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AdultFriendFinder Reviews Summary

The company faces significant challenges regarding its reputation and customer service, with numerous reviews highlighting persistent technical issues and a prevalence of fake profiles, which contribute to a general sentiment of distrust among users. Customers frequently express frustration over the site's billing practices, including unexpected charges and convoluted cancellation processes. While a small number of users report positive experiences, the overwhelming feedback suggests that the platform is plagued by scams and inadequate support, leading to a negative perception of its reliability and overall value. The trend indicates a pressing need for improvements in user verification and customer service responsiveness.

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value
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returns
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India
3 reviews
11 helpful votes
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Legit
March 4, 2017

This is one of the most real sites I have come across. Easy to find your way if you know how to talk to girls. Some fake profiles but they are not hard to spot.

Long story short: Absolutely legit! If you weren't lucky you should haver a look at how you create your profile. Also keep in mind that your chances of getting lucky will multiply if you try more than one site at a time. Casualdating4u is a real hidden gem and really worth a try. Tinder can be a fun app too even though it is no hookup app per se.

Date of experience: March 3, 2017
California
1 review
10 helpful votes
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AFF site is full of ladies working with African based money scammers. Feigning love at warp speed then asking for money based on a fabricated crisis. Claims like: i work for UNICEF but I need money for good food. The site appears to be a front for the scammers. Even the US State Dept site warns about dating sites being used like this. Keep your money, stay away from this criminal enterprise!

Date of experience: February 28, 2017
Virginia
2 reviews
10 helpful votes
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Even though AUTO-RENEW was turned OFF, the company still billed me!

Site seems to be hugely populated by couples seeking couples and men offering me sex although my profile clearly indicated only straight interests.

Date of experience: February 23, 2017
Australia
1 review
9 helpful votes
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What a load of scammers
February 22, 2017

I have been on AFF for over 10 years now, I used to pay, looking, looking and well more looking, I don't pay any longer, the cam are free and I love a good pull, I believe that most are just cam models looking to get guys to empty their wallets for AFF, most are after points you see, a bit of a game, make a girl feel in control and all special to lead men on and actually watch them pay.
I have hade numerous pleasant conversations with females but as far as even a meeting for coffee is always declined.
Yet if I go out to my local clubs and pubs I can almost always pick up some uninhibited fun for the night, I went on AFF to find a bit of variety and variety is what I did find, a variety of women who are mostly game players and not serious at all.
After reading the reviews on here I would also like to point out that AFF will have people on this forum trying to say its all so great and how well they do on AFF(BULL$#*!).
Believe the one star reviews, I cant imagine anyone giving this GOLD DIGGER site more than a one star rating, Honestly the worst for men that actually want to hook up in the flesh for real deal date.
Im on AFF to play my own games now and add to the $#*!fulness AFF already is, guys get on AFF and give them hoes heaps, cause that's all they are, you wont get a hook up anyway.
Anyone that says they have is a dam liar and working for AFF 100%, a brothel is far cheaper and a variety to choose from so go pump a nice brothel hoe or two and get out with the boys.
DONT DOG THE BOYS.

Date of experience: February 21, 2017
GB
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I use AFF. I search by zip n neva hav any trouble findin fly honeys to flirt wit. Only site comes close to this one is hookuphangout an you know im all over that. But it dont hurt nuthin to double down in this game. In short homies y'all could do worse than this site find out for yoself n dont listen to no haters. Hope you like my free advice! Reggie

Date of experience: February 20, 2017
India
3 reviews
17 helpful votes
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Great for girls :)
February 16, 2017

Great site for girls. As a woman you will meet men from all levels of society but be specific on your profile about what your requierements are.

I've met up with some nice and handsome men and as opposed to all the other hookup sites and apps Adultfriendfinder can be a fun site for women. At the end of the day in my opinion there are only two hookup sites which are female-friendly: Adultfriendfinder and Casualdating4u. I have made the experience that male members outnumber the female members on hookup sites but guys on those two sites are usually honest and suitable.
Have fun :)

Date of experience: February 15, 2017
New Jersey
1 review
4 helpful votes
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AFF - NOT MY FAVE
February 6, 2017

I cant really decide why but im just not sold on adult friend finder. I prefer hookuphangout or some of the other new sites that are using new technology and seem to be part of an evolved dating experience if that makes any sense. AFF was amazing back in the day but I dont get lucky with it as often as I used to. Still beats jacking off in front of the box of course.

Date of experience: February 6, 2017
Indonesia
1 review
7 helpful votes
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You won't get laid after clicking the 'JOIN' button and I think that's the biggest issue most guys have. You need to approach girls just like you do in your local bar or in a club and the average male user is simply lazy and should rather pay a visit to the nearest brothel. Aff rewards you if you are creative and patient. You may also want to consider to use more than one hookup site. Double your chances by using other good sites like Casualdating4U. Just don't do the most common mistake and treat women as 'fair game'. There are several women who don't mind but the average women using a hookup site or app prefers to be treated with respect.

Date of experience: February 2, 2017
GB
2 reviews
10 helpful votes
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Waste of time
February 1, 2017

Been on the site for 3 days been contacted by 3 women two of whom profiles say they are in the states just trying to get my email saying they're here on holiday. After giving in getting loads of boring rubbish emails about nothing as soon as the chat gets sexual they ask to meet and ask you to use a verification site which is free. You then get. Charged for verifying and the contact stops. Don't be fooled its a waste your money! Shame it was a good site about 10 years ago!

Date of experience: February 1, 2017
Austria
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Not enough real profiles
January 29, 2017

Joined for a period of two months and messages up to 100 people. Out of the 100 people I reached out to I received less than 10 replies...

Date of experience: January 29, 2017
California
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Beware of scams
January 25, 2017

I was on just a few days before cancelled. Talked to 3 women from supposed nearby. After a day or two of chatting, each one asked for money to get to US. Two were supposed to be traveling for work and oddly needed money for hotel and/or airfare. People with supposed bank accounts and family in US. But they ask a stranger for one to two thousand dollars.

Buyer beware!

Date of experience: January 25, 2017
Canada
1 review
2 helpful votes
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7/ 10 AFF RATING
January 23, 2017

I've been using a few of these sites since I split with my fiance but mostly hookuphangout (really good if you havent tried it). My work mate mentioned he'd heard a lot of stuff about adult friend finder so I figured it was worth a bash. Its busy like HH but im just not getting as many replies as im used to. It's not that its expensive but when you have a few memberships going at once you have to chop and change to get the best results for your money so im going to give it another month and see where I am then. It's got a lot going for it dont get me wrong, if I could get more replies it would bump my rating up easily.

Date of experience: January 23, 2017
Colorado
1 review
3 helpful votes
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There is a lot of fake profiles that scam you into believing that there are in your local area visiting for a couple days for example California but are originally from another state/country. DO NOT! Fall for any one time fee for booking it is a total scam. They will go through great lengths and constant messaging to try to convince you to send money overseas or to the Philippines Manager EldieSandoval aka Rico villa

Date of experience: January 19, 2017
India
2 reviews
14 helpful votes
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I am guy from Singapore and I used many hook up sites in the past, also AFF. I am not sure how it works in other countries but in Singaore it good! AFF and CasualDating4u are the two only sites which work for me.

Date of experience: January 19, 2017
Indiana
2 reviews
9 helpful votes
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Immediately after signing up I had msgs in my inbox(Haven't set up a profile yet). I was overcharged for services I didn't authorize and a PAID account was set up with their partner sites. Majority of women are fake telling you their in town but they aren't. Their dumb enough to use the same script from different profiles thinking people won't catch on. You'll receive more msgs from China than women in your area. Total scam

Date of experience: January 15, 2017
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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So... thanks to reading a few awesome reviews here & on other review pages I decided to give the thing a try when you use multiple dating sites instead of just the one to boost your chances & up the old success rate. I knew I had to be doing something wrong as these sites seem to be doing really super business everyone is using them! The guys at work, my younger brothers college buddies, the divorced dads on the baseball team I coach you freakin name it! So I added this one to hookuphangout a site that had served me best out of the ones I was using on a solo basis & things are really starting to pick up for me now. No kidding, I would go weeks on some other sites without so much as a REPLY! Never mind sex or as much as a hummer! I was like WTF $40 dollars a month for wasting my goddam time every night! But now ive got three sites that I like and work well for me its super easy to see how some guys were getting serious action through this stuff. I spend free time adding info to my profile page & update my pics every once in a while. I also try not to copy & paste my messages to women on the site, I prefer to read their info & try to make a funny comment (humor gets women horny, its a known fact guys!). Like I say things are picking up & im turning it all around now in terms of getting replies & arranging nights out. It took me a while to get it right but now ive figured out the best strategy im feeling a lot better about things. Would recommend this method without a doubt, dont see why it wouldnt improve your chances of getting laid anywhere in the states.

Date of experience: January 9, 2017
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I like the idea of the site but I think men forget that women are still women. They send dic pics and don't even say Hi and get right to talking about disgusting things they want to do you. I like to be treated like a human being and I can see why there are not enough women on the site. Women like sex too, just not being degraded and treated like crap. The site used to allow non gold members to chat with guys on IM and that used to be free for women, so now I can't even chat. So I think they are going to have a tough time convincing women to stay on site if they expect us to stay despite all the bad treatment from the guys. I also probably met 2 guys my age (in 2 years) but feel overwhelmed by all the creepy old guys on their junk.

Date of experience: December 29, 2016
Canada
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I'll be honest i was expecting another rubbish site full of scammers and time waters and frauds. Actually AFF isnt to bad in the end. Its a bit like that HookupHangout.com even if its not quite as good once you get into it you do actually get real results. Im not the reviewer type of guy but after getting laid a few times on these sites I decided to give sum feedback. Pay it forward I suppose, least I could do. Cheers.

Date of experience: December 26, 2016
India
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Patience!
December 19, 2016

Same on adultfriendfinder just like on any other large hookup site like casualdating4u. You need to invest time, patience and creativity and you will get rewarded. I've been using adultfriendfinder in 2014 and hooked up with several women following simple rules and being a little patient. Since 2015 I am a casualdating4u member and it also works for me. My point is: Just don't expect to get laid right after joining and you should be fine with some sites. I aree that most of them are pure scam but adultfriendfinder is not!

Date of experience: December 18, 2016
Ohio
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Cancelled Gold membership
December 17, 2016

I used a gift card to get 49 days of gold membership. After 5 days, my membership was cancelled. I have emailed so called customer service many times and get the exact same reply each time from a different named person. They owe me 44 more days and do nothing. It is a rip off. Don't use them

Date of experience: December 17, 2016