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Kentucky
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Returning member
August 15, 2019

I had a great relationship from Secret Benefits that lasted about 8 months. We recently parted ways, so I jumped back on recently and I'm blown away at how many more women joined in my area since I was last on! Chatting with a couple of beauties right now. Looking forward to a date with one this weekend. Very happy the site is still going strong and attracting more women. Maybe I won't look for anything too serious this time. Looks like there are plenty to play around with and have some fun for a while. Keep it up!

Date of experience: August 13, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to submit a review about your experience. I'm glad to hear you are enjoying yourself, welcome back.

Illinois
1 review
39 helpful votes
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Scam
August 15, 2019

Scam site... Get messages so you have to use credits, then never get replies back. I think the fake profiles get credits for there messages

Date of experience: August 12, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I’m sorry you haven’t enjoyed your experience on the site. We have tried to reach out to your to help but have not received any response. Your claims are incorrect, I’m sorry you haven’t received more responses but as with any dating site it can sometimes take awhile to find someone you match well with. It’s helpful to have a complete profile that let’s others know your likes, dislikes and what you are looking for. You can also greatly improve the responses you get by sending a good first message that entices them into responding. Please keep in mind that sometimes people can take a few days to reply to their messages and some might join and decide not to stick around for long.

Colorado
1 review
14 helpful votes
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The structure of payment strongly encourages fakes, meaning, you pay to contact a woman, even if she's only on the site for one day and then vanishes. That happens all the time. You'll see a cute new girl, you reach out (which is how the site makes its money), and the next day she's listed as "no longer active." It just feels like a lot the people I write are set up by the company, and it makes me wonder if they should be investigated. I could be wrong. And there ARE real girls on there, too, I've met some really nice ones. It just feels like I should get a bunch of credits back for all the times I write someone who's on the site for one day and then is gone.
One more thing -- it's kind of fun and diverting. I have my system set to log on regularly, it's kind of like a coffee break. If I find a real girl -- there are some -- great. If not, I lost some money to a bot scam, but what do you expect, it's a sugar daddy website, I can't find a single one that gets good reviews. All the same, it'd be nice if they refunded credits wasted on girls who pop up for a day and then vanish.

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the SmartCustomer Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: August 10, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience on the site. All of the profiles on the site are submitted by real users and we encourage you and others to report any profiles that you feel are not playing by the rules. I'm glad you have had some fun and hope you'll have even more in the future.

GB
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Pleasently surprised
August 13, 2019

I signed a few months ago. I didn't buy the credits at first as I wanted to see what it was all about. After taking the plunge, I bought some credits and starting chatting. TIP! Go for the verified girls first if not you van waste time. It took about 8 conversations and had a real meeting with a girl. She was as per her pics, we got on well and will see her again today. A lot of the girls see I as a way of making cash for uni or just funding a life style. Others are actually looking for dates. Try it, be polite, hold intelligent conversations and you will meet girls. Dont fall in love with them though!

Date of experience: August 9, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to share your experience and for offering your tips to other users. I hope you continue to enjoy yourself on SB.

Montana
1 review
15 helpful votes
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Spend your money and time elsewhere
August 11, 2019

I signed up a couple months ago to find someone to spend some time with. Movies, dinner dates etc. Before buying credits I was swarmed with messages. So, I purchased the smallest "credit" packages. After looking through the messages I picked the ones I wanted to respond to. I've had numerous that would send a message and never respond back. Now, ask yourself. Why would someone send a message and never respond? Why would they send you a message, read it and never respond? Keep in mind that they initiated contact. This is nothing but a scam to get money. Avoid this site at all cost. It's full of fake profiles that I believe are set up by the site to rip people off. It should be set up the where the ladies have to pay and it will only recognize your current location. You can set up a profile and pick ANY state you want. There are a couple sites that are $90 a month but they actually have real ladies in your location to talk to. I'll be filing a dispute with my CC company.

Date of experience: August 8, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I’m very sorry to hear you haven’t enjoyed your experience on Secret Benefits. Our customer support has tried to contact you in order to help you have a more successful time on the site. I hope you have decided to give the site another try and that you will update your review to reflect that when you do.

As with any dating site, it can sometimes take awhile to find someone you match well with. It’s helpful to have a complete profile that let’s others know your likes, dislikes and what you are looking for. You can also greatly improve the responses you get by sending a good first message that entices them into responding. Please keep in mind that sometimes people can take a few days to reply to their messages and some might join and decide not to stick around for long.

I do hope you’ve been getting better results.

Canada
1 review
21 helpful votes
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Scam scam scam
August 9, 2019

I tried this website. The way it works is that the men pay to contact the women. Multiple women would "favorite me" and i would contact them. I would generally get what seemed like a computer generated response such as "hey" or "how's it going". I would then reply with something like "you are quite attractive, please tell me a little about you". I might or might not get back some bland response such as "you sound great" or "i think we are a match" and then i would write back and never hear back from the females. I also had multiple situations where i actually chatted with a girl and then we switched to text and she sent me pictures her chat with me which showed multiple of my emails did not go through to her. I am very convinced that most of the female profiles are fake and that their I. T. is inaccurate/inefficient. Complete waste of time and money and even worse is that it is demoralizing in that the male questions why none of the girls seem truly interested. Emails to their support team get very bland responses and denials.

Date of experience: August 6, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I’m very sorry to hear you haven’t enjoyed your experience on Secret Benefits. Customer Support was in contact with you and I believe they were able to help improve your experience. It would be great if you could update your review to reflect that.
I’m sorry that some of the people you communicated with didn’t end up turning into dates but please keep in mind that people do sometimes get busy with their lives off the site and don’t always check in every day.

RU
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Great site for great people
February 18, 2021

I like it a lot. It is the first site that really works and has only genuine verified profiles. I gudge from men`s side but I believe for women it should be same comfortable. I read in previous reviews that video verification took too much time for somebody... For me it was less then one day and I think it is not long time to wait.

Date of experience: July 30, 2019
Illinois
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Bull$#*!
July 28, 2019

I have been on this site for 2months and have gotten 2 admirers but the 1st one wanted a threesome and 2nd.one, we talked back and forth for 2days and he wanted a topless picture of my boobs and i haven't heard from him since. But other than that. Nothing! Haven't had any real dates

Date of experience: July 25, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I'm sorry to hear that. We have tried to reach out to you to offer some assistance but you haven't answered our messages. Please do check your inbox if you are interested in giving the site another chance.

Washington
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Finally
July 24, 2019

So far so good seems like it's going somewhere and I'm actually going to find myself a sugar daddy. The men seem really kind and genuine and seemed pretty honest about what they're looking for summer absolutely not on there to be a sugar daddy but so far everyone I talk to you has been completely honest about their relationship status what they're looking for

Date of experience: July 21, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to submit your review.

Georgia
1 review
8 helpful votes
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This site looks like a complete Fake. Seems like it exist only to get you to scribe and waste your credits. Don't waste your Money on this site.

Update (July 30th 2019) - The customer service of this site is actually great. I was really surprised that they not only refund my money for the credits I bought but they also give me much more credits for site to come back. This site is NOT a scam site. This is actually real site trying to get into this type of dating. This site trying to get launch, getting for men's and women's' into the site. They are not here to scam you. They are trying to get into business. I had upgrade them from one star to 2 star review. Still new, still not great, but they are trying and they have potential to be a good site.

Date of experience: July 20, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to submit your review. I'm sorry you haven't loved SecretBenefits but I'm glad you are continuing to give it a chance and hope you'll have more success in the near future.

Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Like it
July 19, 2019

Its similar to a few other sites and I see quite a few of the same guys but some new ones as well. No dates yet but seems promising.

Date of experience: July 16, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience.

Pennsylvania
3 reviews
33 helpful votes
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Waste of money one credit at a time
July 15, 2019

This website has now taken the lead for me to be the worst SB or arrangement website. Signed up for a membership there and right out out the gate hottie after hottie starts emailing me. If found that unusual, typically it's the guy trying to chat with the lady. Oh but hold on, it's cost credits to open these emails from all of these hotties emailing me. About 3 bucks per email. When you do, and email them back, it's about the last time you hear from them. Do you see the scam now? It's just a bunch of fake profiles created to get you to spend money there opening emails from girls that don't exist. I did find one chick there in 6 months that was real however, she turned out to be a local hooker. I should have skipped the fees and time associated with Secret Benefits and used a escort website she was in for 75 % Less! SMH oh well, life is a lesson. The Secret to this website is there is no Benefits.

Date of experience: July 12, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I’m very sorry to hear you haven’t enjoyed your experience on Secret Benefits. We have tried to contact you to offer assistance but we have not heard back from you.
As a new user to the site, please keep in mind that sometimes people can take a few days to reply to their messages, hopefully you’ll receive replies from more women in the coming days if you haven’t already. People do get busy with their lives off the site and don’t always check in every day.

If you are ever concerned about any profiles please use the report function and we will thoroughly investigate the profile.

Again, sorry to hear you didn’t enjoy your experience, please do check your inbox as customer support is eager to help you.

Illinois
1 review
0 helpful votes
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So far so good
July 12, 2019

I've been pleasantly surprised by the quantity and quality of the men on the site. I've been out with a few real gentleman who have really shown me a different part of the city. Being new here that really helps and gives me hope.

Date of experience: July 11, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I'm glad to hear you've enjoyed your experience on SecretBenefits and thanks for taking the time to share it.

New York
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Go to bar or church or vacation.
July 10, 2019

Custmer service is horrible. Guidlines that are not consistent. Women are flaky and immature.
Certain that bots are used. I am contesting CC charge. Use ur $$ and time otherwise.

Date of experience: July 7, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Sorry you haven't enjoyed your experience, we've been unable to contact you after several attempts. Our customer support team has no record of ever having received a message from you and the profile you claim is yours was never used to purchase any credits making your claims difficult to verify. Please do reply to us as we'll be happy to help.

Canada
3 reviews
11 helpful votes
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Good but could be better
July 10, 2019

This is a site where the women outnumber the men. As a man you will get the attention of would be Sugar Babies, my email inbox is constantly filled with requests from prospective dates. The dates are all within 20 miles of my residence from women in their 20s, 30s, and even 40s. You'll have to be honest with your intentions, if it is sex you want, you'll have to make sure it is understood beforehand with your date. Otherwise it is only for casual dating ie. Movies, lunch, dinner and nothing more. Your date might request a retainer for services, say 200.00 to 300.00 dollars a month in exchange for?. Try this site at your risk.

Date of experience: July 6, 2019
Germany
1 review
1 helpful vote
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No complaints
July 8, 2019

I've read some complaints about slow customer service but that hasn't been my experience at all. I have been a member for 3-months and have been impressed with the responsiveness of the staff. Thanks for providing us with this site!

Date of experience: July 3, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

I'm glad you've been enjoying your time on SecretBenefits and hope you continue to have a good time. Thanks for taking the time to submit a review of your experience.

Arizona
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Weak support services
July 2, 2019

I'm a man, 40s. The website has weak support services. I tried to message them to buy credits for more than a week in vain. You can't buy credits except for bitcoins and through their support system. Without credits, you do nothing as a man. I don't think a dating site with weak support to be a safe place for people. You can get a problem without any response from their side. This is riskful. I don't advise people to go there.

Date of experience: June 29, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Sorry you had problems making a purchase. Customer support has contacted you in order to resolve the problem.

North Carolina
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Fun Site
July 2, 2019

Joined last month and have already been out on a few dates. Kind of tinderish but the guys actually take care of you which is nice.

Date of experience: June 28, 2019
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over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to submit a review. I'm glad to hear you've been enjoying the site.

Tennessee
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Verification
June 30, 2019

So far bad experience i have been waiting to get verified and still no email or anything i was really excited for this site

Date of experience: June 27, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Sorry you had difficulty getting verified. Customer service reached out to you and everything has been take care of. Hopefully you'll update your review to reflect that.

New York
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Photo approval
June 26, 2019

I've had my account for a little while now with no issues and all of a sudden my pictures will not show on my profile. I contacted support about four times and no reply, this issues lowers my chance to actually meet someone. I tried to deactivate and reactivate my profile in hopes my pictures would show and nothing. I now have a disclaimer in my bio, how cute. There are too many people complaining about support not responding, someone needs to address this.

Date of experience: June 21, 2019
Secret B. — Secret Benefits Rep
over a year ago

Sorry you had trouble with photo approval. I understand everything was taken care of and hope you'll update your review to reflect that.