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California
1 review
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Glad I gave SB a try.
October 2, 2020

I would like to share that I did meet a wonderful man on Secret Benefits!

Started slow but was obvious we had something right away.

You should always use caution when meeting people online, so use your good common sense, but if you are wondering about this website, I give them an enthusiastic approval!

Best of luck to everyone else out there looking for someone special!

Date of experience: October 1, 2020
California
1 review
18 helpful votes
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Mostly suspicious nonsense
October 27, 2020

Like many other in this review forum my experience was: join, decide to pay some $$ for credits, received almost daily messages from women, then go to respond to the ones I actually find attractive and nothing but silence. I had an exchange with one 24yo beauty - who wrote me first - then after responding with "Hi, you are gorgeous! I'd love to be your sugar daddy - how can I spoil you? " etc. then after weeks of nothing, the girl not online for 3+ weeks, and similar experience with other top-tier attractive women, I had had it with SB. I decided that indeed something fishy is gong on on that site. I believe SB pays for model type 18-25yo women to create these fake profiles. I wrote to her asking to meet one more time just to prove that she's actually on the site looking for someone/sugar daddy as I had decided that the entire site was a scam. She THEN responds with "I'm real - see my verification video?" She did have a verification video - but what does that prove? The funny thing is the video didn't even really match the photos. Anyway - I've decided this:

Either the SB site pays some # of truly beautiful young women to join/create the videos but none of them are there to meet you - or - the site does carry out some of this pernicious behavior and I was just unlucky enough to not contact the beautiful "real" ones. Either way - at least for the model-type women the site is a scam. I finally told SB my opinion and that I wanted a refund for my remaining credits for me to leave, At first SB would not refund. Then I took a couple of photos from one of the model types and plugged them into images.google.com. And voila! I had evidence of a totally fake profile. Remember - images.google.com is your friend. I then wrote SB claiming the site is a scam - here's some proof! Within hours they are refunding my credits and I'm off the site.

Date of experience: September 27, 2020
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Fantastic
September 23, 2020

Having a blast! Every night out with someone new. Real easy striking up a convo and having it lead to a date. If you're not having luck here, you're not doing something right!

Date of experience: September 23, 2020
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Confirming SB works
September 11, 2020

I was curious to see how others find SB and maybe get some tips. I'm fairly new to the site, but I want to confirm that my experience so far has been similar to others. The site works good, I got verified easily, and I'm getting a good amount of interest. Not sure what I'm looking for yet, or what I can find. I did have my 1st date a couple nights ago. We are talking about meeting again this weekend. Just still a bit unsure how to navigate my way in the dating process, expectations, etc. Tips?

Date of experience: September 10, 2020
California
1 review
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Easy to meet guys.
September 2, 2020

I really like using this site. The guys are talkative and open. I get a lot of messages and most guys have been well behaved. Going out is complicated because of social distancing, masks, etc. Otherwise a great date site.

Date of experience: September 2, 2020
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Times have changed.
August 27, 2020

I initially created my profile specifically to find a nice and attractive girl to travel with me. That's clearly much more difficult with all of the travel restrictions... I did recently change my profile to find someone to date locally. I just set my first date with a sweet girl named Angela. We are going to do take-out. Got my fingers crossed.

Date of experience: August 26, 2020
Pennsylvania
1 review
0 helpful votes
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New member Aug.'20
August 20, 2020

I would like to share that I've been on SecretBenefits.com for 2-weeks now and it's proving to be a legit quality dating website.
Easiest sign up process I ever experienced. Jumped right into searching, lots of profiles, many new, updated, and verified.
Reply ratio from my first 10 messages was 6 nice responses, 3 ongoing chats, and 1 in person date. Not bad for what little effort I put into this.
Next step is to up my game and improve my profile once I find the time. I expect my results wilk improve.
Very impressive for a date site.

Date of experience: August 20, 2020
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Found a beautiful lady on Secret Benefits
August 18, 2020

You have earned yourself a very happy customer. After being on your site for two months, using 60 credits on a handful of conversations, and being very amused along the way, I found myself the girl of my dreams. We have really hit it off with each other, communicate all day with each other, and our time together is amazing. Many thanks!

Date of experience: August 18, 2020
Texas
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Fine date site option. Better than most.
August 10, 2020

Read some others reviews here. Glad to see most see Secret Benefits the same way I do.

It is a fine venue to use if you are looking to casually date. I'm on and off myself when I get bored with my personal life. Can't really go wrong as long as you play it safe and are smart in general with the ins and outs of online dating. Still one of my top picks as long as they don't start charging monthly fees like most date sites do.

Date of experience: August 10, 2020
Ohio
1 review
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Still a good date site
July 30, 2020

As a returning user I would like to say that Secret Benefits has been a good service for finding women to date. I found a very beautiful woman here over a year ago. We moved on since, and I joined this site again. I met someone new and things are going great. Very pleased indeed.

Date of experience: July 30, 2020
Georgia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Best compared to rest
July 21, 2020

I gave SA, EM, and SDM a try as well as SB. Hottest women I've dated have been off of this site. They also have the credits advantage vs the monthly fees as most others do.

Date of experience: July 21, 2020
Massachusetts
1 review
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Can't fault them for nothin
July 15, 2020

I would say it was an incredible site except I'm still looking and hoping to finally meet "the one".
Site works great. They do have responsive customer support. The site noticeably has new profiles most times I look. Just nobody has really met all of my expectations fully. Happy to keep looking on the site, but I hope the right one comes into my life soon.

Date of experience: July 15, 2020
New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Giving SB a shout out!
July 11, 2020

This is 100%, no doubt in my mind, a standup dating website. 3 years on and countless dates with women. I am not gonna even try counting them. All unique women, some a little off, some too conceded, yet plenty of bombshells in the mix. I love using Secret Benefits. Only been getting better.

Date of experience: July 10, 2020
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Coming out of my vanilla shell
June 29, 2020

Say what u will, but I've never dated such a totally diverse amount of women before in my life since I started my profile on SB. Many amazing women I would never think would work if I had first seen them in a bar.
Course, many don't work out past the 1st couple of dates... but I'm going for the cream lf the crop so I expect that it will still be a challenge.

Date of experience: June 29, 2020
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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It's a whole new world
June 25, 2020

I guess I'm a conservative guy because when I first signed up for this service it was purely out of curiosity but not something I thought would work.
At first glance it seems like a normal dating site but once I warmed up to actually testing the waters and messaging a couple of women the responses and how easy it was to arrange a date was a bit mind blowing.
I wouldn't say this site would be for everyone but I'm definitely pleasantly surprised.

Date of experience: June 25, 2020
Nepal
5 reviews
16 helpful votes
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Awesome site
June 19, 2020

Well, I have been on secretbenefits.com for about six months now. I just got back from traveling with one of the guys I'm seeing. For any women looking, there are some good men that can legit hold their end up. Just be upfront and expect honesty. I highly recommend this site

Date of experience: June 18, 2020
Argentina
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Shoot and score
June 17, 2020

Beginners luck I'm sure. 1st and only conversation I started on Secret Benefits and I ended up with the woman I wanted to be with from the moment I joined and saw her. Salina is an amazingly beautiful woman with a very deep and intoxicating personality. Dare I say this could be love. I encourage others to stay light and reach for the stars! Blessed.

Date of experience: June 17, 2020
Michigan
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Props to SB
June 12, 2020

I tried out 3 SD sites out over the past 6 months. SB takes the cake for a nice site aesthetic, customer support response, and most importantly, I met the most quality guys from this site. Guess the proof is in the pudding so dont take my word for it, hahaha.

Date of experience: June 11, 2020
Illinois
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Having fun
June 2, 2020

It's been fun for me. I'm on Secret Benefits almost every day. I am chatting with a couple of really attractive guys. I also get new messages often. I'm not going out as much because of the coronavirus but I'm thinking about meeting with one of these guys that lives nearby me for lunch this week. The 3 best things about this site is that it's free, active, and has worked well every time I go on the site.

Date of experience: June 2, 2020
Georgia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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New member
May 26, 2020

Well, I've been using Secret Benefits for 10 days now. I get my opinion may not matter much, but for what it's worth, the website is easy to use and there are plenty of women. Been talking to one for the past week via video chat, and she's the real deal from what I can tell. I hope once this lockdown is loosened we can meet in person.

Date of experience: May 26, 2020