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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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value
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shipping
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returns
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quality
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California
1 review
9 helpful votes
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This is an entirely wrong approach to sex to begin with. Besides this, the site will scam you like there is no tomorrow. Immediately after singing up, you start getting broadcast e-mail from old and fat members, usually bored couples. Now and then you get e-mail from cute chicks. That e-mail though you can't read until you pay. Once you pay, the chicks never reply to you and no other cute chicks ever write to you either. It is utterly stupid and unfair for a business to scam its own customers and yet it still exists fueled by people's hormone.
My advice is, you will have much better success meeting women in person on okcupid or other dating sites. Did I say much better? Even if we speak casual sex, it is much better to use regular dating sites. The expectation that women are more open on a sex site is totally wrong. Women are women on any site and also in real life.

Date of experience: December 17, 2016
India
1 review
10 helpful votes
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Online brothel
December 16, 2016

This site is overrun with prostitutes so it is hard to get in touch with genuine people.

Date of experience: December 16, 2016
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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AFF
December 12, 2016

I signed up to this to go along with my hookuphangout.com membership to keep me going over this time of year where everyones all loved up. Figured two sites are better than one. Cant be bothered with that soppy stuff, I like a site that gets me laid and HH has done the trick for me numerous times so if AFF is half as good then it wont just be the turkeys getting stuffed this Christmas lol!

Date of experience: December 12, 2016
Washington
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Concerns
December 10, 2016

Have noticed that my profile is showing an increasingly large number of profiles that it states we are viewing. In viewing history it shows many profiles that we are not viewing. In fact we have watched the number go up while we are on the site and not actively viewing profiles. Does this site automatically do this.

Date of experience: December 9, 2016
India
2 reviews
15 helpful votes
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Fake messages
December 7, 2016

And another example of fake messages that make you believe that there are stunning hot women waiting for you.

Date of experience: December 6, 2016
Canada
2 reviews
18 helpful votes
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Not a bad site
December 5, 2016

Compared to all the SCAM sites out there 'AFF' is way better than average but in my opinion the man to women ratio (and that often also means your success rate) is worse than on 'CasualDating4u' and other large hookup sites. But I think it is always worth a try cuz it is not a bad site though and the reviews I've read all over the web are simply not worth reading.

Date of experience: December 4, 2016
Maryland
3 reviews
4 helpful votes
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Yes they have an ambassador program. I'm now on that level just from talking to people I do want to talk to. They do tell you they are one. They usually have it at the bottom of their email or listed as VIP. If you suspect they are only talking to you for that reason... ask for email or Kik. Simple. Downside I literally have 100s of emails. I try to pick out those in the age bracket I want and reply to profiles that intrigue me. Men hardly put effort so I'm thinking those upset on these reviews are those people. Maybe because I'm not vanilla. Someone just saying they want to $&@# provides a huge yawn to me. We all do, that's why we are here. Duh.

I like the site in general but it's severely outdated. IM always messes up and so does camming. The sound rarely works and I wish you could block cam invites in the chat. Sooooo aggravating trying to read a chat when a horny jerk off sends his cam 20 times in 10 seconds.

Date of experience: December 4, 2016
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Its Not That Bad! LOL
December 2, 2016

I read that someone said it was crap... OMG get a life. Yeah its not as good as hookuphangout most people will agree but come on, I bet that tosser didnt even give it a proper try. Dont expect girls lining up for you but im pretty sure if you put in some actual EFFORTS then youll eventually get sumwhere on this. Brian H.

Date of experience: December 2, 2016
District of Columbia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Worth The Effort
November 30, 2016

Been on this site for 2 months. Getting chicks on here is pretty easy given the area that I'm in. Met one, chatted for a bit, hooked up (use your imagination) and that thought things were going somewhere and she just vanished. But boy did we have fun!

The people are real on here for the most part. Bots and fake accounts get flagged really quick. In the events of meeting another chic here soon. I've talked to a couple of people on chat and phone. Most woman are either attached, married, or have a boyfriend and alot of them do these things called "parties".

Well worth the money to signup as a Gold member. There was a special where you can sign up for like $90 for the year. It's already paid for itself. If you're not on it sign up for free but free members have a hard time sending message to gold members. Gold members are normally the "real" people and people who are "confirmed". Loving this site so far.

Happy hunting.

Date of experience: November 29, 2016
Canada
1 review
3 helpful votes
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AFF
November 28, 2016

Didnt mind this site at all. Some wee dirties to chat 2 witch is always nice. Lots of men on the site so not perfect. Prob my silver medal site, the gold still goes to hookuphangout.com ;)

Date of experience: November 28, 2016
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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A. F. F
November 28, 2016

Didnt mind this site at all. Some wee dirties to chat 2 witch is always nice. Lots of men on the site so not perfect. Prob my silver medal site, the gold still goes to hookuphangout.com;-)

Date of experience: November 28, 2016
GB
1 review
5 helpful votes
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November 28, 2016

We have been on this site for almost one month. Fakes either they refuse to give you a face pic or refuse to voice verify. I can not wait until this month is up.

Date of experience: November 28, 2016
California
1 review
5 helpful votes
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This website is ok i havent had any meet ups with anyone in years but i was online about to make online dates and my account was deleted for no reason. No response from customer service. Im thinking of flirting in person maybe trying a new online dating website. It just sucks i got a email saying my account may have been compromised i need to change my password after it was deleted. Not sure what thats all about i havent done anything i shouldnt have on there website so maybe also try going out drinking at a bar if i want a casual relationship:)

Yeah they sent me another email saying a huge lie about me i was popular i had 5000 points and i was only flirting i didnt do anything but flirt and try to go on dates and you know what they said i was reported for what i didnt do anything so they deleted my profile i didnt do anything at all i would absolutely not reccoment this website for online dating they just deleted my website and all i did was flirt people were having sex online and other things i havent done you know what im saying

Its like i heard people are doing drugs on webcams online and all i did was flirt with guys why was my profile delete for inapproraite behavior i dont drugs and im not a prostiute

They suck $#*! and i can get a casual sex one night stand at a bar or nightclub plus i already have fwbs it was a joke anyways

Good thing my profile was free :)

Date of experience: November 22, 2016
GB
1 review
12 helpful votes
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A complete rip off
November 19, 2016

Firstly, this site got hacked in late October 2016 and 340 MILLION user account details were stolen. As of 19th November 2016, the site has done NOTHING to notify customers.

They claim to be the world's largest sex and swinger's site. Here's the reality, in the U. K. for example, they have approximately 8.86 Million users, of which 2.6 Million are Men searching for Women, as compared to 106 Thousand Women seeking Men. That's a ratio of 22:1!

Then you need to consider of those 106,000 women, some are old profiles and then another huge section are fake or soliciting for various other websites, cam models, chat sites, paying subscription sites.

At a man; woman ratio of 22; 1 it's almost impossible to meet anyone. ALL the girls I have chatted with say they are overwhelmed by messages from guys.

Then there is the site itself that runs on a Flash platform, the IM is horribly intermittent in it's quality and the site itself crashes repeatedly.

DO NOT JOIN. It's a waste of time and money not to mention a security risk of both your personal information and credit card details.

Date of experience: November 19, 2016
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I realised a long time ago that the key to getting laid on these types of dating sites is to use a few at any given time. I always use HookupHangout simply because it works for me and has done many times, but the sites I use with it change a lot. I've had some shockers that were just money down the drain and ive had some pretty positive experiences to, with sites that have potential. Adult friend finder belongs to the latter group not ideal and I havent actually pulled yet on it but im keen to keep trying just because you can tell straight away its more professional than most and has real members. I hope my faith pays off but recent developments give me confidence, if you know what I mean;-)

Date of experience: November 13, 2016
Germany
3 reviews
32 helpful votes
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I've been a member of Adultfriendfinder for 3-4 months now and in my experience you will find many inactive members or those who are not really serious about hooking up. But if you are decent looking it does work. I've met one girl and had a good time. I'd still prefer CasualDating4u.com a little more because in my experience they have a good man-woman-ratio but you can't go wrong using both to maximize your chances.

Conlusion: Adultfriendfinder is still a site with genuine women looking for casual encounters and if you invest a little time you will sure meet some nice girls.

Date of experience: November 7, 2016
New York
1 review
10 helpful votes
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This site is a bunch of B. S. You might as well be reading Craigslist. I have joined twice. Many of the women they claim to be on line never even look at your profile, let alone respond, which means they may not be on line at all. Many of them are looking for women. Ok if that's your thing. Many only want to play as a couple or at least that's what their profiles say. You chance are reduced even further if you're non white. My recommendation is DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY!

Date of experience: November 4, 2016
Ukraine
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Pretty good a reckon
October 17, 2016

I was getting pretty pissed off with online dating and havin no luck what so ever. A bit like london buses tho nothing for months then I found two at almost the same time. This one, adult friend finder, is keeping me busy in the dirty chat side of things (gotta love the younger generation for inventing sexting) and another site ive been using (hookuphangout.com) is going a step further, getting me some actual meetings with birds. Im not gonna say my believes are totally back but its def a step in the right way.

Date of experience: October 16, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
18 helpful votes
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Supports Prostitution
October 13, 2016

I encountered at least two pay for play women on the site. I have never paid for sex and do not plan to start now.

Date of experience: October 13, 2016
India
1 review
15 helpful votes
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The results speak for themselves! I've had sex w/ five women I met on Adultfriendfinder. Five women in 12 weeks is not bad at all. Those of you who use hookupsites know what I am talking about. And five hookups in 12 weeks, well that makes this the second best result oriented site following CasualDating4u.com where I've met seven girls in 10 weeks. Let me summarize: Adultfriendfinder is a great source to bang girls!

Those of you who don't have any success using Adultfriendfinder I have some advise for you:

Completely avoid the superhot women! You may wonder why? There are two reasons for that. First, most superhot women are not even real. Often those are fake profiles with scammers behind them. Second, even if they are real they are contacted by so many men it makes it hard to get a response from them. If you are not a superhandsome fella yourself you should go for the average looking woman.

Date of experience: October 9, 2016