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ChnLove has a rating of 3.2 stars from 618 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with ChnLove most frequently mention beautiful ladies, customer service and live chat. ChnLove ranks 8th among International Dating sites.
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I have definitely had my fair share of would be romances, romances that almost made it to the alter and those that were just out for fun. I joined three dating sites at the same time late last year in the hopes of at least finding a reasonable chat buddy to help me through my latest romantic troubles. On the fourth week at chnlove.com, I met this gorgeous girl that I thought I was dreaming(I was chatting in the wee hours of the morning when the rest of the population was sleeping!) the conversation is still on-going today, and we have actually met over coffee…. It's been eight months so far and everything is working out just fine…. Hope it stays that way!
I spent a lot of money on ChnLove that I could not afford.
Chatting was a waste of time and money just small talk and your credits are gone in minutes!
So we email back and forth and it's sucking you in.
Keep on buying more credits, this is getting more than I can afford.
It's addictive like gambling.
Eventually I ask for the ladies email address.
After spending 10 credits all I get was a postal address!
Spent more money on more emails to sort it out
She registers her email address on the site. I have to pay 10 more credits to get it.
All the long sweet letters and photos I have kept.
At last I can write from my own desktop to her private email address.
The reply is a one-line in Chinese!
I use a Google translate to find out she says sorry busy with friends or some other BS
I write 5 emails, send my photos waiting for a reply, nothing
3 days later she replies via ChnLove and its like she has excuses.
I tell her that's the last time I spend money on ChnLove.
So it was a total waste of time and money!
As soon as they realize you are not going to spend any more money they drop you like a hot cake! A total SCAM!
I hold chnlove.com very dear to my heart, right next to my beautiful wife and child because it enabled me find them! I was a little skeptical in joining at first, but I am glad I did. My work enables me travel as much as I want and relocate if I so choose. When I found and connected with my current wife, I decided to relocate to her country because the cold weather in mine is not that good for her allergies. Fast track a few years down the road and we are happily married with a beautiful baby girl. They are my world and I adore them so much!
I would like to thank everyone involved in ChnLove and the agency in Changsha which I visited, for everything over the last two years, everyone was friendly and helpful. Our translator was wonderful, especially on our first meet. All considered, finally I decided not to continue my further relationship with the lady, for she is not my perfect match in some respects. I hope in time when I am ready I will return to the site and try again.
Thanks for bringing me my dreamed lady, chnlove! We love each other and now our commitment as husband and wife. It does not matter we speak different language or we are raised in different culture, what matters is that we will never give up on each other no matter what obstacles is put in front of us. At the beginning, she knew little about English, with the help of the translator, she tried to learn English step by step. Now she could speak some simple sentences to me via the phone. So wonderful!
Our love is strong and our love for each other is unconditional, no one or no distance will be able to stop me from loving her. Next month we will meet in China. I have discussed all the meeting details with her agency. I'm sure that my plan will give her a surprise and unforgettable memory
There is scamming going on, and there are genuine relationships being struck up. I've encountered both. But in either case you'll fork over a bunch of money. In my opinion and experience, most--up to 90% are fake, especially the letter writing and chatting. There may be a real lady looking, but she doesn't have the time to respond to your letters. So she hires the agency who will search for her, and writes ("translates") for her... and sometimes not just on Chnlove but on other dating sites. Sure, there are successes, but I'll bet the failures far out number the successes.
Life is never perfect and there will be some difficult time ahead of all of us. Although there are challenges between my lady and me, I do believe we will overcome with our great efforts and the help of Chnlove and the agency.
This site is obviously a scam. This site is obviously a scam.
1. many letters... Ok... just you pay.
2. lady call... Ok... just you pay.
3. information... OK Just you pay 10 credit...
But... don't believe it. That is lie...
Must be... you don't know about CHINESE.(China)
I think you're a damn fool.
If you want a chinese girl?
" Don't care about the looks "
I've wrote this once already, damn internet! That's what you get for living in the boonies.
Just to put your minds at ease this site is real like Steven H. Says, just be aware of who you are talking to, don't jump at the first pretty face that takes you by storm! There are some real players on here. I've had EMF MAILS that are sent more than once, if they talk to you like your there husband in your second conversation, get real! Just sit on the fence watch what comes along if they are interested in you they will take there time to write you a letter and every letter there after will be too. I found someone on here we've talked every day sometimes 2 or 3 times a day we would text each other for hours, talked on the phone no translator, she speaks English quite well considering from when we first started to talk till now I understand everything she says, we talk freely now no site on a daily basis, her name is Cathy. She wants to come here first on her own accord, she wants to see BIG SNOW... This is Canada.
You don't need to spend hoards of money either.
It's like playing poker best hand wins!
That dosen't mean going all in!
There are real woman on here pick the good from the bad
You make your own destiny!
Best of luck!
Ok this site is for meeting people who want to meet you, But they block your e mail address and phone numbers. So HOW do you meet anyone if you cant exchange information? I smell a RAT here,
I love beautiful women & admire their beauty as every lady has beauty, some have more than others!
I see 10,000 Asian Beauties on Chnlove and my heart melts, looking at all that Beauty!
I find that Chinese ladies are more elegant, charming, cutie, shy, beautiful & in need of a sexy man that will satisfy them like never before!
The 10,000 Chinese ladies who have sent me letters on Chnlove, I appreciated their beautiful words & sometimes have made me shed tears!
I'm not stupid & I'm well educated. I think many relationships don't work out because of age difference & not being able to well communicate with each other! So I want to find a well educated and beautiful lady on Chnlove. Hopefully I could find her earlier as loneliness is a terrible thing!
Thanks Chnlove. I would like to tell everyone that my lady and I will meet and be in our reality as soon as any possibility. Please, please, be also knowing, she has given and been a magic and are a magical lady, she has a deepest kindness and a loving heart I never knew. Please be knowing, this happen to me and that is something above me to understand. Soon I can close down my profile in Chnlove and have a happy life with my sweet heart!
Honestly speaking, I am surprised the customer service representative is so willing to continue to read my messages. I have sincere concern for Chnlove, as without Chnlove I would not met so many nice and pretty Chinese ladies over the last 3 and half years. While I have not been highly successful so far (3 and half years), I finally have persuaded 2 ladies to visit me in the next 2 months. Maybe at last I will find happiness and success.
I am a hard working man but not a wealthy man and struggle financially. I am highly intelligent with several university degrees and college qualifications but have made some stupid mistakes in my life, but never hurt anyone on purpose or was unfair to my former wife.
I have a lot of sincere affection and romance to give to the final special lady. I strongly believe Chnlove is the path I can finally achieve success with the right lady, although the service is not cheap.
Sometimes I have to do without important things such as fuel for my car, prescriptions for my health, or not paying other expenses. But finding love and a lifetime commitment with the right lady will literally save my life as my life has been declining for several years and I have had very little success in my environmental career in recent years. It is my hope my special lady will empower me and help me to be a better success, and she will be both my lifetime partner and business partner.
Who says divorced man has no possibility to reach happiness again? I do regain my happiness, my love on ChnLove.com. She is Jessie, a 38 years old lady from Shenzhen, China. She understands me and we have a lot in common in life and career. Now, I am planning a Cupid Date to meet my sweetheart in the following December. I can’t wait to meet her and hope everything goes well.
I’m very happy and thanks Chnlove. I have found the best lady I have ever know in the world. I am glad that my papers have been approved for our marriage. And soon I will have this best lady with me forever. Although there were so much pressure and uncertain in the past, everything is good now and I can finally relax. Tomorrow is my pay day, I will save my money for our wedding. I am so excited now!
I found my lady in Chnlove and I want to visit China so much. It's already autumn now and I think it's very pretty time in China, but my lady want me to meet her in winter, so that we can see the snow together. While she told me that winter is very cold there. I think I should go to meet her earlier in autumn, as I am afraid of coldness. I always stay in the room and rarely go out in winter. What should I do? I do not want my lady to be disappointed. I wrote to the website and hopefully they could give me some suggestion.
I read a story before. A young woman had two suitors, one a simple man the other a wealthy man. She preferred the simple man who loved her for "who" she was but told him she would only marry him when he gave her a platinum wedding ring. He came to her one day and said: "I cannot give you a platinum ring but will give you this one as a promise until I can." He gave her a simple looking ring made of paper. Sadly she took it home and put in her jewelry box and agreed to marry the wealthy man because she wanted a better life.
I'm a simple man, and I'm just thankful that I meet a pretty nice lady in Chnlove. Fortunately, she would like to share the rest of her life time with me instead of a rich man. I will try my best to give her happiness. I think both of us would enjoy a peaceful and simple life.
OMG. I wish i have read these Reviews before i dropped more than 50 to 70 k here on chatting and sending gifts. I have been chatting with 1 laddie here for more than 15 months but have been chatting with at least 8 or 9 laddies for awhile until i narrowed it down to 1 laddie i have never seen in my life. 4 times we were to meet and something always came up always. One more thing for sure is you are not always chatting with your laddie i know that is 100% true unless she has the IQ of a house plant and the memory of a rock. I was always telling her the same thing. OMG i was and am so naive these laddie s are so smokin hot you want to believe it. Thing is you have to spend time and allot of cash to maybe you get to see her. I do very well so the money i spent kept me out of the party scene for over a year so i saved money is the way i look at it. But i would love to meet the 2 laddie s that i have been chatting with for so very long. I do not know what will happen but i can tell you this 2 of the laddie s i sent gifts to i told them to take picture of them holding the gifts. I yet to receive those photos. I do not think they get all the gifts i send. I think the translator gets them no $#*! that is the truth that hurts but believe it. Sad to say that but why cannot i get photo of them holding the Gift. $#*! this sucks but i laugh now. John
All the women on this site are fake, and the pics are photo shop.It is the translators that people are talking to, because it is their job to let you buy credit to keep the business going.
Some of them will tell you that they will come to visit you in your country, so that you will buy credit and keep the conversation going. When the time is near, they will find so lame excuse to tell you, and then move to someone else.
All their success stories are fabricated, and if you look very closely, you will never see an African American that have benefitted from this site and are included in their success story.
Hi Derrol, how are you? Thank you for your attention to our site. And thanks for sharing your precious comments to us. May all the brilliance go around you always.
Derrol, it is understandable that our gentleman care a lot about the authenticity of the ladies. In fact, Chnlove also take it seriously and we have already implemented many measures to enable the authenticity of the ladies. Besides, there’s Client Protection Policy in our site to protect our gentleman's interest as well. Shall any dishonest activities is found and confirmed, fair and satisfying solution will be issued to the gentleman member involved.
On the other hand, work in this filed for so many years, Chnlove has now become a popular international online communication platform worldwide and has connected thousands of men from different countries and women from China. During these year, Chnlove do help many gentleman found their perfect ladies. And the success stories are only showing part of the successful couples. According to our system records, many sincere and loyal members of our site are African-Americans. Some of them has already found their soul mates with the help of our services, you may read one of their success stories at below link.
http://www.chnlove.com/testimonials/testimonials2.php?index=0&page=MTd8NjE1fDE0MTQ3NDIxMDI=
Besides, if you still have further concern, please feel free to contact our Customer Care Team for concrete assistance, below is the link:
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Thanks again for sharing your comments with us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Warm regards,
Chnlove Customer Service Team
Well I just joined the site and received several admirer mails.
But one was particularly interesting because the woman called me by my full name!
First and last name.
Mmm one of the fraudulent employees musta goofed up while pretending to be the beautiful woman. Haha Busted!
Dear Michael,
How are you? Here we would like to express our thankfulness for choosing our site and help you make full use of our services.
From your comment, we notice that you may have concern about our Admirer Mail service. From our observation, to attract their favorite gentlemen, sometimes ladies would go through the gentlemen’s profiles before they send out the Admirer Mails. It’s understandable that ladies know the full name of gentlemen. While we are not sure what actually caused your concern, you’re advised to contact our Customer Care Team, so that we can better help you. Below is the link:
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Again, thanks for your time and patience on listening to us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Best regards,
ChnLove Customer Service Team
Answer: The biggest scam ever. Stay away.
Answer: A lady I wanted to date claimed she was single but I found out she lied after a little research on her. I wrote a letter of my findings to the site admin and they erased her profile subsequently. Speaking from experience, I think it's better to find women who are of similar age and interest because there will be a greater chance of having a successful relationship. Sexy, beautiful and young girls have higher expectation and make breakneck demands on their partners, which makes it hard to be hooked up with them for long.
Answer: Hi guys. I have post a comment "scam, scam, scam. " I have not further proof this is a scam. I meet two ladies from this site recently in China. I show them the letters I sent them which is written in Chinese, 70% of the letter I sent they have not been given to by the agency. And same with the letters that supposed to be sent by them, they have no knowledge of these sent mails. They did not write them. While you guys thinking you are talking to some nice ladies in china, you are actually talking to a male? An old grandma? Hey, you know how phone sex work. These people is scaming both us guys and the girls over there. Beware.
Answer: I found a lady 12 years ago and when she came to US after a couple years my family was telling me she married me for my money and was going to divorce me after her Green Card. Today we have been married 10 years and she was a wealthy Chinese College Professor who spoke good English. Today she makes more money than I do as a Regional Manager of several Panda Expresses and we have a great relationship. She is happy because her Chinese husband cheated on her and she only wanted a man to love and cherish her for who she was... Yes, 10 years marriage now.
Answer: Scam, as is this review itself. This is a review setup intentionally for receiving good reviews. You should read this review, 100% independent. www.datingbusters.com/is-chnlove-com-a-scam-or-a-legit-way-to-meet-asian-women/
Answer: This is a scam site, and an expensive one at that! You will never get A girlfriend or wife here, just heartbreak and spend spend spend With no chance ever of really getting the girls contact info. Run for your life!
Answer: One thing you can do that doesn't cost too much is also to tell the lady you want to call her, tell her you want to only get her phone number... nothing else... tell her it costs too much to talk on the Chn phone line... Get her number, then call her back. It only takes a couple minutes to do that. If the lady doesn't want to give you her phone number... something may be wrong.
Answer: I do not think it has gone bust yet. But as the site is a total FRAUD it should do.
Launched in 1998, Chnlove.com is a member site of Qpid Network, and now one of the leading and most trusted international dating sites dedicated to helping western men find their ideal match in China. Through its strong collaboration with local dating agencies in China, Chnlove continues to attract thousands of sincere single gentlemen every day, and achieves an amazingly high success rate among sites alike.
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Hi Taylor, how are you? Thanks for sharing your experience with us about our services. Hope all the brilliant things be around you all the time.
Firstly, we feel grateful that you have found your ideal lady on our site and you both are in a promising relationship. Congratulations! While we also see that you may have some concern towards our services and ladies’ photos, which we had implemented many strict measures to enable the authenticity. Not sure if there’s any misunderstanding, please share more details about your concern with us, so that we can provide concrete assistance.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Again, thanks for your time and patience on listening to us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Best regards,
ChnLove CS Team