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OkCupid

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OkCupid Reviews Summary

OkCupid has a rating of 1.9 stars from 644 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with OkCupid most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service and phone number. OkCupid ranks 641st among Dating sites.

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Illinois
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Many fake profiles
September 20, 2016

Almost 60% are fake profiles or profiles of previous members that are no longer members but they keep your profile in system. If your not signed up as a paying member you get email alerts to con you to sign up and pay only to find out its a fake message. Total waste of time and money.

Date of experience: September 20, 2016
India
1 review
7 helpful votes
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AMAZING!
September 8, 2016

Absolutely amazing site. It is my second favorite dating site after Mingle2day and if you manage to ignore a few scammers (but don't worry: they are easy to spot) you can have a great time on OKCupid. Keep it up guys!

Date of experience: September 8, 2016
Washington
1 review
16 helpful votes
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I joined OK Stupid, as I call it, 4 separate times over the course of nearly 4 years. What happened routinely is it at first I get some responses and then zero. No matter how many times I would "boost" my profile it still will not induce a response. I finally got fed up with this site and deleted my profile. I'm done. I don't suggest you do what I did just find some other place to find women. The tramps on this site love it because they get 37 some odd responses per day from men. For men, it's just the opposite. Sometimes I could go months before I get an unsolicited response. Stay away from this one.

Date of experience: September 5, 2016
GB
1 review
4 helpful votes
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We all know about the popular dating sites; match, POF, tinder, wejustfit.com, etc. But I would say that okcupid is close to being on the same level as these main players. It has a really high amount of users (in my area I have lots of women in my search results and from what I can tell most are real people) and it's a nicely designed site that you can use on your tablet, phone, laptop or PC. It needs some work but its definitely one to watch and consider for your dating needs.

Date of experience: August 30, 2016
France
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Happy enough
August 16, 2016

Id say most of the girls on this site are genuine. Probably 60% of those ive spoken with. Maybe not as high a number as on wejustfit (my personal favorite dating site) but still better than most of these kinda sites. Not sure what else matters im not looking for a nice design, im looking for girls. And there are a good amount here so im content at that.

Date of experience: August 16, 2016
District of Columbia
7 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Good
January 18, 2021

I was on okcupid during several month, but did not find someone for relationship. I can't tell anything bad about this service.

Date of experience: August 9, 2016
India
1 review
2 helpful votes
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WORKS
August 8, 2016

Don't pay any attention to all those negative reviews. OKCupid is a great dating site. I have been browsing the internet to find a legit dating site for YEARSSSS and OKCupid, Mingle2day and Tinder (if you prefer to go mobile) are the only ones which worked for me. Easy to use, nice people to chat with. Keep it up, guys!

Date of experience: August 8, 2016
Rhode Island
3 reviews
37 helpful votes
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Stay away!
August 3, 2016

Online dating free or paid is a scam! Men just use them for hook ups.

Date of experience: August 2, 2016
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Great starting point
August 2, 2016

When looking for girl online there is only one place on start and it's here. Sure, there are a few hidden gems out there (e. G wejustfit.com) but overall OkCupid is what you need to meet a girl. I love it!

Date of experience: August 2, 2016
Tennessee
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I was only on okcupid for a couple months before I met the love of my life. I never thought a dating site could really work, but it did. After 15 months of dating, we are getting married. And I owe it all to okcupid for the opportunity to meet.

Date of experience: August 1, 2016
Florida
9 reviews
14 helpful votes
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I used the site for less time than expected because I found a great partner faster than expected. Their algorithm is great at finding compatible people, plus they have cute personality and other tests.

Date of experience: July 25, 2016
New Jersey
2 reviews
22 helpful votes
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Bull$#*!
July 22, 2016

My picture was flagged by one of the guys, solely because i wouldn't entertain him nor talk sexually. Therefore he flagged my picture. 90% of the guys on here only want sex anyways, but when a woman turns them down they want to act like a baby. Maybe y'all should offer tutorials for assholish guys so they will actually learn how to speak to a woman.

Date of experience: July 22, 2016
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Really pleased with OkCupid I have to say. Id rank it up there with WeJustFit.com in terms of selection of girls/ number of fakes/ variety of functions/ mobile site/ etc. Think those are pretty much the cream of the fun dating crop at the moment, although im still due to try a couple of new ones in the coming months. Would recommend.

Date of experience: July 19, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
4 helpful votes
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I talked to several men, but only met two. The second one is now my boyfriend, and we'll be moving across the country together this month. Truly, he is the most amazing, kind, loving, handsome, patient, intelligent man I have ever met. I'm blown away with how quickly I found someone (2 months), especially someone like him. I'm very, very pleased with this service. Also, it's very easy to use. I recommend it to all my single friends.

Date of experience: July 10, 2016
Canada
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Im not sure when it happened but when I speak to friends about online dating now they all seem to be using cool new quirky sites (like wejustfit.com) or dating apps (like tinder, tangled, etc). Its like the big fish (OkCupid being the biggest traditionally) have almost got so well known that theyre now too vanilla! For me, I still like OkCupid and cant help the feeling that the people who say the stopped using it probably still do use it, but are acting too current too admit theyre still on it! Maybe its like how some clothes brands become so common that people deliberately start avoiding them (can you tell I work in fashion?!). Anyway ill be sticking with OkCupid, it may not be the coolest site anymore (when was online dating ever cool anyway) but its busy and thats the main thing.

Date of experience: July 5, 2016
Ohio
1 review
6 helpful votes
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OKCUPID is free! I found a good woman and we are into our seventh month together and all is well. It wasn't easy. I had to figure out who the scammers are and who the real ones are. Worth the effort because I tried the traditional methods and never managed to find a good woman. I found one because of OKCUPID! YAY!

Date of experience: July 2, 2016
California
1 review
13 helpful votes
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For every 10 guys that messaged me only one was reaI. I recently got a message from lovestick1 and IJK04 one said his name was Michael the other was Bryan and they were using the same pictures!

Date of experience: June 27, 2016
Canada
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Nice option to have
June 23, 2016

I use OkCupid along with WeJustFit.com and POF and find the combination works pretty well. Its not expensive to do it that way and you dont get bored of being on one site all the time and seeing the same faces again and again. Plus you obviously improve your chances of meeting the one as you end up going on quite a few dates with people. All the sites are pretty different too, so you find things you like about one that you dont necessarily find on the other sites. But each has their advantages id say. With this site its probably the mobile app, which is super easy to use and has a nice layout. So yeah id say its a good website to use if youre doing a combination of sites.

Date of experience: June 22, 2016
Canada
3 reviews
13 helpful votes
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I got lots of responses but. I found that waaaay too many of them were from scammers (or guys too young-or too old -or too strange-for anything like a LTR) Okay for dipping my foot into the waters, but I just deleted my profile... overall, too much of hassle wielding my way through all of that. (and ironically, after all those "Likes"? Never did meet any of them) Well, time to try somewhere else...

Date of experience: June 17, 2016
Illinois
30 reviews
51 helpful votes
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Definitely, the best Dating Site I've used. Loved the match system that it has. The questions that are asked sometimes are odd, but I think doing matches based on questions people ask and the importance they rank those make a lot of sense. Any relationship I started with someone from this site was a good one.

Date of experience: June 16, 2016