Seeking ArrangementsReviews 394

I just terminated my membership to SA after being a loyal member for over 3 years. It was great in the beginning, with high quality women seeking more out of life. Unfortunately, ever since Backpage was shut down, the prostitutes and scammers have flocked to this site. Don't be fooled, SA is now a prostitution website. This is why Apple banned them from having an app. If you're looking for a hooker, this is a great place. If you're looking for a SD/SB arrangement, you'll have to look somewhere else.

They take your money and then ban you with fake excuses.

The site is supposed to be for mutual benefit arrangements, but they block you after first 5 messages and you cannot even read any messages or send anything unless you pay them the extortionate monthly fee.

You then get bombarded with fake women from other continents who you will never meet, scammers offering photos, videos and webcams and then ugly ordinary looking dreamers demanding you pay them monthly allowances.

The site itself is part of the scam, and they block your membership without explanation or evidence after a few days of taking your money, in the hope you will re-join and pay them more money.

STAY WELL AWAY FROM SEEKING.COM

I was on Seeking Arrangement, now Seeking.com for a couple of years. First year I only met one woman and she had been released just that day from a women's abuse shelter. Scary.

I have found that there are 4 types of women on the site:

1) prostitutes/escort: looking to have one time sex with you for money.

2) scammers... this is by far the largest group of women. They talk to you like they're a nice girl until the day you're going to meet (maybe sooner), then their car breaks down, or they can't pay rent, whatever. They know enough to build a relationship with you by text and then take your money. I've sent money to numerous women and then they never show up. Never.

3) Women who think you're going to send them money monthly and they don't even need to meet you. One women wanted $6,000/mo and when I said I wanted to meet she told me that was a violation of the site's TOS.

4) There are a handful of real women in a financial jam looking to become a SB. I've had 3 such arrangements. Short term because these women are generally quite unstable.

I was banned from the site for allegedly using escort language (not intentionally) and they won't reconsider even though I was and am looking for a SB.

Spent thousands of dollars mostly for nothing. The site is addictive though because you always think this one may be real...

Been on SA for four years had twp great arrangements but over the last 18 months the site has been filled with scammers, PPM, prostitutes, and girls suffering from entitlement.

In my state there are 2765 girls registered with SA only 100 are physically active every week compared with over 1000 guys active every week you do the math. Pretty much way to hard to get a response from girls and when you do they have HIGH expectations.

Unfortunately news stories stating you can make $75k a year as a SB is unrealisitc.

Otherwise known as Seeking Arrangements, the website is the most expensive sugar daddy site I have been on. With dates asking for $500 and over just to date with little chance of getting in bed with them, you might as well go to the Bunny Ranch north of Las Vegas. The app was pretty ok to find dates. I was able to go on one date for the price mention above. She was able to flirt with me while having dinner but no bedroom action. I tried to contact other profiles but some of them ask for $2000 for a monthly allowance with others wanting $700 for a pay per meeting arrangement (PPM for short). There were other profiles I thought were fake with only one photo and not of the local area. So, I flag some profiles I thought were fakes and block those I did not like for being too aggressive with their asking me of money. Several days later, my profile was suspended as being fraudulent. What?!?! I tried to make the website a lot better for people who want companionship and this is the treatment I got. When I got the email of what happened, the support email was incomprehensible since the website is based in China. I guess this Chinese company doesn't want a bad image in order to fleece hard working Americans of the money they earned for some fun that they should get. Save you money and avoid this website unless you like to waste your money like there is no tomorrow.

I got banned for no reason! I wrote to the customer service and rep wrote, in verbatim

"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use."

They will steal your money and use your nice username for their spambots! They are racist and they pick who is deserving to be in the site - regardless of your activity, educational background or purpose! Also if you use professionally taken photos and they think you're too perfect, they will delete you too. Horrible.

This site is full of Splenda Daddies. I just dumped a Splenda Daddy cause he went from giving me 2
$200 per meet to $120. He basically wanted a girlfriend/sugar baby experienced but in reality he just doesn't have the funds to afford the real sugardaddy lifestyle. So I ran for the hills before he even thought about sexual intercourse plus he was annoying he loved to brag and he had endless stories about his past. He was very clingy too he would want to spend long hours performing oral sex and making out with me which was straight torture. I also met up with an old frail sugar daddy who reminded me of Mr. Burns he probably was a generous sugar daddy but he was just too old and had too much baggage kids and an "ex-wife". Oh and just last weekend I turned down an old fat married splenda daddy and a divorced splenda daddy who basically wanted a personal prostitute for $200 per meet. Maybe the girls are really desperate for cash on SA so maybe that's why the Splenda daddies are so cheap or maybe it's just my location NJ. Either way my experience with these pathetic splenda daddies was a bore and a waste of time.

As with most sites now there is a dwindling supply of genuine people. Most women on SA seem to come from low income jobs such as beauticians/hairdressers or are students or nutcases and will try to scam as much money out of you and viciously abuse you if things don't go their way. I was asked for £300 just for a social coffee meet! I laughed back. They treat you as if they're doing you a favour and are standing as a beacon of morality.

There are however some genuinely nice, well mannered girls on there but finding them is like wading through a minefield. The place has now become littered with escorts and eastern european girls.

I've been on SA for over two months now. I'm an attractive 22 year old female student in college. I saw a lot of advertisement promoted by SA, and it sounded promising well it was all a load of BS! I decided I wasn't quiet ready for a real relationship between working and college, so I decided to get on here to meet some wealthy men who could help me financially, as well as I help them with my presence and so on and so forth. In other words, I knew the name of the game. My inbox was full of promising messages. Shortly in no time, I realize 99.9 percent of these men are all frauds, flakes, and fakes. They lie to you about their careers, income, and personal life. Not to mention, they all have some sort of issues, whether it be they are cheating on their wives, having prior past mommy issues, control issues... you name it. Just a few examples: one gentleman promised to pay me 900 dollars every time we met up. Thank GOD above, we talked for enough days to shortly find out that he was lying about that and looking for a real girlfriend and someone to move in. That's great and all, but hey bud try Match. Com not seeking arrangement where on this site women are looking for ARRANGEMENTS he must have missed that concept. I have another one who lived near by me and seemed promising and we met up for lunch where I did receive 100 bucks which was nice, granite I did drive an hour one way and an hour back to meet him, and we discussed how our arrangement would work out and it seemed to be all set, till he throws a last minute whammy on me that I'm not allowed to see any other men or guys and he will be wanting to know who I'm with, where I'm at, and what I'm doing at all times, so I canned him before that ever began because this is an ARRANGEMENT not a relationship. You compensate for the time I share with you not every moment I'm away, therefore no one is gonna control my life. Not even a real boyfriend, let along some 45 year old sugar daddy. My third gentleman, was just a T total freak, he seemed the most promising of all and we talked for weeks and everything was fine till he got pyscho on me and started making strange demands and telling me to go find random men at the bar, have intercourse with them, call him during it and let hear about it (so in essence he could be apart of it) and then tell them I have a sugar daddy and somehow he got off on that and would pay for me. Who the hell is gonna do that? A stranger is gonna look at you so crazy. Besides, what NORMAL man wants to pay you to be with another random man?! Ladies, don't waste your time unless you wanna deal with flakes, fakes, and frauds. There might be a success story, every one out of million, but take your chances elsewhere. Honestly I've gotten more out of walking into a bar by myself, and sitting next to a classy older gentleman.