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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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New Jersey
1 review
25 helpful votes
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I'd say that AFF is probably above average, there's definitely worse out there and it has the most important thing - a bunch of women. Id say it's not got as many as hookuphangout.com (in my area certainly) but still has enough to keep you busy. There are occasional time wasters but overall i like this site a lot and will be taking a longer subscription when my month trial runs out. Happy days.

Date of experience: August 14, 2020
Washington
1 review
12 helpful votes
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Site is more cam watching and sex chat site than hookup site. I was looking for casual hookups from single females. Left messages and flirts with at least 30 different members. I can say almost positively that most of my views and all of my flirts came from cam models looking to direct me to their video sex chat rooms. If not there they were leading me to other websites. After two weeks I had not one promising connection. To find how to unsubscribe was a nightmare. Hidden from clear site with no directions on how to find. Navigating mobile app was terrible. This site seems to be for women trying to make a buck off tips. Or scammers trying to get your e mail address. Unless you just want to watch video porn this site is useless for serious hookups.

Date of experience: July 29, 2020
Nevada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Ive been on this site for over ten years. I've gotten laid alot on it. A LOT. And the site is so bad i'm still giving one star. First if you have a good looking body or well endowed gays and trannys will bombard your profile with views flirts and messages. You cannot stop them, probably because they are such a cash cow for the site. It grosses me out to log on and see a bunch of penises in my notifications. I've met "couples" with the hotwife but the vast majority of those on the site are just a bi or closeted gay man "wishing". Either there is no wife or the wife has no idea so he gets off sex chatting with you. Some will even try to get you to meet them out in public to hit on her. Pathetic. Then of course the real, non spam single women. They are few and far in between but they do exist. Most are overweight and want you to treat them like you met them in a library. Of course respect is always necessary but we're on a sex site and my $#*! is out so stop acting surprised that I am trying to steer the conversation toward sex.

Honestly, the bots and scammers dont bother me because i feel they are easy to spot. Some of yall are pudgy 50 year old men of course the 20 year old asian woman in the bikini is a scammer or wants money. You have to be realistic about your capabilities. Also their english is usually terrible. I'm currently a paying member but after this I will no longer give them a dime. Like I said before, I've been laid plenty off the site, will probably meet this weekend with the hotwife of a couple i've met in the past from aff, and the site still sucks. AFF needs a lot of work and the quality is nowhere near as good as it used to be.

Date of experience: July 13, 2020
California
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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You're looking on Adult Friend Finder's website and -- all of the sudden -- you run across a profile of someone with their mouth wide open, filled with semen or someone trying to flip you off and be "cute" about it (or otherwise act like the stupid, disgusting, nasty-a$$ed piece of they are). So you decide to "block" them but -- lo and behold! -- you block the offensive profile and do another search and, guess what? That's right, the SAME DAMNED PROFILE YOU BLOCKED IS STILL COMING UP IN YOUR SEARCH RESULTS! It's as if AFF says "You don't like this profile? Do something about it?" This is not only sloppiness on their part, but dangerous: what if somebody was stalking you, or had made threatening remarks to you and yet -- unlike professionally run dating sites like Match.com, O. K. Cupid, or Zoosk -- after you blocked them, they STILL appear in your search results? That could lead to someone being harmed, couldn't it? But AFF doesn't care. And, on top of that, half of the AFF member profiles are FAKE (and who knows what could be lurking behind them). I'm being really "generous" by giving them one star (because, frankly, they don't deserve that.

Date of experience: July 2, 2020
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Not impressed.
July 2, 2020

1. Free membership - useless
2. Gold membership - useless
3. Skipped Premium and signed up for VIP, one month. See how that goes.
4. Sending/receiving messages seems to be a gamble because you can't tell if they're received/opened unless you have Premium! It's a feature that can help with bot: not a bot, interest: no interest. Time saver.
5. With their affiliated sites, which on AFF is OK Cupid, you have to co-ordinate their settings, which is stupid, to make things work properly. WTF?!
6. Apparently, this the world's largest hook up site, but likely not the best.
7. Of course, a plethora of supermodels - unless you are one, the chances mr. Average will get real response is, oh about, zero! And models needing AFF for $#*! or $#*!?
8. Searching is another convoluted episode. Customizing settings is great (GOLD and up), you change and save. When I hit the match button the results are totally different. They need better programming. Check IM, come b ack to match page and you've got headaches.
9. With regards to any dating site you are better off paying.

Date of experience: July 2, 2020
Canada
4 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Sucks Balls deep
June 25, 2020

Was ok now cant even use IM without having to pay can't even use a prepaid card youd think that they'd be happy getting anything... safety risk they don't even block people properly can still be contacted have your stuff comment and like your pics and videos and send you flirts and everything. I ended up with a stocker because of this putting me and my kids in danger... limited cant do $#*! on this site without paying so whats the fking point not everyone has a fking bank card... all in all the absolute the worst when im looking for girls it doesn't filter that so i still have men writing me all the time. If you like this $#*! then your probably some yeppie or you just dont care... either it wont change my out look on this crap site you're absolutely positively are a bunch of goofy squids and i hope this sht gets better or taken away all together but fk that sht and fk you to the makers of this lame shat

Date of experience: June 25, 2020
California
3 reviews
5 helpful votes
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A lot of sadly delusional guys who are under the impression women LOVE to see their $#*! pics. This guy "Snakeluv" has 50 guys complimenting his $#*! and he is convinced women love it. It's a horrible crowd, mostly shady guys. Their are a lot of white dudes who seem to have an abnormal love of black penis, The image search feature on google is very helpful to rooting out some of these frauds. This one guy( kinda assume he is white) creates profiles that appear from black. BBCLEROYOC, OCBLACKLEORY, it was obvious they were the same guy. Busted him a few times with image search. HE would use these pics from a site that was racist towards interracial dating. SADLY, there are many black men who are ALSO playing up and personifying the race stereotypes. I once posted a picture of guy putting his penis in a clear plastic sex doll (it was from the internet) threee guys contacted me and ask me to stop using THEIR pic. LOL. Also, there are a lot of guys who are very closeted. IF you think shots of ones BUTT and penis are straight--well who am I to tell u differently. One man likes to jack off but he has the camera on his buttocks. He claims this is for ladies. RIGHT! I have done a lot of research (through usage)on the site. A few real ladies (confirmed them through other pictures) are real, but it's pure entertainment for them: self esteem boost or chatting when bored. A lot of morbidly obese women are real--not my thing. Many of the guys are just PURE HOLE pokers. If it moves they will bang it--esp that snake dude in LA. If you are banging 300lb fatties in videos on our page. How does that appeal to moderately attractive women?

Date of experience: June 23, 2020
North Carolina
1 review
18 helpful votes
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This site is a scam do not fall for they just want your money and they will keep sending you messages and emails using other peoples pictures 99% of what I've seen in this 10 days of membership it's been fake accounts, scammers, lies, and more phishers
They use girls pictures to keep the guys on their site just teasers
BIGEST FRAUD EVER SEEN

Date of experience: June 22, 2020
California
2 reviews
80 helpful votes
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This site is where disgusting old white men basically try to pay you to have sex with them. I like that it is upfront about what you are really looking for That is a plus however, the choices are truly horrific. Just imagine your grandpa taking a full nude body shot showing his fat stomach and shriveled penis. You want to throw up.

Date of experience: June 16, 2020
Canada
1 review
14 helpful votes
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I was a young guy, about 19 years old. I wanted to explore the world of fetishes and BDSM, and lose my virginity, so I put up a page.

Within a week, an older boy at my college took screenshots of me online pretending to be a date, and showed them to everybody. Teachers, my classmates, and people in other programs. He even was nice enough to show them to people who were prospective employers. I had to take up odd jobs over the years so that I could get into another field.

If I would have know how lax the security was on AFF, I would have never, ever signed up.

Date of experience: June 13, 2020
New Jersey
2 reviews
25 helpful votes
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Im 50 / 50 on it
May 30, 2020

I understand why some people like this but for me it's been a bit slow. Ive only got laid on "Hookup Hangout" before so I admit I don't have much to compare it with yet but for me both are good and im sure both work. Im just not going to say "go for it 110%" with this site until it gets my rocks off. When that happens, ill come back and update my review.

Date of experience: May 29, 2020
Germany
3 reviews
26 helpful votes
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Ultimate scam!
May 12, 2020

It's a complete scam! I wish I read all the negative reviews before I joined AdultfriendFinder that is full of fake profiles, who use sexy photos of Instagram stars, to seduce you and ask you for money. There are no chances of meeting these sexy chicks, cause someone's just misusing their photos. Don't risk putting up you credit card details on AFF, they like to add unauthorized charges. Just stay away from this scam, there's nothing to do there if you want to hook up with a sexy girl.

Date of experience: May 12, 2020
Germany
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Their bots made me think I was popular, but after I paid I realized that there were very few real girls. Reply rate is extremely low! The girls that "liked" me before I purchased membership were no longer to be found.

Date of experience: May 10, 2020
Texas
11 reviews
40 helpful votes
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I got tired of the "craigslist " replacements and decided if I was going to try a hook-up site, then I would pay for it. Which is about the only way I'm goin g to keep the spammers and scammers away. Ell, the site is just as bad. They advertise a so called "gold 2 day trial", and it is a joke. You get to send 3 messages the 1st day, and then only 1 the second day. Basically your paying for the privilage to view profiles. This site is NOT free. It is to sign up and get a glympse of the inside. But they push monthly memberships everywhere. And yes, they got "fake" profiles to get you to "burn" more money to access them. Basically, you'll spend aobut $50 a month to get your freak on. So, if you got money to burn, go for it. If you don't, stay away.

Date of experience: May 8, 2020
GB
1 review
13 helpful votes
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JOINED AFF 2 MNTHS AGO. SEEMS FINE. HAD SUM CHATS BT NOT MET ANY1 YET. WITH HOOKUPHANGOUT I HAD ALREADY BEEN LAID TWICE BY NOW (SAME CHICK BUT STILL! LOL). NOT GIVING UP THO AS HEARD AFF WORTH THE W8. STILL BANGIN THE HH CHICK ANYWAY LOL

Date of experience: May 5, 2020
Illinois
1 review
2 helpful votes
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FACT: FEW DECENT WOMEN ARE ACTUALLY GOING TO $#*! A STRANGER OFFLINE

HOW TO SPOT BS ON ADULT FRIEND FINDER
FOR DUMMIES:

HOT CHICKS

1.DO NOT HAVE TROUBLE GETTING A DATE

2. REAL girls THAT ARE HOT DON'T HAVE TO SHOW OPEN $#*! TO GET LAID! IF U SEE $#*! IT'S A WHORE ESCORT PORN $#*! ACTRESS ETC

3. HOT GIRLS COST MONEY PERIOD! FOOD DRINK TAXI RIDES ETC
WHAT GROWN WOMAN SAYS FREE $#*! HERE?
NONE

AND EVEN THE MONEY ON DATES DOES NOT GUARANTEE SEX

4. HOT CHICKS WANT HOT DUDES
IF YOU'RE NOT IT'S A BOT LOL

IF U DON'T NORMALLY GET HOT CHICKS

WHY SUDDENLY AFTER A PAID MEMBERSHIP THERE DO THEY NOW SEEM TO WANT YOU?
YET IN REAL LIFE THERE ARE NO HOT $#*!ES IN YOUR LIFE HISTORY

NO THEY WANT MONEY DUMB $#*!

5. HOT CHICKS DO NOT WANT MEN OVER 30 UNLESS ITS FREE DINNER TIME

FACT: ADULT FRIEND FINDER IS SATURATED WITH DESPERATE UNATTRACTIVE BALDING SAD HORNY MEN

THEY ARE SO DELUSIONAL THEY WANNA BELIEVE THAT SUDDENLY WOMEN WANT TO $#*! THEM. WHY?

MOSTLY THE MEN ARE LOSERS OVER 40 AND HAVE NO SOCIAL SKILLS LET ALONE THE ABILITY TO GET A WOMAN OR PLEASE THEM IN BED.
CUM IN 5 MINUTES IF THEY CAN EVEN STAY HARD- WHO WOULD $#*! ANYTHING TRUTH BE TOLD-

THEY WILL PAY TO GET TEASED BY BOTS IN EUROPE OR TALK TO A GAME PLAYIN BROAD 5 MONTHS UNAWARES THAT SHE'S LAUGHING AT HIM AS SHE STRINGS HIM ALONG.

THE MALE EGO LOVES FLATTERY

Date of experience: April 30, 2020
Australia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Scam Scam Scam
April 23, 2020

What a joke, i have been on AFF for a month now and all that happens is you get messages from people overseas.
Any Australian messages are 99.9% scams. I wouldn't bother. You wouldn't be surprised if the site isn't writing most of the profiles.

Date of experience: April 23, 2020
Ohio
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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Buyer beware! Stay away from these liars, it's a total rip-off and scam!
AFF doesn't supply what it promises. Absolutely! I have tried it just as an experiment, and it turned out to be very useless experience. Luckily, I haven't spent too much money on AFF to find out that they are overfilled with fake profiles. Those women who look pretty are fake, nearly all of them. There are no classy, top-notch women on Adulfriendfinder. I found a few women with average looks, but they all wanted me to pay them for having a date with me. They were absolutely self-absorbed and thought the world of themselves - not that kind of women that most men like. AFF make it confusing to cancel membership and they want to keep charging you for years. Their customer service were unresponsive, so I had to contact my bank to stop the payments.

Date of experience: April 20, 2020
Canada
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Stay away from AFF
April 4, 2020

Stay away from AFF. The only women I met through it were looking for sugar daddies and/or had significant mental health issues.

Date of experience: April 4, 2020
Ohio
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Yes have been a gold member of aff for a few years, every single woman I have contacted has asked me for money, gift cards, phone cards, the site is full of scammers

Date of experience: April 2, 2020