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Match.com exhibits a polarized reputation among its users, with significant concerns overshadowing its strengths. Positive feedback highlights the site's potential for connecting users, particularly for younger demographics, and its broad user base. However, a predominant sentiment reflects dissatisfaction with customer service, marked by unresponsive support, unjust account terminations, and perceived deceptive practices regarding subscription fees. Many users report frustrations over a lack of transparency and the prevalence of fake profiles, leading to a sense of mistrust. Overall, while Match.com offers opportunities for connections, its customer service and business practices warrant serious scrutiny.
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I joined Match.com a year ago and had a terrible, terrible experience. I created a genuine profile seeking a genuine woman for a long-term relationship. I literally sent out many messages to women, probably well over a 100, only to get a few responses... 19 year old out of my geographical area, in a different country, or responses of women with no pics. I was fed up and I cancelled. This month, July, 2017, I joined again on their 1 month promotion, in hopes of a better experience... WHAT A SHOCK... as soon as I created a profile, again fake reply's and young women in different country's started rolling in. The women in my area that are suppose to be active members are not. I complained to the call center of Match as you will not get through to anyone that is actually employed by the company. The call center rep was extremely RUDE to me and spoke to me like a kindergarten child with autism... constantly repeating herself, and speaking over me... would not even listen to the concerns. I then went online and used the Match 72 hour complaint customer care email line only to find out that the next day they deleted my profile... I received an email from Match noon time that same day saying, I quote (" Please know that due to our terms of use, your Match account has been terminated, we cannot disclose specifics> if you wish to obtain additional information, a valid SUBPOENA SEARCH WARRANT, OR COURT ORDER DIRECTED TO MATCH IS REQUIRED"). What kind of joke is this? I had to call my visa provider, FRAUD dept to get the multiple charges by Match.com reversed. I WOULD NEVER, EVER USE THIS DATING SITE AGAIN! HORRIBLE, HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE, AND A BIG WASTE OF TIME!
After long questionaire was sent matches that were opposite of. Women looked like hags. Signed up for $20 month trial and was charged full 6 months immediatly. Called next day to cancel and told no refunds. Total scam site. Don't sign up. Ads are total lies. When you call you will talk to Indian Robot just reads back no refund. Must get rich keeping money from giving no refunds and supplying no service. Fake woman from escort sites and file photos. Should be locked up
Decided to try this site... had issues from the start. It duplicated pictures and wouldn't allow me to delete. They had my birthday wrong by 24 years, therefore I was getting matched with men way too young and after hours and many tries to edit these problems, I gave up. I have tried many times to reach customer service and have had zero success. They offer a "free" trial but you have to give your cc info and sign up to get the free trial. Basically just a waste of time and money for me. I'm adding to this review that the first match they sent me that seemed a good connection turned out to be a predator... he pretended to fall madly in love and was only trying to get personal info including my salary and address and got angry when I refused to give it. Upon investigation, his info, email, website and everything about him was a front. Match.com sent him to me as a match even though he was 4 hours out of my desired range. Be aware ladies... this site does not screen the dangerous people they are sending your way. Also you should know I am a woman seeking to meet a man as a match and they constantly send me women as matches for me.
In 3 months, I think I talked to 2 people via the email function. I am a normal guy with a nice car and a graduate degree and job. I am reasonably attractive. I am funny and easy to get on with. I have actually had successes with other dating websites to some extent. What you notice about match.com is that: Nearly everyone on it over 30 is divorced and has kids. Most have had bad experiences (aka baggage) that led them to become divorced. Most are super duper paranoid about answering a simple, "hello, how are you". Like what do they expect, a world class prose about the meaning of love in North America? Something about the way this site is marketed says, "please sign up here if you are a disguntled angry person who is not really serious about dating but just making a token stab at it.
There are tons of other sites... Or better yet: Meet someone the old fashioned way! See them and talk to them and ask them out. I can't complain about the fees because I did consent to sign up for the time I did. But that doesn't mean I dont regret it!
After six weeks on Match.Com I've decided to move on. I was lucky to get two matches a day. I messaged more than a dozen men; three got back to me. Two dates. One was obviously looking for a quick hook up. Honestly, who asks someone they just met how long they need to know a guy before they have sex? Eeeewwww! The other guy met me at a cafe where he had friends waiting inside for dinner; I wasn't invited. Then there was the guy who messaged me just to tell me I was uninteresting. Not great for the ego. The whole experience ended up being more effort than it was worth. I don't know why it didn't work for me. Maybe there's just too much competition, I'm too old and probably more than a little weird. I'm proud of myself for trying though. It was hard going on a date for the first time in 30 years, but I survived the experience.
My account was hacked so had to change passwords and sign ins on every bank, credit card, email... so I canceled, then my credit card gets billed again because they have an automatic rebill on trial accounts. I had canceled! Customer service does nothing and they are clearly authorized by the company to do nothing. I am filing a complaint with the Attorney General and Bureau of Consumer Affairs. I would recommend all of you who have had similar experiences, and I see there are many to do the same in your state. It is the only way to confront this organization. The process is simple so do not be intimidated
My account was hack on a Saturday password change and email change... Had to wait till Monday to be able to cancel my account because their office hours are Monday to Friday only. Trying to imagine what two full days with no control does. Must have lost credibility with everyone I was in contact with. I had to shut down everything because there's no sense of reinstating an account that's been hack. I ask for a full refund for my trouble which many other companies would do and they didn't accept it. This company will do nothing for you if your account gets hack. I recommend Zoosk... you'll get more people looking at your profile... Don't bother with Match, you learn really quickly what they stand for when your account gets hack. The receptionist also told me that this was an issue that was common. Not a secure site, avoid it, avoid it, avoid it. Mark my words, had more success with Zoosk anyway.
Match only joins you with partners that are at the minumem last log in status 3 weeks ago. Crap dating site for the user.
They canceled me within two weeks of my subscription when I went to log back in they said check my email for the reason why they canceled me and when I did check they said I violated policy what policy because I didn't kept my picture on up or because i took it down and put some better ones up, I have no idea but it's a good thing that I did not use my bank card I use a prepaid card so they wouldn't be able to renew any membership and I put enough money just to cover one month membership I have joined this match.com before and I know the bs they do to you but I said let me give them one more chance but now I know for those who find someone good for you and for those who don't,, don't give up there's other sites out there and you will eventually will find someone safe hunting
Match is not bad at all! Many members, more than on other sites. Had very limited success on other dating sites but Match worked pretty well. Not sure if I like it more or less than Mingle2day, in my opinion both work fine but keep in mind that maybe they are not a good option if you are not looking for a full time relationship.
I was a member of match.com. I canceled my account and continued to get charged through my account. They customer service are inconsiderate and rude, there is no manager to get ahold of, and all of customer service are foreigners. They will beat you around the bush, anything to keep their money. It is a joke, money grabbing selfish bastards. Make sure when you cancel your subscription ask for all your information to be deleted, or they will help them self's into opening a new subscription.
As a consumer I think that Match is one of the highest rated in my book. They provide a mot more security for their members. And yes, security initially costs, so what?! Not sure if I like it more or less than Mingle2day but I highly recommend Match and in my opinion one of the best dating sites.
Instead of giving the user more information at a glance, or God forbid, give the user more control over what information is presented at a glance, Match has removed every bit of displayed information about a candidate other than age and an "Iceberg Shot". An Iceberg Shot is best described like this: "10% of an iceberg is above the water and beautiful; unfortunately, it's the 90% you can't see that's going to ruin your day". When all I can see of a woman is shoulders neck and face, "that's" an Iceberg Shot. In order to even find out where a candidate lives, you must hover over the photo. To find out anything else, you must open the candidates full profile. You don't even know if there are any other photos until you go to the full profile. The new interface is so inefficient, that I've stopped using any of the Search functions (which they've stupidly re-named "Discover"). All I check these days are "maybe" the 12 daily matches, which can sometimes make me wonder, "What the Hell are they thinking?!" Other than that, all I do is respond to "Likes", answer emails and check Views. I can not imagine what marketing imbecile thought these changes were value-added to the user. I can't imagine the executive idiots that listened to the imbecile's sales pitch and thought, "Oh yeh, this will be a big improvement for our users." If they don't restore efficiency and information at a glance, I'm going to start looking at other sites. It's really "that" bad. Match's only value is in the mere number of candidates, which "can" improve probabilities, but at an unacceptable cost now. If you value your time, don't bother looking at Match. With great disappointment - Jim Moscardini
Match.com does auto-charge people without notice AND then if you contest the charge, and lose, they will freeze your account for the duration of your membership. So not only do you get charged, but you also don't get to use the service that you didn't want but paid for! This company deserves to be shut down.
They had many fake profiles of really nice looking people that suddenly disappear once they get your $$. I've had this experience twice with them now... There won't be a third. I would really like my money back. It's way too expensive anyway for bogus BS! Needs to be a law suit against them... Same with Zoosk and Our Time sending fake emails once your subscription is up making you think you are missing something! Stick with POF it's free and most profiles are real and they don't seem to send fake views and emails.
I was charged erroneously and when I tried to get a credit issued I was told to drop the dispute and I would be credited immediately. Upon doing so, they said it would take 60 days for the credit to appear and would not connect me with a supervisor.
I signed up for free trial cancelled next day charged me for 6 months account closed not using service and they keep your money no refund beware
Match keeps automatically charging the original credit card, so it does not check with the user before making the charges to see if the user still wants to keep the account. I was automatically charged, and after cancelling the subscription, I apparently renewed the service by going back to the same account one year later. I had to cancel the subscription a second time. The Match.com daters are okay for casual dating, but the vast majority are not looking for serious relationships. They are not looking for hookups either, but they are often uncomfortable meeting another person via online dating. I met guys who came up with a myriad of excuses to avoid seriously dating me (or anyone else).
Had plenty of dates from this site over the past 2 years. One of the best sites on the net for dating. Don't care what all the haters say... MATCH IS GREAT! Only site which comes close is Mingle2day. 5 STARS for MATCH!
Answer: I was unable to get a refund but I dispute the transaction and got my money back that way. I said it was because they were not providing the service they claim to offer. If you can dispute with your bank just tell them you didn't authorize the transaction and the company refuses to refund you. Good luck.
Answer: No I would not trust it. There are scammers on there. They will tell you want you want to here. They are from another country. Look for key words such as widoer, contractor, travel, one child only. They will compliment you right off the bat about your smile. Not safe. Try another site.
Answer: Back in the 1980s, strip clubs were pulling all sorts of over charge and fake charge scams and forcing people tp pay. Here in Atlanta a majpr federal case against the GOLD CLUB brought all that to light and alot of changes were made in the industry... I BRING THAT UP BECAUSE... these social sites seem to be attempting the same types of scams and are getting away with it. By U.S. fedeal standars ALL THESE SITES FALL UNDER THE RACKETEERING STATUTE. Unfortunately there is NO enforcement of these laws at this time. Your best option is to dispute the entire charge with your credit card. They may not want to do this because they are seeing so much of it. BE FIRM AND INSIST IT IS A MATTER OF CREDIT FRAUD. Also be sure to indicate that you are filling a consumer notice with the Federal Trade Commision (they have online forms for this to keep a numbers count on how many people are affected by these sorts of things. www.FTC.org). If you have been a good card holder, you shouldnt have any issues except for 1: ALL THESE SITES ARE NOTORIOUS FOR REBILLING/DRAFTING YOUR CREDIT ACCOUNT. You may want to file a COMPROMISED CREDIT CARD CLAIM AT THE TIME OF THE DISPUTE and have your card issuer SEND YOU A REPLACEMENT CARD WITH A NEW CARD NUMBER.
Answer: You will have a hard time getting your money back Terri. The first time I was with them years ago, I forgot the auto renewal and tried to get my money back and they fought me tooth and nail. This time I tried both Ourtime and Match and both experiences were not good though Ourtime was a bit better. I agree with some of the answers here that Match baits you toward the end of your subscription with possible contacts, but since I cannot proof that I have to add that disclaimer. Everything you have run into with your experience I have had with mine.
Answer: You likely signed up for auto-renewal, which Match.com doesn't explicitly tell you out-right that it will auto-renew. You will not likely get a refund back for the month they charged you. However, go to your account's settings and cancel the feature ASAP. You will still have access for the month in question, but at least you will have stopped future withdrawals.
Answer: Give them a call... they always have something to scam people about...
Answer: Cancel the card you used when you joined.
Answer: That is an extra fare item and they charge you each time. Best to do your own searches and replies...
Answer: Too much don't do it!
Answer: I feel the same way Teresa, i have been on the site for 1 year now and cancelled my subscription, but was told it won't officially cancel until May because i waited to late after my initial sign up day, so i got stuck with another year. I am a handsome guy with a lot to offer, but for some reason never really got emails as i expected, i started to think the people profiles were fake or the women i was interested in didn't know a good man if his profiled slapped them in the face, just sayN. 41, recently divorced for little over a year, highly educated, working in my profession, make close to six figures, single, don't cheat, great personality, smart, don't play, and real down to earth... but i guess no one believed it or didn't like my handsome picks... IDK. Confused!
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