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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Fake profiles zero response to messages. Very weak selection of women. Dont waste your money or time

Date of experience: November 1, 2021
New York
3 reviews
14 helpful votes
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I have tried to meet people on here over the last year... i tried over 700 profiles and i have not met one person. All fake profiles that want your phone number or email address. This is my last month of membership so i will be bowing out of this trash. The worst site i have ever been on. If you would like to waste money then this is the best way to throw money away. I have actually only spoke to on the phone 1 person... thats correct... 1 not 10... not 100 just 1 person in about 700 profiles i had contacted over the year. Dont waste your time or money.

Date of experience: October 26, 2021
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Others went through same issue and have filed complaints at various sites. Adultfriendfinder charged my Visa almost $40 more than advertised 3month gold plan.

Date of experience: October 19, 2021
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Adult friend finder site is the first site that comes to any reviews that is regarding the adult entertainment. But AFF site rip you off remember. Standard contacts is 35 per month. As soon as you create a profile and uploaded a photo, you will get many messages from women/couples' that says has requested that we send you this icebreaker message What is Icebreaker?" and if you respond there is no response.
Another option I have tried is to use the gift card option instead of credit card, because I am not comfortable in using credit card details. For a 50$ target gift card, I got a 28 days of gold membership.

I talked to couple of profiles, many people say that those profiles are fake and they are not even women, one profile asked me to use a cam site to checkout.

So for no response from any profiles?. Especially if you are a single men, do avoid any such sites. I am not sure if any such sites are helping people to find their partners.

Date of experience: October 7, 2021
Canada
2 reviews
32 helpful votes
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If it's too good to be true – avoid it. 80% of the good-looking AFF women appear to be scammers. 20% are prostitutes trying to find a client. The site is geared to rip you off. You never know who is real on AdultFriendFinder. I had only one date via AFF. The woman claimed to be 30 years old. Her pics were overphotoshopped and perhaps taken 15 years ago. In fact she was in her 40's, very overweight with body odor, dressed like tramp. That was when I finally stopped wasting my money on AFF.

Date of experience: October 2, 2021
Utah
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Suing the website adult friend finder!
September 23, 2021

This sites is a complete rip off! I am turning in to the Federal Consumers agency for false advertising! And also the FBI there is so much prostitution and sex trafficking on Adult friend finder it's unreal! I can't believe how I was ripped off! And scammed out of my money in a membership! Also they have a stupid $#*! Arrangement ID bull $#*! too and it's requires all of your personal information just to get a date with an escort prostitutes and woman being sex trafficed! It's disgusting. They used false advertising to get me to buy a membership. Only to get my money and I got nothing from it at all!

Date of experience: September 23, 2021
Kenya
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I took a short break from the site only to log in 2 weeks later to be told my account is "invalid' for the two weeks i was off that site i received email notifications every day saying i had unread messages and a couple of profile views meaning my account was valid, but when i tried to log in after the 2 weeks break was told "account invalid" i had thousands of points i think they stole my points and erased my account because being off site means i did nothing wrong to warrant a ban its them not me!
* if they can"t protect your account is it safe to use your credit or debit card to upgrade in that website? I DON"T THINK SO!
They also mention that one can use points to upgrade to gold membership or buy gifts which i did severally or convert points to cash, but when ever i have enough points for cash prize account went missing! Went missing in april, with over 80 k points was recoverd a week later but disappeared again in september this time the account is" invalid"
they can"t even recognize the email address that i signed up with if that is not
SCAM! I don"t know what it is!

Date of experience: September 16, 2021
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Most of the women are on there are fakes, cam girls looking to make money on their own website, not attractive, or reasonably attractive and zero odds of getting them. I almost got caught in a phishing scam on there. Horrible site.

Date of experience: September 4, 2021
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Fake Money making App
September 2, 2021

I have been in AFF for over 4 years, I travel a lot, I change my location each time, with that being said. Every time... People that are Gold member are always 150 mile+ away, local members are never gold members that you can message or fake profiles. I think that they have a spam profile either views or messages you from time to time, to keep people to continue their subscription. I have never met anyone off this site...

Date of experience: September 1, 2021
India
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Aff review
August 12, 2021

Signed up paid for subscription and tried to search for nearby members and there are none. Most of the profiles on here are fake or dead, not impressed at all turned off auto renewal after couple of days realising its a complete farce.

Date of experience: August 12, 2021
Louisiana
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Over the course of the last two years, I tried AFF three different times but this will be the last time. First, it's best if you're in the age range of 20's to 40's... anything older is not good for men, but good for women who are "self-proclaimed cougars"; they're always out for younger men with testosterone overload and lots of stamina. By all means DO NOT pay extra for the option of having "non-gold members" be able to contact you. Doing that will only put you in touch with fakes, scammers from Nigeria, cam girls and bots. Generally, if a person forks over the $80 for a membership, you can pretty much count on them at least being there for the same reason as you are, as in hookups. Additionally, the ratio of women to men is WAY out of balance. It's virtual "sausage factory". Depending on the size of the city you're located in, you may find that to be worse. Overall, I found it to be a waste of time and money. I actually DID meet one woman on my second venture into the realm of AFF, and she was petty cool... but our personalities were too different for anything more than a very brief fling, but that wasn't fault of AFF. That's all most people want on AFF anyway... I was just hoping for something more. I will say this, if you find home videos and "extreme close-up" photos of exhibitionists even remotely entertaining, you can find LOTS of that on AFF. But, you'll find even that gets boring after a short while. AFF was a disappointment... I had hoped for better.

Date of experience: August 6, 2021
New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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100% FAKE SITE!
August 2, 2021

I have a feeling that most of their women are fake. There is very low level of activity and communication of any kind on AFF. I exchanged a few messages in nearly half a year, but there was no one I really wanted to hook up with. They had some really hot-looking ladies, but they were never online and never wrote me back.

Date of experience: August 2, 2021
Illinois
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Does not matter what you do. This Aff sites sells everything you have to hundreds of sex sites. There are dead women on here from years ago! There are child abusers here and rapists. You won't get a date. Most profiles are fake or are just folks wanting your money. If you are lucky you can get a slut for a nite but even the sluts. Don't want to play with a bunch of losers! The biggest racketeering scam I am ever seen. If you like self mutilation. They got it! You wanna see drugged women be sexually molested? They got it. You want to find a real date. Ain't gonna happen. They took my identity and I am plagued with perverts on my Facebook and Instagram account along with many others.

Date of experience: July 12, 2021
New York
3 reviews
18 helpful votes
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I went on AFF with one simple goal meet one person and form a connection. That could lead to at the very least a phone conversation. What happened instead is I message a bunch of women and did not receive any responses. There was a few people who seemed to view my profile (mostly from another country or city far away). For the most part I didn't meet my goal. They encourage you to keep the auto-billing on so they could keep charging me saying that it takes time to meet someone. I think it's baloney really. In one month I can't meet one person and get one phone number after messaging a hundred people. I honestly feel like this site promises something it can't deliver as the price is fairly expensive considering that I walked away empty handed and spent/wasted time messaging what seemed like fake people and I barely got any responses. There are loads of fake profiles and it is not a good environment to meet someone when there are all these fake profiles. Even the ones that claim to be real you barely receive a response. I would look elsewhere and spend my cash elsewhere.

Even to look at someone's profile you have to pay for it. If someone sends you an email and you're not sure if their a real person or not you have to pay for it. I don't plan to go back. I want to try to find something else.

Date of experience: July 10, 2021
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Adultfriendfinder.com is a totally fraudulent website!
It is filled with fake profiles, and trolls.
Save your money and your time!

Date of experience: June 15, 2021
Maryland
1 review
14 helpful votes
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I found only three real females out of nearly 100. This is a complete scam of your time and money. Please stay away, you have been warned.

Date of experience: June 11, 2021
Kentucky
1 review
18 helpful votes
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To many fake profiles
June 6, 2021

Honesty this is not a dating site, it's more for older adults to talk about sex, chat online about fantasies, in my 30 membership I bought gold and standard contacts, costing over 60 dollars, not once did I ever meet someone, I left over 85 messages not one was ever returned, I learned alot while there, profiles with just one picture 98% of the time they are fake, don't waste your time messaging them, and pay attention to local profiles that are on every time you log in, even though they have quite a few pictures, they seem to never leave the site, im guessing that they keep these profiles on so if someone new comes aboard, they will see local women think they can get a date and just play,, this got me aswell, don't buy into it, its fake. I hope that by saying this I have saved a few guys some money. Semper Fi

Date of experience: June 5, 2021
Georgia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Scam
May 13, 2021

Full of scammers, not many active women, if they are active they are 100+ miles away. Not to mention even as a gold member I can't see people who have viewed me. It's a complete waste of money and time I would not recommend.

Date of experience: May 12, 2021
Massachusetts
1 review
1 helpful vote
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As far as the adultfriendfinder site goes. They keep raising their prices, and cutting the actual services. If you are a blogger then you can count on them editing your posts to a point where it appears most speak in broken whatever their native tongue is. A blogger has to post their blog posts in the first comment section to avoid this little bug. Also any postings done in any of the areas like advice line, magazine, blogs, or group rooms can take up 12 hours before they can actually be viewed. As far as the chatrooms go you will be barraged by numerous bots trying to take you to yet another paid site where a person could be charged up to 8.99 per minute to chat. And all of those bots allowed to keep popping belong to adultfriendfinder themselves just another way to bilk their customers. Unfortunately they do tend to bilk their male members at a much higher rate. They have made simple emailing on the site a cost per email, as well as using the IM systems there. They are constantly encouraging the female members to take part in the bilking of the male members such as asking the women to post pictures or videos, and then to ask the male members for tips. Now adultfriendfinder doesn't give the women the tips, the women get points, and only so many points. Yes points can be turned in for membership costs, or even merchandise. But who gets the money, adultfriendfinder. They also supposedly have terms, and rules, which ninety percent of the time they never enforce. When they do enforce any terms, or rules they do no fact finding, the do not look to make sure if a rule or term was broken. They simply tell the one being accused they can get that information with a court order, or subpoena. So they will remove a membership, and not even refund the part of the membership left. They are sure no one would sue them, because of the nature of their site.

Date of experience: May 9, 2021
Georgia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Without a doubt a very crap site. Everything about it is fake fraudulent, a con, customer service is terrible their system is terrible people you block still come back to harass you. Do not believe any good review that you read about them I promise you they are all lies and paid for. I have been on the site for 4 years now. As a top broadcaster I have not had to pay a membership since I have signed up. I have found the site leaves your devices vulnerable to being hacked which mine have been several times already. Your account is very vulnerable your messages are being read and recorded by the site. There is so much more I could say but I've already said enough haven't I?

Date of experience: May 2, 2021