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The overall reputation of Plenty of Fish (POF) is largely negative, with customers expressing significant dissatisfaction regarding the quality of profiles and user interactions. Common concerns include a high prevalence of fake profiles, rudeness, and entitlement among users, particularly women, who are perceived as unrealistic in their dating expectations. Many reviews highlight poor customer service, including issues with account management and a lack of effective support. While some users acknowledge the site's potential for connecting singles, the overwhelming sentiment suggests that POF has declined in quality and user experience, leading many to seek alternatives.
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I tried this site for one week only to be bombarded by weirdos with sick fetishes. Along with being immediately viewed and then stocked by my ex. Learned he been on it a long time and had posted a profile full of lies. Immediately removed myself from the site. Be careful ladies this site is nothing but losers! My ex rss70 is one of the biggest losers! I'll take my chances without the help of online dating
ABC 7 Chicago news reported that a serials of arms robberies targeted POF lonely hearts looking for love. The gummen set up fake profiles on POF. The fake profiles has pictures of beautiful women that has been taken off other sources of the Internet.
These criminals set up a date to meet the innocent unsuspecting men and then robbed them of all their money, jewelry and other valuables. The men were lucky to escape with their lives.
A warning to everyone using any dating site in search of love... Don't take the pictures on the POF profile at face value because it could very well be a fake profile that can cost you, your life.
Use every precautions you can think of to be safe. The Internet is a wonderful technology to meet people but unfortunately the cold blooded criminals think so too!
I on daily bases receive mutual matches form "meet me" feature with ladies that I have never clicked YES on nor I ever would or even seen their profiles. Seems like POF tries to promote profiles of those least attractive ladies whom receive least number of messages by faking things. The hard part of it is that these people contact you and want to follow up and then you have to under go the embarrassing process of letting them know it has been a mistake which upset and offend some. This is why I don't become a paid member which I tried and was even worst.
There is no way people meet each other on there for love, in first messages I got nothing but sexual harassment, I had one member threaten sexual assault, sent pof screen shots and I got my account shut down? They not only discriminate, but allow the repeated sexual harassment of members and do NOTHING
First off, as opposed to men who could be wholesome, never had kids, never married, a woman almost has to be washed up to go online to look for men being so many sharks abound. The obesity is another thing - this and most other dating sites are loaded with such fatness, it can make a man give up on dating by seeing just what's available on-line.
For POF specifically, it started off fine, but got loaded with too much garbage such as the personality assessment, the owner thinking he knows more about what you should be looking for than what's pertinent to you (suppose you never had more than a couple weeks fun in the sack and are age 40, he thinks you should not find a woman compatible with you in extent of experience - so much for his mathematical abilities).
The owner was way so greedy - could have made everything on the site for free as advertisements could support the entire operation. The originator started pushing fees for one aspect or another to the point that it was useless without paying, reducing the claim of it being free. Not sure how many employees there were before he sold it a couple years back but currently revenues are $100 million for 75 employees. Imagine over $1M in revenues per employee. I suggest to everyone to boycott the site. It's 1% for humanity and 99% for greed.
Best for men to look at totally free porn and maybe in real life, find a gal, even if it's 5 or 10 years being alone at a time. Had women chose better, there wouldn't be so many single moms and good men passed up, making the big dating problem. Women do the choosing, not men. Strange, no matter how bad some men are, women still throw themselves at them. Wholesome men have little chance in the United States and what is shown on-line as far as available women, it's laughable that any man would choose them (on the most part).
I made three to four profiles and the last 2 days I make their profile after an hour or so I'm back on and it says my password is incorrect that's BS cuz after the third time I write him down then there's no place to call and then I get this little message from whoever the silly s*** is when you first sign up he's real helpful those help love it as a 10 year old at a taco stand BS
I created an account, but was later unable to re-login.
I wrote customer service asking for help, but never got a reply
This site claims to have zero tolerance for married people. A lie. My husband went on and is about to be divorced for it.
I would have been better of going to any other site but P. O. F they are bad lots of scammer and the support is horrible. Never again.
Im talking about the site i paid to upgrade thinking better clientele not the case not many benefits then i cant log in my email isnt associated with the username lol. Tried contacting them but good luck. So out of curiousity i created a new profile and can barely ever get on. Go to okcupid this site is a joke
Just about every single guy i have talked to on here talked real sweet to me for about a month or two, and then when they thought they had me right where they wanted me, they gave me some B. S. sob story that they needed to borrow money for one of their kids, and "I promise I'll pay you back." They embellished their stories by telling me they were overseas, or out in the middle of the ocean, or that their daughter was in college, and crying on the phone because she needs money for something for college. NONE of them got a dime out of me. As soon as they started asking for money, i deleted them, then blocked them
Hi Iam a man from The Netherlands and I have experienced that a lot of Polish and Russian girls are interested in me! Is that normal! I love the attention but starting a relationship is difficult. Does anyone expiences the same?
I am a man, so I do not agree with reviews saying the men's profiles are false, maybe if you try looking for an actual person you will find them, generally if the post boasts a pic of what you think is a gorgeous hunk of a man that probably is too good to be true, you are probably right. Really look at yourself in a mirror, you are not the same person you were in High school, so quit trying to act like you are. Also STOP and I mean STOP posting pics of your whole family, I am not trying to date your family and I have no idea who you are in a picture of seven freaking people, I mean seriously people use a brain. Any ways I hope this helps some people out.
A lot of spam bots and lots of very rude people not what it used to be it was better many years ago.
I mean this site is good for random fun. I would stay away simply because I think the people of here are crazy. The don't know how to start a conversation and just seem to be in rush...
I am a guy who spent his life passing tough exams as well as qualifying as a professional. Sadly, most of the women on plentyoffish in my age group have either already been married, separated, or divorced or they have become single mothers. Such women may be in the same age group as me but age alone is just one factor. Every time plentyoffish sent me a list of my so-called matches, not one of those lists contained any woman that had never been married or that did not have kids. Therefore, I always chose to ignore my so-called matches and search for the types of woman I want to meet and date. Almost on a daily basis, plentyoffish would send me one or more messages telling me that some females had paid a premium to be contacted first, they would be showing up in my matches, and I should send them messages first. But, once again, sadly, the women in my matches were not the type I wanted to meet.
Eventually, a beautiful woman who had no kids, who had never been married contacted me from the US. I live in Europe. On the next day, when I was going to respond to a message she had sent to me, I discovered that my profile had been deleted. I did try to recreate it but the website would not allow it to happwn. I subsequently looked on the website to ascertain what might have happened and it stated that a profile may be deleted: when the person had posted fake pictures on his profile; I had no picture on mine. When it is discovered the person is in fact married; I am single. When a person had been rude to other users; I have never been rude to anyone on either plentyoffish or any other website. It stated a number of other grounds as well, none that applied to me. Initially, I thought about rejoining it to obtain the details of the woman I had met on it. However I detest the people who manage the website to such an extent that I will never rejoin it by using another email address or in any other way. Good riddance is what I say to those working at plentyoffish.com
I have used dating sites for over 1 year; including E Harmony and Match.com.
These individuals (dates) are the bottom of the barrel. Read the other reviews.
Fake profiles, men who are not emotionally ready to date, and no customer service. Please go to one of the other paying sites and pay for them. There is a reason why they work.
Well it is a free dating site. No one looks like their photo. Its usually photo from a long time ago when they were young and thin. There are a few descent people there, but 99% are looking for a quick sexual hook up and nothing more. Most of the men are ugly, fat, mental and emotional issues. When they send a message it doesn't take long to realize I need to block and delete this fool ASAP. Also pof can and will delete your profile for no reason. There is a guy who is raping women on that site. His name is Robert Simental of La Mirada, he is a tall muscular Mexican man who will rape you if he can. Be careful ladies.
I am a great dad, I have a daughter. I am very Kind, loving, caring, romantic, hard working, Have a good sense of Humor, Easy Outgoing, Passionate, Honest, Responsible, down to earth, full of life, free spirited. I Love To Smile and never get Angry. I am creative and I never Play Mind Games. I love romantic nights but missing that part for quite some time now, food, pretty much in that order. Being able to laugh is one of the best ways to cope with life's rough patches, and it doesn't hurt during the good times either! An adventurous spirit motivates me to meet the challenges of being what and who I am today which drives me to seek out new experiences through travel, sight seeing and generally having fun. I Love cooking and think am good at it. Traveling, swimming, candlelight dinners, movies, walking on the beach, watching sunsets, Camping, reading and meeting New People, Dancing and listening to all kinds of Music... I love sports, the outdoors and dinning at great restuarants. I can be your best friend with family values and a cheerful outlook on life with a positive attitude. Content with my work. I live a healthy lifestyle, just ask around. I usually let you decide which it will be... I'm a good friend, listener, loyal, hard worker, brutally honest. Expressing my true feelings and I don't judge the action of people.
Urgh the women on here are disgusting. My age group 28-40 have to be the pickiest deluded nasty aggressive lot on there. Profiles full of demands and not any kindness happiness or joy. Not hard to see why they're single. Horrible inside and out
Somebody needs to have a word with them and tell them when you're below average looking you can't be picky and certainly can't have an attitude problem
It's like the uglier they are the more aggressive and rude they are. Totally messed up. You have no chance of meeting miss right on this site. They have more issues than Vogue
Answer: Oh yes, they want you to upgrade and pay! But when you pay you will see these profiles who you liked or who liked you disappear. They were nothing but bait-and-switch. You gain nothing when you pay, it's the silliest way to spend money. Are you looking for hook up or relationship? I wanted a relationship and I was really frustrated by Pof. Eventually I found what I was looking for on https://j4l.com/402007 But I've lost nearly a year on Pof. Not to mention emotional drain and money!
Answer: I just deactivated my account. This site is a sewer. Do not pay anything for this site or any site. I searched for free on other site( even paid ones you can search for free) and I saw the same guys on most of the other sites as well. I'm gonna grow old alone unless luck steps in and maybe I'll meet my guy IRL.
Answer: Yes its possible
Answer: Delete AND contact the company. If you know who took your pictures be sure to include the name on the profile that your pictures were used on, so they can deal with that person. Once you have deleted your profile, everything is GONE. I have never had anybody use my pictures on any other sites. I'm no great beauty, that could be the reason, Still, once your profile is deleted, everything is gone.
Answer: You cannot do it from the mobile site. You need to use your search, example safari and look up pof desktop version and go to the help in the top left. It will walk you thru it, if I remember correctly. Good luck
Answer: First, write to POF and explain. Now, and I mean NOW call up your credit card company and tell them what happened. I am sure POF will not contact you. Make sure to use the word "unacceptable" when describing the consumer service to the CC company about POF. Keep all emails too. Please keep me posted. Thanks Ann B.
Answer: STAY AWAY FROM THIS SCAMMING SITE! Any good you hear from or about it... DUH ITS THE SCAMMERS THAT WORK FOR EM. I been booted so many times due to unpopularity cuz i wont date trash so i get booted they keep your money they are garbage
Answer: Fake doesn't really describe them... more like downright liars!
Answer: Golden rule #1: Do onto others as you would have them do unto you Golden rule #2: Anything that sounds to good to be true, is not. Golden rule #3: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Answer: POF is not free at all, you have to upgrade; become a paying member to be able to do anything interesting.
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