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Melanie Tonia Evans is definitely what I needed to find to begin the healing process. I happen to stumble upon her online, and that was the best thing I could have ever done. She is a very knowledgeable, passionate, kind, and explains everything point on! I have found no one better than her yet! Her youtube videos are something you must watch. I have learned so much from these videos. I highly recommend her webinar, youtube videos, and her program. Melanie Tonia Evans is really a blessing.

Melanie's work has brought so much clarity to my life. I sat google searching one night to find help for a problem I couldn't even identify. I came upon Melanie's work and her blog and articles. I knew instantly what had been going on in my relationship for years. She quickly pinpoints the problem and gives a solution. Most narcissistic recovery programs focus on the narcissist which is very draining of our energy. Her program does the opposite. It focuses on our inner selves and healing begins there. I am so very thankful for this program and how my life has changed from Melanie's materials. If you are in a relationship with a narcissist, please do yourself a favor and take part in her program. It was my first step in learning to fly again. Thank you, Melanie. I am forever appreciative for your wonderful help.

I was skeptical at first about the fast recovery time and promised results. But given the emotional turmoil I was going through at the time, I knew it was worth a try. My thoughts and feelings felt completely hijacked and was trying to make sense of it all. I know many of you can relate. I ordered the NARP Gold program January 2016. During this time I was constantly obsessing about how my ex discarded me, why he did it, and trying to piece together any clues that could get me closer to the truth of my relationship, since ex wouldn't provide me answers/closure. The NARP program teaches how to become intimate with our feelings and emotions, so we don't have to get closure from the very person that hurt us (and who will continue to hurt us - because they are acting from their own level of stunted growth/maturity). The program has been PHENOMENAL. Today, August 26,2016, I have reached a place of PEACE and no longer obsess over what my ex is doing (or not doing), or the injustice of what has happened. I'm a totally different person from seven months ago, and it is significantly due to NARP. Highly recommended and you can't lose -- I believe there's a 30 day money back guarantee. Melanie Tonia Evans is very dedicated to her work. She responds to those that leave comments on her blog and you can tell her work comes from a whole-hearted place. NARP has been more effective for me than traditional counseling. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!

When we are in the middle of a crisis situation somtetimes life or death we don't really want to hear about how we are the ones ultimately responsible for getting there and getting ourselves out. After reading and listening more to Melanie tell her own story and what worked for her everything started to make sense. I was glad I was responsible because that meant I was no longer at the mercy of anyone who tried to abuse me. This concept alone has given me tremendous power and confidence back. I know the road ahead is still daunting and will not be without it's learning curves but it's no longer up to him to decide what path I choose. The amount of support that is available here is unparalleled and I doubt you even know how many lives you save by providing this priceless information. Thank you so much for the opportunity to gain such insight into ourselves and letting us invest in creating a future i once could only dream of but can now see becoming my reality.

Even though you and your program are clearly a life saving experience, I don't want this review to sound repetitive; if anyone has gotten to the point that they are seeking information in regards to their predicament and came across my this message let me tell you "your narc is a mere factor anymore"! Although Melanie's program scrutinizes on what a Narc is, she takes it a step further and focuses on what's the next step. Melanie's program does not let you to decipher "what do I do now". For example, my career revolves around Physical Therapy. Once the patient is cleared from medical treatment and their life as been granted stable, the patient is not thrown to the wolves if you will, he/she now needs to be educated on how to continue life but in a different way. In layman's terms, whatever physical or cognitive boundaries that is enabling them to live a functional life physical therapy is provided to help overcome these obstacles and shows them that life is not over it's just being lived in an eccentric way. All in all, Melanie's program is the physical therapy aspect of it. By the time I found Melanie's program I already researched what narcissism was. To be more honest, I typed the words "suicide after a narcissism relationship" in the google bar and found the NARP program. For me, I needed answers on "why" and "how" no longer the "what". I was starving for information on why I got to this point and how do I love life/myself again. The program allows you to find yourself, wrap your arms around self, and walk hand to hand with self into this magnificent world that life was meant to live. I learned that it's not about my NARC, he doesn't even exist to me no more, it's about YOU and how to not let set backs and detours stop you from living a life that we only get ONCE chance to fulfill. I'm a Christian, and I literally interpreted her program that God gave up his only son "Jesus" who endured pain, torture and humiliation just so I can live life without guilt or depression. Why on earth would I allow myself to be justified by a NARC when God gave up a life just so I can be happy. . . .

I can't say enough about Melanie Evan! She and her webinar along with her several YouTube videos, have sent me in a direction of finally feeling like I can truley recover from the narcissist abuse! I've been in several abusive narcissistic relationships over the past 30 years. My ex-husband along with several boyfriends after that. I've been through conventional therapy for many years to help with my very mixed up past and to understand why I continue to get in toxic relationships with these type of men! It was not until recently that I finally broke away from the narcissist boyfriend and that lead me to research this very type of person and try to understand the crazy making mess of my life- When researching I came across Melanie's YouTube video on Narcissist Abuse. She was also hosting a free webinar on the subject. This couldn't have come at a better time! I've been so grateful for the clarity and understanding and most of all, I'm NOT alone or isolated with how this abuse can make me feel. I'm looking forward to healing the wounded child in me and getting my life back! I'm so blessed! Thank you Melanie! Christine K, USA

I never heard of narcissism before until I came across Melanie's work. It was like a wake-up call for me! She opened my eyes on the narcissistic abuse that's been going on in my life since I was a child!

All those years & being married to a Narcissist made me hit rock bottom. I felt helpless, hopeless, afraid of the unknown, I had a constant lack of joy, felt numb, broken, miserable & lost. Friends & family did not understand what I was going through. And neither did I. I couldn't rationalize all those crazy-like, insane constant fights I had with my NH, nor the toxic atmosphere that he was constantly creating that made me feel like suffocating.

Melanie helped me understand all what was happening to me! In two words! "Narcissitic abuse" The most insidious forms of abuse are the emotional, psychological & mental forms simply because they cannot be seen like the physical abuse. And Narcissitic abuse is by far the most horrific form since it combines all 3!

I am so grateful that I have this awareness now thanx to Melanie! I really hope that one day narcissism will be known on a much higher scale on a global level. And that people will be able to recognize it just like any other disease like STD.

I really recommend Melanie's work it's a real breakthrough I would say in History!
Thank u so much Mel! You really changed my life!

I have been in and out of abusive relationships with narcissists for the past 12 years, and each time one ended, I thought I had "learned my lesson" and would never be attracted to such a dynamic again. But somehow, I kept ending up in worse situations, no matter how much more worthy or emotionally evolved I thought I had become. After being devalued and discarded, for the umpteenth time, with my latest man, a man I had hoped to marry, a man I loved more than anyone I had ever loved, I knew I had to find a way to get to the crux of the problem, to heal my deep core-wounds. I did a lot of reading on NPD and co-dependency, but it wasn't until several different people pointed me towards Melanie Tonia Evans that I started finding hope again.

I've been in talk therapy for quite a while, but each time I leave a session, I walk out frustrated and in tears. While my therapist means well, and understands the hallmarks of emotional abuse, she doesn't really have the tools to offer me to make the deep inner shifts that need to happen in order to heal and let go. After all, learning to be "assertive" and knowing you deserve better really means nothing when trying to understand what draws us to these dysfunctional relationships in the first place. When I found Melanie and starting reading her blogs and listening to her videos, I knew I had finally found someone who got it, someone who knew exactly what I was going through. And she doesn't just offer sympathy, she offers a solution. After listening to her 3 Keys Webinar, I felt a shift almost immediately. Suddenly I felt some hope, where no hope existed before. She understands that cognitive therapy is only a band-aid, and what really works is a deep energetic shift that changes the very neuron pathways in our brain, releasing old traumas. I cannot wait to get started with NARP, and see where it takes me. The pain isn't gone yet, but I am once again eager to get out of bed in the morning, work with the modules, and begin a new and happier life.

After being in the dark for 23 years trying to overcome narcissistic abuse only Melanie was able to help me figure out the biggest preverbal trauma which was at the root of all the darkness. After trying everything out there nothing did the trick, but MODULE 1 of the NARP program gave the answers for the root of the problems! Go figure! Melanie, thank you so much for being out there helping others like me! You are an angel! Compared to what psychologist ask, your program is not expensive and worth the try! It can only get better if you try.

Melanie, in simple terms and language, teaches us profound ways to heal and learn who we are when we decide to leave unhealthy relationships behind and embrace our true, authentic selves. I have found no better therapy, book, video or resource other than the Bible that encapsulates how the human experience can be elevated through exploring our emotional energies. Our planet needs healing. This training and knowledge does so, one life at a time.

I could not understand what was happening, why I couldn't just overcome everything and bounce back just like nothing happened. Or even why it was happening and how come I couldn't stop it. I felt so isolated and worthless, about to be discarded at any second and for no reason at all?! Melanie's YouTube videos started to change all of that for me. I found out what behaviour a NARC uses to gain their supply and that it's meant to make me feel bad. To my surprise I found out that my focus had to shift to self-partnering rather than trying to fix whatever I thought was causing the problem for the NARC. After Melanie's webinar I now know that there's life! No wonder Melanie calls it "Thriving"!

I resonated with Melanie's work right away when I came across her blog and videos through a friend's link to her site. So much stuff that I had read or watched about narcissism in the aftermath of a relationship with a narcissist left me with a horrible feeling afterwards, no closer to feeling recovered or empowered. Melanie's work felt different. She got to the very core of what goes on in the dynamics of these relationships and interactions and what makes people vulnerable to narcissistic abuse - all in a way that led me to more self-understanding and self-love. For the first time, despite years of therapy and using other self-help tools, I understood how my past experiences as a child had led to me having wounds that were the perfect match for the narcissist - and could see a way to move forward out of that. I felt hope. It was a step from feeling like a victim to beginning to take back my power. I signed up for her NARP programme and have been using it for the past four weeks on a regular basis. Already, within a few days I felt relief, and within 3 weeks I was no longer obsessing about the narcissist or feeling emotional pain at anywhere near the levels I had been, and much less frequently. I have been able to take each new challenge - for example, hearing that my narcissist ex is now in a new relationship - to the program's tools and use them to find a stronger connection to myself, release trauma out of my body and feel better. The biggest change I have noticed is that I have not been feeling afraid to be with myself and to be alone anymore, as I was feeling in the aftermath of the traumatic breakup. I feel deeply connected with myself and have begun to love myself in a way that I had only been able to understand intellectually before, but not to fully experience. I have found resources within me that I never knew I had and feel so much more hopeful and peaceful and excited about life. I am not even halfway through the modules of the program yet and know that the rest is going to give me even more growth and recovery. My focus is no longer on the narcissist and what he did and what happened, but on myself and my life. I am deeply grateful to Melanie and her work.

If you be it, it will come... not just beautiful words, but a beautiful process... By simply listening to the webinar and doing the workshops up to only day 3, I've experienced a shift that years and varied modules of therapy only touched the surface of deep seated wounds. Not originally inflicted by a NARC, but just in recent years being 'abused by proxy' was devastating enough to about put me out of commission. Trying to deal with my own pain and feeling powerless to help my mentally and physically challenged son who was basically 'kidnapped' and bring exploited on many levels by these predators was more than any parent should ever have to deal with... being a fairly intelligent woman, I saw the red flags, shouted to all the 'right' people, to no avail. And all the while sinking deeper into the symptoms (peptide addiction) of despair, depression and trauma. Again I 'knew' where to look... therapists versed in trauma, DR's for medication, NARC support groups on line. I educated myself, tried to educate others and watched friends and family and agencies start to write me off as crazy, inept almost... some afraid for my very sanity. But truly unable to help. Even my spiritual belief system seemed to lack the answers!
Somewhere along the line among the many videos I found on narcissism, I must have logged on to Melanie's videos and eventually received an invitation to the webinar... after a lifetime of carrying childhood wounds, years of addictive behaviors, rehabs therapists, churches and an indirect NARC hit... a mere 3 hours caused a shift at a cellular level that has since allowed me to show up in my lifes circumstances in a much more 'becoming' way! Meeting with my little me and self partnering with her even just that one time has brought me closer to my True Self than I've ever been in my 58 years on this earth! I can only imagine the life beyond my wildest dreams that is ahead while continuing this inner transformation! I truly believe this can benefit anyone and everyone, even if they'd never come into contact with the level of abuse a NARC is capable inflicting... many blessings to you Melanie for sharing your journey of healing with so many! Forever grateful!
Lisa Backmeier

I have had help from talking therapies off and on for quite a while after an abusive relationship history. But something was missing and it wasn't making much difference to me. Then purely by chance I came across some stuff about a "narcissist" on the Internet. It started to click. Then I found Melanie's you tube videos about "narcissistic abuse" and felt like I had come home. It all made sense! And believe me the relief was enormous. Melanie knows her stuff. She talked in a way I could understand. I'm no longer alone in my healing journey... and there is hope! The pain, the suffering... she understands it all. But in this programme... the light is turned off them and onto you. And I am so sick and tired of trying to figure out my ex partner... that putting the focus back onto me is going to be so liberating! Thank you for all the work you do to help others Melanie. Including me. X

When I first was introduced to Melanie's videos I had no idea what a massive shift she would create in my life.
I feel like I've been searching my whole life for the deep inner healing that Melanie's program provides. When she speaks about our inner childhood issues and how they play out on unconscious levels and are the cause of our current very real issues and problems, it felt like someone was finally speaking my language. I felt huge resounding YES throughout my body.
After experiencing the Quanta Freedom healing only once I found a huge difference. Things that I had just written and felt so intensley (feeling like a dirty rag that could be discarded at any moment and feeling like there was no place for me on this earth) to realizing that I can take my power back (no one can actually take your power from you) and that I am an AMAZING person worthy of real love and so much more.
Melanie changed my beliefs so much that I could re-read what I had written before the healing and felt a million miles away from that dirty rag feeling after only a half hour! Delving into the pain and acknowledging inner wounds on a subconscious level and learning how we have actually created our lives to heal ourselves, and that we are not victims is the most powerful thing anyone can experience.
Having to ex communicate from my own narcissistic Mother (before i even found Melanie) has been extremely painful and I have often felt that no one in the world could understand my trama/pain. It's like the worst break up ever. Melanie validates your pain and uses it as a roadmap along with your feelings to reach your highest possible vibrations and reality in this life. And even sets you up for better future lives (if you believe in that.) I am so thankful that the Universe brought Melanie into my life and I am without a doubt ecstatic to continue healing and thriving and experience my life the way I've always dreamed of.
Sometimes I wonder how I could be so lucky to have experienced Melanie's healing but then I remember I attracted her into my life to heal. I am just as amazing and capable as she is. And if you are reading this you are too! We all are. With her tools you CAN get over whatever is keeping you stuck and in pain and you can thrive.
Thank you so much Melanie!
Thank you Universe!