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MelanieToniaEvans has a rating of 4.8 stars from 697 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with MelanieToniaEvans most frequently mention narcissistic abuse, narp program and youtube videos. MelanieToniaEvans ranks 2nd among Self Help sites.
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It's amazing how much difference this made to me. It's like Melanie's videos, workshops, and emails spoke directly to me. Nothing else I have seen, read, or tried was able to really thoroughly go through my experience as well. Incredibly helpful, without a doubt. Their customer service is also incredibly friendly. A lot of this reminds me of genuine care and consideration in a super deep and real way. If you're contemplating, try it out.
After 8 months of depression, fear, anxiety, and thoughts of 'what if I only did this or said this then he would have changed" Endless hours of reading about Narcissists and relating to victim stories, I came Across MELANIE one night in my search. Thank God I did! She gave me a whole new perspective on how to look at what I've gone thru. A whole new way of actually healing. Nothing was helping me heal. I took her free Webinar and I felt so good afterward! A release! I can't wait to start the NARP program. I now believe there is life after Narc abuse!
Words can't express how grateful I am to have ran across Melanie's website after reading one exhausting article after another on Narcissism! Im truly beginning to understand how a Narcissist is wired and how I can start to heal and get on with my life. After only just couple years involved with a Narc my Adrenals are drained and have left me mentally and physically exhausted, and sadly. Addicted! The free information Ive received from Melanie has been a Godsend and I look forward to participating in the NARP! Thank you so much for everything from a great support team!
I have mostly been watching the free videos and articles for a few weeks. I already have a better understanding of the relationship dynamics with myself and others that are causing me problems.
I also had a complete stage 4 adrenal crash with psychological issues after being discarded and felt hopeless to rebuild, until I started receiving Melanie Tonia Evans Facebook Posts. I look forward now to learning more about myself and how to heal my trauma from childhood and in relationships. I have looked into several other resources, but this one always felt right and I am learning to trust my intuitions.
I am looking forward to beginning the actual Modules for healing and learning to incorporate this into my daily life! Thanks so Much!
Melanie's sharings are hugely empowering. They have provided so many 'aha' moments for me and have helped me understand the hell I've been through and to diagnose Complex PTSD- not going crazy! She is helping me unravel, own and heal my own part in its creation, empowering me to make choices for freedom and sovereignty. I highly recommend Melanie's work for anyone truly choosing to get clarity, move forward and break the cycle of abuse for good
I am so exciyed about my narp journey, its only the beginning and I already feel better about everything!
The work from Melanie Tonia Evans is great to bring awareness to the topic of narcissistic abuse and the healing modules are really great. However I'm not a big fan of the support of Melanie's team. I asked them for help to support the Juno-Movement in our fight to help all children that are suffering from child abuse, to help to end parental alienation and they wrote me that I'm harrassing them and codependently trying to manipulate and guilt people into solving problems for me. That's not very nice in my opinion. But what do I know, I'm not an expert.
Dear Mrs Melanie,
It was like a blessing the day i discovered about your articles on narcissisms and since then i have been able to understand with whom i am married and also now am in a better position to understand his behaviour. He is a sick person and all the time i was thinking about what i did or say something wrong that provoke him to go after other women and so on. Thanks to you dear Madam, i feel more human now. So many times i wanted to just finish with my life and then the thought of my daughters being alone stopped me and i think may be God also wanted to me to save myself. Today even though the hurt is still so present, but now after reading Mrs Melanie's emails i know that i am not the faulty one and i feel more and more confidant and realise my worth. Thank you again Mrs Melanie you have been of a great help to me. God bless and hope your work continue to save lives. Regards from N. T
There were some many times that I wanted to just give up. Then I'd read something Melanie wrote, and I would start to remember "I'm worth so much more than what my narcissistic husband has made me believe!" For years I thought I was was crazy! He is a great guy! But that was what I had been trained to think! Her emails daily have shown me that I can thrive and I am my own person. Because I was always what he needed me to be to his followers! She has helped me soooooo very much!
Melanie guides people to pull themselves up by the bootstraps. Sure people who are lazy, or are so programmed that they imagine that emotional healing can be achieved by someone else doing it for you & / or by medication will not appreciate it.
BUT healing from deep trauma requires self inner work and she has hit on a really good way to help & to guide people to do it. Also her approach to people in her talk is very "up" and endearing which is what such deeply hurt people need.
Mel you are a Godsend! Keep up the good work & God Bless you!
I am anonymous from South Africa. I have been through more of one types of abuse in my life and Melanie's testimony has really touched me in a way that I then started wishing we could all have the light switched on for ourselves, and find the healing she found. I wanted what she has found....!! She is truly evidence that we no longer have to walk around feeling miserable about the abuse we might have suffered as a child or as an adult, in different arenas of our world. It brought me to an awakened mind, and I am now very excited about the future and all it holds. The material is explained so perfectly that it just hits home, and I could immediately grasp what was needed to do, and the result was amazing to say the least. What is even greater, is that the program has been designed for male or female as it is not a gender-based problem in society. Melanie, thank you for being the inspiration that you are, I solute you.
Love, Anonymous (South Africa)
Without this programme I just don't think I'd ever move forward, Melanie is so insightful and it's a blessing to realise your not alone, many others have been through the same but it's about pulling together and moving forward to heal and find our true selves. I'm so happy I've found Melanie
Until I came across Melanie there was literally NO help for Narcissistic abuse recovery, I went from therapist to therapist, spiritual healers, alternative therapy the list goes on and on, I helped myself research learn and understand what had happened to me but no matter how much I learnt I couldn't get well, I'm now at the beginning of this journey to wellness and restoring myself to the person I was before I met my narcissistic ex and no I've found the answer with Melanie's NARP program, already the few things I've participated in have awaken me more to the answers to the core underlying issues, I live in the UK and there's absolutely nothing around that helps with recovery from this type of abuse which is quite alarming seeing as narcissists seem to be everywhere! I highly recommended using Melanie's NARP recovery program especially as Melanie has experienced and recovered herself so she totally knows what we have experienced and suffered with, there's no better person to help than someone who's experienced it first hand! Its given me faith I will get back who I've lost but a stronger wiser improved version of myself. Thank Goodness I found her and I hope many more people find her too :)
I was stuck in a horrible rut with a narcissist. Every time I would try to break free I couldn't. When he would threaten to leave, I would literally want to die. After finding Melanie, little things started to click. I started to see things more clearly and am slowly getting back to who I need to be. Melanie and her words of wisdom have given me strength in days, not the years the therapists said it would take. I would recommend her site and program to anyone struggling to let go and find their way out of the darkness.
Melanie has been life changing with her miraculous program that has helped me get free of narcissistic abuse. I had tried therapy and support groups and it didnt help. Even though my mind understood the abuse was wrong, i still couldn't get free. There is nothing out there like her program. I highly recommend it.
Jamie
Having been a part of Melanie's program and webinar, I am already experiencing Amazing changes already! She gives step-by-step support and advice relative to coming out of a relationship with a narcissist. I could feel myself being lifted up immediately after her webinar as I took notes. I feel very supported by this gal and her knowledge base. Very personalized approach as Melanie has first-hand experience from the pain herself. Feeling very very grateful.
Tracy
I truly hate it when spiritual guru's get into blaming the victim. "You created the abuse that happened to you" they say. This drives me crazy angry. However, I also get bored and frustrated when nonspiritual coaches helping people heal from abuse spend all their time teaching me about what abuse is, and how it feels to be abused. Listening to hours of YouTube video's about what a Narcissist is does nothing to help me. THEN COMES MEL! This woman does not blame the victim but she also doesn't blame the narcissist. She focuses on what I really need and want. Real healing and deep healing. She uses the phrase "level up" a lot and that is affirming as what she wants is personal growth and a better life with new boundaries and healthy self esteem for everyone. I haven't completed her program yet, but I am excited to get started with it.
The community she has developed in her Forum has some very good moderators. BUT there is one or two who are ABUSIVE to members. It is not a safe place to be. When I spoke up nicely saying, perhaps they wrote what they did as they had their own triggers to deal with, I was temporarily removed from the forum as punishment. This is ABUSIVE behavior. On top of that the Moderators Gaslighted me afterward.
I suggest you buy the Silver Level and stay away from the Forum.
There is nobody on earth that understands and knows what NPD is, better than Melanie Tonia Evans. That is a fact that I am 100 percent sure of. She speaks only from her heart that is honest, caring and full of compassion.
Each and every one of her vidieo's is packed with insight into what NPD is. Then she goes on to give love based guidance in how to cope and deal with narcissism. Her experiences are real and we are very lucky to have her come forward to pass that on to us. The day I found Melanie for the first time changed my life and started my road of recovery from NPD abuse!
Melanie is an expert when it comes to narcissistic abuse. She has experienced it personally and has developed a valuable program to help get you through your own abuse. She gets to the core of why we attract abusive people and gives us the tools to heal, recover, and move on. If you are looking for a solution on how to help get out of a relationship with a narcissistic person, you will find them in her program! It saved my life! I am sure it will help save yours too. Thank you Melanie for caring enough to develop this program to help those of us suffering from narcissistic abuse so we can heal and learn to live a happy, healthy, and productive life!
I joined because I know someone who said that this site saved her life, that it was more important to her recovery than AA. For me, there is NO greater help that I could get than to have saved me as AA did from drinking and pills. I have come to realize that narcissism is a deadly illness to be around, for what it has done to me. At the point that I came to this helping place, I was 33 years sober and ready to end my life. I didn't know why. I learned here, the depth and magnitude of what had been done to me. From realization, you go through the next steps. This saved my life.
Answer: Hi Ed, all painful relationships with self, others and life can be traced back to the origins of trauma trapped in our bodies that can be tracked through to and released with the NARP Program. The only criteria necessary is that the person in question fully realises that they have inner trauma that can be attended to and is willing to do the work within NARP to achieve that. I hope that answers your question. Mel x
Answer: Hello Mary, the modules are a recorded healing session with Melanie that you listen to. They are designed to help you connect with your body, experience your emotions productively so that you can release them and through this, help to connect with your wound and vulnerabilities so that you can heal them and will not be so susceptible to manipulative personalities. It's very easy and it doesn't require that you believe in past lives. You don't have to have a particular set of beleifs to use NARP. It's very flexible.
Answer: Hi Cecilia, it is 3 hours. Also, know that you can download the recording and watch it in chunks if necessary. I hope this helps. Mel x
Answer: Hi Natalie, I am not quite sure what your question is? Can you please email [email protected] and one of my lovely staff can answer your questions for you. Cheers Melanie x
Answer: You may be able to identify core beliefs and where you feel these in your body.
Answer: I don't know if this answer will help you. But here goes. The Soul is a person. The Spirit is the communication to God through his son Jesus christ, so when we send our thoughts, feelings in Prayer it goes to the highest power God. We are born in his image, ( in other words a part of him) so we have the power in us to change by a thought (Quantum physics) and believeing it will be so, taking opportunity's that present themselves to you, thenyou will soon come to see how good thoughts can change one's life. What Mel is doing is tapping into that power. (Quantum Physics)
Melanie is an expert in the field of narcissistic abuse recovery & self-empowerment. Learn more about narcissistic abuse & how to break free from abuse.


Hi Silvia A. I am so sorry that you have had this as your experience, and please know it is MTE culture to be heartfelt and supportive about other people's passions, even though naturally we may not be able to promote them or take them on, simply because we are connected with our own missions, just as other worthy causes may not be able to incorporate ours. However, please rest assured that I am taking your comment very seriously as I wish for all members of our Community to feel understood, safe and supported and I am personally investigating now what has taken place. Kind regards Melanie Tonia Evans