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ChnLove has a rating of 3.2 stars from 618 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with ChnLove most frequently mention beautiful ladies, customer service and live chat. ChnLove ranks 8th among International Dating sites.
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For the past couple of weeks NaNa and I have been chatting every day and writing letters backwards and forwards every day. From my perspective, I think I may have found the girl of my dreams. I think she feels the same way. I have paid more than $1000 to write to her, and while I don't begrudge the agency that money, I can't find justification for it since NaNa's English is almost perfect.
I requested her contact details, and she refused. We're quite clear with each other as to why she refused - she doesn't live at the physical address. Not at the moment, anyway. She lives in other city. So after discussing with NaNa, as an alternative, I successfully request her e-mail address. I am sure this is what NaNa would like. Now, we email each other quite often.
My personal experience is man cannot request to get a lady's personal contact details too fast, especially at the beginning of your contact. My lady give it to me only after we are familiar with each other, and when she make safe at me. That's what NaNa said to me.
All the good reviews of Chnlove on SiteJabber are fraudulent and written by translators or employees of Chnlove. It is a totally fraudulent site. This site has photos of models who do not know that they are being written to on this site, fake emails written by translators; fake telephone calls where one talks to a translator masquerading as the woman one thinks one is contacting.
One person (see the review by this person on No 1 reviews) was tricked into marriage by Chnlove with a Chinese woman he believed he had been writing to via Chnlove for months only to discover after they were married that it was someone completely different with whom he had had no previous contact. I think that in French Law (I am in France) the perpetrators of such an act would be condemned to a term of imprisonment.
This Chnlove is a site to avoid at all costs.
Added after the reply below by Chnlove: This review above is a revised and shortened version of my original review to which Chnlove responded below. You can see for yourself from their reply what they are like and that they pretend to have all kinds of protection for their clients. It is all a load of puffed up fictitious nonesense.
I have been a member 'under cover' for a considerable time, and can assure everyone that chnlove.com and their associate sites are at least 70 % of scam, with the motive to extract money from the gullible, including the female members, especially the Chinese, who are also being deceived.
Any person posting positive here is either one of the very few lucky ones who found love, or totally oblivious to the sham, or are connected with the organization.
The only Asian related site I could personally commend as is a basic fee and no more requested to correspond - direct via email, skype, any, with 1 or 1000 persons is cherry blossom (blossoms.com). Of course, is up to the individual to decide who or who is not genuine on there. But at least if you report a bad person they will be removed. You are 'part' there if you meet on skype. Totally wasting your time if not face-to-face online.
Anywhere and everywhere is time-consuming, and if taking on a partner from foreign lands, you will need upwards of £25,000 for a positive union! Obviously this is not an immediate expense, but it will eventually tally to such. Plus a lifetime commitment to look after her and her family.
Hi Steve, how are you? Thanks for sharing the dating site and your precious comment to us. Hope all the brilliant things be around you all the time.
From your comment, we notice that you have been with us for a long time. Here we'd like to express our thankfulness to your continuous support. While we also notice that your confidence might be affected due to no positive result so far. This is the last thing we want to see and hopefully we can be some of help here.
As you have mentioned, some of gentlemen have found their love on our site. We sincerely wish you will be one of the lucky men. While we are not sure what problem you have met using our services, you are advised to contact our customer care team for concrete assistance.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
On the other hand, we notice many gentleman still come back to our site after using other dating sites, and we received many thank-you letters from our gentlemen. Thanks to the support of our sincere members, now we had many testimonials on our site. This could be the most valuable witnesses of our happy couples.
Steven, we are thankful for your time and patience on listening to us. No matter which dating site you prefer, we wish you good luck and find your ideal lady soon. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Best regards,
ChnLove Customer Service Team
Actually, I always get good service from the site. And there will be prompt and efficient response to my request every time. I really appreciate it. I will visit my lady of the site soon, and we will be talking about the marriage plan. So may be I will leave the site soon. Anybody and everybody that asks about will get nothing but praise about the website and especially the customer service!
Everything is OK since I signed up ChnLove.com. Just applied Cupid Date to meet my lady, excited but a little bit nervous. I am excited because we finally can meet each other to experience a real date. I am nervous because I am not sure whether she would like the real me or not. Anyway, keep a positive attitude and be confident!
This site is obviously a scam. Before I was even finished with my profile, or posted a photo, I was getting a dozen chat requests a minute, from girls complimenting my pic. Only a fool would pay a dime to this site. More than likely, the chat requests are computer generated.
AVOID AVOID AVOID.
I have asked the lady who I was planning to get married three times to tell me if she has received my letter that I sent directly to her, because it cost me $66.00 to get her address and I want to know if she got my letter. But she has not written me back on my address or email. Also I required the interpreter to ask My lady to tell me if she has received them or not, but they have not returned to me. So I asked the customer care team to look into this matter for me. With their help, everything was ok and I withdrew my complaint with the interpreter later. I found out sometimes my lady forgets to answer all the questions and the interpreter also sometimes forgets to put in the letter to her. One thing I do know we all sometime forget, so everything is ok, I think the site is helpful.
I haven't spent a dollar. I just like looking at the women. If they are selling you a dream, then don't pay for it. That way you don't have to ever wake up. I wont pay for this service unless I get this job in China I'm applying for and can see women more regularly. I'm a little curious that I was getting mail without setting up an account with a photo. I also can't find any offline profiles. Always be cautious even if you think something is legit. I got married to a English student I met on eharmony she lied before and after the marriage. Can't blame the service there. Not sure if this is a scam, I know a lot of them are wearing the same clothes in the photo shoots but you could easily put that down to them having to pay the same company to do professional photos for them. If it's real they probably have to pay through the nose too.
4 stars for lovely free photos. Still cautious about the rest.
I know some men will try the service and leave after a short while as they think that it is not for them, so they will lose the money and put it down to a bad experience and move on. I on the other hand will not, I have invested my time and money with the site, that I believe it should only be a matter of time before I do find the one with the help of the site and the help of one or two very good honest and decent agencies.
I've been looking at this site for the past couple of months. Saving some profiles in favorites, etc. But did you ever notice that many of the girls have the same dresses on? Total giveaway that they are probably just being paid to model and then their photos are being used to build fake profiles. How can a 50 year old woman look 20? Not even in China! It is all a scam to get you to buy credits to mail back and forth. I saw one profile of a nice middle aged christian woman. When I read the letter that came from her, it was nothing like the profile. She was talking about how good it would feel when I was deep inside her. And this was her 1st letter! Also, notice that most of the letters you get from them all have the same basic format. They start by telling you about the meaning of their name etc, and it goes on from there. Unfortunately, there may be a few honest girls on the site, but with all the scamming going on, it's not worth it. There are other sites that look legit and don't charge astronomical fees. Also the women look more their age. Wise up and don't give your hard-earned money away for false hopes.
How are you? Thanks for sharing your experience with us about our service. It’s regretful that we could not meet your satisfaction on using our services. Hope all the brilliant things be around you all the time.
From your comment, we notice that you are concerned about the lady’s authenticity, right? In fact, Chnlove do understand our customer's concern, that's why we had implemented many measures to enable the authenticity of ladies.
As you may agree, for online dating, the ladies' only and best weapon is their photos. So some ladies will try to show their best on photos via admirer or EMF letters to attract gentlemen's attention. From our observation, some ladies may go to the studio to take more professional photos with makeup. So they may wear similar dresses and look more beautiful. We are not sure whether these extra efforts made you have confusion.
Besides, please note that sending any obscene text or image is absolutely prohibited when using our services. You are also advised to contact our Customer Care team for concrete assistance. If we found out any violation against our rules, corrective and punitive measures will be taken accordingly.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Thanks again for sharing your comments with us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Best regards,
ChnLove Customer Service Team
I've been a member there since 2008. Guys, I'm just as stupid as you. Did it ever strike you that this website has no webcam? Why? Because it's highly likely you're paying absorbent amount of money to buy credits to chat with a lady who does not exist... except in your imagination.
Another thing you should know…many profiles of young women ages 20 to 30 state they want a guy any age. That's a crock and a set up. You're get lots of warm and loving letters back because you're paying per latter sent and received to someone who is probably laughing at you on the other end. Who knows?
It's quite possible it a guy writing you back. You can't even see them on cam! Think!
The site is 80 to 85% Scam. That is what I'm sure of after 6 years on the site but now I quite.
Check out other dating site pay per month 30 bucks. You'll see what natural Chinese women look like, talk like and think like. The chnlove site is a photo shop con game and a racket.
What you will get is a lot of women writing anything to keep you writing. They will cover you up with mail, because you must pay for so-called translation. What is really happening is that these women are being paid to write, and if you are so foolhardy as to buy contact information, the lady will immediately cease and desist. Why, because she has all the money she is gonna get from you. I could go on and on, but the bottom line is that the Chinese do not have any integrity.
From your message, we noticed that you have concern about the letters from ladies. Please kindly note that Chnlove will not employ women for writing, all the communication should be on ladies’ own will. We are not sure if there’s any misunderstanding between you and your lady. While as a platform, we do hope you could have a better using experience in our site. Whenever you have confusion or meet any problem in using our service, you are advised to contact our Customer Care Team for concrete assistance. It’s always our pleasure to help our sincere gentleman.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Besides, as you may agree, ladies and gentleman have cultural background, so sometimes they may have different expectation towards a relationship. In addition, different attitude and different ways of communication will also lead to different results. If you would like to request the ladies’ contact information and contact them in private. You’d better have in-depth communication with them for this in advance. Good communication sometimes is the key to success. We sincerely hope you could work out a positive result with your beloved lady soon.
Thanks again for sharing your comments with us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Regards,
ChnLove Customer Service Team
A recent breakup prompted me to go on chnlove.com, sort of as a rebound if you wish. I was only looking to have fun on this site and kind of help heal my broken heart. In one of my chats, I came across this woman who simply stole my heart. My fun and games have come back to bite me because now I am falling deeply in love with her and according to her, she feels the same way. We are making plans to meet physically, but for now we do communicate several times a day. Much as it was a chance encounter with this site, I would definitely recommend it.
I am literally counting down the days till I will finally get to meet the beauty I have been chatting with for the last few months. I sense that we will get on like a house on fire when we finally get to meet face to face. It gives me butterflies just thinking of it! I am glad that I opted for chnlove.com in my search for love. I have found some beautiful people here but I have also found some rather ugly ones in terms of being scammers. I am however glad that I met Jessica and can't wait to see her! I will keep you updated on how things go, wish me luck!
This site is definitely a scam website. I met a girl and then took a vacation to meet her and suddenly she didn't seem to understand what I was saying. The scammer was just trying to keep the communications going as long as possible until I realized that the girl doesn't exist. Near the end I sent her a picture of myself holding a certain item and asked her to produce one of herself doing the same thing. Of course she couldn't do it and had no reason why not.
Later on, just for fun, I created a joke profile featuring an absolutely hideous picture of a white male and saying things like in my free time I like to beat women and pee on myself and that I'm unemployed looking for a rich whore etc. I still got just as many responses as my real profile did.
Don't waste your money guys, and realize that China is quickly becoming less of a third world country. If a woman is reasonably young and attractive then she has plenty of options, she's not going to go online and find someone who she can barely speak to.
Generally speaking, Chnlove is a pretty cool site, aside from the one time that I had trouble getting help from their support. Other than that, I wouldn’t exchange it for another. I am now in what I feel are the final stages to finally meeting with a potential soul mate. We have enjoyed wonderful chats for a few months and feel it is time to meet up face to face, I am excited as there is a huge potential in this developing into a rather serious relationship and who knows, we could soon be posting our wedding photos!
In three weeks now I have spend around 2000 USD. I definitely agree with most who write here: Chnlove is a big fraud site. I'm 56 years old (and do not look like Sean Connery) and a host of girls with model looks aged 18-30 with a university degree and no child wants to be my friend for life. This only happens in the movies. Not that I want a young model (that means trouble on two legs) but initially I answered on their EMF mejls politely and got very nice answers that got me to answer again and it was running. All the time ticking away the dollars.
After openly questioned some girls reality and also informed them why I question the their identity; namely that Chnlove has the reputation of being a scam-site ceased communication. No answers anymore. And I was not rude to these "girls" on the contrary.
Some girls I came so far that they wanted to meet you but when I get closer they will disappear, which leads me to EMF email them and the money rolls on. Now my credit almost out of Chnlove. It has been rewarding to chat. But who I chatted with? It might as well have been a German truck driver. Who knows? Only Chnlove scam.
Dear Roland,
How are you? May all the brilliance go around you today and always. From your words, we could see you had used our site for some time, here we would like to express our thankfulness to your fully support.
Ronald, since you are a sincere and kind gentleman, it is understandable you will expect a positive result on using our service. While it is regretful that you seems you had unhappy experience before. Sometimes, ladies and gentleman may have different values towards a relationship, especially when those 2 members are from different cultural background. We are not sure if your problems are caused by different conception between you and the ladies, usually we could not come to a conclusion before looking into more details, you are advised to contact our customer care team for concrete assistance. If we found out any violation against our rules, corrective and punitive measures will be taken accordingly.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
On the other hand, we had heard the similar concerns from gentlemen who would like to meet ladies in private at the beginning of a relationship. In fact, we have the Cupid Date service for gentleman to meet ladies. And with the assistance from the agency, many gentlemen had meet their ladies successfully via this service. That’s also how our Successful Stories happened. Maybe you can try next time.
Thanks again for sharing your comments with us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Best regards,
ChnLove Customer Service Team
This site is absolutely a scam. I communicated with a woman (or man, whoever the employee was) for a while then traveled to China. When I arrived the "woman" basically disappeared, but sent me several short messages to use up my credits in the hope that I would buy more before realizing that it was all bs. Looking back at all my other communications it's pretty obvious the whole thing is a scam, and I feel kinda foolish for losing that $300
Hi Scott, how are you? Thanks for sharing your concern with us about our service and fully supporting. It seems you have found your favourite ladies, though it’s regretful you did not meet them in our site. Hope things will be working out for you and happiness with you all the time.
From your comment, we notice that you would like to meet some ladies from our site, when you arrived in China, they disappeared, which makes you quite upset, right?
For now we are not sure if you have fully communicated with your lady regarding the meeting and make an appointment in advance in the suitable time.Or require to meet in private at the beginning of a relationship, To find out the situation and draw a fair conclusion, we encourage our gentlemen to contact Customer Support Team. Then we can have a chance to look into the case and also protect our gentlemen’s interest.
On the other hand, for your wish to meet your lady, our site offers Cupid Date service. With which you can enjoy the assistance from the local agency. Since this is the confirmed schedule between you and the lady, you could meet the lady as scheduled. Besides, we will also follow up your feedback after the meeting. Please contact our customer care team for cocreate assistance when you would like to meet a lady. We’ll be glad to help you.
Again, thanks for your time. We wish you luck and happiness in future. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
ChnLove Customer Service Team
I think this site is a scam, there may be a few honest contacts but in the main beware.
Danger signs to look out for:
Women who reply immediately day or night
Stream of emails none addressing questions or issues you have previously raised in email.
50 year olds looking like 20 - it just ain't so.
Check out their individual agencies - suspect women strangely come from same agency!
My message: ask simple straightforward questions early on, if no direct answer block them immediately.
Hi Keith how are you? Thanks for sharing your concern with us about our service and fully supporting. It seems you have contacted some ladies, though it’s regretful that you have some concerns about their reaction to you. You are concerned about the lady’s communication attitude, right? Hope things will be working out for you and happiness with you all the time.
Keith, we realize Chnlove has helped many gentlemen find their true love and ideal mate, but not all of them would have a satisfied or successful experience. If Chnlove is selling an item or product, there must be one standard quality. But when people are involved, and people's feeling, emotion and consideration get into it, there could be plenty of situations. So, the result of using the service could be very different, depends on how you use it, the effort and choice you made, the lady made, and the fate between you two. Will you agree?
On the other hand, we are thankful you could share some of your conclusions here, and provide us a chance to understand more about our customers. In fact, if you have any concerns when using our service, you could contact our customer care team for assistance, by submitting a ticket via below link:
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Hopefully we could provide you more cocreate and useful help in finding your love in destiny.
Again, thanks for your time. We wish you luck and happiness in future.
ChnLove Customer Service Team
I joined ChnLove two months ago and would like to express how I feel after 2-month online dating experience.
The positive features:
Convenient registration;
Diverse kinds of Chinese women available online;
Free help from the translators;
Useful tips from online dating experts.
Defects:
Photoshopped lady images but acceptable;
High service consumption;
Disallowance of exchanging contact information;
None offline activities for private communication.
In my opinion, ChnLove is suitable to kill loneliness. Well of course, you can also find your perfect partner if you are lucky enough.
Answer: The biggest scam ever. Stay away.
Answer: A lady I wanted to date claimed she was single but I found out she lied after a little research on her. I wrote a letter of my findings to the site admin and they erased her profile subsequently. Speaking from experience, I think it's better to find women who are of similar age and interest because there will be a greater chance of having a successful relationship. Sexy, beautiful and young girls have higher expectation and make breakneck demands on their partners, which makes it hard to be hooked up with them for long.
Answer: Hi guys. I have post a comment "scam, scam, scam. " I have not further proof this is a scam. I meet two ladies from this site recently in China. I show them the letters I sent them which is written in Chinese, 70% of the letter I sent they have not been given to by the agency. And same with the letters that supposed to be sent by them, they have no knowledge of these sent mails. They did not write them. While you guys thinking you are talking to some nice ladies in china, you are actually talking to a male? An old grandma? Hey, you know how phone sex work. These people is scaming both us guys and the girls over there. Beware.
Answer: I found a lady 12 years ago and when she came to US after a couple years my family was telling me she married me for my money and was going to divorce me after her Green Card. Today we have been married 10 years and she was a wealthy Chinese College Professor who spoke good English. Today she makes more money than I do as a Regional Manager of several Panda Expresses and we have a great relationship. She is happy because her Chinese husband cheated on her and she only wanted a man to love and cherish her for who she was... Yes, 10 years marriage now.
Answer: Scam, as is this review itself. This is a review setup intentionally for receiving good reviews. You should read this review, 100% independent. www.datingbusters.com/is-chnlove-com-a-scam-or-a-legit-way-to-meet-asian-women/
Answer: This is a scam site, and an expensive one at that! You will never get A girlfriend or wife here, just heartbreak and spend spend spend With no chance ever of really getting the girls contact info. Run for your life!
Answer: One thing you can do that doesn't cost too much is also to tell the lady you want to call her, tell her you want to only get her phone number... nothing else... tell her it costs too much to talk on the Chn phone line... Get her number, then call her back. It only takes a couple minutes to do that. If the lady doesn't want to give you her phone number... something may be wrong.
Answer: I do not think it has gone bust yet. But as the site is a total FRAUD it should do.
Launched in 1998, Chnlove.com is a member site of Qpid Network, and now one of the leading and most trusted international dating sites dedicated to helping western men find their ideal match in China. Through its strong collaboration with local dating agencies in China, Chnlove continues to attract thousands of sincere single gentlemen every day, and achieves an amazingly high success rate among sites alike.
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Hi Martin, how are you? Thanks for sharing your experience with us about our service. It’s regretful that we could not meet your satisfaction on using our services. Hope all the brilliant things be around you all the time.
From your comment, we notice that you are concerned about the authenticity of the letters and photographs, right? In fact, Chnlove do understand our customer's concern, that's why we had implemented many measures to enable the authenticity of the letters and ladies.
In case our members suffer from any infraction behavior against our rules, we have Client Protection Policy to protect our gentleman's interest. Shall any dishonest activities is found and confirmed, fair and satisfying solution will be issued to the gentleman member involved.
Martin, it seems you have requested your lady’s contact information, but didn’t have a smooth communication with her in private. We are not sure if there’s any misunderstanding between you and your lady, usually we could not come to a conclusion before looking into more details. You are advised to contact our Customer Care Team for concrete assistance. If we found out any violation against our rules, corrective and punitive measures will be taken accordingly.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
On the other hand, we had heard the similar concerns from gentlemen who are communicating with ladies in private, due to there’s language barrier and cultural difference, many gentlemen would like to contact ladies through our services. The agencies are helping the ladies to have better understanding of a gentleman and there are many experienced translators there trying to help remove obstacles of cultural and language differences between members.
Again, thanks for your time and patience on listening to us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Best regards,
ChnLove Customer Service