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Tawkify is a modern relationship development experience designed to help singles avoid the pitfalls of modern dating and achieve relationship success.
Our proven method saves time and frustration, protects your privacy and safety, and helps you date productively – with a focused process that combines hand-selected matches, personalized date introductions, and ongoing support.
Tawkify is a personalized matchmaking service that helps singles find their perfect match. They offer a unique approach to dating, where experts go beyond superficial profile stats to choose matches based on values and preferences.
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Very satisfying. Reinforced things I already have in my toolbox. Was enlightened about areas that I can nurture and learn to build confidence and add to my toolbox for use dating. I was nervous prior to my session with Deborah. We talked about ways to calm myself, mentally relax and prepare for a date. She was very helpful
I signed up for 6 dates with Tawkify. The first was meh but it was the first so sure, second was nice but they werent interested in me. THIRD was so far from what i was looking for i was insulted, and worst of all with that one i was pressured into the date by my make maker Heather despite me saying i didnt want a long distance from my match. But she INSISTED this was a great match and it was beyond awful. So i complained and they gave me a new matchmaker which put me back a square one. The 4th date was amazing i got an incredible review from the date (which i got from all the dates mind you) but again they weren't interested in me. 5th date was meh. AND THE FINAL DATE which after all my notes to my match maker and me telling them to take their time please find what im looking for, they toss another mid experience with a nice girl who "got friend energy" from me. So 6 dates and a large some of money later i never even got a text back despite good dates and glowing reviews for me. Im not only disappointed but never felt like i was actually heard or that they cared about my experience. DO NOT DO TAWKIFY.
At the moment, I am happy and impressed with the service. My matchmaker was easy to talk to and asked thorough questions. My dating coach provided great tips. I'm only two weeks into the process so I haven't had a date yet but I am hopeful.
I like the matchmaker, and I just thought everybody paid even all the women.
If there was a way to write a negative star I would. I have never taken the time to write a review even for bad service at a restaurant as I feel badly for the server. But this company's service is atrocious and a complete waste of time. Clients take your money and time elsewhere! The first screening appointment I had went well however it was followed by truly the worst date of my dating experience. The man clearly had some social disabilities however proceeded to stand up in the restaurant and perform ninja moves. The ninja moves and sound effects lasted for 15 minutes. It was then followed by scrolling through his phone and showing me pictures of his ex. I understand they can't predict awkwardness from their clients however there was zero compatibility as his interest was to be a traveling top martial arts fighter and I have a business which grounds me and zero desire to learn martial arts. Fortunately I have sense of humor and could walk away from the experience as another interesting moment in life. But what is appalling is three times since then their representatives have scheduled screenings and have not showed up to the zoom call. After this happened twice, I told them I wasn't interested in wasting my busy work day. They apologized and I gave them one more shot. Silly me. This company just treats you like an alogrithm. It's a steep price to pay when you are a busy professional. I've requested to be removed from their database. I can guarantee they will get that wrong as well.
Tawkify sounded really great! I had an initial interview and decided on which option I was most interested in. I paid and never heard anything from them about potential dates or anything. All I got was spam emails to try to get me to upgrade to paying more. Not completely sure why I would pay more when there were zero results where I was at.
Hi there. We're sorry to hear that the Tawkify experience wasn't what you were hoping for. Members opt into our pool of eligible matches for clients. If you haven't been contacted, it means we don't currently have a client whose match preferences fit with yours. That being said, there is no limit to the amount of times you can be matched and you may still get contacted for a date if we find someone who could be a good fit! The reason we recommend upgrading is because dates are guaranteed with the Client Experience, unlike with a Membership. If you have any questions please feel free to reach out to our Customer Success Team.
I purchased the 6 date package late last year for $3500 and the initial experience was incredibly slow. My matchmaker found me about 1 date every 2 months and the match maker got fired or disappeared after the 2nd date. Also, before the 2nd real date we had somebody cancel at the last minute. The 1st and 2nd date were women I had no chemistry with.
The new matchmaker that replaced the other has basically been trying to force feed dates down my throat. I laid out my criteria and they pick out the bare minimum requirements of what I'm looking for and also try and get women older than what I set my age range at. The 3rd date I actually liked, but she didn't like me back. The 4th date the girl basically just started staring at the wall like she was bored out of her mind and I ended up not caring after. The 5th date showed up 10 minutes late and tried basically rushing so they could leave. I'm still waiting on the 6th date, but I'm not holding my breath.
Also, it's pretty clear that they're trying to treat this like speed dating. Literally the day after I finish my date they already have another person lined up. My guess is they just find the same girls and just throw them against a bunch of matches.
Also, the women they pick are not high quality at all. 3 of them were 28-30 year old women still living at home, 1 was incredibly overweight, and 2 I asked about the process from their PoV, and they just said that they get interviewed for 5 minutes before setting up a date.
The TLDR was this was 100% a waste of my money. I went with a matchmaker because I work 12-16 hour days and money isn't an issue so I thought they'd do the work so I don't have to sit on phone apps for hours a week. Nope, should have stayed on the apps.
Don't do this. Do not do this. You do not know who you're going out with. You are set up on a date and do not know their name or who it is. Then you have to find them in the restaurant or wherever a bar or wherever. You have nothing in common. They find these people at random. Believe me, they are not attractive or anybody that I would ever go out with. I was actually matched up with people. Several people that I felt had absolutely nothing in common with me or found them attractive. Matter of fact I found them appalling. Do not do this if you do. You have lost your money and the disappointment behind it is incredible. You will not get your money back. These people don't care who you go out with. They will set you up with anybody. Do not do this. My last phone call was received today by the customer service person asking me if I wanted to forfeit. Forfeit. I told him was not the word I would like to use. I wanted my money back. This is a scam. There's nothing worse than waking up and realizing that you just been scammed out of a bunch of money. Do not do this
Thanks for your feedback. We reached out to talk but didn't hear back. If you can let us know who you are, we can look into your concerns and be in touch.
Tawkify was a great investment as I met my Fiancee (she was my 1st match) thru the service and will be getting married this Spring.
This experience was AMAZING! I initially was very hesitant because I could not see or speak with prospective dates until the actual date. However, doing things my way had not gotten me what I wanted, so I decided to trust the process. My matchmaker was thorough and compassionate, really getting to understand me and my challenges, and helping me to find the right kind of partner to fit my desires, my needs and my life. And it worked! In three matches, I found the love of my life!
I ended up achieving my goal of finding my life partner which is amazing, of course. It's important to me to note that the process of that was very enriching. With regular online dating, I never get feedback about how I'm showing up on a date. With Tawkify, one of the most helpful things was getting the feedback from the date via my matchmaker. There was something I was doing on my first dates which were a turn off for my potential matches and I had no idea I was doing it. Becoming aware of it and then being able to work with my matchmaker on shifting that made a huge difference in how I was showing up and presenting myself more authentically. Even before I met my partner, I already felt like it was worth it just for this helpful process.
Constance did a phenomenal job matching us. I am certain we could not have made the match on our own.
I am a paying client. Lori, my matchmaker took significant time to get to know me. I am a Christian and an organic farmer. Based on my previous on-line experience there are few women in my demographic (55-65) interested in my sort of rural life. I read a UK study that concluded that those who met online (older than 50 yr demographic) are six times more likely to divorce in the first three years of marriage compared to those who met through family, third parties or friends. Full stop! I let that sink in.
There is a great benefit having a third party trained matchmaker sort and match you with a person you might not consider if you were on-line. (my matchmaker was a trained therapist with a lot of good intuition and wisdom).
Fast forward to signing up with Tawkify. My advice is to be really honest and know yourself and spend time doing inner work understanding your past, your mistakes and the path your life has taken and to own your stuff good and bad. Once I had done this deeper excavation I was able to get real clear on my top 10 non-negotiables and then narrow them down to three non-negotiables which I shared with Lori.
The first two dates were OK...and really helped Lori zero in on a better match for me. The third date misrepresented herself and Tawkify promptly gave me a 4th date. It took 4-6 weeks to set up but the 4th date was also a paying member and she was of the highest qu no additional chargeality... we hit it off right away. Our matchmakers were flexible in our desire to meet outdoors as well. That first date (#4 with Tawkify) was early August 2021. Both of us have farmed. Both are committed Christians. Both love, love the outdoors, hiking, camping, and all that entails. We have dozens and dozens of things in common and are asking each other "how can I help you grow?" We just announced our engagement and will be married this July.
It is not quick, but can be worth the work, and the wait. In my experience Tawkify's matchmakers do not have some magic wand but it can be helpful as they may see potential people that I might not have considered if I was reviewing on-line profiles.
If you are willing to get real honest and do some inner work I think Tawkify can be helpful if you are looking for a life partner.
I'm a member and have been on two dates. The first date was a nice time and we had a great dinner overlooking the ocean. We went out a few more times but ultimately he wasn't the guy for me. My second match, we had drinks and apps in my city. Both guys were very successful, kind, and I could tell they were really looking for a relationship. That's what sets this service apart from others for me. It's so refreshing to meet men who are not just dating around.
I had a terrible experience with this dating service. For the nearly $10k price tag, the quality of the matches and the quality of the service are woefully inadequate. In my view, the matchmakers did not actually pay attention to your personality or preferences, despite the promised bespoke process and individualized search. And the frequency, number, and quality of matches was terrible. I live in New York City and had virtually no limitations or filters on the matches I would consider, yet tawkify professed not to be able be able to find me a date. (I'm a successful, active, objectively attractive woman in my early 40s.). Every time I expressed concern about the process my matchmaker shut off communication and sent me to customer service. It was a tremendous waste of my time and energy and I do not recommend this to anyone.
I reached out to see if we can help, but it sounds like you aren't open to talking, Melissa. I can respect your decision and wish you all the best. If you change your mind then please just follow up!
They promise the moon and deliver the gutter! They are no better than match.com and worse because you have to pay a tremendous amount of money to get worse service. They also don't charge some men who may be "in demand". They scout other sites to select these people.
Thank you for providing feedback on your time with us, Mona! The costs of our services are not based on gender. We have both male and female recruits who join our database at the request of a specific matchmaker. We also occasionally run specials for reduced cost membership irregardless of gender, and many former clients stay on in our database as complimentary members. We reached out to talk more about your experience but never heard back. Please let us know if there's anything we can do to help!
I can't say enough good things about my matchmaker at Tawkify. Signing up took me a bit since I was unsure if I could afford the service, but I can't be happier that I decided to do it. I've been on 7 dates since I signed up in November, and have paused my remaining matches as I am in a relationship with my 7th match and there are lots of sparks flying :)
Definitely recommend trying it! I joined their database and was set up on a date with a client a few months later. The match was spot on and we both wanted to see each other again! We had similar interests and the same sarcastic sense of humor.
Answer: Thanks for your interest in Tawkify! With over 10 years in business, Tawkify has the largest matchmaking database in the country and a record of 200,000+ strong matches. We're the highest rated dating service on TrustPilot with 4.5/5 stars and you can see our media shoutouts from sources like the New York Post at tawkify.com/w/press-features. You can also hear from real Tawkify couples at tawkify.com/w/stories or on our social media at instagram.com/Tawkify. In terms of our database, we have match candidates and clients all over the country. We only accept new clients after thorough review to ensure that we have sufficient candidates for them based on their location and match preferences. Please reach out if you have any other questions!
Answer: Hi there, as a matchable member you will be considered as a possible match for Tawkify clients and our matchmakers will reach out if they find a match that could be a strong fit. If you are not contacted, it means that we do not have a client in your area whose values and priorities align with yours at this time. That being said, members have unlimited potential matches, and many of our success stories are matches between clients and members!
Answer: Thanks for your interest in Tawkify! As the highest rated dating service on TrustPilot, finding life-long partners for busy professionals is our specialty. Tawkify experts go beyond superficial profile stats to choose matches based on your values and preferences. We handle all of the communication and date logistics so that all you have to do is show up! When you're looking for a real relationship, there's no comparison. Please reach out if you have any other questions!
Answer: Thanks for your interest in Tawkify! Our team is available 5am to 10pm PST. Call us at 1-844-494-7280 or email [email protected].
Answer: The app so much better because you can look at photographs and get a sense of the person and you know yourself much better than these matchmaker so only meet you for an hour and then only give you a 10 or 15 minute follow up. I actually feel bad for these matchmakers, because I think they are forced by this model to deal with a lot of very disappointed people.


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