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FetLife has a rating of 1.7 stars from 31 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. FetLife ranks 514th among Social Network sites.
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I like the site and the concept. I've been a member for years. Just don't waste your money advertising on here. They will take your money and give you a tiny, worthless ad (that you're responsible for designing)... and offer no results. I never saw such a rip off.
Huge online community for the mature adult. Great for beginners just looking for whats out there. Amazing for the seasoned vet that knows what he/she wants and is looking for others who enjoy/want the same thing.
I love this site because there are a ton of groups and members dedicated to my particular fetish/lifestyle.
Like any forum with heavy member-leadership, there are major pros and cons.
Unless you're looking for a quick hook up, (craigslist is better for that) some effort is needed to get the most out of this site.
I also love that FL encourages real life meetings through safe and sane groups. Most local groups have at least monthly meetings in public 'vanilla' settings like restaurants.
My experience was terrible! I am a gay women and was harassed for being gay. I hated it, I recommend if your gay do not join this site bunch of gay bashes with nothing to do but hate on other people. This was my experience on the site I hope others have better luck.
This site is friendly, well laid out and educational for those new to the scene, check it out, it costs nothing and the people are friendly.
I can't really say too much about this site, As I don't really use it that much but still, It is a really good site for people into fetishes and such, Very very well laid out site, Easy to use, People are friendly, And you can even learn things, It's all good in my opinion, So if your sexually curious or want to chat with people that are into the scenes it is a site to try.
Its a good tool to maybe connect with other fetishists in area, but that is about it.
I don't even know how to sum up how amazing this site is. It revolutionized the fetish scene. Think of it like a kinky Facebook, but without any of the evil. Clean site design, awesome functionality, and a real community of people who, for the most part, treat each other with respect and civility. If you're a kinkster and you're not on FetLife, do yourself a favor and make a profile today.
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