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Personally, I didnt think sugar dating would work for me. Im in my 50s, and not a George Clooney nor a Daddy Warbucks, but after trying this site out my view on this has completely changed. Amazing women that were open and felt genuine. Im just dating for fun when I have the time, but I have my eye on a couple of special ones. Good on you Secret Benefits!
Secret Benefits is the best when it comes to Sugar daddy site. After joining, within a week I was able to get connected with many sugar babes, that is really something very amazing. Their services are topnotch and at the same time very economical when it comes to their charges.
I came in to re-write this review based on what support at SecretBenefits.com had said to me that they were changing things at SB which would make this review out-dated. So rather than write about something I haven't yet experienced I am going to write about their support which I must admit are very responsive and were actually open-minded to what I considered to be an anchor around the neck of an otherwise good site. So if nothing else I can say with confidence that if you are unhappy with SecretBenefits.com that you would be wise to contact their support before giving up on the place because they might surprise you. They did me in that most the time even if you have a valid concern that when you write support IF they respond its some canned response followed by broken English to which by then most of us have had our spirit broken and given up.
That certainly was not my experience with SecretBenefits.com. There is no doubt that support speaks fluent English and are articulate on top of that. I believe they will do what they can to make your experience as best possible. That said, some responsibility falls to the one that purchased the membership in that if you don't make a serious effort then how can you expect a serious result?
I am reminded of a post somebody made about a dating site they claimed was tops! The man had written that he'd only been on the site less than a couple of months and all ready he had conversations with several girls. Well that's all he's ever going to have if he hasn't gotten laid to that point. Some do, some don't, all want to, the difference between the two is effort. You have to make some kind of one beyond chatting back and forth. Oh and being that SecretBenefits.com is a sugar daddy site then if you can't make a serious effort; have some serious rewards to give out and the ladies will do the effort part for you.
First time I ever tried a sugar daddy site. At first I thought it was a scam when I kept losing touch with the women while trying to talk thru their system. And it IS slow which caused me to think there was something fishy because the offer I proposed was a good one and i fully expected a lot of attention which I got but then kept losing them after getting replies like "I'm down". "ok steve"... they were clearly accepting the proposal yet none of them was seeing it through.
Well as it turned out I landed a sugar baby who was far beyond my expectations and she's been so fantastic so far that I am still wondering how I got so lucky?
One other thing, which I liked about SB, was I never felt that intimidation about not being rich, at SB, where as some of the other SD sites I visited, but admittedly didn't ever do more than join the free section to see what the women looked like: but reason I didn't go further was the atmosphere they project is of people whom are much more sophisticated than I, so I kept looking for some place more blue-collar friendly and it was SB.
I've read a lot of negative stuff about SB and that also helped taint my view of things there but in the end I can't argue with the fact that I landed a fantastic real girl far exceeding my expectations.
I've been on a few different sugar dating sites. All in all I think this one has been my favorite. I like only having to buy credits vs. a monthly membership. I didn't have to spend a ton of time creating an elaborate profile. Easy to navigate. Lots of beautiful women to choose from. Only giving 4 stars instead of 5 because I've been on the site for just a couple of months now. If this good experience keeps up I would happily give it 5.
It was recommended by a friend that has been on this site and had good luck.
I've been on several dates with great guys since I've been on. The site is easy to use, free for us gals which I love and seems to attract real quality guys. I'll also recommend to friends.
Bottom line: it costs a minimum of $59.00 to respond to or send any communication with a prospective SB, and you will be relentlessly e-mailed by these bots that "have left you a message".
Now ask yourself if you are a dumb$#*! or sucker enough to throw away $59 to have your lack of intelligence verified.
Sorry you didn't enjoy your experience on SecretBenefits. As a sugar daddy, you do need to pay in order to message the sugar babies which seems to be where your frustration stems from. There are no bots on the site, just real men and women looking for mutually beneficial relationships.
I knocked around sad and lonely for a while tried the other dating sites for that special on. Accidentally I found Secret Benefits one day so I decided to try it. I had several dates was dissatisfied with them until I found this last lady. I did a match on her an almost immediately she responded to me. We made arrangements to meet and she just happens to be a local woman to me. Less than 20 miles away. We meet for lunch and wound up staying 7 hours in the restaurant. I know it sounds crazy but we were both into each other that much. We really like each other have a lot of fun together what more could I possibly ask for. Ive placed my profile on Away for a while Im just having to much fun to mess it up. Thanks Secret Benefits for making my hopes and dreams come true. Im no longer alone happy to have a beautiful lady half my age going places being my partner. I no longer a lonely unhappy man any more.
Awesome, we're so glad you found such a great match on the site and thanks for taking the time to share your experience.
I signed up on a lark. I found a great girl to enter into an arrangement with. Will it last forever... not the plan but I am thrilled to find her and enjoy my benefits. The site worked as promised.
Thanks for taking the time to write a review of secret benefits Dan, really glad you've had a positive experience on the site and hope you continue to enjoy the site.
Overall I'd say it's pretty decent site there are scammers and and such most anywhere or any site you go on. But there are decent women on this site. I think I have met one of these ladies and seeing many others who weren't really so interested but where good women.
Thanks for taking the time to leave us an honest review, we really appreciate it and wish you continued success on Secret Benefits.
Been on the site for two weeks, there may be very few legit girls on the site I think met 1, but the rest are total BS. (funny a reverse of the site signature LOL) I had some fun with it, and I just couldn't give my money away as a donation to help these girls out even if had I wanted to not even expecting anything in return, but after 2 cancelled dates and a no show with girls dropping of the network after agreeing to meet up or disappearing completely after I reply to their message, I am very skeptical and bit pissed that I waste this much time. Ok Herb, screw me once, shame on you-- you need to fix this s%1t. I'm done with BS of SB
Hi John,
I'm sorry to hear you didn't have a great experience on the site. As with any dating site, there's always a chance that someone you agree to meet up with decides not to at the last minute. Unfortunately there's not much we can do to make users more reliable than they are on any other dating site. We do have about 1000 new sugar babies sign up every day and a thousand sugar daddies, we are dedicated to providing them with all the tools to make it as easy as possible to make quality connections.
I was skeptical at first as I've tried other sites with no success. However I've been on this site for about 3 months now and although it took a while I did make a very positive connection with a very nice gentleman. As with all sites you have to be patient and diligent if you want positive results.
Hi TW, thanks for taking the time to submit a review of SecretBenefits.com. We are really glad to hear you've had positive results and wish you the best of luck!
I'll admit it can be a bit of a crap shoot, but c'mon guys, so are the regular escort sites. The difference is that if you happen to luck out, which I did (beginner's luck possibly), you can score really big. I'm going to shill for the site, even though they aren't paying me, which they should, in all fairness, for what I'm going to say, because even they have not yet thought to pitch their service in quite that way. So here goes:
1. I really don't think they're lying or bull$#*!ting - I got laid with benefits, man, by a cute, basically reserved, college student
2. The service is a cross between regular impersonal escort sites and those highly frustrating dating sites where you end up begging and pleading for a little bit of a**, and going round-and-round with this
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3. To the guys who don't get callbacks after spending credits (I'm one of them too), that's where the "crap shoot" aspect of the service comes in - making it similar to regular dating sites with one big difference, your odds of scoring big w/o strings attached are almost infinitely better
4. Don't blame SB if you don't get callbacks - it's like a lottery - you keep buying lottery tickets, don't you, even though you keep getting stiffed. As they say in that business, YOU NEVER KNOW.
5. For guys whose basic interest is getting laid in a meaningful way by desirable females, It might help to think of the service as a SEXUAL LOTTERY, where "you pays you money and you takes you chances/choices". Boo hoo to those crybabies expecting more - do you go crying to the lottery companies calling them scammers, even though they regularly "scam" you out of gadzillions?
Hi Dave, thanks for the great review, your check's in the mail ;) Seriously though, we are really glad you have enjoyed the site and stay tuned as we have plans in place that should make it like even less of a lottery.
I've had some very good dates with ladies I've met on this site. Sure there are some flaky girls but that comes with the territory. All in all good value for money compared to other sites, and I now have a couple of sugar babies I meet up with a few times a month to keep me happy.
Great to hear George and thanks for taking the time to submit a review, we appreciate the positive feedback!
Was a little skeptical about what to expect since this is my first time joining a sugar dating site, but its been a great experience so far! Their blog has been really helpful in figuring out how to message the guys and giving other tips like what to look for in an arrangement, how to tell real daddies from the fakes, etc. - awesome for a newbie like me. Ive got a few conversations going with different guys that Im really into right now well see where it goes from here!
That's great Taylor, let's hope those conversations turn into successful relationships!
I have met some legit women on here however there should be some way to review or screen those girls who are basically a waste of time and credits. Some of these girls think someone's going to pay big bucks simply for pictures or dates without intimacy. Responding to these girls' messages is a waste of time and money. I suppose these could be site generated emails, but I don't think so, they seemed individual. Anyway, girls should be required to state in their profiles whether they are interested in intimacy arrangements or not.
Hi John,
Thanks for taking the time to review SecretBenefits. We're really glad that you've been able to meet some legit women on the site. Like any dating site, we can't guarantee that you'll hit it off with all members. We encourage both sugar daddies and sugar babies to fill out their profiles as much as possible to provide as much information about what they are looking for. We also provide the option for users to submit verified photos and videos as a means to provide the most transparency possible when you choose who to contact. We really appreciate the feedback and are working hard with site improvements which should make your experience even more successful.
Ive joined a few of these sites in the past which havent really worked out for me, but its been different with Secret Benefits. Its easy to use and Ive had lots of interest from men that Im also mostly interested in. I like that the members can verify themselves as real people, and there are lots of men in my area. Im going on my first date tomorrow!
Hi Jane,
Thanks for the great review. We hope you had a blast on that first date and that there are many more in the future.
For a variety of reason I suspect they use computer generated messages to you as mentioned by others, to get you to spend tokens. I have had an absurd number of messages sent to me, that when I pay to open contain either "Hi" or "How are you handsome", but when you reply you never hear back. I am highly suspect about the "last logged in" info which was often different from the location they were supposed to be from, and very frequently was from cities in Maryland. I mentioned recently, and now every listing states "last logged in from United States". Finally, if you study the images closely you will note electrical outlets that are not used in the U.S., and I am confident I have often seen digitally altered images of the women, I mean actual faces shown that were not corresponding to the skin tone and position of the neck. For me, the whole things screams scam very loudly. Once my current load of tokens is done, so am I. The real girl selection is okay, some good and some not so, but the scam aspect is unacceptable.
Thank you for your feedback, we take complaints about fraudulent profiles very seriously. We would appreciate if you contact us directly about any users you have concerns about so we can investigate and remove from the site.
We are glad to hear you were able to have some good conversations on the site and very sorry to hear you had some bad experiences.
Users who do not respond can be for a variety of reasons, such as them deactivating their account, being banned, losing interest, logging in very infrequently, finding someone else they would rather talk to etc. Again, if you would like us to look at your account please contact us directly.
We did have some temporary problems with our geo location reporting in September which has since been resolved, we apologize for any inconvenience this may have caused you.
Met a couple of girls here over the last few months. Now seeing one of them on a permanent basis. Good number of hot girls. I see the review from Dan L, these girls aren't escorts, the price I pay to spend time with them is totally worth it. If you want a hooker go to backpages Dan!
Thanks Eric for taking the time so submit a review. We're really glad to hear you've had success on the site.
There are lots of guys on this site and after joining a few months ago it's where I met my current SD so perhaps I'm partial to it for that reason. The replies I did get when I was looking were more inline with what a sugar daddy relationship should be and not guys treating me like a prostitute.
I've been using this site for a few months now and am impressed at the number of legit Sugar Daddies I've met. I communicated with several when first joining and then narrowed it down to 5 dates who I met up with. I now have 2 great Sugar Daddies, a free downtown apartment to live in, and no crappy waitressing job!
Great to hear Karlee! Thanks a lot for taking the time to submit your review and for recommending Secret Benefits to your friends!