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Picking up some steam
November 19, 2018

Just gotta say that I was not finding enough men in my area when I signed up like 2 years ago. I honestly just forgot my profile and I didn't really use the email I signed up with either, so anyways, long story short, I opened up the email to check something else and I noticed a bunch of emails from secretbenefits.com. I went back on I guess out of curiosity and whoa, they have some dudes in my area now! Haha I've gone out with a couple of pretty hot guys lately I met through the site. Just fun stuff. Might be worth checking out nowadays even if you're living in a smaller city area.

Date of experience: November 15, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

That's great to hear, we really have come a long way in the last two years so I'm glad you decided to come back and have another look around.

Oklahoma
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Impressive
November 19, 2018

My first impression of SB is a good one. I had been on SA for a few years, and it was getting kind of stale for me. I read about this site from a forum I'm on, and it got some good mentions, so I figured why not? I signed up last night and sent out I don't know how many messages to guys (I think I was a bit tipsy). I was kind of shocked when I checked my messages today which I guess is why I'm writing this. I woke up to several replies this morning, and one was from a really cute guy that looks like he can take care of himself. Needless to say, I chatted him up and accepted a date for tomorrow night at a Bistro nearby me. Kinda stoked on the fresh start I seem to be starting for myself here. I would say it's worth checking out for sure!

Date of experience: November 15, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for the great review. I hope your date was a huge success.

California
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Works for me!
November 15, 2018

I like the site. The first plus for me is it's free and easy to use. I also have enough men in my area to choose from for now (wouldn't mind more of course). I haven't really fallen into the "lifestyle" but getting spoiled on dates is pretty awesome. I prefer to casually see guys when I find the time, so being a hot date for a few good men suits me perfectly.

Date of experience: November 13, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

That's great to hear, thanks for sharing your positive experience with Secret Benefits.

India
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One of the better ones IMO
November 14, 2018

I feel I had as much if not maybe a little more luck finding real SD's on this site as I have with the other top sugar dating sites I've tried. I think they have maybe less guys but there's a higher concentration of good ones. I did have some trouble uploading my video, but they have customer service that responded and helped me out with that.

Date of experience: November 12, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying your experience and have had luck finding good guys on Secret Benefits.

New Jersey
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Fun, fun, fun
November 14, 2018

Super fun to jump on in the mornings and see who's messaged me last. It's actually become part of my daily routine; check in the morning and check before bed (and sometimes throughout the day lol). I've met some really interesting guys. Love being spoiled! It's a refreshing step up from dating penny-pinching guys that don't truly value my company!

Date of experience: November 10, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

That's great to hear, dating should be fun and you have the right attitude.

Nigeria
1 review
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Positive start
November 14, 2018

I jumped on SB mostly out of curiosity to see if I would have better luck than I was with a couple other major dating sites I'm on. I understand I'm the "new girl" in my area right now, but I've been getting a lot of positive attention so far. I went on my first date from the site last weekend. Really nice guy, a bit older than I normally date, but he was really fun and generous. I agreed to see him again. Happy with how things are going so far.

Date of experience: November 10, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with others. I'm glad to hear you found a nice guy and I hope that continues to go well.

GB
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Recommended
May 5, 2021

I felt like writing a review of the dating site, SecretBenefits.com. I've been on the site since last summer. I've been casually dating fairly regularly, and I'm starting to see a very kind and generous man consistently on weekends.
The site is well organized and very easy to search and chat with men. It's also great that they don't charge women to use the site. Who doesn't love things for free? Haha. Anyways, I've found using Secret Benefits an enjoyable experience that has produced many successful dates for me. I have also recommended this site to a couple of my close friends, and they said they're having fun as well.

Date of experience: November 9, 2018
Slovakia
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Legit site
May 5, 2021

I've been actively dating on Secret Benefits for a while now. I've dated a handful of men so far. Decent dates, some more luxurious than others, but mostly decent guys. I'm looking for something potentially long term, so I'm taking my time. Secret Benefits has been legit as far as delvering as a dating site should. Acutally, one of the better dating sites from my experience.

Date of experience: November 9, 2018
GB
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The real deal
May 5, 2021

If you are on the fence about SB, don't sweat it. It's exactly what you would hope and expect it to be. I've been active on the site since early 2017, and I have never had any issues. Yes, I've had a few bad dates, but I can't hold them accountable for that.
My best advice at least for any woman on the site is to just put your best foot forward and be proactive. It's also good to be flexible as you go, but try to get your wish list done and stick to what you really want as long as it's realistic. Oh, and please don't put up with jerks! I've found plenty of really nice guys on the site too.

Date of experience: November 9, 2018
California
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Does the trick!
November 11, 2018

I have to give props to this site for providing a solid platform for older guys like me to meet younger hotties. I recently got out of a dead-end relationship with a woman my age. I don't know why I was so convinced I had to date women within my age range. Never again, haha! The ladies I've gone out with so far have knocked my socks off! Great dating website!

Date of experience: November 7, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Great to hear, I hope you continue to get your socks knocked off!

New Jersey
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You get what you put into it
November 11, 2018

Don't be mistaken, this is a totally legit dating website. The guy's are looking for a desirable lady and gals like me are looking for someone that enjoys making a woman smile. I made the decision to really spend some time on my profile and it's made all the difference with the quality of guys contacting me, so from my experience, Secret Benefits has provided the platform, but it's really been what I've made of it to work in my favor. It's really encouraging to me that I can be up front with what I desire and need from a relationship.

Date of experience: November 7, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for the great review. You are correct, we provide a platform that works but your success will always depend on how you use it.

Florida
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It is what it is
November 9, 2018

I don't know why some people feel like they have to excuse or explain why they are looking for a good guy on SB? Personally, it's not an issue for me. I don't feel guilty or weird about how I prefer to date men. Anyways, secretbenefits.com, to me, is a great venue that has allowed and even encouraged me to go for exactly what I want in dating and even relationships. Not recommended for judgmental or coy peeps. I would say it's worth trying for those of you interested in going for what you really want with a partner.

Date of experience: November 7, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for the review, I'm glad you are enjoying the site and thanks for sharing your experience.

India
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Thanks to Secret Benefits
November 9, 2018

I don't know if I should have been more picky, but I found my Daddy after being on the site for only a month. He's really nice, good looking, and funny. I dated a few other guys on the site, but none of them really did it for me. The first date I got from the site made me really nervous because I've never been on a "sugar date" before, and I had no idea what to expect, but the date was really easy going and the guy was a total gentleman. I was looking for the total package, and the chemistry just wasn't there. The other dates were brief coffee and dessert dates, and they were alright guys as well, but I just wasn't feeling it. When I finally met the man I'm seeing now I knew he was the one from the start. He had the looks, class, charm, and finanical independence that I was desiring. We can just spend as much time as we like with each other, and I never have to worry about flipping the bill. He takes care of everything for me and treats me like a lady and he is a great lover! I'm so thankful to have met this man, and I hope we will continue to be as blissfully happy as we are now! Thanks to Secret Benefits and my persistance I finally met the man of my dreams! I've recommended to all of my BFF's to check this site out!

Date of experience: November 6, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for submitting a review and for recommending us to your friends. I'm glad to hear you've been able to find the right guy for you.

Texas
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Works fine. Mixed bag of daddies.
November 1, 2018

Cool sugar dating site. It's super easy to use, and free, so who doesn't like that? Like every other dating site I've tried, there's a mixed bag of apples.
The filters they provide do narrow down things for me pretty well, but you never really know if you're chatting up a splenda or salt daddy until you basically go out with them, so you need to have a real nose for that so as to not waste your time.

Date of experience: October 30, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to submit a review of Secret Benefits. I'm glad you have enjoyed the site and that it's helped you find what you are looking for in a date.

India
2 reviews
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Nice website. Decent daddies
November 1, 2018

The website is nicely designed. Really clean and modern feeling. I haven't needed the customer service, so I don't know about that. They do send emails every week on tips and stories. The guys on here are not bad. I haven't met my Richard Gere yet, but you never know!

Date of experience: October 30, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with Secret Benefits. I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site.

India
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I'm happy with this one.
February 18, 2021

I just lost my job and I am trying to pay for school and keep my head above water, so I was happy she told me about this site. I've always heard about women finding men that are happy to take care of them and encourage them to succeed in life, but I really didn't think it was something that would be possible in my reality. I've been on for like 2 weeks now. My girlfriend told me to check it out. She said she had been on SB for 6 months and has had a good experience. I had guys message me right away after I created my profile. I decided to verify my identity with them and I had twice as many guys message me after that! 3 dates in my first week! 5 dates after my second week on the site! Some have been really generous with gifts and paying my way, and some have been a little cautious acting. I understand we are all looking for an ideal situation, so no big deal I guess. I haven't met someone that I am totally into. At this rate though I feel I will find my sugar daddy as long as I keep it up and stay positive! I know there are several similar dating sites to choose from online, but I'm happy with this one. Cool site.

Date of experience: October 30, 2018
Oklahoma
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All of the men are confused.
November 1, 2018

So far I've met with 4 guy since I joined 3-4 months ago. They all want daily attention and consistent dialogue every day, and some want intimacy. They seem to think that the SB "benefits" consists of free food, unlimited sex and a free trip to a romantic hotel with a pool. None of those are beneficial to me.

Date of experience: October 29, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Hi Kayla,

Sorry you haven't met the right guy yet, hopefully you're next date will be more inline with what you are seeking. If you haven't done so already, make sure your profile describes exactly the kind of relationship you are looking for as that should help you attract more of the types of guys you want to meet.

Utah
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Expecting more!
October 28, 2018

I don't live in a big town, but I was expecting more women to choose from. Not enough women in my area.

Date of experience: October 24, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I'm sorry to hear that but please check in again soon as we have thousands of new members signing up every day. Just don't forget to update your review when things improve ;)

New Jersey
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Met my guy here
October 25, 2018

For any girls out there, I wanted to share my experience on SB. I've had a profile on their website for nearly a year now, but within the first couple of months after joining, I met a really great guy that I've been seeing regularly since. We first chatted back and forth for about a month, but after we went out on our first date I think we both knew we were very happy with each other. I haven't had a desire or need to see anyone else since then, but if for any reason it doesn't work out any longer we both understand each other's positions, and I know I wouldn't have any problem meeting someone else on the site if I chose to. Personally, I feel nearly anyone could find what they are looking for on SB with a little effort and honesty.

Date of experience: October 23, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks a lot for sharing your opinion of Secret Benefits. It's really nice of you to take the time to write the review to let others know that real happiness is a definite possibility!

Tennessee
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Secret Benefits is Great.
October 20, 2018

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A buddy of mine recommended SB after having some luck on the site. I wasn't into the idea at first as I have not always had great luck with other dating sites, and I didn't want to waste a bunch of time, but he told me it was more of an NSA type site, and it was an easy process to get started. Curious enough, I decided to give it a try. I have had a couple of nice dates so far, but I was stood up once as well... yet all around, I'm impressed with the process and how simple it is to hook-up compared to some of my past experiences with online dating. Just keep in mind, it's not free for guys. You have to buy credits to message women, but at least you can search to see if there is someone of interest before you commit.

Date of experience: October 17, 2018
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I'm glad to to hear you've enjoyed your experience with Secret Benefits and thank you for taking the time to submit a review.