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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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113
value
115
shipping
32
returns
50
quality
100
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Canada
2 reviews
38 helpful votes
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3 stars
March 30, 2020

I joined AFF last week. Maybe ive been spoiled by HookupHangout but for me this site isn't all that yet. Yes their are women and yes they seem real which is good. But im struggling to get all that many replies yet. I concede that its still early days and I have heard a lot of good things about AFF but its one week gone and still no sex. Will see what next week brings

Date of experience: March 30, 2020
GB
1 review
3 helpful votes
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AVOID Full of Scammers save your money
AVOID tried it for 3mths, (UK)
Honestly, i've given up, not renewing membership, but knowing what i've experienced, my profile will still be there long after i'm gone
Most of the female (can't speak for the male profiles)profiles are fake or redundant, AFF, won't remove them, when reported, No customer support, Not interested as it brings the money in, also big on auto bot replies, answer a question with a question
Had 3 scammers from abroad, asking to meet, only if i would pay their flight, yeah going to do that, NOT
And not many, that i found to be honest,(1in300+)
AFF emails to keep you updated, are total lies, use profiles that don't exist, Or are profiles on the other side of the world for a local hookup
First port of call is to Use Tineye, to copy and paste pics, soon find out who are genuine, and not using some other models pics... i could go on but you get the picture
No doubt that there will be a review appear that says different, by a AFF employee? Got to protect their income!
AFF site dos'nt even have a review page, I wounder why

Date of experience: March 28, 2020
Ohio
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Worst customer service I have ever experience. I have been waiting two weeks for a phone call back to tell me why my account has been blocked. I have called several times and every time I get the same answer "someone will call you back" Two weeks later still no phone call or explanation. The site itself is a great site, but clearly they have not properly trained the staff to take care of the customers.

Date of experience: March 8, 2020
Indiana
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Nearly every woman on the site wants to talk to you away from the site. They will proceed to ask for gift cards of some sort.

Date of experience: March 2, 2020
New Jersey
1 review
9 helpful votes
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I contacted 100 women on AFF, and every one of them asked me for money for nothing. 100% of the women, if they were even women, were scammers. They have a great product that is over run by rats. If someone could build an algorithm to find the rats, and delete them, that per would instantly become a billionaire overnight.

Date of experience: February 27, 2020
Texas
6 reviews
45 helpful votes
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AFF has changed
February 13, 2020

AFF has changed here in the past couple years and not for the good. Federal law enforcement now combs through this site and bots circulate fake profiles in along with the real users. There's been a real take down on hookup sites since 2018. My 2 star rating is arbitrary, there still a lot of real users with male users outnumbering females by a wide and evergrowing margin. You can use a burner card, which I certainly recommended on this site.

Date of experience: February 13, 2020
Georgia
14 reviews
53 helpful votes
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Total Scam Website
February 6, 2020

The negative reviews you are reading here are actually pretty rosy compared to the truth. Yes, everything about this website is 100% a scam or fraud if you will operated by the website for profits. I purchased a 3 month membership in December 2019 on a one time debit card.

During my very short time there I have seen so many scammers it is impossible to have a count as there are so many. Since I am very use to their pitch, I simply wait for it as a confirmation.

The website has so many fake profiles of women that finding a real one is serious work. Many of their "Confirmed" female members are just young girls from other countries operating a business through a website called cams.com and listing themselves as geographically close to you. I actually reviewed 2 of them on their photos and AFF removed it initially and when I put it back, AFF just disabled the link to their respective cams.com sites.

Yes there are prostitutes on the site, but many of them are very open in their listing that they expect money.

I have met a few older ladies on the site, but not geographically close enough to date, that have confirmed many things in this post and supplied corroboration info.

There are so many men on the site that what few real women there are, they are overwhelmed with contacts. Some of the women you encounter are mentally ill, and others are "Coyote Ugly" both inside and out.

The website will delete any content that they want and even the scammers appear to have been allowed to delete comments, thus the website must be either in control of those listings or sharing the profits.

I contacted the company by their form and advised them that they were breaching the contracts with paid members, their reply was both a rebuttal and excuse, but very obviously more lies as I pointed out to them that their "confirmed" members that were listed as local were in fact in other countries

My membership is good until March 2020 and if this review site allows contacts between each other, I would gladly turn the gold account over to someone for free just to see what it is like there.

Date of experience: February 6, 2020
GB
1 review
35 helpful votes
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Easy
January 19, 2020

I like how adult ff is super easy to use so even a dummy like me can get laid on this lol! Only time ive ever used websites to get laid was with hookuphangout and if this is anywhere near as good as that site then ill be one happy dude:-)

Date of experience: January 18, 2020
Australia
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Very poor
January 18, 2020

Adult friend finder shut my profile down shortly after I had paid, then they took extra out of my account, I sent proof I had paid it and still they would not lift the restriction, even though I had provided proof that payment had been made,

Date of experience: January 18, 2020
Pennsylvania
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Used to work. No more
December 28, 2019

A few years ago I used this site to actually meet and hookup with 3 women. They were all nice, sexy and most importantly, horny. I had repeated encounters with them and it was great. It took effort but the effort was rewarded. Over the past 2 years I have come back to this site 3 times and even paid to become a gold member. I only buy $20 worth of gold membership at a time as it either is gonna work or not I posted photos and kept changing my profile to try and attract a woman, literally any woman who wasn't a bot or pro and I have come up empty. As in zero, nada, zilcho. For a man, if you are looking to hookup with other men, this site is a great tool. If you are a man looking for a woman, find somewhere else to spend your time and money.

Date of experience: December 28, 2019
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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100% TRASH! ALL Prostitutes and Pimps! TOTAL SCAM
NOTHING but women and shady guys looking for MONEY $$$

Date of experience: December 4, 2019
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Despite reading many positive reviews of this site made by people who are pretending to be experts I strongly disagree with them. The first mistake by the people who run the site is in allowing profiles to be made that do not show a face or even the overall build of the people who join their web-site. Secondly one can not view a profile properly or read anything about another member unless they first pay for the ability to view it. But why should someone pay to see profile after profile of other members who they do not find attractive? Thirdly If I had wanted to join a gay hook up site I would have searched for a site labeled as such. I found that adding photos of myself did not help since only paid members can view the photos and very few attractive women seem to be paid members. The only thing they seem to have done right is that they are allowing nude photos to be used in the main profile photo. I found it did not help to post other photos of myself since they apparently were only seen by gay men who paid for a membership or older out of shape women that I had no interest in meeting. To sum things up I found the site to be useless. Many of the main profile photos posted by their members are quite revolting. Also I did not see any clear explanation as to how one could cancel a so called upgraded membership and this leads me to believe it would be a hassle to stop automatic renewals.

Date of experience: November 28, 2019
Oregon
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Female user experience
October 26, 2019

I am a woman using Adultfriendfinder so my experiences may be a little different but in my opinion Adultfriendfinder is one of the few sites which are actually worth joining. I mean as a woman you usually don't have any issues finding guys who are looking for a good time but somehow it seems like most guys on Adultfriendfinder are nicer and more respectful. Don't know why but I usually don't feel very comfortable using those sites- So if you are a woman looking for a good time I can highyl recommend it. Another good options is CasualsexOnly. It seems like a very female friendly hookup site and actually some of my friends been using it also.

Date of experience: October 21, 2019
Colorado
3 reviews
6 helpful votes
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SCAM FRAUD
October 24, 2019

So you sign up as regular no money then you get bombarded with emails they have all these people hitting you up so makes you think WOW! STOP DONT THINK IT! What there doing is scamming you to join gold membership then you sign up to find out there bots and fake people so when you go to cancel they are more then happy but will not refund your money what a racquet huge money maker but it's stealing no matter what

Date of experience: October 20, 2019
Missouri
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Site is not user friendly. It REQUIRES you to use Chrome (there goes your privacy). Wouldn't let me simply edit my profile. IMs are glitchy to use. Customer service is a joke. Scammers galore answer your ad. And I was a "Gold" member. Don't waste your money.

Date of experience: October 19, 2019
Indonesia
13 reviews
70 helpful votes
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Outdated and useless
October 11, 2019

Imagine still using this site when Tinder and other FREE dating sites exists, with even more real people. Unlike this place which seems to be a compilation of scammers.

Just stop. This site hit its prime time way long ago when it was one of the pioneers of online dating. But now, don't even depend on it. Just find other trustable sites and stop the circle of lies, and surely you'll get what you want.

Date of experience: October 7, 2019
Canada
1 review
22 helpful votes
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AFF review
October 6, 2019

Screw the haters yo adult friend finder is still up there with hookuphangout and tinder as the nearest you are gonna get to a sure thing in this game. Takes time and effort yo but this is america yall, so what dont feel me?

Date of experience: October 2, 2019
Ohio
1 review
0 helpful votes
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This is a very good example of how a dating site that helps married people find affairs should be like. It's not the fastest to work but if you have half a bloody brain then you know there is no such thing as a quick bang when your married. It takes time and effort to plan ahead and pick the right chicks to meet.

Date of experience: September 21, 2019
Michigan
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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It's become obvious. These sites are sausage factories - dudes' package pics everywhere - along with sugar babies and hookers. What few attractive & real women there are appear to be overwhelmed.

Date of experience: September 15, 2019
Illinois
1 review
3 helpful votes
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92% of members fake...
September 18, 2019

I been registered since 2016 several times. Most of women profiles are FAKE... That's why I didn't renew my membership. I'm tired of sending messages to fake members...

Date of experience: September 14, 2019