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AsianDating has a rating of 1.4 stars from 150 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AsianDating most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and email address. AsianDating ranks 74th among Asian Dating sites.
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I setup a new account with real information and photos and they terminate the account within 1 day. No reason and no reply to my support ticket that I submit? This has happened twice in the past month and I have given up on trying.
I wish I had gone to "sitejabber" before wasting money on "AsianDating" website. It was a total waste of my money. The overwhelming majority of the ladies are trying to get you to go to other sites to chat, or they Skype with you and only talk about how much they need your (my) money. That is about all they do. Virtually every woman I had a chance to chat with at some point in the conversation would bring up money. It was terrible. Don't use any of their sites, I am sure they are all the same. I am sorry for not having any proof of what I am saying, but all you need to do is look at the other reviews and you will see the truth of what I am saying.
I joined here to look for thai women, for a trip to thailand I'm planning soon.
The thai women I did chat to didn't seem all that interested in much at all. No idea if they were just bots either.
The experience was I was only interested in Thailand yet I was constantly bombarded by random Philippines women seeking money. I mean this was happening every day and was relentless. Not going here again
The billionaire that owns this site Dillard is a greedy Jew! To read 2 letters cost 16 dollars. Men and women are being robbed and the average person cannot afford this! Not only that you cannot set up a personal date with anyone because you can give your own personal information out and they block it. I'm the one taking the risk Not this site. I'm going to attempt to contact Attorneys to go after these Scams for a dating sites! Don't join! You won't be allowed to ever meet! I am Not the only person that believes this. Everyone does! They lie about the stats to rob you of your money!
All it is is a bunch of fake pages. Ask you for whatsapp or skype. Over priced, cant delete or block messages! Yea. It was a L for me
EDIT: UPDATE! IT IS INDEED REAL PEOPLE ON HERE! There are obviously wayyy more scammers on here than real people but you cant blame the company for that and i do see that they trt their best at it!
TIP: IF someone view your page and and dont message you. She's real! Asian women are very shy to talk first! I am currently talking to 3 real confirmed people! When you talk to them, make them send you a special picture of them holding or doing a specific pose! You will 100% know its them then! This is a 5 star app! I love it! PLENTY of nice people on here!
Dear Vante,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this amazing review. We do try to give you the best value for what you pay by giving you the best experience that's effective and safe. Good luck in your search for love.
As soon as they give you a sad story or ask for money, run. If you send money you are a fool. I have been on asiandating for almost a year, and 90% of the girls are scammers. Just finished a month communicating with a Filipino girl, who had many sad stories. She came up on my fb people you may know. Of course her profile picture is her and her Filipino husband (posted just a few days earlier).
These girls have all the time in the world to try to separate you from your money. If they ask for money, tell them only after you have met them in person. This will send many of them running, but not all.
Avoid profiles with one picture, or no answers. Ask the girl for her complete name so you can do a search, and learn how to do a reverse image search.
All Filipinos who are working in China are FAKE. The problem is they are real girls who have been recruited by scammers in Nigeria, so they can send you real current pictures. They will guide you to a travel site that they swear can get them a visa to the USA. The travel site looks real, but if you do a WhoIs search, the domain for the travel site that is suppose to be in China, is really being hosted from Nigeria.
If you send any money to any of these girls, you are a fool. I have met a very few real girls, but the percentage is very very small. I agree, that asiandating is helped by all the scammers, by making their girl base look very attractive. Don't ever send money.
Dear Randy,
We apologize for your unwelcoming experience. We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Unfortunately, it is extremely hard for us to verify the real intentions of the members as most dating sites do not require any form of formal identification to register and most members use their private email address to communicate with members.
It is very sad that a small minority of dishonest people will make such a negative impression of our site, as the vast majority of the members registered with us are honest.
We do our best to remove these people from our site, deleting any profiles showing dubious photos or information, as soon as we see them, however, we also rely on our valued members who kindly report to us any suspect or fake profiles they find on our site.
In addition, Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
Asian dating belongs to Cupid Media an Australian internet company, which is scamming thousands and thousands of honest people around the world with their dating websites. NEVER PAY TO ONE OF the websites from them after you pay they will terminate your account profile and they want a copy from your ID or Passport Do not give that to them you don't know what those scammers doing with it besides from that all western governments warning for those websites NEVER SEND YOU ID OR PASSPORT COPY TO THEM aspecially not to the Australian crime gang Cupid Media.
Dear Tony,
In order to prevent fraudulent payments on our websites, our billing department reviews certain transactions. For some transactions, we require additional verification to prove that the person making the transaction is authorized to do so. Please contact www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk if you have any further concerns.
Do not waste your time or money. The negative reviews are true, and any negative review has stated what I won't take the time to repeat.
Dear Brice,
Were there any specific concerns that caused you to give the app a negative review? If you have any suggestions on how we could improve and enhance your user experience, please don't hesitate to share them with us. Please contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
The site is not bad but needs a lot of work. Also yeah scammers plenty but easy to pick out, support reacts fast against reported accounts. The big negative,,, the one kicked can remake rather fast a new account. That due the lack of obliged verification.
Lots of scammers are Chinese ( mainland, hk,.) living in france, they drag you out not necesairy into another site ( whatsapp / skype) where as they try you to make investments. If you have no money they ll tell you to $#*! off ( just do not waste your time on those)
All those dragging you in to TA, TF, TC, TR and other truly sites... well you know enough send them to hell and report.
Those inviting you to skype straight away is the nudist trap ( 3/4) the rest Ghana) If you wanna be sure she is real use whatsapp! And please report them even if it just to annoy them to remake other profiles
Hello Rene,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this amazing review. We do try to give you the best value for what you pay by giving you the best experience that's effective and safe. Good luck in your search for love.
I've had some extremely good luck with this site, but as I have seen and heard, there are a lot of scammers and fake profiles. While i you are going to meet more women here in one hour than you will in a week on Tinder, you'll also have a nearly equal number of scammers, some of which being very savvy, leading victims on for weeks, months, or even years!
To avoid this, here is my advice for using this site...
Only trust women with social media platforms with original pictures of themselves. WhatsApp doesn't count.
Don't trust any woman who won't videochat with you.
Don't send anyone money for any reason unless you've met the person and you actually know her motives.
Another thing to know here is that this is much less of a hookup site than a dating site since Southeast Asian women tend to be much more traditional and averse to promiscuity than American women. They will take you very seriously, and will have marriage in mind very early on. For a man wanting to marry and raise a family with a devoted wife, this will probably work well for you, but if you're less commitment oriented and are looking for hookups/intimacy, you're probably better off using a different site, since the women are very conservative.
Thank you for the positive review! We wish you the very best in your search for love. Please contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk if you have any concerns.
You will find a number of fake profiles! Photos are usually stolen from other social media websites like Facebook or Instagram. The amount of image filters regular women use is disappointing. They will rarely look anything like their photos just to give you a warning.
I created a profile and in less than a minute I already had messages from bots. This is before I uploaded a photo or any other information.
EX: You find 25 messages in your inbox from 'beautiful' (bots) women. Buy a membership to connect and then get nothing in the form of communication.
And then uploading a photo of yourself can be difficult as there is a double standard. Woman are allowed to upload photos that violate the rules. But your photos will be rejected. Out of 5 the system only accepted 1 on my profile.
I don't know who is verifying the images, but I see a ton of famous people and super models that I know DO NOT use this website.
That 18 year old that shows interest, sends you various photos, chats with you everyday to demonstrate that she is genuine. You will discover it's a fraud when she asks for a donation. Just use your common sense and be safe and smart when checking out anyone.
Additional note: They do respond within 72 hours when reporting fake photos and profiles.
Dear Anony M,
We have zero-tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. Kindly help us in reporting any suspicious profiles by submitting a ‘report abuse’ form or contacting us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
I'm a two time loser on here. I went to meet two different ladies on separate trips two years apart. At least the first one had me picked up at airport. Then it was all about money and you learn the whole profile was a lie! The second one was a pro too! I had to buy a chip to put in my phone to ask her where she was... Sleeping she replied. Then I told the taxi driver to take me to a hotel. He kept driving me to run down places. I kept telling him, I don't care about price, just get me to a name brand hotel. An hour of driving in circles cost me $65 dollars and then he asked for a tip! Lol
They don't monitor their profiles. A good company approves any changes made when someone edits their profile. I click on "report" on profiles that have email or phone numbers in ad. You would think they would watch for those because they loose money on them, but they don't!
The sad part is real women searching for love get put into this scam packed site and get accused of being a scammer too.
Dear Ed,
We apologize for your unwelcoming experience. We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Unfortunately, it is extremely hard for us to verify the real intentions of the members as most dating sites do not require any form of formal identification to register and most members use their private email address to communicate with members.
It is very sad that a small minority of dishonest people will make such a negative impression of our site, as the vast majority of the members registered with us are honest.
We do our best to remove these people from our site, deleting any profiles showing dubious photos or information, as soon as we see them, however, we also rely on our valued members who kindly report to us any suspect or fake profiles they find on our site.
In addition, Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
If you are a basic member you will get emails from interested parties. Once you become a member and respond... they ignore you.
Also they are overly picky about your profile picture. Don't waste your time or money here... its a scam
Dear Will,
Please be assured that we do not send messages to our members. We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove any non-genuine profiles. To report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
To be frank, nearly 18 years ago I got one of the great relationships from Poland, when this site was called AsianEuro.com. After many months of chatting and calling each other on the phone, she decided to come here to US. It didn't work out after 10 months, but we both agreed it was a great time.
Now I got out of some other relationships and came to find out this site has changed to "Asiandating", so I decided to re-enter the dating scene. It was the Worst experience EVER! Yes I can verified about 90% of people on this site are fake, and less than 9% are real, but usually they are far away (The Philippines?) and have kids already. The main PROBLEM is: The owner of this site controls who you talk to! Let's say you have a 3 month membership, usually the end of your second month you will see nobody responded to you. Your messages box will be dried like Australian desert until the day your membership expired and suddenly your mailbox got 20-30 unread messages, but you will need to PAY to read them! This happened to me twice!
Dear Dave,
We are sorry that you have encountered non-genuine members on our app. Please be assured that we do not send fake messages to our members. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a member, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
I signed up for this site a week ago. I got a lot of interests from pretty woman. I had a free one hour trial and replied to this woman that sent me an interest. Luckily she was online. This woman viewed my profile and replied to my message saying that she is a transgender woman. Come on cupid! This is getting ridiculous... You need to separate these type of people from communicating us, straight men. I'm getting sick and tired of these transgender people on these sites thinking that they have the right to ruin the fun for guys that are looking for real woman. I don't mean to offend them... Maybe other guys like this kind of thing but I don't like it. I find it very unacceptable for these transgender men to dress up as ladies and write us men that are really looking for a real woman.
After that experience... I removed my photos off my profile and switched off my profile for good. I'm no longer coming back to this site ever again. I don't know what happened to this site... It seems like transgender boys are replacing the woman on this site to fill in the space for the site.
The manager needs to find a way to get a system to make these transgender communicate with their own type of sexuality. It sickens me that these type of guys have to bother us straight men and play the role as a woman. They need to be kicked off the site.
I will just try to find a real Filipina woman in the country instead... No thanks, AsianDating.
Hello Max,
We are sorry that our app has not met your expectations. If you have a specific concern about a profile on our site, please contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
Seems like all of the credible looking profiles have disappeared once the site has your money. It's as if they're actively conspiring with the Chinese and West African scammers to work the unpaid users into buying a membership, then once they have your money, the curtain parts and every interaction is bizarre, hostile, or in the least likely case, merely transparently a prostitution cash grab.
It's so weird. It's like they hate good things.
Dear So,
We have zero-tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
All the profiles are fake
Has a unique way to keep you glued to the site. But stay away. High tech scams from every corner. Simply stay away
Dear Amila,
We have zero-tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
I got chatting with a cute Filipino in Manila. I was in Manila not long after on holiday so I suggested we meet up. She was apprehensive. As I pushed further as we were only a few blocks from each other she finally confessed that she worked for the site to talk to guys. That's all she was there to do!
Dear Geoff,
Please be assured that we do not send messages to our members. We have zero-tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove any non-genuine profiles. To report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk
There are numerous real women, and numerous fakes. With time you can sort the quality from the fakes. It is buyer beware. But overly aggressive women are fakes. Why 4 stars because better than many I have seen so far.
Dear Richard,
Thank you for the positive rating. If you have any suggestions or if you are facing any problems, please contact us at https://www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk. We will try our best to help you out.
This site is the most *** desing what i even have used, they just are a cash grab
1- Bots 80% or 90%: every "interested" person on you is a bot, how do you identify a bot? Easy... they come with a new account, with 1 photo, without any filled information and they come and add you to favorites, look your profile, show interest and send some variations of the same message.
2- Scammers: If you get "lucky" to get a response from any member, beware this is going probably to be another MAN using a fake profile tying get your number bank account or email to deposit you fake checks without funds.
3- *** site: imagine yourseft paying a EXPENSIVE membership (more than tinder) only to be able to read a single message from other members, so stupid, whats the point of making this website free if you actually can only see other people pictures?. Having 0 ways to contact him if you are a free member, forcing you to pay only to have a oportunity to say "HELLO" to someone.
Of course if you are blessed guy you probably get a 3% probablylity of being contacted by a woman with a gold or platinum membership and chat without restrictions (LOL)... or if you are a average pretty woman get flooded with messages of 50+ year old mans with paid memberships.
TL DR: stay away from this sites or any site of CUPID MEDIA because they are the same group, don't waste your time
Dear Jesus
We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk. As a standard member, you can still enjoy numerous benefits such as sending interest to other members and communicating with paid members. We wish you the very best with your search for love. Please contact us at www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk if you have any further concerns.
Answer: It's a minefield! Total scam! Every time you mention switching to a free site, women go from hot to cold and lose interest because in fact they are nothing else than paid staff members. You hear all kinds of silly excuses. You don't get to hear this BS on http://J4Love.net because ladies are real and wanting a relationship. You may want to check it out.
Answer: Dear Ruth If you wish to switch off your profile, choose "Profile Settings" from the "Settings" menu on your member home page, then click the "click here" link under the "Switch Off Profile" heading. If you have any feedback regarding why you are canceling your membership, you will be asked to provide this during the switch off process. Once you have switched off your membership in this way, you can automatically reactivate your profile by logging in again to the site (our system will interpret your login attempt as a request to reactivate your membership). Please contact us if you require any further assistance.
Answer: For over 10 years, AsianDating.com has connected thousands of Asian singles worldwide. As one of the first dating sites in the niche, AsianDating.com is one of the largest and most trusted sites around. Not many other sites can offer you a membership database of over 2 million members with the promise of introducing you to single men and women across the world. Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by: Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine. Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior. Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages. Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site. Please contact [email protected] if you have any further concerns.
Answer: I can assure you that in any online dating sites there will always be people out there who want to make money off of you not including the fees that you have to pay to use the services on the site. You just need to be mindful that there are people who scam for a living. Just like how you may get scam letters or calls to your home or email, you'll get them in your inbox for the dating site. If you can learn to interact and filter these people who are doing these criminal activities, then you'll make the site itself much safer for everyone by reporting them to the site's support. Good luck with your searching.
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Dear Lenny,
Only one member has to be a paid member to communicate, not both. As a standard member, you can still enjoy numerous benefits such as sending interest to other members and communicating with paid members. We wish you the very best with your search for love. Please contact www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk if you have any further concerns.