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AsianDating has a rating of 1.4 stars from 150 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AsianDating most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and email address. AsianDating ranks 74th among Asian Dating sites.
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I have been a member of Asian Date for about a year and a half. In that time I can tell you it was indeed a waste of my hard earned money for sure. The ladies get you to read and write letters as well as chat and video with them but that's more expensive. When you want to get their personal info you have to go through a phone call which costs around 100 dollars. Once you get the email from the lady it might be real or fake but it's usually at least 25 letters long. You can send an email but most of the time she won't reply back or send about a sentence saying she's to busy to write. Then the lady will either disappear off the site or if you go on the site you will notice she may have changed her name but is chatting with someone. Don't DONT log in to chat it's just not worth it. I found the perfect woman without really trying that hard. You want a really good woman wife or girlfriend? Then take a flight to the Philippines as soon as you can! I promise every day you will have a smile on our face and your money will go a very long way there plus you can get a great tan as well. I do hope this will help others like me who feel lonely or want a Asian wife making the mistake I did! Good luck in your search! If anyone needs to reach out to me please feel free to contact me at *******@yahoo.com
Asian dating has many fraudulent ladies. Some ladies are lady boys and they don't day so. Most ask for money. I was made aware by Western Union of a fraudulent member and saved $2K. Had already sent by bank wire more than $5K. Another instance Moneygram warned about the member by refusing to send money.
Lastly, the paid members, mostly men are denied access due IMBRA form, but they have no protection from cheating lady members or Asiandating company. Cupid? Go figure! If you want honest ladies, do your home work as there are too many fake people. Good luck
I met first man to number third have same story, after talking on email couple time finally ask me to send him money, what a bustard people ask woman send him money
Kinda crappy that most people are writing nasty things about www.asiandate.com (which is complete scam), on the page belong to another company entirely. www.asiandating.com is not www.asiandate.com
IT is scam site all just a setup to get you spend money
Dear Michael,
Please email us on [email protected] with your specific complaint.
Sadly Have been duped by a few girls on Asian date site and wish I had looked at this site before going there.
Everything described on the posts has happened to me with only one girl giving her email address and phone but she blocked the phone which is another story.
Once I had her email and was no longer chatting on the site"read spending money" she decided that she loved me but didn't like me any more.
I went to this site to get a real person and to stay away from scammers by subscribing but the whole system is a scam.
Beware any lonely heart.
Dear Conan,
Please note that AsianDating and AsianDate are two separate entities run by two different companies.
I am an attorney here in calif. Been on thus site almost 2 yrs. They do not promise marriage dating. You pay 1.00 a minute to chat with a lady nothing more. These girls are not coming to marry you. Most are earning commissions especially the models. The young girls just play games. It is not real. It is fake. Sone woman are real but this site will take your money and not care of your emotions. There are many asians in our states now why get on involved with a situation that is impossible to control. Dont waste your money. It is not real. Find nice asian woman in your town. There are plenty of nice girls right in your backyard. Try and ask these girls to visit you they woll change the subject. One girl tokd me she liked my photo when i never posted a photo. Soend your money on groceries. This is bull$#*!. Tom
Dear Thomas,
Please note that AsianDating does not charge any amount to chat with any ladies. We offer a monthly membership charge.
I signed up and paid for a month subscription to try it and see if I could meet some nice people locally. Not a lot of people local but I figured I could make some penpals from Asia. The next day they closed my profile and basically ripped me off $30. I paid $30 for a one day membership. That is not cool They told me to email them and basically beg them to open my account. I emailed them but never heard anything back. They sure took my money and then cancelled my account with a quickness but they won't tell me why or refund it.
Dear Jason G.
Kindly email [email protected] with your member I.D.
The other thing about Asian dating is the same ladies are still on the site looking for matches l scent 4 lots off flowers & my home address have not got a single letter or a phone call even a email from 4 that got my email another 5 to 6 have my address. Whent on the site to see if it had changed was the same but the same ladies are still looking so that tell me that thay are still scamming people out off there hard earn money
Dear Chris,
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact [email protected] if you have any further concerns.
It is very weak and slanderous date site for an out going person, as soon as I started explaining to a couple of females about my profession, I was kicked off by the administrators of the site, and they really get piss when you offer the email or phone numbers to other ladies to get to know them on your own, it not like I am one of those scammers that show a pretty picture and never want to come on the cam while your on Skype, that is totally defeating the purpose of dating on the site, they try to micromanage a little bit too much, maybe I my return to the site in a priest outlook and act domestic or like an older guy in his 90ies, I give Date in Asia site two thumbs down, and de-boner.
Dear Kenny,
Please note that our site is AsianDating and not Date in Asia. These are two entities run by two different companies. Kindly direct your complaint to the right site.
So I am not actually from this site. Or even tried to be in this site. I have found it as an ad on a site i am looking at and it got me interested to look for its reviews. I am an Asian-Filipina i really felt sorry for those westerners who were asked for money by some members of this site. I was reading all reviews and to my surprised, the complaints were all about asking for money and being a victim of scams. It's really a shame that some Filipinas are still wooing for money. It's very degrading for us and it ruins all other filipinas' image. So, in behalf of those girls, Lol. I'm sorry. I have tried chatting men from different county on OKC. But what made me liked westerners, Americans is that i think they're romantic. And the fact that i love seeing western movies. LOL. I dont have a white fetish lol. It's just that its nice to talk to someone having different culture and language... And, to add up. I don't like those americans who are into young girls. You were always complaining about being lured for money yet you're the one who tolerate those girls to use you..
Before i parted with any money i got 30 replies YOOOOHHHO was i lucky or what Rubbish was i lucky also i was getting emails from people (women) who where supposed TO BE ONLINE and still AWAKE at 4.40 am their time NO WAY AVOID this site
I really have to say sorry to all those who had a bad experience on this site. I have also been plagued with the scammers on these dating sites but I have done my part in reporting the ones that are. Asian Dating however does have a staff that replies to all of your complaints and will do their best to help you with all of your needs. You need to just be aware about how most people who are on there to scam you. Most times they will like and favorite you without even looking at your profile because they are doing it to a lot of profiles at the same time. Sort of like throwing a big fishing net and seeing what you catch. You can normally tell which women are serious especially by READING their PROFILES. A lot of times women are more shy to directly contact men, so it would be beneficial for you to actively look at profiles and contact them to see if you're a match. I paid to get gold membership for one month, and I really think I found the person right for me. She is 100% real and I think I've gone through over 50 or 60 contacts before I got to her. Believe me if you read all the tips about safe dating on that site you will know exactly when you meet someone who is out for only your money. Best of luck guys and I really hope that you do find your match.
I paid and immediately was told my account was suspended because according to them a flag was raised. They want me to send them copies of my government ID. Yeah, like that's going to happen. I'm going to send a company without a published address or phone number my government ID.
What a scam. UPDATE BELOW.
They "flagged" me yet they STILL charged my card.
And they try to make out that they're better than asiadate. They're not. Same bs.
But hey, someone named "team" will be sure to reach out to you and give you that personal touch.
This is one seedy company. Avoid at ALL costs.
UPDATE: Oh look, they replied with absolutely nothing new. "Cupid M" is here to clarify it all with the same nonsense. There's another review above where they did the same thing.
You spend days/weeks looking around, decided to join and their crack team of investigators zeroes in on you to get your id. The place has ungodly amounts of fake profiles and scammers and their sharp as a whip investigating team flags real people.
Nothing about my profile was faked, my credit card worked fine, yet they want me to send them my id. "Cupid M" and "team" want me to send them a copy of my official government ID. Seriously. That's what they want. Who in their right mind would send them that? Who would fall for such a scam?
STAY AWAY FROM THESE PEOPLE.
Dear Rick,
Please note that in order to prevent fraudulent payments on our websites, our billing department reviews certain transactions. Unfortunately, for some transactions we require additional verification to prove that the person making the transaction is authorized to do so. In regards to the payment been made, kindly send us you member number so we can follow it up.
While not the best site for online dating, because of the troublesome way the emails or chat system is set up, asiandating.com is a legitimate site. It is asiandate.com you have to be aware of. That site is what most of you already have mentioned about lots of emails, use of credits to chat, etc.
It seems foreign dating sites have higher risks in general, however, they weave better results when it comes looking for a mate. If Asiandating.com had a way that users could send atleast send messages for free at the bare minimum or a monthly trail, I would rate them 5 stars
I have been trying to understand how this site works. Note I am talking about AsianDate.com because there are other sites that sound the same or are run by the same company.
To me it seems that the company hires Chinese people who can translate messages into English. They probably get paid by how many credits their clients are buying. What happens then is these workers send fake messages to clients such as me, to get me to buy credits to read the letters. Many women on the site send me letters saying how they love my letters and want me to marry them. The thing is I never sent letters to those women! If I do send a message and ask a question, then I never get an answer. For instance to prove that I am speaking to a real woman I ask her to send me a selfie picture so I can see who it is. They never send me a photo and just keep sending the same useless information, such as they love me and want to meet me, almost like an automated message? You are just talking to the middle person who is trying to make more money and maybe the company is encouraging this practise? Total waste of time.
Dear Erik L.
Please note that we are a different company from the one you have described above. We do not have a letter service, we do not have an interpreter service and we do not charge credits.
Nothing is real on this site, or the related ones. All the information the girls give is fake. They are not who they say they are. I had people in China to verify information girls gave - it never checked out: fake names, fake places of businesses or occupations, fake families, and all loving promises are fake. This site, along with the Ukraine and Russian ones, are huge money making scams. They got thousands from me before I knew it. Still trying to get some of the money back through the 'fraud dept.' of the bank.
If you try to make contact with the girls all emails are stopped. Every communication is read and censored. They are there, well trained, heartless, just to suck you in for profits. Trust no one, no matter how pretty or loving they appear. Run away as fast as you can!
Dear James,
We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact [email protected] if you have any further concerns.
My experience has been excellent. The site warns against sending money to people on the site. There are all kinds of people there. Some looking for money some looking for a visa and citizenship. And some are actually looking for a mate. I found, met and married my wife on the site, she is from China, I am from the U.S. Best thing that ever happened to me. Just use your head. If your 50 and she is 21. You need to get a grip. I'm 48, my wife is 55.
Dear Madam/Sir.
In reply to your message,
I have to mention that: all those words are my real experience at that SCAM site Asian date.com & I am really angry with them for cheating thousands of people, now if there
Is any similarity between your site name & theirs, it is not my or other members fault,
Because one of you have copied the others name. For non-English spoken people there
Is not any difference between names of:" Asian dating or Asian date," it is because dating
Can be" ing form of date, so any member of these two sites can be confused by those same names,
Therefore, if you think that your business name is stolen by them, you would better to offer
A petition to the court & ask them to change their site name.
Mark
Dear Mark,
Please note that we are AsianDating.com and not AsianDate.com and we are not associated with the that respective site. If you have any issues with AsianDate kindly contact them directly.
Answer: It's a minefield! Total scam! Every time you mention switching to a free site, women go from hot to cold and lose interest because in fact they are nothing else than paid staff members. You hear all kinds of silly excuses. You don't get to hear this BS on http://J4Love.net because ladies are real and wanting a relationship. You may want to check it out.
Answer: Dear Ruth If you wish to switch off your profile, choose "Profile Settings" from the "Settings" menu on your member home page, then click the "click here" link under the "Switch Off Profile" heading. If you have any feedback regarding why you are canceling your membership, you will be asked to provide this during the switch off process. Once you have switched off your membership in this way, you can automatically reactivate your profile by logging in again to the site (our system will interpret your login attempt as a request to reactivate your membership). Please contact us if you require any further assistance.
Answer: For over 10 years, AsianDating.com has connected thousands of Asian singles worldwide. As one of the first dating sites in the niche, AsianDating.com is one of the largest and most trusted sites around. Not many other sites can offer you a membership database of over 2 million members with the promise of introducing you to single men and women across the world. Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by: Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine. Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior. Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages. Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site. Please contact [email protected] if you have any further concerns.
Answer: I can assure you that in any online dating sites there will always be people out there who want to make money off of you not including the fees that you have to pay to use the services on the site. You just need to be mindful that there are people who scam for a living. Just like how you may get scam letters or calls to your home or email, you'll get them in your inbox for the dating site. If you can learn to interact and filter these people who are doing these criminal activities, then you'll make the site itself much safer for everyone by reporting them to the site's support. Good luck with your searching.
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We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.
Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:
Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology
Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.
Please contact [email protected] if you have any further concerns.