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Hungary
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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Very lame and for the most part fake
October 3, 2025

Searchingforsingles is not helpful at all as a dating site. They have very few accounts and almost no real genuine profiles. It was just waste of time for me. I kept wasting it until I found J1Love.com
As a legit dating site it worked nice and easy for me. At that time I just wanted a short-time passionate relationship and I got it there. Now I want more: I want to make a family and I'm turning to it once again. I tried out Searchingforsingles out of curiosity (I followed their ad), but it was easy to see that it was quite lame and fake.

Date of experience: October 2, 2025
South Carolina
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Its a total scam
September 3, 2025

Women come on really strong, they always initiate the interaction with the men! They all use the same verbage when chatting with us men! When It comes to actually meeting you can forget it, each and every woman on this site will come up with a thousand excuses as to why you will never meet them! They all use the same excuses as well! Its a scam to get the men to keep buying credits! Don't waste your time or money!

Date of experience: January 3, 2025
Norway
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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Endless chats forever, no meeting
August 25, 2025

Run, I mean run from this site! You can only chat with fakes on SearchingForSingles and it's gonna cost you a lot! When you mention meeting up they side track you and talk about things they like to do in bed, etc. Join only if you want to have these endless chats forever but be ready to pay a fortune for this kind of "entertainment" and keep in mind that they will never agree to meet up for real.

Date of experience: August 21, 2025
Oregon
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Sooo fake!
February 8, 2025

Update: Same pics, name change. Can't check much w/site, must go thru every pic to ck anything. Deliberate deceptions.

Date of experience: February 8, 2025

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Australia
3 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Women are nothing but bots and fakes
February 4, 2025

I received instant likes and bunch of messages before I even put up a photo. Most of the messages stated they liked my profile so much that they fell in love with me. Sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? I didn't spend much time on Searchingforsingles but it doesn't take long to figure out how lame this site is. I'm sure that all those "women" contacting me on Searchingforsingles were nothing but bots and fakes. When something is too good to be true it means they only work because there is one born every minute.

Date of experience: November 7, 24
Kentucky
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Just another rip off site!
July 15, 2024

This is a site that you have to buy credits and these girls message. You acting like they're ready right now come over things like that you message him back and they keep asking questions. I don't know about you but to meet somebody in person and to talk is much Better than chatting online, you have no idea who you're talking to and as long as you meet in public at a restaurant or something like that, you're safe. In my reply, I typically put something like I'm not here for a chat, buddy. I'm here for a meetup and anything that they need to know, we can talk on the phone or we can talk in person. This last one that I talked to asked me a bunch of questions silly questions so me already wore out from the other 20 that I talked to did the same thing, I said why don't you find somebody else to play with so to keep me answering questions or feeling bad she said now you're scaring me really? How would that scare someone he don't have anything to do with you now why is that scary tactic to get you more questions more answers it's all about burning up your credit so you'll buy more of these sites that are fictitious profiles run by operators or whatever and they use them for to keep people entertained and things like that. Well that's all you find because nobody there wants to do anything ask questions.

Date of experience: July 15, 2024
Indiana
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Fraudulent Site
July 9, 2024

Searchingforsingles has been a giant ripoff. I have chatted with over 200 women all of whom have initiated the chats. Every woman has enthusiastically wanted to hookup. None have done so. They often use the same wording in their excuses as if they had been coached.

Date of experience: July 9, 2024
Philippines
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Entertaining
June 13, 2024

I've seen a lot of good reviews for this site and dont normally do this but figured id add my own situation to the pile. Ive talked to a couple of girls and I hope it would continue in the long run as they're pretty entertaining.

Date of experience: June 12, 2024
Philippines
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Solid 4/5
May 9, 2024

Finally stopped wasting my time on tinder and tried this out. Its not bad actually im a bit surprised as didnt think a paid site could be as good but seems the women take you more seriously

Date of experience: May 9, 2024
Philippines
1 review
0 helpful votes
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3 Stars
May 6, 2024

There are few issues, but they are so common for online dating/online hookup sites still giving it a chance

Date of experience: May 6, 2024
Washington
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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Read me
March 28, 2024

Site, as reported, is a fake. Been on ~2yr, EVERYONE IS FAKE HERE, not met 1 person, not even close!

Date of experience: March 28, 2024
AE
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Checking
March 26, 2024

Just signed up and still browsing. From a technical standpoint, the site is easy to understand and navigate. :)

Date of experience: March 26, 2024
GB
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Shockingly nasty rip fraud
March 23, 2024

I went in circles till I switched to Seek4Match
I take my hat off to this site, it's like a breath of fresh air in the phony world of dating sites; even though it's early days yet but I finally met someone compatible, in fact I met a lot of compatible women and my gut feeling is telling me that this time it will work, my common sense agrees). I tried to cancel my Searchingforsingles subscription, and I thought I did but no way! They kept charging me and moreover they threatened me with hiring debt collectors when I cancelled my bank card. Do you see what a nasty rip off Searchingforsingles is? It is a site where you can go on forever and never go anywhere because of overwhelming majority of fake profiles. Don't go anywhere near them!

Date of experience: March 23, 2024
Missouri
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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Nothing Authentic; Primitive website
January 8, 2024

Used this service for just over a month. Throughout each day receive many dozens of supposed female profiles from my geographic location. My area doesn't have hundreds of these woman many whose profile pics show faraway exotic & depressed locations. Same picture shared on 2 profiles (21yo and 24yo woman). You're paying $1 for every comment. Each woman asks many simple questions, many repeating questions. The app doesn't let you block out any profiles thus one scrolls through hundreds of profiles of women who reached out to you. One woman was going to meet me for an overnighted but never showed up although she kept writing to me during drive to our location. Have much better luck with many other apps. Many more issues but I'll stop here. Just wanted to share my experiences over the past month plus

Date of experience: January 8, 2024
New Jersey
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Complete scam.
January 3, 2024

I google images of photos of women who send,me a message.women were either porn stars or on onlyfans. This is a scam. I have very little respect for women who send their ndude photos to total stranger.

Date of experience: January 2, 2024
South Dakota
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Nothing but a rip off!
December 31, 2023

I was on the site for 9 months and spent way too much money on talking to women that with some research of photos didn't even live in same country after they said they lived in same area as myself don't trust the site it's nothing but fake profiles.

Date of experience: December 31, 2023
Michigan
2 reviews
13 helpful votes
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I was a member of this website for awhile, and you are chatting with someone in a chat room. You will have to constantly buy time to keep the conversation going, with no hope of meeting anyone. They also charge a $12.95 site maintenance fee, so watch your credit card for it. Adult Friend Finder is no better.

Date of experience: June 12, 2023
Oregon
1 review
10 helpful votes
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Another rip off site
May 17, 2023

Scam alert! Want to charge you $1+ PER message, regardless of content.
Recommend chaturbate.com free and MUCH better

Date of experience: May 16, 2023