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NoStringsAffair Reviews Summary

NoStringsAffair has a rating of 3.9 stars from 69 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with NoStringsAffair most frequently mention and real women. NoStringsAffair ranks 44th among Hook Up sites.

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France
1 review
18 helpful votes
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Surprisingly good
October 29, 2016

Must say I misjudged this site. Figured it was just another copycat site trying to jump on the affairs website bandwagon, but after the first search for local ladies my opinion was changed completely. A good selection of genuine women and I can confirm they arent just looking for a bit of flirty talk ive had one meeting so far and im currently in the process of finalising another one. I read somewhere that the fact the site doesnt have an app is a downfall I completely disagree who wants those annoying push notifications appearing on your phone when youre sitting watching X Factor with the wife?! Didnt think so! Sure, I could probably find imperfections and things that could be better but Id be nit-picking, the site does what you want it to do and I can ask for more than that for my twenty quid a month.

Date of experience: October 29, 2016
New Jersey
1 review
19 helpful votes
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Wont say too much as I would like to stay completely discreet but this is a good site for women looking for men to meet up with secretly. Theres plenty of opportunity to send messages back and forth before deciding whether to meet or not and ive not felt too much pressure of the guys on the site, most of them seem to get how careful we have to be as theyre married or in serious relationships too. Will definitely keep using it, my husband never checks my phone and doesnt know my password pattern anyway, and the site works well on my phones chrome browser so I do feel safe and he doesnt suspect anything, which I dont see changing with this site (touch wood).

Date of experience: October 25, 2016
GB
1 review
17 helpful votes
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One of the Better Sites
October 25, 2016

It surely has some issues with fake members and it looks a bit oldish, but the site worked for me and I've been on a 'date' already. You have to pay to be able to communicate with other members, but it was totally worth that.

Date of experience: October 25, 2016
Florida
1 review
24 helpful votes
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Another Dating Rip off
October 24, 2016

This site is realty a testament to artificial intelligence and the power of bots. Which answer questions that appear to be real. The site is a money maker limiting question to one a day.It takes a long time to get a complete profile. It is amazing that 20 year old are looking for 60 year old. Only to to chat in private than look at their cam site. Very few people are local so to have an affair you have cyber sex with a bot. Great experience. Did not find any real people in three weeks activity. Save your money go to match real local people for sure

Date of experience: October 24, 2016
Dean N. — NoStringsAffair Rep
over a year old

Dear Carmine,
Thanks for your feedback. We strive to respond to any negative comments in a prompt fashion, as we often find that users who have a poor opinion of the site have not given it enough of a chance. Your main criticism is that the site costs money in order to send more than one message per day. If you are familiar with the online dating scene you will know that this is more than most sites will allow and the reason we do allow a certain amount of communication for no cost is that we are confident that our number of genuine users (particularly female) will enable affairs to take place for committed users.
Regarding your belief that our site generated a fake reply due to the fact that the woman's message was short - which we can assure you is quite common - this is an accusation that we take very seriously indeed. We invest in both manual moderation and state-of-the-art technology to prevent non-genuine profiles. This is an industry wide problem and we encourage our members to report any suspicious activity to our customer service team who can prompt a thorough investigation.
We hope you'll give our site a more committed try, as the free version only allows you to scratch the surface of the site's potential.
Regards, the NoStringsAffair Team.

New Jersey
1 review
12 helpful votes
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Sure, this site is far from perfect, lets be strait on that from the start. I got the usual loads of messages before I paid and then the amount dropped by a lot. But the key point I still get messages. I get replies from real married ladies and ive even had one or two contact me first in the few weeks ive been a member. So im liking the site and best thing is that its got a few safety badges and talks a lot about security so im feeling like they at least get whats MOST important here folks I dont want my goddam wife finding out im on this site trying to bang half of Manchester! Its a shame other cheating sites dont understand thats the key difference between me joining a site for married people and me joining some standard casual sex site like aff, I need that extra lair of security. Definitely would recommend this site to friends, except that wouldnt be a good idea as they might tell my wife LOL!

Date of experience: October 18, 2016
NL
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Simples!
August 30, 2016

Easy to join, easy to use. Seems secure (I never use my real name anyway) and its free for women which probably explains why theres such a good amount of married women on the site (plus im in london which is clearly an advantage). Had a pretty outrageous webcam chat with a lass last night and the next step will be to meet her, shes just a bit nervous but weve got a plan to make sure everything can happen in a way that wont make her husband/ my fiancé suspicious. No way im leaving this site until I see what happens here, as shes a fit lass and this is exactly what I was looking for when I joined the site after leaving Victoria milan a few weeks ago.

Date of experience: August 28, 2016
Canada
1 review
16 helpful votes
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My opinion on this site is that it does what you expect. It doesnt go over and above, but it gets results. As a woman whose husband is disabled, I would never go on a normal dating site but I do need a way to meet people who can give me what my husband no longer can. If any of my friends knew theyd be hurt, so its all about keeping everything private and I do feel safe on this site. The guys can be a bit hit or miss but if you use your common sense then youll realise the best guys to meet are the ones who are as paranoid as you about getting caught! Make sure you get to know them a bit first, then pick a place thats quiet (I always go for a hotel as theyre used to it) and go for it! You have to live your life but also not hurt your partner and this site lets me do that.

Date of experience: July 20, 2016
Canada
1 review
14 helpful votes
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Im new to affairs dating and maybe this is something that happens a lot, but I met a really nice lady on NoStringsAffair, we got on well and were messaging back and forth for a few days. I suggested that we meet up, as she stays in London (Im in Surrey, so close enough to meet but far enough to feel safe about meeting without bumping into any friends/ relatives!) Anyway, we planned to meet at a fairly upmarket hotel for drinks but she didnt show up. I waited for forty-five minutes before leaving and was not impressed! She finally sent me a reply yesterday and said that her youngest wasnt well, but I think she got cold feet. Anyway, Im not giving up as it was great to chat with her and Ive had a couple of other women reply to my messages but if that happens again Ill be leaving online dating for good!

Date of experience: June 12, 2016
France
1 review
12 helpful votes
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Well worth a try
May 11, 2016

Ive been using affairs sites since they became a thing. There are lots out there, some are well known and some are a bit more tricky to find, but can be worth trying regardless. Thats been the case with NSA I was a little unsure at first as its not one of these big brands. But as soon as I tried a couple of searches in the Greater London area I realised that it was worth upgrading. Its easily as good as the other sites out there and in fact, I think its probably better. Had a meet up last week with a woman who was probably in her mid-30s and was not disappointed (neither was she if you know what I mean)! Like any of these sites its not instant gratification but if you put effort in and make sure the women know you care about discretion because youve as much to lose as they do, then you eventually get what you want.

Date of experience: May 11, 2016
Canada
1 review
13 helpful votes
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7/10
May 10, 2016

Im not 100% satisfied by any means but I have to disagree with the very negative review above. I feel like this is one of the better sites for hooking up/ NSA and clearly that guy hasnt tried some of the other sites that are out there! The money ive wasted, trust me, this is far better than what is out there.

Date of experience: May 7, 2016
Romania
1 review
10 helpful votes
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Worth a Try
April 24, 2016

The site says that the men/female ratio is 59/41 so I wasnt expecting much in Glasgow but got a nice surprise when I did my first search and decided to upgrade to the Gold tier. Ive since gone full VIP and have used here it and down in London to, when I was down for a week of training at head office. Some of the women are a bit older (late 30s) which isnt really my thing but Ive been chatting with a few that are a bit younger and just fed up with not getting attention from there husbands. Well, Im happy to pick up the slack, put it that way. Got my first affair date if thats the right word on Friday next week, so figured it was time to do a review. What can I do next to make time pass faster haha! A good site with a decent amount of women in the places ive tried.

Date of experience: April 24, 2016
Slovakia
3 reviews
77 helpful votes
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Definitely as good as what else is out there. It has its issues of course could look better, especially on mobile. But most of the members seem genuine so far and having a busy site that looks a bit rubbish is better than a nice site that has no women! I have had a few too good to be true offers, but like most people im smart enough to avoid these obvious scams as theyre on all the dating sites. The other girls ive spoke to have been real but ive not met up with anyone yet, although ive been close. Hopefully that will happen soon

Date of experience: April 22, 2016
Tennessee
4 reviews
31 helpful votes
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You cant do anything unless you are a paid member, once you join you can see members activity. Most profiles are old and have not been used in months. Fake profiles by scammers( that you cant report, because you are not a paying member) sound crazy enough yet for you? Dont waste your time or money with these guys!

Date of experience: April 18, 2016
Dean N. — NoStringsAffair Rep
over a year old

We are sorry you did not enjoy your NSA experience. We do our best to monitor the site for fake profiles and scams. You can block the member you believe isn't genuine and our moderators will check the profile. Also we can't delete profiles for not being active enough (Facebook doesn't do that just because you didn't login for a while).

Canada
2 reviews
40 helpful votes
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Nice and Discreet
April 2, 2016

Im comfortable using this site because I only use it on my phone (which my wife never checks) and ive used a false name as a username. I like that the profiles outside the log in area are all blurry and that theyve got confidential stamped right across the site so you know they take privacy seriously (no wonder, its the most important thing to anyone looking for an affair). As long as a site like this is discreet and safe, it will get members. I went for three months and will probably stick with it for longer when that time is up.

Date of experience: March 30, 2016
Washington
1 review
16 helpful votes
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Happy enough
March 1, 2016

Not the best affairs site ive ever been on but probably the pick of the current bunch. I like the way they keen everything private, feels less risky than some other sites. Happy enough.

Date of experience: March 1, 2016
NL
3 reviews
22 helpful votes
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Definitely as good as what else is out there. It has its issues of course could look better, especially on mobile. But the members seem genuine so far and having a busy site that looks a bit rubbish is better than a nice site that has no women! I have had a few too good to be true offers, but like most people im smart enough to avoid these obvious scams as theyre on all the dating sites. The other girls ive spoke to have been real but ive not met up with anyone yet, although ive been close. Hopefully that will happen soon. Scott

Date of experience: March 1, 2016
RU
1 review
14 helpful votes
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10 out of 10
March 1, 2016

Really enjoying this site. After a certain other site went down the tubes, I'd been pretty sceptical about using these types of dating sites again. But a friend recommended this one because of its focus on being discreet and anonymous. Really impressed so far and well worth the money.

Date of experience: March 1, 2016
Sweden
1 review
17 helpful votes
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Exciting
February 24, 2016

Ive been using this site for a couple of weeks now and I must say, it has won me over. At first I was pretty unsure about joining and didnt think it would live up to the promises. The first few days I had a couple of messages but nothing too exciting. But I kept going (I had paid so I figured, I might as well get my moneys worth) and just when I was ready to write a bad review, I got a very interesting reply from a woman in Surrey who knew her husband was cheating but stays with him for the kids. And from there things got a bit more interesting, lets just say! Anyway, Ill be sticking with the site a bit longer now and hoping my recent success will prove more than beginners luck!

Date of experience: February 23, 2016
New York
2 reviews
25 helpful votes
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Very good!
February 19, 2016

I've tried so many different affair sites and this one seems to be among the best ones.
One star off, just because it is not 100% perfect (but there's no perfect affair sites, or I didn't find them yet)

Date of experience: February 19, 2016
RU
4 reviews
46 helpful votes
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5 stars!
February 16, 2016

I've been on the site for about two months and have met up with and had sex with one woman. It's a very slow and patient process. I'm mid 30's, in good shape, but a bit picky.
I'd say about a third of the attractive women are either fake profiles trying to get you out of the site or or sugar babies trying to get money from you. However, when you are able to meet up with someone, it can be incredible.
As a test, I have created a fake woman profile and gotten bombarded by men. For those folks complaining, take a look in the mirror and learn how to write some good copy. Women can get away with $#*! Ty one sentence messages but men have to articulate. The numbers are against you.

Date of experience: February 16, 2016