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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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GB
1 review
13 helpful votes
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Pathetic
June 13, 2016

No chance of any meets from this site. They just want your money - it is fraudulent and shut be shut down as its business practice is nothing but a scam.

Date of experience: June 13, 2016
New York
1 review
12 helpful votes
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They are the worst sight they will get your money then auto renew and charge you more without your permission and if you don't pay they will block you from everything IT'S NOT FREE

Date of experience: June 8, 2016
Poland
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Im having a fairly mixed experience so far on AFF I must say. Yes - the site is sleek and sexy looking but im not getting enough responses or meeting up with enough hot ladies to really claim that my life has changed thanks to this site alone! I probably get a reply for every nine or ten messages I send but I guess the fact that there are so many women to message (not counting the occasional obvious fake) is a positive.
Overall though ive been using a multiple site tactic and that seems to be working pretty well. What I do is (a) create an account on four or five hook up sites (b) take a subscription on the best three in terms of amount of girls in my local area and ditch the other two sites in my case im using AFF, Hookuphangout.com and flirtydater.com (c) add at least four photos, none of my manhood but proper photos like me in my tux at my brothers wedding and that type of thing (gotta keep it classy, baby!) and then (d) add some description in the profile making myself out to be a strong, sensitive and witty type of fellow before (e) sending out as many intro messages and winks as possible. Finally, (f) I repeat this process for the other sites I joined.
I would recommend this as it means you usually have something to look forward at the weekend and if you find good sites with lots of members in your region then you take out the longer subscriptions that work out much cheaper per month and live happily ever after. Well until you fall in love with one of the chicks, and then you have a serious dilemma lol! Anyway, hope that helps anyone who is willing to give it a shot. Best of luck, Ant.

Date of experience: June 3, 2016
France
1 review
6 helpful votes
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May 29, 2016

Still not sure about this adult friend finder as its supposed to be the best for no strings casual meet ups but im not feeling it. My buddies have said I should join more than one site, like this one and hookuphangout for example. Ive not done that yet cos money is a bit tight guess it makes sense. Im not gonna be to harsh on the site as ive not tried combining it with another yet but I must say I expected at least one night of steamy sex by now! On pay day ill try doubling up but I that doesnt work ill be asking for my money back.

Date of experience: May 29, 2016
GB
1 review
18 helpful votes
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Once you join you can never cancel your membership and they will continue to charge your bank no matter how many times you delete your account. Extremely dodgy criminal company. Relying on embarrassment to not complain.

Date of experience: May 28, 2016
Poland
2 reviews
4 helpful votes
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Still great!
January 18, 2021

Yeah, I know that AdultFriendFinder.com is not as good as it used to be and that you will most likely get laid a little faster on other sites like CasualDating4u.com. But that does not change the fact that this still is a GREAT, GREAT site! All you guys complaining simply don't know how to seduce women online!

Date of experience: May 27, 2016
Colorado
2 reviews
18 helpful votes
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Years ago, the site was pretty decent but lately it has fallen apart. I've been both a paying member as well as a non paying member. It used to be that those who paid, could contact interesting people who didn't. No longer, so that means it just knocked out a huge number of potential hook-ups.
The cost has also gone way up so it's just not worth it. Many of the profiles are fake. When I was a paying member, I got one message every 4 or 5 months. When I dropped the paid account, I got one every few days. (and I could reply to them, "if I paid") What was once a cool site has turned into a scam.

Date of experience: May 25, 2016
Alaska
1 review
22 helpful votes
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I was a member for several years loved it then you change it into a points system and nothing but money hungry $#*!es on there now. And you have started charging for everything your money hungry also i see you have taken a good thing and ruined it, you site really sucks terds now hope you go out of business or come to your senses you have lost a loyal customer

Date of experience: May 25, 2016
GB
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Still great!
January 18, 2021

Yeah, I know that AdultFriendFinder.com is not as good as it used to be and that you will most likely get laid a little faster on other sites like CasualDating4u.com. But that does not change the fact that this still is a GREAT, GREAT site! All you guys complaining simply don't know how to seduce women online!

Date of experience: May 23, 2016
France
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Many freaks!
May 23, 2016

Here is what they write in their terms: "PLEASE NOTE THAT WE DO NOT CONDUCT CRIMINAL BACKGROUND SCREENINGS ON OUR USERS OR MEMBERS." I know they don't but maybe they should! A lot of freaks on AFF. It is not their mistake and I know it is not their responsibility but you gotta watch out!

Date of experience: May 23, 2016
NL
1 review
2 helpful votes
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After reading some of the reviews for AFF I had to add one, as I think they are a bit harsh. Sure, there are better sites (obviously HookupHangout.com or FlirtyDater.com springs to mind along with one or two others) but generally AFF is fine and no where near as bad as some are making out. If you want immediate results then thats what hookers are for. Try common sense and dont be scared of a bit of effort. Oh and patience is a virtue!

Date of experience: May 22, 2016
Slovakia
2 reviews
16 helpful votes
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Id say this is one of the better sites for NSA action but man it does get freakin frustrating when you hit a dry patch! Its weird as sometimes you can chat with 3 or 4 chicks per week and be all ryan Reynolds aint got nuthin on me but then you can go a two weeks without even hearing from a girl and suddenly its what a douchebag I was about the ryan Reynolds thing. You just have to keep pushing forward and when the dry weeks come I usually renew my membership on another site (e. G HookupHangout.com) and it essentially doubles your odds and gives you a good boost. Ive been doing this a while now, and I can say with certainty that this type of dating does work but only if you dont expect to be making Ron Jeremy look celibate for your 30 dollars a month. Dont be a freakin moron, dude

Date of experience: May 21, 2016
GB
3 reviews
13 helpful votes
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Plus

-This is first site where i see real women.

Minus
- Lots mans
- if you are not looks like a model from press noone answer you :/

Date of experience: May 20, 2016
NL
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Not the biggest fan of AFF. There are better sites out there. Ive met more girls on hookuphangout in a month of adding it to my rotation than I have in over three months on AFF (although the first girl I hooked up with on AFF was BANGING!). I usually rotate my site use, for example one day on AFF firing out messages, next day im on hookuphangout.com searching and sending, and next im on a free site usually (just because money is tight at the moment) like POF or dare I say it, tinder. Using the rotation system usually works quite well for me and makes sure im giving each site plenty of attention, as you only have to find that one diamond in the rough every few days to end up getting your rocks off pretty regularly with chicks that aint looking for you to send them flowers or promise them a house with a white picket fence! Its the way forward IMO. I like my love life the same way I like my women - cheap and cheerful

Date of experience: May 17, 2016
Italy
1 review
5 helpful votes
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AFF is your typical hookup dating site. Does it have its problems and frustrations? You bet! But is it better than other sites out there? Goddam right it is! Theres no way I could handle using just this site for getting laid though Id go blind from self abuse in between the actual sex meetings as there are so few. The general rule is if you want to get regular action on these kinda sites you cant just pick one and expect that youll need to buy a mop for when the ladies all turn up at your door desperate for actionthat does not happen guys! Wake the hell up dudes! The way to make this stuff work for you is to join a few sites. Heres what I do (and its not just me, most of my buddies do the same):
1. Join at least three of these sites (AFF, hookuphangout.com, flirtydater.com, etc, etc)
2. Spend time on your profile, its your shop window and if you dont care about it then why should the limited number of chicks available give a damn about you?
3. Go to TOWN! Send messages to girls like there is no tomorrow and you want your last day on this planet to be spent ball deep in some gorgeous chicks clunge.
4. Get rid of any subscriptions after a 2-3 months that arent working for you and switch to another site but remember if youre getting replies then be patient and dont cancel just because you havent had any catfights over you yet.
Thats the way I play and it works for me. But then im a studmuffin so maybe thats the real key to this stuff! Either way dont give up and be realistic!

Date of experience: May 16, 2016
France
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Look, im not an expert and I dont pretend to be. Ive dabbled a bit in online dating, first of all with the love sites and now im trying the more kinky/ adult stuff and enjoying it a lot more. Its still new to me tho, ive only used hookuphangout.com and AFF so far and have found both to be very good at different things. AFF seems to be a big brand in this sector, you can see their ads all over the place and lots of media coverage over the years if you do a quick google search. The site itself looks very good and its super easy to use, super smooth. You always see lots of girls in the searches but that doesnt mean they all reply. Ive not had as much success on AFF as HH but still like using it as it must get called the best adult site for a reason so hoping my luck improves.

Date of experience: May 15, 2016
Wisconsin
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Very Suspicious
May 11, 2016

Interested to see which information is available! From past history!

Date of experience: May 10, 2016
Spain
2 reviews
29 helpful votes
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No!
May 8, 2016

Don't do it, unless you want to waste your time and money!

Date of experience: May 8, 2016
Romania
1 review
4 helpful votes
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AFF Review 2016
May 4, 2016

After hearing all the fuss about online hookup sites I decided to finally give it a go. I did some research and read some reviews as I dont tend to part with money unless im certain about something. I ended up going for the shortest trial on AFF and keeping another couple of sites Id read good things about as backups (actually since then ive gone on to buy a 6 month membership on HookupHangout.com as that ended up being the site that suited me best). My month at AFF seemed to start well and I was enjoying firing messages out to chicks, but after some initial replies they seemed to dry up. Im sure you could get some action on the site but it was starting to feel like hard work trying to get the ladies to meet me and I eventually gave up and moved on to another site. So all in all, I wasnt that impressed and I wouldnt say it met my expectations.

Date of experience: May 4, 2016
Bulgaria
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I told myself I wasnt quitting until I got sum and last night, after almost three months, I got a nice peace of action with a UNI STUDENT! Well pleased. I was loosing faith in the site as ive never waited this long on HookupHangout.com it took a month, tops. But theres no way I was giving up as there are real girls and so theirs no excuse if you cant get lucky. Not sure if ill stay on the site as theirs definitely better options out there but happy I finally scored, got her number to lol! Good things cum to people that wait, just like the Guiness advert always sais!

Date of experience: May 4, 2016