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Cool site. My girlfriend told me to check it out. She said she had been on SB for 6 months and has had a good experience. I just lost my job and I am trying to pay for school and keep my head above water, so I was happy she told me about this site. I've always heard about women finding men that are happy to take care of them and encourage them to succeed in life, but I really didn't think it was something that would be possible in my reality. I've been on for like 2 weeks now. I had guys message me right away after I created my profile. I decided to verify my identity with them and I had twice as many guys message me after that! 3 dates in my first week! 5 dates after my second week on the site! Some have been really generous with gifts and paying my way, and some have been a little cautious acting. I understand we are all looking for an ideal situation, so no big deal I guess. I haven't met someone that I am totally into. At this rate though I feel I will find my sugar daddy as long as I keep it up and stay positive! I know there are several similar dating sites to choose from online, but I'm happy with this one.
I just wanted to say a quick thanks to Secret Benefits. I've been having a great time so far! Plenty of hotties, legit site.
I've been on a few similar sites to sb and this is definitely one of the best ones. A site like this is only good if there are a lot of active guys on it and honestly this is one of only two sites where you aren't scraping the bottom of the barrel just to get a response from someone. In general the guys I've messaged with have been polite. I'm pretty busy with work so I've only had one date so far but it went really well.
Excellent, glad to hear your date went well and that you are enjoying Secret Benefits.
My experience so far has been some guys that claim to be sugar daddies really are not cut out for it. Just because they think they have money doesn't mean they like to spend it. Took me a bit to find a legit daddy that liked to spoil me. Not everyone or everywhere will be the same, but just beware there will sugar daddies and salty dogs on every dating site you try. This one found be a legit man after taking some time, so be picky and don't rush it!
Well said Carolyn and thank you for the review. Very glad you found your man even if it took a bit of work.
At first, I really felt like a novice trying sugar dating on this site. But afer doing some research and reading the help emails SB sent me I got a better idea on how to approach men with asking for what you want from the relationship. Wish there was an active forum. Overall, so far so good after I got over my learning curve.
Thanks for your review Isabel. We're glad to hear you are enjoying the site and the emails and thanks for taking the time to post a review.
I signed up about three weeks ago and met a really nice guy almost immediately. We chatted for a bit and arranged to meet for lunch. He's a really lovable dork who thinks I'm absolutely gorgeous and honestly I felt kind of weird at the end of lunch when he slipped me an envelope and said he hoped to see me again soon. I guess I expected something different but it's something I can totally get used to. We've been out a few times since and I enjoy spending time with him. My first experience has been really good, I'm not giving five stars because maybe I just had beginners luck because I've received a few nasty messages from creepy guys who I would never give the time of day.
Great to hear, we're glad you are having fun with your lovable dork and hope any future dates go just as well. Sorry to hear you received some nasty messages, please do report any of those so our customer support team can help out.
I met a guy off this site who looked nothing like his pictures and was a total slob. After dinner he invited me back to his place and I noped right out of there.
I like secret benefits, it's free and there are nice guys. I've been a sugar baby for a few years now so I guess I've gotten pretty good at screening out the riff raff. I met Bill 2 months ago and we've really hit it off, he's kind, smart and successful and it's great being his arm candy! I can't really comment on anyone else cause I met Bill so fast but it looked like there were lots of good SDs.
No, I'm not an escort and the guys on this site have never treated me like one. I've been on several dates and I have NOT slept with all the guys I've dated. The great thing is that everything is out on the table, the guy knows that if we hit it off and want to date more I'm going to need to be $ maintained.
Thanks for the review Lisa, sounds like you're getting exactly what you want out of your relationships on Secret Benefits - congrats!
I've met a few hot girls on here. I'm not one to kiss and tell but let's just say a guy like me has no business being up in that! To those who think sugar dating is gross, it's just a more honest version of something that has always been normal. All this site does is put me in contact with women who want a guy that isn't a loser and picks up the check.
A friend recommended this to me but I don't feel comfortable with this kind of thing. I signed up and thought it was kind of weird that I had to verify my picture, I never saw a dating site do that before. It was confusing and my picture wasn't accepted for some reason I didn't understand.
I spent over two months trying to get my profile pics and video verified, sending message every day or other day to customer support without receiving any help or response, they completely ignored me. My friend Jack even made a profile and tried messaging them on my behalf since they were not acknowledging me whatsoever and he was also going to become a paying member, but only if they fixed my problem. Two months down the road of Jack and I messaging them they finally got everything verified for me. They told Jack to verify his photos to log into his account and when he tried to verify them, the site would not let him so he sent a picture to verify himself holding the paper up thru his personal email and received no response. Neither one of us are able to log in now. After 2 months you verify me and then kick me off the site?! I should mention that right before I got verified I was pretty upset with there poor customer support so I wrote a bad review and a few days later after my profile gets verified they saw my bad review and respond with some lame sh! T saying I did something that violated there terms of service or something and that's why my profile wasn't verified and then kicked me off the site! WTF is wrong with you people?!
Hi Baby, your behavior on the site was in violation of our Terms of Service which is why you were not able to successfully complete verification.
I found a great SD here in no time at all and wasn't innundated with messages from one-track-mind sickos like on other sites. Keep up the great work SB.
I'd never heard of SecretBenefits but I came across it while Googling and I've been presently surprised. I'm not the best looking guy although I do take care of myself but the girls I've met here seemed to really dig my vibe. I'm happy to have found a place where I can find girls who are into me even if I don't expect to find my soulmate.
I tried out several sugar dating sites with not much luck. After a month of being on Secret Benefits the man of my dreams contacted me! We have been seeing each other for almost 4 months now. No offence, but I just hope I dont need to go back on that site again anytime soon. Lol
That's great to hear Karen, sorry we won't have you around any more but really glad to hear it's for the right reasons :)
If you are looking for a sugar daddy try this site out. Im trying a few sugar dating sites, and I think I like this one the most so far.
Glad to hear you are enjoying Secret Benefits Marget and thanks for recommending us to everyone!
I tried out several sugar dating sites with not much luck. After a month of being on Secret Benefits the man of my dreams contacted me! We have been seeing each other for almost 4 months now. No offence, but I just hope I dont need to go back on that site again anytime soon. Lol
I've never had one problem with this site, it's fun, safe, and a wonderful way to get into the sugar baby lifestyle. I really enjoy getting the emails from Stella, and hearing about the other girls stories as well!
Thanks Emilia, we are very happy to hear you enjoy Secret Benefits and that it has allowed you to realize your dream sugar baby lifestyle.
If you like spending money to receive teaser emails from bots and scammers, this is the place for you. "Women" (possibly bots) will contact you. You will spend money to read their message. You will reply. You will get no response. Repeat this cycle until your money is gone. This is how the site works. Or, you may be one of the blessed ones who gets a real woman to contact you. She will ask you to send her money via PayPal so that she never actually has to meet you in person. This site is a fantastic place to realize what a fool you are.
Hi Fred, sorry you didn't have a good experience on the site. Please send us a message here or to our customer support and we'll be happy to look into this. Like any dating site, nothing is guaranteed but we try our best to make sure everyone has a great experience.
Gentlemen there are many attractive legit women on this site. Take your time shop around and be selective. I assure you wont be disappointed. Good luck and enjoy!
Thanks for taking the time to write this review William. There certainly are a lot of attractive women on the site, glad you are enjoying
Thank you too :) We are very glad you like the sites and that you have taken the time to tell the world about it.