Secret Benefits

So after an initial introduction to the site and using 100 credits very quickly, I bought the 1,000 credit package. I had lots of introductions from women, all quite polite and as such, I spent 10 credits a time responding to the majority. Out of those I responded to, at least 80% did not even read my response. Let me elaborate, supposedly a woman took time to view my profile, send me a message and then decided not to read the response, despite this being less than 24 hours since they contacted me?
Being a little puzzled by this, I sent messages to those who contacted me, asking what happened and two of these women came back to me explaining that they did not send the intro email themselves... it's done by the site. So basically, it appears that to spend my credits, the site sends emails themselves, so I "connect" with the woman, whether she is interested or not? That's just not right!
If you persevere, then there are opportunities, but honestly, this isn't right.
I did complain about the lack of response, before these two women responded to me and was given an extra 100 credits, but based on the information I now have, I will be reporting this site and will definitely be removing my profile when I've used the last of my credits. Avoid like the plague!

I recently put up a profile on secretbenefits.com, and I wanted to say that everything checks out so far.

It was easy to create an account and I was taken straight to searching for women in my city.

I live on a boat, so it's not easy finding someone to date a guy like me especially since I like to sail to different locations and be out on the water for extended amounts of time. I'm pleased to have already met a couple of women that seem very receptive to this type of lifestyle. I appreciate being able to view videos of these ladies and be able to decide on messaging someone before there's any talk of using my paid credits. Very reasonable website.

I've been on SB for couple years now. I have met a few interesting women but not long term. Some women think very high of themselves and I'm sure some guys are obnoxious as women have told me. I tend to be older and selective so I may not be best judge. There are many different choices if you live in high population area.
I do often wonder why so many women say hi but never respond again even after you keep trying.
Many more misses than hits but isn't that true about dating in general?

Just basing my rating on my experience on similar sites like Seeking and MillionaireMatch. I tried another one a couple years ago too but can't recall the name. Anyway, as far as getting to meet real women that are not fakers and scammers I tip my hat to Secret Benefits over the others. Maybe these similar ones are washed out or over saturated with wannabe's and posers, but whatever the case may be, this one is the best from my personal comparison. I also appreciate not paying a monthly fee and that this site is not so much on the radar as the others seem to be. The other aspect I noticed is the site seems to be growing with a lot more profiles popping up and that many are getting their identity verified which may be keeping the fakes out as well.

Took a gamble trying out yet another dating website. This one was a bit different from others that I've tried which I guess is why I gave it a shot. The signup was quick and easy, plenty of good looking women in my city area, I've messaged a couple of the ones that stood out to me and they both responded and we are currently chatting back and forth. Everything seems to be on the up and up and I'm satisfied with how things are going so far.

Anyone that's going to join up to Secret Benefits, or any date site like this one, should do their diligence and look into if the site is a legit place to look for relationship/arrangement wants and desires. What I would NOT advise peeps doing is create a quick generic profile and then chill expecting things to happen. Sure, I did start simple to check out the scene, but once I found some possible matches I went full on with my profile. Effort is required for payoff just like anything else. Keep it real. No site is going to plop your 'dream come true' into your lap.

I have used SB a lot to find interesting dudes to enjoy my time off with. Most have owned it, but some have not met the mark. Some have been very kind and generous and others a bit more stingy, but if you've been on sites like this, it should come as no surprise. I'm happy playing the scene and I'm not stuck on anyone. Fun and easy going times are my focus. But regardless, just keep it real, put your best foot forward, and don't put up with BS. #keepitreal

I would like to give credit where credit is due.

I've dated women off of dating websites for near 20 years. The ones that worked out have all kind of peaked and dropped off as far as maintaining quality women on their sites.

For the past 2 years, I've been using Secretbenefits.com and aside from being stood up once and caught in a long back and forth with another that led no where, the other women I've met have been outstanding.

It's also wonderful that I can find someone to date and if it doesn't work out for whatever reason I can go back to the website and know I wasn't paying for a monthly fee and my profile I worked so hard on is still up, credits still in my account, and there are even more women to choose from.

I hope they are able to keep it up and wholeheartedly give them 2 thumbs up for my good experience thus far with this service.

I officially got ghosted by a chick I was chatting with for the past 2 weeks... I thought we were hitting it off but maybe I was too forward or who knows? Anyways, trying not to keep score, but I suppose Secret Benefits can't be really to blame for my relationship success. I have been out with a few really cute girls from the site that are still of interest more or less. I'm not exactly looking for anything real serious, and I don't think the women I've met are either, so it's been fun for the most part.