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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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113
value
115
shipping
32
returns
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quality
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New York
4 reviews
8 helpful votes
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This site is a ripoff and a waste of time and money for any man I sent out over 325 friends requests and instant messages to lots of women 97% didn't respond back over 6 ask for my face pic when I sent it they never wrote back or responded I let them know my nationality and said if it was an issue to let me know none responded back I sent out my email my cell out only a few sent me 1 email to say hello ask me questions and then they never write back none called or text me back only 4 emails I received and when I tried to keep that going they never wrote back I believe adult friend finder has workers who act as members so they keep the talk short and never respond back km canceling my membership asap k bought the monthly membership on april17th from that day I kept checking and responding to women profiles & pics for nothing please let everyone see my review

Date of experience: April 26, 2021
Florida
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Fake profiles men are married women are married or hookers look up wit the better business bureau!
Here is a fake for an example

Date of experience: April 17, 2021
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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CHEAP CHEESIE SITE
HOOK=UPS NO FAKES. CHEAP NO. WOMEN ARE FAKE SLUTTY WHORES
MEN ARE MARRIED. EXPENSIVE YES STAY AWAY SITE RARLY WORKS
STAY CLEAR GO TO BBB TO REVIEW A DATING SITE BETTER BUSINESS SEE COMPLAINTS

Date of experience: April 9, 2021
Washington
3 reviews
22 helpful votes
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Well I tried signing up for this website that was recommended by PH. In less than one week, account was deleted, and billed without consent even auto pay was turned off. I bought the $2.00 demo to see if it was legit (2-day trial), looked at everything, everything was good but was only able to use it for 10 minutes, and then was told to spend around $30-$40 to get full access. Not sure how that's a 2-day free trial, so I just waited for any matches to pop up that I selected during those 10 minutes. Because everything is blocked by a paywall other then names, so it wasn't worth it when there were other apps available. Couple days later, added a photo to get verified, didn't log in long, just uploaded an image. Waited next day, got email, bank tells me I am being charged for $30, which I am pretty sure I turned off auto pay, even deleted my card in their system, because I didn't trust the website having 1/5 stars. Wrote an email about my complaint, looks like they just copied and pasted their "common issues." Helpful showcase to avoid being scammed, if your bank doesn't regulate your pays.:)

Future update: Seattle Nightlife, clean people, willing to come help give "directions" for people lost. 5/19/2022

Date of experience: April 7, 2021
Virginia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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You sign up for the VIP/gold package. You log on and instantly the cam bots, porn bots and scammers descend upon you like vultures. The site has appointed several middle aged saggy couples who are looking for bi sexual gangbangs and watching their wives get stuffed, as "ambassadors". (Not judging, hey if that is your thing...) The issue here is it's to make it seem like there are "real people" on the site. They keep up old inactive female profiles and couples profiles that have LONG since stopped being a member up to make it seem like there are local members. There aren't. After having several conversations in broken english, claiming to be american/canadians and a million bots saying they are "in my town". I stopped payment. I will dispute the charge too. I don't care if I win. False advertising is dispicable. It's a bloated, sad, outdated site that for some reason is still able to bring in revenue. I suggest completely banning it from your purvue. If you are a single male. Don't bother, you'll be competing for 1 girl vs. the several THOUSAND men who spam her inbox. The older couples and swingers are nice but don't want you if you your average looking or average "hung". Usually you have to be bi-sexual yourself to "play with them". If you are a couple you may find other couples. Yet overall I would say it's a complete wash. Not worth the money or the time spent sorting through the trillions of porn bots, scam artists and cam girls trying to make a buck off of you and your hard earned income. I honestly hope this site gets shurt down. It's just not worth it and they make it hard to stop autopay from your card which leads me to believe it's a fly by night operation. DON'T DO IT!

Date of experience: March 21, 2021
Virginia
1 review
29 helpful votes
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After having so much fun on XCams4You.com
With super hot chicks, online and sometimes even offline, I was really shocked by AdultFriendFinder women. 80% of the good-looking AFF women appear to be scammers. 20% are prostitutes trying to find a client. The site is geared to rip you off. You never know who is real on AdultFriendFinder. I had only one date via AFF. The woman claimed to be 30 years old. Her pics were overphotoshopped and perhaps taken 15 years ago. In fact she was in her 40's, very overweight with body odor, dressed like tramp. That was when I finally stopped wasting my money on AFF.

Date of experience: February 17, 2021
Michigan
1 review
7 helpful votes
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You have better chances getting laid on a free dating site it is a despicable place with no one who really wants to $#*! so they can just take your 40-80$ and run off like $#*! you loser. It seems like you might be able to get laid until you spend hours on there with no one wanting to reply or meet up and $#*! it's all games and you have a zero chance to $#*! unless you find an escort on there.

Date of experience: February 11, 2021
France
4 reviews
17 helpful votes
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$40 down the drain. Spent on bots and fakes, because I believed that my profile had been viewed and liked by real people. Of course after I paid those profiles were nowhere to be found. You can't decipher who is who on AFF, there are just way too many scammers and fakes there, they draw you in by sexy profiles just to pull in some cash from you. AdultFriendFinder's conception sounds good in theory but fails terribly in implementation. I wish they cleared out all scammers but nothing deters them from getting on AFF. Anyway I left it because I don't want to waste months and years on sorting out all the scammers who have many slick schemes of fleecing you out of your money.

Date of experience: January 8, 2021
Pennsylvania
1 review
11 helpful votes
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What a JOKE
December 26, 2020

Nothing but FAKE money scam artists and the site is a total rip off who wants your money for nothing! Everytime you turnaround anything that was free now costs money

Date of experience: December 25, 2020
New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Date of experience: December 16, 2020
Illinois
1 review
23 helpful votes
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Don't bother
December 6, 2020

Unless your on a coast, in a major city, a couple, or gay, don't waste your money! 10 months on there and literally encountered nothing but fakes, scammers, email collectors, pay to sext gals, hookers! Single, straight guy in the Midwest? Yeah it's useless! Except for maybe some sis eye candy. AFF "gold" member, 12-5-2020 to maybe 12-5-2021, if I don't just delete a few weeks early!

Date of experience: December 6, 2020
Luxembourg
1 review
12 helpful votes
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Red light warning
December 3, 2020

Red light warning: be wary of AFF, they are money hungry rogues. They have lots of sneaky methods for getting your money without providing any service. One click pay and auto renewals are especially dangerous! I've already found my "adult friend" elsewhere but I'm still struggling to stop AFF from billing me. They say the auto pay box was checked which is not true. I'm always very aware about such things and security on the net. But AFF just do whatever they want with impunity milking people for money. They get away with scamming people. Don't fall victim to their fraud.

Date of experience: December 2, 2020
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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REAL CONVERSATION WITH OPERATOR ou are now chatting with an agent.
Agent
Hi My name is Marjory, You will be charge only for $2.00 if that's the only amount you selected
AN AFTER 2 DAYS?
Agent
It is auto renewal
Agent
You have to contact us to cancel renewal so you won't be charge again
Agent
Still there?
Agent
Since I haven't receive any response. I will disconnect the chat now. Thank you for contacting us. Have a nice day.
The agent has disconnected from this chat session.

Date of experience: December 2, 2020
New Jersey
1 review
12 helpful votes
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This makes my top 3
November 4, 2020

As a long time online dater who is always on the look out for a bit of slap and tickle ive gotta say that AFF is definitely in my top three ‘go to' sites for casual sex/ NSA/ hook ups what ever you want to call it. Its hard to choose between this, tinder and my current fave HookupHangout. All are very different, some are better for mobile, some are better for chats, some are better in cities, etc but they all get results if you use them right and thats whats important at the end of the day.

Date of experience: November 3, 2020
Australia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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My experience
October 21, 2020

I have been a member of adultfriendFinder on an off now for around 10 years. If you are joining as a male, You need to be - realistic - that's the key word here. Something like 80% of members there are male... There might only be maybe 20% of genuine female profiles there. Beware of fake fem profiles! If it looks too good to be true it usually is. Stay away from $#*! pics on your profile! Women will hate them, If you do contact a profile make sure it's respectful. I just use the site to enjoy the live cams and videos... hook ups will be as rare as hens teeth.

Date of experience: October 21, 2020
New York
1 review
8 helpful votes
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No real women on AFF
October 20, 2020

I have contacted 100s of women over the last month. Probably 20% of the women were admitted prostitutes, 70% were scammers of some type trying to get money (gift cards) from me and perhaps 10% genuine honest women.
Its a great place for porn but a poor place to actually meet women.

Date of experience: October 20, 2020
North Carolina
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Worse website
October 9, 2020

This is the worst adult website I have been on dislike so much is always locking up it freezes up it will kick you off the messenger sometimes works over 75% of the people on here are fake profiles and every time they do an update it gets $#*!ing worse each time do not buy a membership is not worth the money

Date of experience: October 8, 2020
France
1 review
27 helpful votes
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AFF tries to rip you off at every opportunity: when they overcharge you or ban your profile for no reason right after you paid them, customer service gets non-existent. If you wanna watch naughty girls - there is always something better, cheaper and safer. It can also be used if you wanna get laid, I used to hook up with some chicks from there. But I have never gone on a real date through AFF, neither of their girls wanted a real thing, but they all wanted me to send them money right off the bat.

Date of experience: September 25, 2020
Florida
1 review
23 helpful votes
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Adultfriendfinder
September 12, 2020

Was billed two seperate bills for first month when it was clearly supposed to be one, now that im trying to cancel they offer a 20% discount, when i cancel it says sorry no survey and to call billing company number that they provide, when i call it says the number is disconnected, obvious scam. I added a screenshot of proof see for yourself before you sign up

Date of experience: September 12, 2020
North Carolina
2 reviews
11 helpful votes
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I was on the site 12; years ago and it couldn't get much better, if I wanted to I could hooked up with women or couples every night of the week, but between then and 2020 something happened to the what I thought best hook up site ever. I rejoined a month ago and paid for one month and as soon as I joined had 20 flirts, messages, and views but everyone one was a fake profile except one and she was a prostitute. Every day that I log in it was fake after or these Asian women trying to get you to come to another site. I messaged customer service and tried calling but no response, then two days ago there was one girl who I thought was real chat with me for a hour or so and soon as I felt comfortable with it, they offered me CHILD PORN. I blocked and reported it to AFF, and posted on site message board about this. But what they did next really pissed me off, they didn't follow up on this but deleted my account. I contacted the sheriff department and they said it's going to be hard without my profile messages since they deleted it. So I hope someone reads this before joining because it's a very unsafe site.

Date of experience: August 31, 2020