Secret Benefits

There are plenty of hotties in my area. Site has been running smoothly. I was happy that it was left up to me as far as what personal info I wanted to share about myself and I wasn't required to go through a lengthy sign-up process. I've been seeing a couple of young ladies on the regular on a very casual basis. I also get contacted by women every week which allows me to be picky and select the best of the bunch. Would recommend.

There are a few things I really like this dating site for:

It's free for me to use! An obvious reason to like anything.
It's fast and easy to use. It's a no-nonsense service.
They seem to be getting lots of new profiles every time I look, so I'm not getting bored yet.
I'm meeting cool guys. They have, for the most part, been who they say they are and have treated me very well.
There are a couple of things I'm not crazy about:
They don't have a mobile app. I heard it's coming, so hopefully that happens soon.
Guys have told me they have to pay to open a conversation with me, so I think that's why several guys that I've been interested in haven't written me back. Although, that might also mean they're cheapos, and dutch treat ain't my thing.
All around a great dating website worth the time in checking out!

Truth be told, I'm not one to write reviews unless a business really did something to wrong me, but this is kind of an exception because I'm actually having a really good experience using the dating site, Secret Benefits. I've used other dating websites in the past, and most have been alright, but I think this one has a modern edge and functionality that the others don't really have today in comparison.
The men I have gone out with have been gentlemen and all-around nice dates, but I'm not sure what I'm really looking for yet, so it's kind of a good thing most of these guys are also looking to casually date although a couple of guys have asked me about my thoughts on a long-term relationship (can't blame them for trying).
Another nice perk is it's totally free for women and you don't get bombarded with ads or spam, but they do send you emails about dating and relationships if you opt in for that. I did verify my profile fairly easily with their support, but my one critique is I wish more guys would verify their profiles. It makes it a lot easier chatting with someone when you at least know it's the guy in the pics you're looking at!

I'm generally a happy single man until the holidays come around which I'm sure most would understand without going into that further. However, I'm not looking for anything serious and I would hate to lead anyone on.
For that reason, dating women from SB is kind of perfect for me. They have been pleasant and fun and at the end of the day, we all go home happy without any awkwardness. I wish it were free to use, but if that means getting spammed and ads shoved in my face, I'm fine with paying a few bucks to open a message with a woman of interest.

I would say that this one is worth a try. The site works as you would expect it to, super fast, and easy to navigate. Naturally, everywhere will be different, but I found my search area to have plenty of women to choose from. I would say my average right now is a date out of every 3 women I message, and thankfully, the women on here haven't beat around the bush too much with me before I get a date with them, so the odds are decent IMO.

If you are not looking for anything too serious and you're also not into hook-up sites, I feel Secret Benefits would be a great fit. If you're a woman, everything on the site is free. Most of the men are generally 40's-60's. I personally really appreciate going out with more refined men that know how to truly treat a woman. Of course, there have been total lame-o's too, but surprisingly I've only run into a couple of them. My radar for jerks is pretty good. The only thing I wasn't really thrilled with is the lack of verified men's pics.

I have had great luck on the Secret Benefit site... in the past year I have had well over 20 dates, and half turned out to be imitate encounters. Two of the women became sugar babies who I dated for five to six months. Some reviews claim some of the woman are fakes... woman put on the site by the people who operate it. I definitely have not found that to be the case. The only problem for me is finding woman in my area... so many live 50 to 100 miles away and distance is an issue. I would give the site 5 stars!

I'm scoring dates here. Some have been spectacular, and some have fizzled out quick. Clearly, when I spend more time scoping out the ones that have put a little more thought into their profiles, and I chat them up a bit longer before committing to a date, I do much better.

The other truth to the matter is I am a bit more meticulous when choosing to hit up a chat with someone since that's when I pay in credits to open up the messaging, so maybe that's helped me make better decisions with women too. I do wish more ladies would verify themselves on the site since it does put me at ease knowing that I'm talking to the real deal.
I'm having a good time on the site, and I'll probably stick around using it in the foreseeable future.

Not a bad choice for a dating website. It's a much more direct and honest form of dating that everyone, for the most part, seems to understand and embrace. I really do like that I only pay when I want to open unlimited messaging with a woman of interest. They do it in credits, but I think it's maybe the equivalent to like 5 bucks. Cheaper than buying a girl a drink at a bar. All jokes aside, I've been getting dates with girls I wouldn't think would say yes to me, so that's really why I frequent this website so often.

Secret Benefits has been a legit site for me to find a few hot young ladies. Doesn't hurt I live near a few colleges. There are a few thousand women listed in my area, but as you can imagine, there are all kinds. If you are a picky guy like me, you gotta do some searching. The search filters help narrow down potential profiles fairly well. I'm not looking for a relationship, but there are plenty of women that are also looking for NSA dating. I've managed to find a new hot date every weekend so far. Not bad at all in my opinion.

My luck has kind of been all over the place with dating men from this website, but I do like the service all around. The amount and quality of really nice dates do outweigh the duds and lame-o's that I had the misfortune of going out with. Anywho, there are plenty of men to still choose from. I feel if you are looking to date fun guys that know how to treat a lady you can find that here. If you are looking for your true blue honey boo, it might be more of a challenge, but you never know, right?

I felt like there were a few major factors when joining secretbenefits.com that won me over.
1. I wasn't sitting there answering a million dumb questions and stressing over just trying to get a profile started before I ever even get to see if there are hot dudes or not on the site. Instead, I think I spent like 5 minutes throwing together a starter profile before I started my search.
2. Totally free, and no private info is required of me other than my email of course. Need I say more? Also, you aren't hit over the head with spam and ads. Actually, I don't think they have any kind of outside advertising on their site?
3. Real guys that show up for the date! I have to put it on a bit and put my best flirty face on, but it works! I think at this point I could get a date with at least one of the several guys I've seen from the site any night of the week. Hahaha
4. Super fast site and really easy to use. I kind of have no patience for slow sites, so this kind of helped seal the deal. If you appreciate modern well-built websites, this is a good one.
The only thing I would warn about especially for women like me is always be cautious and take your time with guys in the beginning. Always meet in a public place in the start and just use your better judgment.

My experience with Secret Benefits has been generally positive. Most of the women I've seen from the site have been who I expected they would be based on their pics and general personalities. I have been stood up once and met a couple of chicks that were just not who I thought they would be. It would be great if the site was able to encourage more women to verify their pics... However, I understand anonymity is important for some as it is for me.
The website functionality is top of the line. Smooth, fast, and thoughtfully designed. I was alright with purchasing credits once I found some women of interest. Beats paying for a monthly membership.

I'm not sure if I just know how to pick them or my luck is just really this bad, but I have not been able to land a solid date with any of the guys I've been chatting with since I signed up a couple weeks ago. It's like this hot and cold they keep playing and it's totally discouraging to me. I really like the site as far as getting on and using it and there are plenty of men to choose from, but c'mon. Something has to give. Not sure if it's because they are married, or shy, or busy, or bad timing, or maybe it's just me? This is my first online dating experience so I'm not really sure what to expect but I would love to find a good guy on the site that would commit to a time and place.