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Don't always trust your bff's judgment on everything. She told me about secretbenefits.com after I broke up with my boyfriend. I checked it out cuz I was curious if it was a hook up kind of site. I really didn't understand it was an actual mutual arrangement with a sugar daddy type of dating. I don't know what she was thinking.
The guys here are 10 years older than on Tinder and at least they are honest about what they want and willing to offer something in return. I recommend
All around I would say this sugar dating site is one of the best I've tried. It doesn't have as many members as some of the big ones do but the site has decent guys. Plus I think there is probably less competition on my side of the aisle. I would say give it a try.
I've been enjoying SecretBenefits, I'm currently chatting with 3 girls who are out of my league and hope to meet up with them on my next trip.
Not a lot to say really. I thought being a sugar baby would feel different than a regular date but so far it has been very similar. I've met a few nice guys who I've gone out with. I'm not looking for a relationship at the moment so this suits me nicely.
The signing up process was really easy. I need to still verify my profile, but nothing hidden or confusing so far. I was able to message a couple of men I noticed. No hidden fees or anything fishy. I'll see how it goes.
The site is basic, so that' up to you if you like that, I found it at least easy to get started. There were not many guys I would likely date in my area - in normal life that is. I normally like to be approached, but I realize that messaging is only free to sugar babies, so I went on a limb and messaged a couple guys I thought were decent. No reply. I went for my second choices, and I did get some replies back. You have to both do some investigating to see what everyone is looking for, but I did end up on a decent date that turned out to be fun. I feel like I would see him again. Not too sure about the other guy's profiles in my area.
I had my 1st date with a very nice man I found on the Secret Benefits website. I was a bit skeptical as I originally found this dating site from an article I was reading online. Who knows nowadays? I tried the experience from beginning to the end of the date last night. No tricks and no frills. I'm not the best or most patient on the internet and especially with a dating site, so I found this one easy to get started with. I found to my amazement that I was getting messages from guys after the first couple of days. Long story short, I had this date last night. A+ experience. Looking for a date next week, so I'll keep you posted if needs be. Ciao
Great site for meeting serious guys who know how to treat a girl. Seriously, I've felt like a princess since I joined.
So, first I would say that out of the sites I've tried to meet a TRUE gentleman that will treat me with respect and enjoys taking care of me, this site has delivered. There are guys to choose from, and SB seems to attract a slightly different crowd. In case you are new to sugar dating just keep in mind, I would say 99% of the sugar daddies on the site are not looking for a "forever ever after." I was regularly seeing a guy I met on SB for like almost 6 months, and just like that, he was gone. If you are used to bad breakups or sweet goodbyes you might be surprised. Most of these guys are too busy for the standard relationship. Anyways, I jumped back on the site last week, sent a few messages, and I'm right back in the game. I would recommend to those looking for a straight-up sugar daddy dating site where you might stand out in a smaller crowd compared to some of the older crowded sites.
Nothing really wrong with the site. The support is good. But I have not had luck. I messaged a ton of interesting guys, but I rarely get a response. Too much effort for little results. Maybe it's different for others but I'm about ready to give up.
The girls I've tried to get with have made me jump through hoops for a date. I'm not a bad looking guy and I have money but their expectations seem to be through the roof. Firstly, they all want my phone number but I need discretion (clearly stated on my profile). Secondly, they seem to think I should pay them just to meet up for a coffee which I don't think is fair. I have no problem coming to an agreement but after meeting to see if we click.
I met a really cool guy and then stopped using the site as one is enough for me. Nothing I can think of to complain about.
The site is straightfoward and modern looking. I like that it's a free membership. Still looking for a sugar daddy, but the dates I've been on so far were nice.
I don't know if I should have been more picky, but I found my Daddy after being on the site for only a month. He's really nice, good looking, and funny. I dated a few other guys on the site, but none of them really did it for me. The first date I got from the site made me really nervous because I've never been on a "sugar date" before, and I had no idea what to expect, but the date was really easy going and the guy was a total gentleman. I was looking for the total package, and the chemistry just wasn't there. The other dates were brief coffee and dessert dates, and they were alright guys as well, but I just wasn't feeling it. When I finally met the man I'm seeing now I knew he was the one from the start. He had the looks, class, charm, and finanical independence that I was desiring. We can just spend as much time as we like with each other, and I never have to worry about flipping the bill. He takes care of everything for me and treats me like a lady and he is a great lover! I'm so thankful to have met this man, and I hope we will continue to be as blissfully happy as we are now! Thanks to Secret Benefits and my persistance I finally met the man of my dreams! I've recommended to all of my BFF's to check this site out!
Met a couple girls but having to pay to write them a message seems kind of lame to me. I'd rather just purchase a subscription instead of messing around with credits just to talk to someone. The girls I've met were hot though so it's not a total disaster, I just don't like having to be selective with who I contact. An all-you-can-eat subscription, even if more expensive would probably do well.
I'm enjoying the site so far, but I wish they had an app for my phone. I would probably be a lot more active if they had an app. Just saying. The site is cell friendly, but not as easy as an app should be. I would give them 5 stars if it weren't for this.
Lots of guys, who, in general are polite and willing to put their money where their mouth is. Not sure what else to write here... I have met several guys, two of them have become more of a regular thing but I wouldn't take them home to meet the parents.
I've been on SB for over a year now. I haven't gone on for a while since having found a nice young woman. We recently moved on, and after coming back on to SB I noticed there are a lot more women on the site. I don't know if it's the economy or what, but it's great to have so many babes to choose from now! My only suggestion is I would like to see more photos on profiles. Hard to tell how some of them really look like in real life. I do appreciate that some profiles have verified identities. I find it assuring I'm acutally messaging the person I see in the photos. It would be nice if all the profiles were made to be verified.
Thanks for your feedback, we do encourage all users to verify themselves and find that more and more do so as it becomes more common on the site.
I reported a guy who wanted my bank info, supposedly to pay me before meeting - that's a big NO ladies, don't walk. RUN.
Customer service was very fast to respond and seemed genuinely interested in getting the guy off the site as soon as possible. There are scammers everywhere, good to know they try to remove them.
The site seems good, haven't met anybody yet but I haven't decided if this whole scene is for me or not.
I'm glad to hear you are enjoying the site. Thanks for your feedback regarding the app and please stay tuned as we will be releasing an app very soon.