchasing premium services. Your feedback helps us improve, and we encourage you to reach out to our support team at support@datemyage. Com if you have specific concerns about your experience.
I first tried Datemyage 2 years ago for the same reason everyone else does. I was ready and wanted a relationship. Creating my account was breeze and my well curated profile was up in less than 2 minutes. Whitin 5 minutes, I had at least 35 chat requests and emails. I was more than surprised. It think that's when I first noticed the designation on participants profiles that reads "Featured Member*. If you are at a lost as to what a Featured Member is or does, that's ok, I also had no idea. It turns out, that only goodlucking members get the designation of "Featured Member". If you perhaps believe that my comment is missguide and based on misandry, I invite you to check. The polarity between the Feature Members and the "others" is more than obvious. If you thought there was a chance that the guy with the extra weight but beautiful smile and fantastic attitude was going to how up to be a "Featured Member", think again. All 35 of my chat requests and emails were from "Featured Members. Not a single non Featured. I found that odd. I am a middle of the road looking woman and only the most handsome Featureds reached out? But guess what, you can talk for free to non Featured Members. For Featured Members you have to pay for every single interaction no matter however miniscule you think it is. And by the way the boys pay NOTHING. The entire expense of this quest for love will be yours, even if you miraculously find it with an actual Featured Member.
Within a couple of days the candidate pool had started to dry and one man stood out. He seemed very interested and I was getting excited and unfortunately feeling hopeful. We chatted and texted CONSTANTLY for about a month. Think about this, a month of dollar texts and $30 dollar calls. Several daily. And here I am going to take a second to explain what communicating with a Featured actually costs. On average a token costs anywhere from $0.30 to $0.55. This is what each interaction actually costs. CATEGORY COST PER ITEM
Basic Chat 1 Credit per minute
One-Way Video Chat 4 Credits perminute
Two-Way Video Chat 6 Creditsperminute
Panorama View Video Chat 24 Credits per minute
VR Video Chat 6 Credits per minute
Offline Message sending 1 Credit per item up to 160 symbols
Mobile App Message sending 1 Credit per item up to 160 symbols
Email (Love Note) 10 Credits per item
Sending/Viewing photos or videos 15 Credits per item
Sending/Listening voice messages 10 Credits per item
Sending stickers up to 20 Credits per item
Sending animated smileys 1 Credit per item
Sending Virtual gifts from 1 to ******* Credits per item
Virtual Space 200 credits per item
Items in a Virtual Space from 50 to 1000 Credits per item
Viewing video in profile 10 Credits per item
Let's Mingle 5 Credits per use
Present delivery up to 6500 Credits per item
Cost of present delivery 49 Credits per delivery So, to spend $50 dla on 150 credits buys you 50 texts(160 characters only) and 17 minutes on a two way video call. How many credits do you think you need when you're doing your part so things flourish? And you're the only one paying for calls and texts and "gifts". After about a month I brought up again the fact that I thought it was time to move platforms, I really didn't want to spend like I was and a couple of days earlier he had agreed. He kept making excuses and asking me for more time and I did capitulate for a couple of days while bleeding money I didn't have because in my idiocy and loneliness I had let him convince me that we were on a great path and things were moving forward. When I put my foot down and finally told him I was quitting the site, he didn't even want my number. He had said everything he had to say to make me have hope and lower my defenses. And I ended up loosing a lot of money to Datemyage. But I couldn't blame the app then. It was a one off by a bad man as far as I knew. But again I got lonely and I ended up there. Hoping that I would not run into that twisted person who get pleasure from inflicting pain on others... and I didn't. But the same thing happened, as if orchestrated and rehearsed. This time I decided to ask the Featured their options on the fact that they do not have to pay for the service, I asked all of them if they'd ever actually had met and had a relationship with anyone outside of the platform or why it is that the members classified as Featured can interact with anyone on the site, except oppsit sex Featured? Not a single one answerd me and they all quickly disappeared from the screen one by one. I think I now believe that this is a scam behind the fasad of a legitimate online dating app. I think Datemyage is taking advantage of the deep loneliness, sadness and need for connection the world craves at the moment. And that makes them ugly. I forgot to mention that I have looked and tried to find them but not one of the Featured Members I have looked up had ANY social presence.
Hi MJ,
Thank you for taking the time to share your detailed experience. We deeply regret that your interactions with DateMyAge led to feelings of frustration and disappointment. It’s clear that you had some real concerns about the platform, and we’re here to address them directly.
First, let’s talk about the Featured Member designation. This feature is designed to highlight members who have chosen to participate in specific promotional opportunities, but it’s important to note that it’s not intended to imply any inherent value or superiority of those members. Everyone, regardless of status, should be treated with respect and courtesy, and we always encourage open, honest communication between members.
The interactions you had with Featured Members and the costs associated with those communications are certainly worth discussing. Our platform offers both free and premium features, and while premium members do have access to additional options (like more communication tools and priority visibility), no one is forced to continue using these paid services. The decision to purchase credits or participate in certain interactions is entirely up to the individual, and we do our best to ensure that all users can explore the platform in a way that fits their budget and comfort level.
That said, we’re truly sorry that you felt pressured into spending more than you intended, and we understand how emotionally taxing it can be when things don’t pan out the way you hoped. DateMyAge strives to provide a safe and transparent environment, and your feedback highlights areas where we can improve in terms of communication and member experience.
If you ever find yourself in a similar situation again, please don’t hesitate to reach out to our customer service team at support@datemyage. Com. We’re here to offer assistance and ensure your experience is as smooth as possible.
We appreciate your feedback and hope that you find the support and connection you’re seeking, whether through DateMyAge or another platform.
Was nervous about online dating, but layout and features made it easy. Verify process gives me confidence talking to real people. Great convos already. Good platform for not rushing, but wanting real connections.
Do not use this site or give them any CC info. The profiles are fake, the messaging is all fake and they have bots who interact with u so you use you credits. Also if you cancel your membership they will still charge and refuse to credit the charge back to u. STAY AWAY!
Hi Beth,
Thank you for sharing your experience. We’re genuinely sorry to hear you had a negative experience on our platform. We understand how frustrating it can be if things don’t go as expected, especially when it comes to credits and interactions with others.
Please know that we do our best to maintain a safe and authentic environment for all members, and we take reports of fake profiles or bots very seriously. If you believe you've encountered any issues like this, we encourage you to report them immediately so we can investigate and take appropriate action.
As for cancellations and billing, we recommend reviewing the cancellation process through the app or website to ensure it’s properly completed. If you’ve been charged after cancellation, we suggest reaching out to our support team directly at support@datemyage. Com, and we’ll do everything we can to assist you.
Your feedback is important to us, and we’re always looking for ways to improve. We hope we can resolve this issue for you!
Within the first 5 minutes of using this app, it was easy to tell it was not real. The profile that was the most ridiculous was a man who claimed he was a busy plastic surgeon. He even showed photos of himself in a white doctor's coat but when you read the entire profile he showed having a PhD rather than MD. How ridiculous!
Hi Sammy, We’re sorry to hear about your negative experience. We take your concerns seriously and want to ensure a safe and genuine environment for all Members.
We take allegations of suspicious profiles and fraud accusations seriously and are committed to ensuring the authenticity of our members. Your feedback will be thoroughly investigated to improve our service and having said so, We strongly request you to provide relevant details such as profile ID/s, screenshots of members and any supporting details who you had suspected to have been committing negative activities against the platform to [email protected].
The site is disaster scamming people to buy credits on fake profile.Please respect us as people.Who ever is running this site should be ashamed of himself for making money out of defrauding people.I wrote several e-mail complaining about this catfish profile but my complaint fell into deaf ears. The profile is still there and still not refunded as indicated on their site about fake profiles
What made it worse is I was insulted and humiliated on their app and they did not see anything wrong.I still demand to be refunded because I strongly believe that this is a catfish profile.
Regards
Jane.
Dear Jane,
Thank you for leaving us a feedback. I'm really sorry to hear about your disappointing experience. It's understandable to feel frustrated and let down when expectations aren't met. We prioritizes authenticity, and we take allegations of suspicious activity seriously and investigate all claims in line with the anti-scam policy, In order to process this complaint, we need to first have any supporting material you have that we can submit to the verification team.
*Profile Link or ID number for each member
*Screenshots of suspicious conversation
*Time and date of correspondence
*Any further evidence that the profiles are dishonest.
Please reach out to our team with relevant details at [email protected] to check further and address this promptly as we're not able to locate any report so far regarding this in our records.
We guaranty that we will reimburse all credits you incurred communicating with this member and ban the member permanently given that they have a confirmed profile status, once proven that they have breached any of the grounds of the anti-scam policy in placed.
There are "actors" who have a very attractive profiles that will contact you and send you scripted romantic, flattering letters. If you look closely, the "actors" are the people that look like they had a professional photo shoot done for their profile. The set up of the fake profiles are all look the same. If a person seems to good to be true, I promise you they are!
Dear Anne,
We’re really sorry to hear about your experience and completely understand your concerns. At Datemyage.com, we take the authenticity of profiles very seriously and have strict policies in place to prevent fake accounts. If you’ve encountered suspicious profiles or any behavior that doesn’t seem genuine, please report it to us directly at [email protected] so we can investigate further.
We appreciate your feedback, and we’re here to ensure a safe and real experience for all our members.
As near as I can tell ALL of the ladies on this app are fantasies -- not real. I kept buying credits to request and send chats. Easily spent $200. Every person I "met" on this app would lead me on and keep asking questions. All tease and fantasy. Nothing real.
Thanks, Wayne Morris
Hi Duane,Thank you for reaching out and sharing your experience. We are truly sorry to hear that your time on our platform was disappointing, and we understand your frustration.
We take the authenticity of profiles very seriously, and we continuously work to monitor and improve the platform. If you feel that you’ve encountered any profiles that seem fake or inappropriate, we strongly encourage you to report them so that we can investigate and take appropriate action.
Regarding your concern about spending credits, we apologize if the service did not meet your expectations. We aim to provide a genuine and fulfilling experience Thus we would like to reiterate that We do offer various membership options and credit packages to enhance the member experience and All of this information was outlined on the purchase form and is always available in the terms and conditions that you agreed to during registration.
If you would like assistance with your account or have any further questions, our support team is here to help. We value your feedback and will work to ensure a better experience for all members.
DateMyAge is total scam, and rip off. Do not join them because they steal your money.
They hire low life people who have a fake profile with perfect pics to send you tons of messages, which are computer generated and mushy. They pretend to be real people, handsome and wealthy. To get your attention they send you tons of messages. If you want to respond to a message you need to buy credits. For $16 you get 20 credits which is enough to read and answer 3 messages. It is a very expensive way to communicate with computer robots or scammers.
Don't give them your credit card number because they steal your money from your credit card.
I tried to respond to a message and I was redirected to refill my credit page which I did, but didn't get a single credit. I did this 3 times and didn't get any credits. I checked my bank account and they took my money 3 times, but didn't let me use the service. I was not able to send even one message. Then I realized this is a group of scammers, a cyber dating mafia who steal peoples money.
They don't even have a legit phone number. The phone number you can find online is fake, no one picks it up. The help line or live support has only generated guidance, so you cannot send them a message. Have you noticed that you never find a person's name anywhere? That is another proof that they are scammers who steal people money from their bank accounts that's why you cannot find a name anywhere because no one takes responsibility.
They say they take an issue seriously which is a lie, because I reached out to their support team and sent them a message with my concern and they just send me back a link that is useless. They didn't give me a refund for all the money they stole from me. They don't care and don't make any effort to resolve a fraudulent issue.
Stay away from these greedy scammers. They are thieves!
Hi Esther,
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We genuinely regret that you encountered these issues, and we understand your frustration. We strive to offer a secure and enjoyable service, and we take concerns related to both billing and profile authenticity seriously.
First, we want to address your billing experience. We apologize if you encountered difficulties with credits and payments. It's important that you receive what you've paid for, and we would like to resolve this promptly. Please contact our support team directly at [email protected] with your account details, and we’ll investigate your payment history and ensure that any discrepancies are corrected.
Regarding the authenticity of messages and profiles, we monitor the platform closely to prevent fraudulent activity. If you believe you’ve encountered fake profiles or automated messages, we encourage you to report them through the platform. We take immediate action against any violations of our community standards to protect our members.
We’re sorry to hear that you felt our customer service didn't meet your expectations. Our support team aims to provide clear, helpful assistance, and we’ll review your communication history to ensure we address your concerns more effectively going forward.
Your feedback is invaluable, and we are committed to making improvements. Please allow us the opportunity to investigate your case further and provide a resolution. We sincerely appreciate your input and hope to rebuild your trust in our service.
They been charged my account extra I only purchased 2 credit when I go to my account their charge me for 5 credit. Last week I purchased one time when I go to my account their charge me twice.I think no will men on this app.why look like they operate the app too text with you.I spend my money for nothing
Hi Louna,
We’re truly sorry to hear about the issues you’ve encountered with billing. We understand your frustration, and we take these concerns very seriously. We recommend checking your transaction history for any discrepancies and contacting our support team directly at [email protected] with your account details. We'll investigate the charges and ensure everything is handled according to our policies. Our goal is to provide a safe and enjoyable experience, and we’ll do our best to resolve this for you. Thank you for bringing it to our attention.
My dad, age 87 and lonely, signed up for Date My Age. Within a week he'd been charged $1000 to communicate with some "woman" in Spain. We live in Canada. I saw some of "her" communications to dad – the most breathless, over the top smarmy, "I'm in love with you" words I've ever seen. They had been communicating for less than a week. Dad was hooked. My sisters and I told dad that this was a fraud and nobody would be saying these things within a week, without ever meeting in person. We convinced him to stop communicating with "her". The person reached out, outside the site and convinced him to log back in. He was charged $728 - 3 times in 9 minutes for something called "virtual gifts". We have been trying ever since to get his money back. These people targeted my lonely pensioner father and scammed him out of over $3,000.
Hi Shannon,
We are deeply sorry to hear about your father’s experience and fully understand your frustration. It's heartbreaking to learn that your father was taken advantage of in this way, and we sincerely apologize for the distress this has caused your family.
Please know that we take these kinds of issues extremely seriously. The situation you describe, where someone is targeted and manipulated, is unacceptable, and we are committed to investigating this thoroughly. We also urge you to reach out to our support team directly at [email protected] so that we can assist in resolving the issue. We provide full guaranty to have you refunded for the credits spent in communicating with the member in question once they are proven to have breached any of the grounds of the Anti-scam policy, provided that they have a confirmed profile.
We understand that these types of experiences can severely impact trust, and we are dedicated to improving the platform to ensure that users are not exploited. We also highly recommend that everyone, especially vulnerable members, read through all pricing details carefully and make sure they fully understand the costs involved before proceeding.
Again, we’re truly sorry for the distress this has caused, and we are here to assist you in any way we can. Please contact us directly so we can address the situation and take appropriate action.
Una estafa los chicos q escriben se nota q son pagados por ellos, ósea no pasa nada es solo para para q gastes dinero esto es un descaro aprovecharse de las personas
Traducido en la aplicación:
Hola,
Lamentamos mucho escuchar sobre tu experiencia y entendemos tu frustración. En datemyage.com, queremos garantizar la transparencia en cuanto a los costos de suscripción y mensajería, por lo que lo detallamos todo en el Acuerdo de Términos de uso que has leído y aceptado al registrarte. Te recomendamos que vuelvas a verificar y revisar nuestros detalles de precios y planes de suscripción para evitar cargos inesperados.
Nos tomamos muy en serio el problema de los perfiles falsos, ya que nuestro objetivo es crear un entorno seguro y genuino para todos los miembros. Monitoreamos y revisamos activamente los perfiles para mantener la autenticidad. Ofrecemos reembolsos por mensajes intercambiados con cuentas fraudulentas comprobadas, siempre que se confirme que el perfil es fraudulento.
Tus comentarios son importantes y agradecemos que los compartas para ayudarnos a mejorar la experiencia de todos los miembros: [email protected].
Most of the profiles are fake and chat bots. Then, you think you sign up for a month, only for the "credits" to run out in two hours and then the only way you can continue conversations is to pay a TON more money. Plus, people of every age contact you and very few people "to date of my age" in the US. What a scam. Thank goodness I only wasted a couple of hours versus the thousands I now see in reviews some people have lost. How is this site allowed to operate?
Dear Me,
We’re truly sorry to hear about your experience and understand your frustration. At datemyage.com, we want to ensure transparency regarding subscription costs and messaging thus we made it all fully detailed on ther Terms of use Agreement which you have read and agreed on upon registration. We highly recommend rechecking and reviewing our pricing details and subscription plans to avoid unexpected charges.
If you believe there was an issue with your account or charges, please reach out to our support team with relevant details at [email protected].
We take the issue of fake profiles very seriously, as our goal is to create a safe and genuine environment for all members. We actively monitor and review profiles to maintain authenticity. We do offer refunds for messages exchanged with proven fraudulent accounts, provided the profile is confirmed as fraudulent.
Your feedback is important, and we appreciate you sharing it to help us improve the experience for all members.
Helaas voldoet deze site niet aan de zoekcriteria. Ik zocht tussen de 70 en 80 jaar in Nederland, maar kreeg 80% van de mannen uit Zuid Amerika en 60% onder de 50 jaar.
Vertaald in de app:
Beste Astrid,
Bedankt voor het delen van je ervaring en het spijt me echt om te horen dat de resultaten niet aan je zoekcriteria voldeden. We begrijpen hoe belangrijk het is om in contact te komen met mensen die aan je voorkeuren voldoen. Soms kunnen zoekresultaten worden beïnvloed door profielinstellingen of geografische filters, maar we willen je altijd helpen om de best mogelijke matches te krijgen.
Als je nog steeds problemen ondervindt met je zoekresultaten, neem dan gerust contact op met ons supportteam. We helpen je graag bij het verfijnen van je filters om relevantere matches te krijgen.
We stellen je feedback op prijs en we zijn er om je te helpen!
My hats off to datemyage. They figured the perfect online con. Sign on beautiful woman from all over the world. Have them entice men, and make it so, that the men can't get hold of the woman, and put them in faraway places to make it even more difficult. Then have these beautiful women entice you their words, so you want to believe. In the meantime, the site is racking up thousands of dollars as you respond. And the women are earning their keep. Then if you try to leave, or get the woman to go with you to another site, somehow, you're to blame. Then they will try to entice you back with kindness and guilt. Absolutely brilliant. The best conjob I've seen outside of a movie theater.
Dear Glenn,
We’re truly sorry to hear about your negative experience, and we understand your frustration.We are committed to providing a legitimate platform for authentic connections. We do take reports of suspicious or misleading activity very seriously, including concerns about profiles that seem deceptive. If you've encountered such issues, please report them directly to our customer support team along with relevant details at [email protected] so we can investigate further.
We want all of our members to have a positive experience, so if you’re facing difficulties with your account or subscriptions, our team is here to help resolve those concerns as well.
Thank you for your feedback, and we hope we can address your issues effectively.
I have had a terrible experience with this organisation. I have consistently asked them to verify why the gouge $15 from customers to send a free email and then slug another $15 to read it when there free. I then asked them what legislation or regulation they were operating under and I was told they can do what ever they like it is there business. So if you want to be preyed upon and lose your hard earned money and be treated like you do not exist then go ahead and sign up.
Dear Shayne,
We’re really sorry to hear about your frustration, and we understand how disappointing this experience must be. At Datemyage.com, we strive to provide a genuine platform for connections and take reports of scams seriously. If you’ve encountered any suspicious activity, we encourage you to report it directly to us at [email protected] so we can investigate further.
If you need assistance with your account or subscription, please reach out to our support team—they’re ready to help.
Thank you for sharing your feedback, and we hope we can address your concerns.
I was on this site for more than a year in a relationship with a model called Leandro (48). He always sent sweet emails and messages but could never give me his contact details. He did video call me a few times to make the relationship seem authentic. I became suspicious when he could never remember what we'd discussed and discovered lies about so many things. Then the relationship could never progress because of all excuses he had relating to his job. It was clear that he worked for this dating site. Be careful. You pay for fantasy relationships here. I wrote to the dating site but never received a response…
Hi Christine,
We sincerely apologize for the experience you've described, and we understand the frustration and disappointment it has caused. At DateMyAge, we are committed to fostering an authentic and safe environment for all our users. We take allegations of fraudulent activity and misleading interactions very seriously.
If you've encountered suspicious behavior, we strongly encourage you to report these profiles so we can investigate and take the appropriate actions. We regret that you did not receive a response from our support team, and we want to ensure your concerns are properly addressed. Please reach out again at [email protected], and we will prioritize your case.
Your feedback is crucial in helping us uphold the integrity of our platform, and we are continually working to improve the experience for all members. If you have any further questions or need assistance, our team is here to support you.
Date my age or date my match is A SCAM!
No one seems to know their physical location in NY is 416 East 85 street, 5A NY NY *******. I joined for $30, then they sold me credits for $49.99. I wrote 2 introduction helo's & it starts with need more credits! So i wrote customer service. " well … you sent a gift! You're out of credits! I replied i sent a heart with a 7 next to it; meaning thats 7 credits! Another SCAM DATING SITE. If anyone wants to meet me in NY, ill be there next month.
Hi Daniel,
We’re truly sorry to hear about your frustrating experience. We understand how important it is to have clear and transparent communication on the platform. If you feel that there has been a misunderstanding or issue with your credits or charges, please reach out to our support team at [email protected] so we can investigate further and resolve the matter.
Your feedback is important to us, and we’re committed to improving the platform for all users. We want to ensure that every experience is safe, fair, and genuine. If you have any further questions or concerns, we’re here to help.
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Dear Tierry,
Thank you for sharing your experience. At datemyage.com, genuine connections are our priority, supported by a pay-per-message model that sustains platform security and verification efforts. While some users prefer faster-paced sites, our community values meaningful interaction over rushed exchanges. We encourage everyone to explore features fully and report any suspicious behavior to help us keep the environment safe and authentic. Your feedback helps us reflect on ways to better meet user expectations.