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OurTime Reviews Summary

OurTime has a rating of 1.2 stars from 450 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OurTime most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles and credit card. OurTime ranks 53rd among Senior Dating sites.

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122
value
133
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returns
42
quality
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Washington
1 review
14 helpful votes
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SCAM SITE
September 7, 2016

This is the WORST FAKE site I have ever been on, How can they promote this site is for mature people over 50, when in FACT men 30 and YOUNGER are on here, FALSE ADVERTISING. The site sends me Flirts saying men are interested in me, which in fact is a lie, just a generated computer flirt from our time, which is embarrassing to me as a woman to think I have a flirt and I really don't, another Scam of theirs, Let me find my own man without ourtime time sending me bogus flirts, letting me think a handsome man has flirted with me, its an INSULT to my intelligence to find out no one FLIRTED with me. The mens pictures on this site are hideous, bathroom pics, why don't men@ least dress up and put on some clothes before posting a pic on a dating site? I am not impressed with men wearing a wife beater tee shirt and some old funky looking trouser shorts on looking like you just got out the bed and havnt washed ur azz, its a turn off. Men with cigarettes stuck in their mouth, Who wants to see pics of men with their dog, or men in pics with a lot of other people surrounding him wow. I believe our time must go to the jail houses and take pics of men and post them on their site just to say they have profile pics of men up posted. TERRIBLE looking men I could just CRY. Stay clear of this DREADFUL awful site, FAKE FLIRTS are generated to non subscribers to make you CURIOUS as to see who sent you a FAKE FLIRT, when we all no it was generated by OURTIME to get you to depart with your money. I cant believe this site is still up and running. I got a FLIRT from a man, then when I clicked on his profile it showed he had not even viewed me, again FAKE generated FLIRT from ourtime. RUN fo the hills from this site and don't look back.

Date of experience: September 7, 2016
Oregon
3 reviews
18 helpful votes
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NOT Worth Your Time!
September 7, 2016

Count me in the group who wants to give this site ZERO stars! This site is poorly setup and run. Features are inefficient and largely fake. Even if you make some search criteria choices, the system ignores them. Searching profiles it quickly becomes obvious that there are many duplicates... beyond those people who post their own duplicates with only slightly different titles, etc.

Their system regularly sent me notices that I have new message, but when I checked it was not so. They also have a weird way of identifying communications as flirts or emails or photo-likes, but when you check its jumbled. Often in making a selection to read whatever kind of message it says you have, nothing happens. Often in checking a new message you find the person who sent it no longer exists -- this happens way too often to be a simple matter of someone leaving the site!

If you want help, GOOD LUCK, it's not there, but you can snail mail them...!?!

This is just a poor site with poor business practices -- I would not recommend it to anyone who has a brain and is truly looking for appropriate companionship!

Date of experience: September 7, 2016
Washington
6 reviews
17 helpful votes
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Two thumbs down
August 29, 2016

This site stinks you cant peek at a profile without munipulation, 2 years and no dates. Yes im pickey and thats my god given right. Ladies your body is a temple take care of it! This goes for all! EXERCISE...

Date of experience: August 29, 2016
Connecticut
1 review
9 helpful votes
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TERRIBLE!
August 24, 2016

I JOINED "OUR TIME" IN AUGUST, SINCE THEN I'VE HAD TO CHANGE MY USER NAME AND PASS WORD 4 TIMES AND USE A SET UP A NEW EMAIL ACCT. FOR THIS SITE. MY USER NAME SHOWED UP WITH A MAN'S PHOTO TWICE! WHEN I COMPLAINED I WAS TOLD THAT FOR SECURITY REASONS THAT COULDN'T TRANSFER MY PHOTOS, ANY INFO AND I'D HAVE TO DO A WHOLE NEW PROFILE! SECURITY! WHAT KIND OF SECURITY IS THIS? I LOG OUT EVERYTIME I'M FINISHED ON THE SITE. I WAS ON THIS SITE 3 YRS, AGO AND NEVER HAD A PROBLEM. I TRIED TO TALK TO A SUPERVISOR... ONLY 1 AVAILABLE... BUSY WITH OTHER CUSTOMERS. I WOULDN'T RECOMMEND THIS SITE TO ANYONE! TRY POF. IT'S FREE ANDI'VE HAD NO PROBLEMS WITH IT.

Date of experience: August 23, 2016
Virginia
11 reviews
70 helpful votes
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I purchased one month for they say a discount price, but its the same price they charge anyone. Then I checked my cc account, OutTime took another 4.99 for I don't know what. I called them about this and all they said is it was some service fee, though I never saw where they were going to charge me another five dollars. So really one month cost 30 not the so called discount rate of 22.95. Now the site itself is a joke. I'd say at least a 1/3 of the people have no picture and those were the ones mostly who hit me up. At least on other dating sites you can block those people. The filters are very limited on OurTime. Another thing is once you sign in the chat is automatically on so you always have to turn it off right away or you will be bombarded with messages. The fishing site is by far a better site and its free.

Date of experience: August 17, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
5 helpful votes
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MY DAUGHTER IN LAW GOT ME USING OURLIFE OVER CHRISTMAS AS SHE FELT I HAD BEEN LONELY TOO LONG. SHE WAS RIGHT, AS USUAL. AFTER SOME TEETHING PROBLEMS (I LOST MY LOG IN PASSWORD, I COULDNT FIGURE OUT HOW TO SEARCH SPECIFIC AREAS, ETC) I STARTED USING THE SUBSCRIPTION MORE. IM NOW AT THE STAGE WHERE IVE LEFT OURTIME AND IM TRYING A NEW ONE CALLED PRIMETIMELOVE.COM, WHICH IS DEFININTELY MORE UP MY STREET. IVE HAD SOME LOVELY CORRESPONDANCE WITH GENTLEMEN IN VARIOUS PREDICAMENTS; A WIDOWER, TWO DIVORCED, ONE LOVELY MAN WHO HAD NEVER BEEN MARRIED AND USED THE SITE TO FIND NEW FRIENDS. OVERALL ID SAY IM VERY PLEASED I STUCK WITH THIS AND EVEN THOUGH I STILL NEED SOME COMPUTER TIPS FROM MY DAUGHTER IN LAW (AND EVEN MY GRANDSON SOMETIMES!) I FIND THE WHOLE ONLINE DATING SCENARIO QUITE FACINATING AND A WORTHWHILE, INEXPENSIVE AND FUN WAY TO MEET NEW PEOPLE.

Date of experience: July 11, 2016
GB
1 review
5 helpful votes
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9/10 very pleased
July 6, 2016

I used OurTime and PrimeTimeLove on and off for around a year and met my partner online. I no longer use such sites as were in a serious relationship but I would really say for anyone who is thinking of trying online dating that this is a good place to start. Avoid the generic sites and go with an over 50s brand, people are far more genuine and trustworthy, in my opinion. Plus at our age we know what we want and we know how to spot what we dont want. Use your experience and be open to new experiences, thats my advice. Im pleased it worked for me and I hope youll find happiness too. Best of luck.

Date of experience: July 5, 2016
California
1 review
6 helpful votes
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I found that this website gave me an upset stomach.

I have seen the following women on my site (some I deleted out of disgust): stylzbyKat, SweetTeresaBaby, MSDIANA200.

The woman with a username of MSDIANA200 contacted me. I find this very disturbing.

Apparently, this website needs strong maintenance service. I found that 99% of my matches were men. However, the remaining percentage was women.

Date of experience: July 2, 2016
Colorado
6 reviews
53 helpful votes
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Predator Central!
July 2, 2016

I am a single woman who joined this website in hopes to find a man friend that might develop into a relationship. YUH... RIGHT! All I found was online predators. I met a men and even casually dated him for about 6 weeks. He was still on there while dating me and turned out to be a serial dater, even when he 'claimed' on his profile that he was not! He also 'claimed' he was a 'widower' which also turned out to be a LIE! He claimed he was in love with me, and I was 'the one' and we could both 'stop looking'... all along he was serial dating!
Countless email exchanges with males that were ONLY after a 'hook up'. Once they found out I was not into 'hooking up', they dropped off emailing. One was from the same town as me, so we emailed back and forth a bit and turns out, he plans on moving overseas... so why is he on a dating website claiming to want a 'serious relationship'!
Also, my 'matches' showed profiles of men that had not logged in for months!
AVOID this hook up site if you are genuinely looking for a potential relationship.
P.S. I would rate it a 0 if there was a 0 option.

Date of experience: July 2, 2016
Virginia
6 reviews
29 helpful votes
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This loser is 51, he is a multiple felon, who I had been with for quite a few months, before he even admitted he was a felon! Ladies do a search on this one! He hurt me in the same way he hurt his first wife! He currently has 3 Felony charges in 4 counties for Kidnapping, assault with a deadly weapon, domestic assault, damage of my property! He and his mother are scammers and will take you for all you have! Chad is extremely jealous and dangerous! Email *******@gmail.com. Stay away with a 10 foot pole! Don't get hurt like I did he almost killed me!

Date of experience: June 30, 2016
Canada
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Ourtime.com seniorsmeet.com blacksinglesmeet.com and several others which use *******065 as their 'help/support' line that doesn't/never works are all owned by match.com. They appear to be set up to scam anyone using them. You probably will notice that match.com is present as an option on them.

Date of experience: June 28, 2016
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Maybe its my age but im still one of these people that are a bit sceptical and reluctant to hand my credit card details out on the internet. Unfortunately online dating is pretty much a non starter if you dont do this, so I read a lot of reviews and do a lot of checking before I choose an online dating site. So far the only sites that have passed my test are this one (ourtime) and primetimelove.com (ive done some reviews on that site before you should be able to find, its 9/10 in my book, really has everything you need). For this one I had no concerns about paying for the 6 months as its a well known brand with a lot of reviews and even if there are quite a lot of negative points, having your money pinched is not one of them. Its a good site, not the best ive tried but ive met some nice people on the site and even gone on a date. For me its 8/10 and worth a try if youre looking for a site you can pay for that you wont lose sleep over.

Date of experience: June 23, 2016
Nebraska
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Total Scam
June 20, 2016

Most of the profiles are fake or scams and they tempt you when you aren't a paying member sending flirts and viewing your profile like you are quite interesting to the general population. Once you sign up... crickets. To add insult to injury, they inundate you with advertising slowing down your connection and activities. Total mind *******@ck and I would never trust these scumbags again.

Date of experience: June 19, 2016
Illinois
3 reviews
15 helpful votes
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FAKERS
June 5, 2016

Almost every single "man" I dealt with either wanted s bikini pic of me or had absolutely no idea how to speak even though they had pictures posted that were clearly not them... TALK ABOUT A HUGEMONGOUS WASTE OF $$$$$$$$$ & I feel like an idiot. I'm just gonna put it all in Gods hands. If He sees fit for me to be single, then so shall it be. God bless y'all;-)

Date of experience: June 5, 2016
France
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Our time review
June 3, 2016

This site is aimed at the over 50s market, presumably widowers & divorced people. I fall into neither category as Ive been a bachelor all my days and im now 61. Im not retired so I still have disposable income and ive been using online dating for a couple of years now, as a way to meet new friends and maybe even something more, if luck was to smile upon me. Ive had some great dates and I like this site a lot. Its not the only site ive used so I do have a good basis for comparison, ive tried a few others and would say this stands up to most, apart from perhaps Primetimelove.com which is a current personal favorite of mine. But generally, this site is ideal for your needs as there are plenty of users and the site has clearly been designed in a way that makes everything simple for us golden oldies.

Date of experience: June 3, 2016
Georgia
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Ripoff
May 28, 2016

I was not happy with the service and had it set to NOT automatically renew. They charged my credit card anyway. I called customer service to ask for a refund *******065 my bank gave me the number) of course they say I authorized the renewal which I DID NOT. In 3 months not one acceptable match, they suggested women, I am not into women, being one myself! You cannot screen who sees your profile, no settings for location, no settings for you to only see local people. Over half of the men who contacted me were fake profiles. The possibly real ones either look like Santa Claus, white beards and obese, have their shirts off their over 60 year old bodies, need someone to hold them down and trim their eyebrows. And should you make the first move, after an email exchange or a chat will not contact you again unless you give them your phone #. Do not waste your money. I am now going to have to cancel my card and get a new one to prevent a future charge and deal with the hassle that entails.

Date of experience: May 28, 2016
Colorado
2 reviews
19 helpful votes
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This dating site is for "older " adults. About over age 50. Most women are in denial and still think they are 23. Many of them only want to hook up with much younger "boys". Either that, or they are in debt, looking for a bailout. Full of gold diggers. 96% of them have fake photos, fake profiles, and they are pathological liars. The company that owns Match.com,
Is the same company that owns this site. Do not waste your money. Sleezy company.

Date of experience: May 23, 2016
Germany
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Success!
May 9, 2016

Ive met a lovely lady on OurTime and im very happy. In fact, this afternoon I cancelled my account. I was getting a bit frustrated up until a month or so ago when I met Irene but it only takes one, so my advice is keep trying! A few of my work colleagues are divorced and use primetimelove.com, so that was my next port of call. But now I hope ill be away from the world of web dating for good. Fingers crossed, slow but steady!

Date of experience: May 9, 2016
Rhode Island
1 review
13 helpful votes
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Worst site ever!
May 8, 2016

This is the worst site ever, so much advertising and scripts running. Its worse than the free sites. Changing screens feels like you have dial up. If you use your phone it constantly crashes. Constant interruptions for upgrades, more premium services, it just SUCKS, horrible!

Date of experience: May 7, 2016
Texas
1 review
12 helpful votes
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I had tried several different sites and was disappointed in all of them. This one made me swear them off. The final contact I had was with someone that invited me over. He didn't look like his profile pic and I found out it was 10 years old. He was also infested with bedbugs. I got out of there so fast and fortunately did not transmit them to my home.

Date of experience: May 4, 2016