Secret Benefits

I have received messages from potential sugar babies. But, about 90% of the women have written a 5-10 word note (or less) that shows zero thought and I, as a male subscriber, have to buy credits to initiate each conversation if I'm interested. When I've replied with a thoughtful response expressing interest I've almost never heard back from the potential sugar baby. I can't figure out why they send messages, put you on their list of preferred partners, and then don't reply. This has happened to me EVERY time. It gives the impression that the girls are fakes enlisted to interest you just enough to get you to reply (which uses credits) and then ignore you to move on to the next guy. That may or may not be the case, but this has happened to me whether the girls are "verified" accounts or not. The site representatives say this is not deliberate deception and rightly point out that they have no control over the behavior of their users, but it appears to be a pattern. Maybe it's just that the place is populated by vapid women with short attention spans who really have no interest in becoming a sugar baby or, I think most likely, they think they want to be one and sign up because the idea seems exciting but then decide they aren't really interested or they're scared and they move along. In any case, so far it has not been worth the time or money to me. Your mileage may vary. I will say that the customer service people have been responsive and helpful.

Feel for those having a tough time. Online dating can be rough sometimes.

Since signing up on Secret Benefits a couple years ago, I've been ghosted twice, dumped once, and I think catfished at least once but I cut those lines once I get that feeling.

On the other hand, also have dated some of the most diverse and beautiful women I've ever met off of one dating site.

Main thing is you play your cards right, write a nice profile, be upfront, load some good photos showing off the best of you, and be polite. Don't be trying to get in her pants or trade nudes right off the bat. If you wouldn't do it in person, don't do it online.

Not everyone will be a match, and not every hot chick you got your eyes on is going to respond to you. Gotta imagine how many dudes are hitting them up. But I think as long as you are not a creep, you can score here. Peace.

So I have had several experiences / conversations thus far from the site. And the girls on the site seem to be the full spectrum from outright pay to play to women looking for a boyfriend. From the three in person experiences, I am 0-3 thus far. One girl didn't even show up for the date citing "she didnt think the set date was serious" when in fact we had confirmed date / time / place two days earlier? And the date set at a very nice restaurant I might add... That is what it is and not much more I can say. The 2nd lady was a model/beautician/salesperson who did show up for the date. It was a nice time, fun, good conversation, nice girl. But this person, clearly well trained in how to look her best, decided to stop home after work and dress further down from her assumed business casual work sales attire. So she shows up to a nice steakhouse in sneakers, ripped jeans, a sweatshirt, and baseball cap, with minimal if any makeup on. Yes I said Baseball cap... Well she has Filet Mignon taste with a Burger King appearance. Should I be offended or feel disrespected? I mean, if your aim is to be treated like a Barbie Doll, step one would be to look like and carry yourself like one... correct? Arm candy if that's what you want to be needs to look sweet... As a man, if I show up to the date substantially better dressed than the girl, well, that's an issue... The 3rd meeting was a nice girl, straight conversation, just not for me. I gave the site 3 stars because thus far nothing that has gone wrong on those 3 dates is their fault... but hard to recommend the site if the quality of people are no shows / please don't embarrass me dates... Ot hard to recommend if most women dont answer e-mail. That being said, I am seeing alot of potentially fake accounts. Accounts where the pics posted are very attractive, they write to me to entice me to spend credits to write back. When I write back, nobody there... I'm keeping a record of all the activities and who does what because something tells me that while there are certainly real people on the site, I'm relatively sure the site is also sponsoring fake activity for financial gain. Update: Nothing new and same stuff others are experiencing. No replies, etc. And with the premis of the site, I really don't believe any of these other reviews citing "found the one", etc, etc.

Well, as a guy you do get messages from potential sugar babies. But that's where it gets strange. About 90% write a 5-10 word phrase (or less) that shows very little imagination and you as a male subscriber have to pay to open each message. Then you reply with a nicely worded reply--sometimes within an hour or so--and never hear back from the potential sugar baby. At first it seemed unusual and as time goes by I never became comfortable that the process is legitimate. I can't figure out why you as a sugar baby send a message and don't reply. Perhaps there's some reason that explains that behavior. But it makes the users seem very shallow. Some people may be but SB makes it look like it's 90% of the user base.

I'm sharing this review because there are many similar types of sugardaddy websites out there. I had only tried another one once before and was very disappointed, overall. I signed up for SecreBenefits mainly because I read lots of positive reviews such as the ones on this (TrustPilot) site. After only about 2 weeks on the site, today I met the sweetest, and sexiest sugar baby of my dreams! She is super hot and we connected very well on our dinner date. I am super excited to meet with her again in a few days. I am so thrilled with the results of SecretBenefits and wanted other men, like me, who are looking for that connection to have the opportunity I had!