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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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value
115
shipping
32
returns
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Canada
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Fine for a few months
August 8, 2016

I like AFF, It's a pretty nice site, id say its a good one to use for a while, long enough to give you a chance to get a good number of replies back but short enough that you leave after you've checked out all the real women in your area. I tend to use this for a few months and then switch to HookupHangout.com for a few months and then back again. Works for me. Im unemployed at the moment but when I have a job ill use both together and then ill see some serious action!

Date of experience: August 8, 2016
GB
1 review
19 helpful votes
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22% out of 100% reviews? That's very poor. Main feedback is the site generates their own emails and lots of men posing as couples or women. What do you do to weed this out?

Date of experience: July 29, 2016
Montana
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I have been a member for a couple years. I think considering the amount of content that it is really good. Those who are complaining - maybe have the wrong expectations! Personally, I would really not to expect to meet my new wife! It is more a browsing opportunity and one can meet someone but it is hit or miss. No different than going to a bar! HOw many time have we all gone there and spent money and met nobody? If you like a site with a lot of content - it is great! My only criticism is that the video feeds get real slow and start n stop at busier times.
Actually after a few more months, I believe I should add a bit more... in terms of content from members it is second to none. Their biggest problems are their technical computer problems. Their servers clearly cannot keep up with the demand. The members videos almost never play through without starting and stopping - many times they won't play at all! It is a real problem, and when they are contacted they run you through a cleverly thought out program of checking every possible thing on your computer. I have used a half dozen computers on their site and they all have they same problem. 'Truthfully, if I could find a web site with similar content but less computer problems, I would switch.

Date of experience: July 28, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
7 helpful votes
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In my honest opinion this site gets better as time goes on which is the same for most of the good casual sex/ NSA sites (hookuphangout.com, etc). Some people don't seem to realise that it takes a while for the chats to get going and the replies to start coming in. I was pretty much ready to give up and then I got chatting with a smoking hot girl that I assumed was a fake until she agreed to meet up with me. Patience does pay off and even if you're not out there banging blondes and brunettes like a true player you can still have a good time. Ive had some amazing chats, some naked selfies and all that stuff and its pretty cool (beats watching x factor anyway) So yeah, give it time and then judge it, if you want instant sex then there are ladies in every city that you can pay directly if that floats your boat but for me I prefer the chase (and yes, admittedly much cheaper option) of hook up sites like this.

Date of experience: July 25, 2016
North Dakota
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I have tried well over a dozen sites. Most are scams, computer generated. Ask any girls there that would send naked pictures of themselves to send a selfie holding the newspaper. You will never hear from them. Again. I just joined aff after being off for 2 years. I was on for 6 months back then. I had 6 dates and a long term ralationship that just ended. L am no stud, just your average joe in my 50s. My GF who I met there would show me some of the postings from guys. Its no wonder they have no luck. Believe me guys most girls don't want a picture of your junk or want to hear what a stud you are. But keep it up! More for me. This site is the balls. All you have to do is be respectable and listen.

Date of experience: July 20, 2016
Spain
2 reviews
44 helpful votes
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No success
July 17, 2016

I don't know anyone who was able to get laid using this site, including me. And I know A LOT of guys whow gave it a try.

Date of experience: July 17, 2016
Washington
16 reviews
67 helpful votes
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At least here, there is no mystery to the motivations of the guys here. It's a sex site. The guys are mostly sex addicts and drug addicts, etc. So you know at least this site does not PRETEND to be a dating site. It is what it says it is, and at least it has that going for it. If interested, you will also want a kik account. Bring on the d! Ck pics! Let the games begin.

Date of experience: July 15, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Am shocked how many haters there are. People always expect miracals and talk sh*t when they aint happy. This site is easily 1 of the top dogs for hooking up with chicks. In fact the only one better is hookuphangout.com and I'm personaly members of both. Make your own mind up thats my advise to yall. Peace out.

Date of experience: July 14, 2016
GB
1 review
15 helpful votes
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Been on this site for a while now and I can tell any man to STAY the F*** away from this site and save your money it's the same old female profile you see on a lot of sites most will never reply and if they do its only to talk on the site lol or they need help with money for one reason or another so complete waste of time and money.

Date of experience: July 12, 2016
Canada
1 review
5 helpful votes
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AFF user report
July 11, 2016

Ive had my ups and down with this website but mostly ups I have to say. Its better than a lot of the crap out there, trust me, ive seen it all. Most importantly I have actually got laid through this site, so thats probably all I need to say. The small print is that it took a while and a LOT of messages before I got to that point (but I had some good chats and fun in the meantime). If I was to advise someone who is looking for a site to meet girls and have strings free sex I wouldnt hesitate to say this and maybe one or two more, tops (HookupHangout.com deserves a mention here, brilliant site). Just remember it doesnt happen overnight and you will go days and at times weeks without getting anywhere but as this site has genuine women on their books you can rest assured that you will get luckyeventually. Just make sure you enjoy the dirty chats and webcam or cyber sessions in the meantime as the in person shagging only happens once in a blue moon on any of these sites unless you look like leo di caprio.

Date of experience: July 11, 2016
California
1 review
11 helpful votes
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These people are $#*!ing morons. Actually that is a compliment. They have no issue collecting your money. They set you up on auto-renew and then make it near impossible to turn off the feature so you pay them into perpetuity.

Add to this that they hate customer service. They give a little fill in form to send problems to which they must delete because they never response. In fact, they have you hit confirm three times because the complaint is sent, hoping that you dont scroll all the way to the bottom to see the confirm button. If you bust your $#*! (you wont find a contact number on their web site) but you will at their parent company site friendfinder.com. When you call them, its routed to the Philippines where some guy reads off a script and asks all the things they shouldnt ask over the phone such as your password, contact number, email, ID, etc.

NO PROFESSIONALISM AT ALL

JUST SPEND $20 ON A HORSE SIZE DILDO AND SHOVE IT UP YOUR $#*! WITHOUT LUBE TO GET THE SAME SENSATION OF $#*! RAPE YOU GET FROM THESE $#*!ERS FOR A LOT LESS MONEY

Date of experience: July 10, 2016
India
1 review
12 helpful votes
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I have not found any real woman on this site. Wonder where all the positive reviews come from?

Date of experience: July 5, 2016
Germany
1 review
12 helpful votes
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AFF keeps getting worse and worse. Used to be a cool site but now I avoid it like the plague.

Date of experience: July 3, 2016
NL
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Sex Site
June 29, 2016

I quite like AFF as its not expensive and every once in a while it helps me get lucky. Maybe not as much as hookuphangout.com has over the past few months, but still often enough that I decided to come here and write a good review on it! It deserves that at least! I do read some bad things but I would say try it yourself before going on what someone else says, people like to complain and some people expect miracles. There are no miracles here but there are girls and if you spend enough time and effort you might just screw one of them. I certainly have!

Date of experience: June 29, 2016
Germany
1 review
4 helpful votes
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7/10 overall
June 27, 2016

My 3 months on AFF just finished and im happy with it overall, will probably pay again. Its far from perfect but the closest site ive found to perfection is probably HookuHangout.com and even that has some things that could be better so no point in counting the negatives when there are plenty of positives to focus on. Im in London and it might be because its a major city but there really are a good amount of women online and although they dont always get back to you its still pretty easy to find one to meet up with if you spend time on it. Not sure what its like in other places but works good here.

Date of experience: June 26, 2016
India
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Trial and error
June 21, 2016

I have been a member for ten months. There are way too many camgirls and prostitutes on this site. But if you hang in there you will meet some real girls as well. I personally made the experience that you have better chances joining so called 'women friendly' sites like Vanessa69.com. But it is all about trial and error.

Date of experience: June 20, 2016
Washington
1 review
19 helpful votes
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But, went back to be a non member because of costs. Now, they have pretty much shut off non members. You can't read remails, and you can not get into or use the cam service to watch or talk. All they want is your money and if you can't give it to them, they will not allow you to play, so, removed my profile totally cuz even when I was a member, 50 % or more that emailed me or watched me on the cam, were non members so now they have narrowed it down to 40% or so that can even email or see you on cam. WOW, and I have over 5000 bouns points and thought I would use them to get a membership for a short time? Ha. They want you to confirm your ID. They want all your Real. Info including a copy of your drivers lic. Or passport, etc. Come on AFF. Who pays you to buy that info from you after you get it from you members. That is private info. Bye AFF

Date of experience: June 15, 2016
Italy
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Id rate AFF as medium-good. Its busy enough and has everything you need to be able to go ahead and set up some sexy time, but I still think it falls behind a few of the more modern sites that really get results and not just the odd reply. A good example would be HookupHangout.com but there are others too, if youre willing to send the time and money trying new sites then you do find the odd diamond in the rough. But overall I wouldnt think twice about using this site every so often to see the new members that have joined, I just probably not worth paying for every month, all year round.

Date of experience: June 14, 2016
NL
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Funny site
June 14, 2016

I cant quite figure AFF out. Sometimes I get some a bunch of good interactions and numerous replies over a week or so, other times I can go ages without hearing from any girls. I find HookupHangout.com a much more consistent site and better value overall. The problems here are that I dont know whether to stick with it as it does occasionally come through for me, or cancel because of the on / off nature of the success I get on the site.

Date of experience: June 13, 2016
NL
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Funny site
June 13, 2016

I cant quite figure AFF out. Sometimes I get some a bunch of good interactions and numerous replies over a week or so, other times I can go ages without hearing from any girls.

Date of experience: June 13, 2016