Seeking ArrangementsReviews 394

This site charges you for a premium membership and before it expires they ban you permanently from their website without telling you exactly what action you did that got you banned. Stay away as they take your money and ban you with no refund and specific explanation. They should warn you or temporarily ban but not permanently and take your money.

When registering, I saw this site asking about your net worth and yearly income. Started browsing the girls and I thought it'd be great if we can message normally. Only to know that you'll get locked out after 3 messages or so. Got a reply and here we go with the "upgrade to Premium to read". See the premium pricing, 90$. A small amount of money to prove you're a real daddy, but probably feeds the devs (and the girl you like) for days.

You'll probably feel good that girls starts messaging you and lets you see their photos, but you'll feel bad after you realize that you actually get nothing more unless you pay, worse if you know that those girls are either fake or about to spend your one year income in one or two days.

Oh it's also funny that girls gets everything for free so don't think that their premium badge means they bought the same feature as guys. They could get it for free by requesting to the guys, and they can gain access to messages for free, while guys have to be on premium.

Ultimate gambling site.

My account was permanently banned without warning or notice. I had to email customer service and after days I finally received an email stating I had violated their terms of service (I hadn't) and refusing to peruse the matter any further. It clearly stated that any further inquiries on the same information would not receive a response. They claimed I linked an escort site or service in my profile. I mentioned i used to be one as a matter of full disclosure. A lot of guys dont like that and it's better to get it out of the way right of the bat then have it come up later. Nothing in my profile suggested I was on it as an escort. I even read the terms and conditions to make sure I wouldn't get flagged. So the only conclusion I can draw from their response is that I was banned for being an escort in the past and not for the way I was using their site (keeping in mind I hadnt even been verified at the time of banning, this was right out of the gates). That's discrimination and I'm going to continue putting complaints on any site I can find. Especially as a first offense. No warning, no notification, no fair review process that included my side, simply: once an escort, always an escort

This site is super simple to use and aint too expensive either, in fact its pretty average priced compared with some out there. I'd recommend it along with hookuphangout (hands down the coolest casual sex site out there IMO) as great options to get you laid. Give it the 3 month test, that's what i normally do. If I aint got lucky by then I move to another site, don't feel stuck with one site its a buyers market guys and there are plenty of options these days.

I've been a sugar baby on and off for about 4 years. I've been in a very successful 3 year arrangement with a generous, established gentlemen, so I know that it's very possible to have great luck on the site. However, since I'm single again and searching, I've come to realize the quality of people on this site has gone to $#*!. There's too many scammers, liars, naive girls who know nothing about this, and men who prey on them.

Key points for the men:

1. I understand that not every male is going to be utterly rich and have a high budget for a good woman, but don't lie about it to impress these girls and then be a complete fake. Being open will help you find the girl who suits you, (and your budget.)
2. Don't expect the most from a woman but offer very little in return, in no way is that "mutually beneficial." That's being a cheapskate. If you think you can get any woman you want for free, then go on eHarmony!
3. Stop searching for the young, naive and desperate. You should have high standards just like these girls should. Lack of standards on both ends is what really drove the site to $#*! in the first place.
4. Always remain a gentleman, the right girl will come around and reward you. Don't scare off a girl who could wind up being the right one for you. There will always be trouble, scams, and lies on both ends, you just need to try your best to avoid it. The right girl will be worth the previous trouble.

Key points for women:

1. Don't be desperate. If you're on tight ends, get a real job, and do this for fun on the side. The more desperate you are, the more you'll be willing to do for the money and you'll most likely meet some bad characters and worst case scenario, you'll get in trouble with the law or get hurt.
2. Don't be naive, or expect everyone to be honest. Don't send your bank info or give your full name. Don't pic exchange unless you know you are both interested and plan on meeting. Don't meet anyone privately right away. Don't ever give him your address. If he's sending you an Uber to pick you up, give him the address to a store nearby. Real daddies will never ask to meet at your place.
3. Have standards. This should be a given and kinda ties into number 1. No one wants a girl who wants everybody. Trouble is everywhere, you just need to avoid it.
4. Be yourself. You don't like when a guy lies or fakes you out, so don't fake out others.
5. Stop falling in love with your sugar daddy. That's just weird, on top of most of them being already married.

Horrible experience w/ Seeking Arrangement. It's just men trying to scam you for sex or money. The man behind the Catalyst4Blessings page is a complete fraud. He claims to be an oil & gas exec. His profile pic is of him & 3 puppies. He offers you the world, y'all agree to an arrangement, then ghosts you after you fulfill your end of the deal. He claims to have 12 houses all around the world, yet he lives in a garage apartment. He also lies abt his age, his profile 1st claimed that he is 49, he is now 44. The man looks to be in his 50s.